Enneagram and Marriage

The Enneagram stances assist us so well with goal-setting in marriage and life and today, Christa is joined by speaker, Enneagram theorist, author, and coach Sean Palmer, Enneagram 3 (3-1 Glow Pairing) to walk you through your goals with both love and success together. Continue plunging the depths of communication across stances in Sean's chart-topping new book Speaking Through the Numbers and make sure to use our E + M code for a major discount! Important spots in the pod by minute:  Preview & E + M Updates: 2:00 Sean's Interview: 8:57 - 48:00 See coupon code for the Enneagram series below)! All links from today's episode below. Coupon code: EMPOD30 for 30% OFF + FREE US SHIPPING right here at www.ivpress.com Find Sean at www.seanisaacpalmer.com Instagram Facebook Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this E + M Shorts episode, Christa brings us a visual of each of the types coming together as a collective to make a beautiful event, and in this case, a party! As you will hear, every single type is needed to make the project or process the very best and as we open the doors to our new E + M Collective, we hope you will bring your type to the E + M Glow adventure together! The E + M Collective Membership, an Enneagram + Marriage Membership is OPEN! Founder's pricing only till June 1, 2022 and membership doors close June 14, 2022! We have a dynamic relationship training mini-course inside for you to find your glow together, exclusive marriage PDFS for you, monthly live Zoom trainings with Christa, and a FB group that opens June 1 also as we come together to shine out in the world. Also, head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Marriage has many seasons and today, Christa talks to one of her favorite couples, author and executive pastor at Willow Creek Church, Tim Stevens and his wife Faith Stevens, 2-5 Glow, about setting important marriage goals around all the seasons of marriage. As they remind us, it may seem slow at times but it goes by really fast and about how to prioritize dates, geting away, not scaring your kids away from God, and previous Enneagram coaching with Christa. E + M Collective is also open for enrollment till June 14 for those who want group coaching support and so much more. Founder's rate until June 1! IG @timastevens @fulltimemama6 Tim Stevens www.leadingsmart.com  The E + M Collective Membership Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

As spouses grow and shift in marriage, it's going to make the ride a bit bumpy at times, with one of you potentially dragging one another along or unintentionally sabotaging or undoing the work of the other partner. This is a must-listen E + M short on how to avoid sabotaging the marriage relationship while you're each on your own growth journey with us here at Enneagram & Marriage.    Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We look for the missing pieces of ourselves as we’re trying to find a soulmate as well as in our spouse if we're already married. But if we're not healthy ourselves in our attachment styles, will this really help? In our desperation to make the best match, we often miss doing some of our own work. Join Christa and guest "The Date Doctor Christie", Dr. Christie Kederian, EdD, MFT who has paired the Enneagram with both the healthiest dating and long-term attachment strategies both for those married and for those seeking a mate as well!  Find Dr. Christie for more on attachment, dating tips, and relationships at her Instagram @thedatedoctorchristie   Dr. Christie Tcharkhoutian Kederian EdD, M.A., MFT Is a National Dating&Relationship Expert, Coach & Consultant: Work with Christie Representative of Education for California Association of Marriage and Family Therapist  Featured: ABC, NBC, LA Times, Wall Street Journal & KTLA News Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A Forgiveness Practice: The E + M Shorts Series When hurts blocks you from forgiving someone in your life, whether it be your spouse, family member, friend, or maybe even yourself it can be tempting to hold on to the feeling of control and bitterness. Join Christa for this mini-episode where she leads you in a forgiveness practice you can experience as many times as needed as you release to God during this special E & M Short specially made for our vices and virtues month on the Enneagram & Marriage Podcast.  Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Conflict is an important part of a relationship, it's how we learn. But when we turn towards one another and attune, we learn how we can truly grow together. Christa is joined by Gottman level 2 coach Melissa Thomson, Enneagram 2 who is also E + M Certified to cover this important topic of couples learning to open their hearts to one another in ways that will truly help them to both self-attune as well heal on the deepest of levels emotionally, spiritually, physically, and bodily as we go through each of the Enneagram types together. Melissa's email is right here > here  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Every person within an affair has a story and when a couple decides to heal together, those stories must be told, often again and again so the couple can find healing rhythms together in the aftermath. Join Christa with one of the world's leading marriage experts and professors from Northwestern's Family Institute, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, PhD, Enneagram 3w2, as she discusses the very best and researched-backed ways to heal together. Find Dr. Solomon's website and her course on rebuilding trust here! Join her excellent tips with 200K followers on IG here. Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What do you do when you get to the end of yourself and you realize your deeper personal and emotional vices are hurting you, your marriage, and your closest relationships? Christa is joined by author Tyler Zach, Enneagram 3 (3-6 Glow with his wife Lindsey) who is a co-pastor of a multi-ethnic church and heads up the Gospel for Enneagram Instagram account to talk about this through the lens of faith and community. Take a peek with us inside of the hopeful narratives of many heroes of the faith who also struggled with the very same things as we do! Show notes: Tyler is currently writing 40-day devotionals for EVERY Enneagram type. He’s written books for Type 3, 4, 6, and 9. Type 1 is coming out this June 2022. Just go to his web site to get them: www.gospelforenenagram.com.  Tyler started an Instagram account (@GospelForEnneagram) which has grown to over 20,000 followers. You can get lots of free Enneagram faith-related content there. He’s also on Facebook (www.facebook.com/gospelforenneagram) and Twitter (https://twitter.com/gospelforgram).  Because some Christians are skeptical of using the Enneagram, Tyler’s written an e-book called “Should Christians Use The Enneagram?” which you can download for free on his web site www.gospelforenneagram.com. Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered!   If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

 A lot of our sexual issues stem from issues we just aren't talking about, some of them from within the well-intentioned church of the last few decades. Your married sex can be healed, however, and today's podcast with Christa and Sheila Wray Gregoire offers you beautiful reminders of redeeming romance in the bedroom. can work through! This is an episode that can change your sex life forever! Sheila's blog and store is here! Sheila's website is: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/   Jay Stringer's Sexual Attachment Course is here! Type “ENNEAGRAMANDMARRIAGE” for $25 off the registration price! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices