
Preacher Boys Podcast
An ex-fundamentalist sheds light on the dark side of the church… from the pulpit to the pews.
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Apr 3, 2022 • 49min
219: Navigating Painful Family Relationships | Rebekah Drumsta
Purchase a copy of When Family Hurts: 30 Days to Finding Healing and Clarity: https://amzn.to/3K3LTEB________________Support the Preacher Boys Podcast:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Today's guest is Rebekah Drumsta.For over two decades, Rebekah’s skills, passions, and leadership have taken her around the globe to work with nonprofits and other organizations. Her background includes educational and online content development, event coordinating, international relations, and public speaking.Currently, Rebekah is the Director of Public Relations for NPE Friends Fellowship, an international nonprofit organization that supports individuals and their families who have received unexpected results from an at-home DNA test.She is also a consultant, writer, and advocate supporting survivors of spiritual abuse by providing resources to educate and equip not only the survivors but the public as well. Sharing her story to help others who have had similar life experiences is at the heart of Rebekah’s purpose.Rebekah holds a BA in urban ministry and family crisis with a counseling minor and an MA in religious education; she is a Certified Professional Life Coach. She has appeared on BBC, NBC, ABC, and a variety of other platforms such as podcasts and film projects.Her hobbies include binge-watching riveting shows, thrifting with her family, international travel, and dabbling in all things creative and artistic.You can connect with Rebekah via her website: RebekahDrumsta.com.________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community that shares the Preacher Boys Podcast's mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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Mar 27, 2022 • 49min
218: Struggling with Evangelicalism | Dan Stringer
Purchase a copy of Struggling With Evangelicalism here: https://amzn.to/3tKpaHS________________When evangelicals make a mess, who cleans it up?Many today are discarding the evangelical label, even if they still hold to the historic tenets of evangelicalism. But evangelicalism is a space, not just a brand, and living in that space is complicated.As a lifelong evangelical who happens to be a biracial Asian/White millennial, Dan Stringer has felt both included and alienated by the evangelical community and has wrestled with whether to stay or go. He sits as an uneasy evangelical insider with ties to many of evangelicalism's historic organizations and institutions. Neither "everything's fine" nor "burn it all down," Stringer offers a thoughtful appreciation of evangelicalism's history, identity, and strengths, but also lament for its blind spots, toxic brokenness, and complicity with injustice. From this complicated space, we can move forward with informed vision rather than resignation and with hope for our future together.________________Support the Show:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community who share the Eric Skwarczynski and the Preacher Boys Podcast mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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Mar 20, 2022 • 51min
217: Why Social Media Divides Us | Douglas Bursch
In this episode, Eric Skwarczynski sits down with author Douglas S. Bursch to discuss his new book, Posting Peace: Why Social Media Divides Us and What We Can Do About It.Purchase a copy here: https://amzn.to/36zhrDmDouglas is the copastor of Evergreen Foursquare Church in Auburn, Washington. He serves on the US Doctrine Committee, International Doctrine Committee, and Education Commission of the Foursquare Church, and he has taught theology courses as adjunct faculty for Life Pacific College and Life Ministry Institute. He earned a DMin from George Fox Evangelical Seminary with his dissertation research focusing on social media.A former newspaper columnist and talk radio host, Doug has produced and hosted over 1,200 Christian radio broadcasts. He is the producer and host of the Fairly Spiritual Show radio program and podcast.------------Support the Show:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community who share the Eric Skwarczynski and the Preacher Boys Podcast mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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Mar 13, 2022 • 1h 7min
216: Raised by Fake Missionaries | Isami Daehn
Support the Show:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Today's guest is Isami Daehn.Isami was born in Japan in 1989 and moved to the United States in 2007. Raised by a Japanese father and an American mother, she was raised bilingually. (She honestly doesn't know which her first language was!)Unfortunately, her home was not a safe place for children. Physical and verbal abuse were "normal" in her home. After she became an adult, the relationship did not get any better. In 2017, Isami became permanently estranged from her parents. She was depressed and unable to see herself in a positive way. After much inner work and healing, she realized that the estrangement did not define her worth. Having discovered this, her passion is to share the same empowerment by coaching, speaking, and creating content.Isami is a survivor of child sexual abuse and mental health advocate (Her abuser was also her church pianist from ages 9-almost 14).She was raised in church all of her life, but says she did not meet Jesus until she was 23. It took being removed from my abusive home/church to realize her abusers and Jesus were completely opposite.She considers herself an anomaly. As most would (and understandably so) never want to have anything to do with God ever again.