
Feminine as F*ck
Sometimes the truth is hard to hear. Sometimes it’s a little triggering and very uncomfortable. Yet, we all know that this space is where the true magic happens. Luckily for you, Monica Yates is like the best friend you never had. She gives it to you straight, without all the fluff, so that you can pursue more of what you desire in love, relationships and career. From emotional and energetic trauma/blocks to health, period problems, business and manifestation, Monica helps you get out of your own way to become the version of you that has only been a dream, until now.
Latest episodes

Mar 14, 2022 • 31min
210: Feminine business myths
Today I want to talk to you about the feminine business myths that are everywhere on social media right now. Some business coaches claim and preach that if you just masturbate, radiate orgasmic energy and are in your feminine then you’ll make millions. I want to come from a place of sustainability. I chat about:
· The importance of acknowledging life changes and seasons
· What it takes to actually reach your goals and desires
· Why cultivating a masculine container allows your feminine to flow
· Done is better than perfect!
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Mar 7, 2022 • 35min
209: The link between sexual energy and money. Plus let's redefine success
This episode is an interview I did on the Activated Woman Podcast. This is a juicy one talking everything self-trust, my relationship with alcohol, what success looks like to me now and the energetics of money.
I dive into:
· Physical issues masking energetic issues
· Redefining success
· How getting drunk with friends is a spiritual practice for me
· Sexual energy and money having the same frequency
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Feb 28, 2022 • 25min
208: Are you escaping reality with spirituality?
In today’s episode I ask, are you escaping reality with spirituality? Where we slip up when it comes to spirituality and trust is when we use it in a way where we are bypassing something and use it as an excuse, a self-sabotage tool or a way to avoid taking responsibility. I chat about:
· Having faith and believing in a higher source
· The implications of spiritually bypassing
· The benefits of taking radical responsibility of your life
· That the equation is not just be a vibe = make money
· The importance of committing to yourself
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⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/208-are-you-escaping-reality-with-spirituality/
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Feb 21, 2022 • 28min
207: What is trauma?
Today I am talking all about trauma and explaining what exactly it is for anyone who is confused by it.
I dive into:
· What the trauma cycle is and how it can negatively impact your libido
· Why getting to the root is the only way to really fix your trauma
· How every single person regardless of their upbringing has trauma
· How numbing out and disassociating inhibits your ability to feel pleasure
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Feb 14, 2022 • 49min
206: Daddy issues, preserving your feminine energy and empowering sex
This episode is an interview I did on The Kelli Show and it is full of value and chicken nuggets all about healing your trauma, preserving your feminine energy, validation + men and how allowing yourself to feel sexy starts a cycle of abundance and magnetic energy. I chat about:
Why showing up online in a real, human and authentic way is so important for building trust
How strict spiritual practices could actually be holding you back and draining your life force energy
Chicken nugget: I’m not afraid of rejection because I don’t reject myself anymore
Healing your Daddy issues to release sexual shame and be able to validate yourself
⇢ Read the blog post: https://monicayates.com.au/206-daddy-issues-preserving-your-feminine-energy-and-empowering-sex/
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Feb 7, 2022 • 25min
205: The shit side of business
In today’s episode, I talk about the shit side of business and how sometimes I hate being a business owner, I hate being a boss and things feel really hard. I want to share this side with you because often we don’t see the behind the scenes or the nitty gritty and this leads us to glamorise and romanticise different roles and careers.
I share with you:
· What the hard days and moments of being a business owner can look like
· Behind the scenes of hiring and firing team members
· The importance of showing authenticity and being truthful to ourselves
· The myth to feminine business and how not to fall into that trap
⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/205-the-shit-side-of-business/
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Jan 31, 2022 • 30min
204: Labels limit you and inhibit your sense of freedom
Today I am talking about labels and how they can be really fucking damaging, inhibit your growth and hold you back from your goals and desires.
I chat about:
Different types of labels and how they stop you from searching for the root cause
Social media and how this platform along with labels are impacting our productivity
Why we reach and search for labels and what happens when you get rid of them
Chicken Nugget: When you label yourself, you limit yourself!
How labels allow avoidance an in turn hold you back from your desired reality
⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/204-labels-limit-you-and-inhibit-your-sense-of-freedom/
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Jan 17, 2022 • 34min
203: Your addiction to victimhood is what could be holding you back from getting your manifestations
Today we're talking about victimhood and how people are actually addicted to being a victim.
This episode is going to trigger some of you, but I want you to stick with me and know that the next 33 minutes are going to light a fire up your arse to break your victim cycle.
I dive into:
☽ Why people get addicted to their victimhood
☽ The vicious cycle of the high you get from complaining
☽ The truth about talk therapy and trauma
☽ Ask yourself, what are you getting from staying in your victimhood?
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⇢ Read the blog version of this ep: https://monicayates.com.au/203-your-addiction-to-victimhood-is-what-could-be-holding-you-back-from-getting-your-manifestations/
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Jan 12, 2022 • 9min
202: The 2022 Queen Alchemy Update
I'm here with the down low on the new format of Queen Alchemy and what to expect in this round! So if you want to join and you have questions, chances are they're going to be answered in this 7 minutes.
How the group calls work
Why I've decided to scrap FaceBook and start a Telegram group
Introducing the new additional trauma calls
Why I've replaced the 1:1 call with the additional trauma calls
What to do if you've already joined a previous round of Queen Alchemy and you've got FOMO of the new format
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Jan 12, 2022 • 45min
201: How trauma shows up in your sex life - for both men and women
In this episode, I discuss why trauma can affect your sex life. Your mind and body hold trauma which causes overthinking, stiffness in the body, and insecure thoughts which leads to shitty sex. Trauma is held in the body and until you release that stagnant energy you will not be able to fully relax. In order to feel all the amazing sensations, you must release the negative sensations stemming from the trauma that has been stored in your body.
I dive into:
Men and Women both have sexual trauma -- learn how it affects both genders
Why trauma causes overthinking and insecurities in the bedroom
Clear your trauma to have the ultimate orgasm
Our bodies and minds try to black out the trauma causing us not to feel anything at all.
Replacing the feeling of detached and numb to confident and sexy
⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/201-how-trauma-shows-up-in-your-sex-life-for-both-men-and-women/
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⇢ Watch my IGTV on 'what is trauma' https://www.instagram.com/tv/CKEyW6LAo__/
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