➕Isami has hosted safety/abuse seminars for church leaders➕Created content for those struggling with mental health➕Spoken on multiple podcasts/live videos across the globeShe has received some of the best diversity & inclusion training as a former international flight attendant and currently as an employee of Forbes top #2 largest employers to work for in the United States.She also has an international CPC coaching certification as well as an interdisciplinary studies degree in psychology/communications/design.And she wants to speak to your church/youth group/organization!If you are truly concerned about the safety of your congregation, want your staff to have a broader understanding of diversity & inclusion, and/or want someone to encourage your church/youth group/organization:Isami is here to help!Please feel free to reach out to her via email:Isamidaehn@gmail.com or on her website https://www.isamidaehn.com/________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community who share the Eric Skwarczynski and the Preacher Boys Podcast mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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Feb 27, 2022 • 48min
215: The Samaritan Woman in Light of #ChurchToo | Caryn A. Reeder
Support the Show:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Purchase a copy of The Samaritan Woman's Story: Reconsidering John 4 after #ChurchToo: https://amzn.to/3BZ4yOAMost Christians have heard a familiar description of the Samaritan woman in John 4: she was a sinner, an adulteress, even a prostitute. Throughout church history, the woman at the well has been seen narrowly in terms of her gender and marital history. What are we missing in the story? And what difference does our interpretation of this passage make for women and men in the church?Caryn A. Reeder calls us to see the Samaritan woman in a different light. Beginning with the reception history of John 4, she pulls back layers of interpretation entangled with readers' assumptions on women and sexuality. She then explores the story's original context, describing life for women and expectations regarding marriage and divorce in the first century. With this clarified lens, Reeder's exegesis of the passage yields refreshing insights on what the Gospel says―and does not say―about the woman at the well.Throughout the book, Reeder draws connections between interpretations of this text and the life of the church. The sexual objectification of the Samaritan woman and minimization of her positive contribution has ongoing consequences for how women are seen and treated―including in the failure of many Christian communities to respond well to accusations of abuse. In the age of #MeToo and #ChurchToo, The Samaritan Woman's Story offers a bold challenge to teach the Bible in a way that truly honors the value and voices of women.________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community who share the Eric Skwarczynski and the Preacher Boys Podcast mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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Feb 21, 2022 • 1h 6min
214: Travis Chappell is "Figuring it Out"
Support the Show:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Are you a Christian or former Christian who is going through the painful deconstruction process?If you’re like us… you were raised to believe the world was black and white.⚫️ To judge others if they breached your code of conduct⚪️ To expect them to be open to what you believe, but then be closed to what they believe.⚫️ You thought you had all of the answers, but life quickly taught you otherwise.What if the world isn’t black & white?What if the belief system you have never questioned is wrong?That’s why we created the Figuring It Out podcast.This show is for the seekers.The explorers.Those brave enough to question their step outside of their black and white belief systems, listen with an open mind, and create values that lead to a renewed sense of purpose and meaning.Join your hosts as they sit across from the world’s leading thought leaders, visionaries, religious gurus, entrepreneurs, philosophers, and influencers to tackle life’s biggest questions and try to find meaning, purpose, and to create values.You don’t need all the answers to find meaning in life, but you should be free to ask all the questions.Visit www.figuringitout.tv so you can be the first to know when the show launches, and to become a part of an exclusive community of other people who are trying to figure it out.________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community who share the Eric Skwarczynski and the Preacher Boys Podcast mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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Feb 18, 2022 • 53min
213: Jackie Chappell is "Figuring it Out"
Support the Show:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Are you a Christian or former Christian who is going through the painful deconstruction process?If you’re like us… you were raised to believe the world was black and white.⚫️ To judge others if they breached your code of conduct⚪️ To expect them to be open to what you believe, but then be closed to what they believe.⚫️ You thought you had all of the answers, but life quickly taught you otherwise.What if the world isn’t black & white?What if the belief system you have never questioned is wrong?That’s why we created the Figuring It Out podcast.This show is for the seekers.The explorers.Those brave enough to question their step outside of their black and white belief systems, listen with an open mind, and create values that lead to a renewed sense of purpose and meaning.Join your hosts as they sit across from the world’s leading thought leaders, visionaries, religious gurus, entrepreneurs, philosophers, and influencers to tackle life’s biggest questions and try to find meaning, purpose, and to create values.You don’t need all the answers to find meaning in life, but you should be free to ask all the questions.Visit www.figuringitout.tv so you can be the first to know when the show launches, and to become a part of an exclusive community of other people who are trying to figure it out.________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community who share the Eric Skwarczynski and the Preacher Boys Podcast mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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Feb 9, 2022 • 44min
212: Trauma and Chronic Illness | Dr. Kylie Burton
Support the Show:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Growing up, Dr. Burton could always be found on the volleyball court. After high school, she took her love for volleyball to Southern Utah University (SUU) where she was the setter and team captain on their very first volleyball team. While at SUU, she took a nutrition class and fell in love with food and how food impacts our health. In 2012, following a study abroad trip to Japan, she graduated with her Bachelor’s Degree in Nutrition.Due to divine intervention, Dr. Burton was introduced to chiropractic and functional medicine the year following undergraduate school. She was mesmerized by the unique approach this type of medicine provided to patients and saw firsthand the impact it had on their health and lifestyle. Thus began her journey to becoming a chiropractor with a functional medicine specialty. In March of 2017, she graduated from the University of Western States with her Doctorate of Chiropractic, becoming a doctor and a mother in the same week!Six months after completing her doctorate, she and her husband became parents and she finished her Certificate in Functional Medicine from Functional Medicine University (FMU). Together, chiropractic and functional medicine provide her with powerful healing tools and a knowledge base that brings the future of medicine to her patients today.________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community who share the Eric Skwarczynski and the Preacher Boys Podcast mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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Feb 6, 2022 • 48min
211: Permission to be Black | Recovering from Racial Trauma ft. A.D. Thomason
Purchase a copy of Permission to be Black: https://amzn.to/35s5oatSupport the Show:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Embracing your Christian identity does not make you "soft." Embracing your Black identity does not make you less Christian. Throughout American history, Black people were not given the freedom to acknowledge their suffering. A. D. Thomason believes that the Holy Spirit brings freedom and liberation as we're able to name our pain, recognize its roots in history and society, and seek healing. While many saw a confident, six-foot-five Black man, A. D. "Lumkile" Thomason lived most of his life in fear and anguish, deeply wounded by encounters with violence, abandonment, and family tragedy. Hiding behind a tough exterior, Adam earned his "Black card" but felt joyless inside. Even traveling around the globe to play professional basketball could not resolve his despair. But in the art of Jay-Z, A. D. discovered stirring honesty that gave voice to his own expressions of longing. And in the gospel of Jesus, he experienced the healing and salvation that had long evaded him. Now through what he calls "kingdom therapy," he's figuring out how to redefine the Jay-Z and Jesus that make up his blackness. A. D. uses his artistry as a poet and storyteller to share how he confessed his internalized pain and embraced the liberating joy of Christ. He writes for millennials, emerging adults, and anyone else who's ready to acknowledge the reality of racial trauma and our need to confront it. A. D.'s powerful story gives you permission to be Black, to be Christian, and to be the person God has made you to be.________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community who share the Eric Skwarczynski and the Preacher Boys Podcast mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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Feb 2, 2022 • 24min
210: Pastor Greg Locke Hosts Book Burning at Global Vision Bible Church
Support the Show:https://www.patreon.com/preacherboysPurchase a Preacher Boys shirt, mask, sticker, or other merch to rep the show! https://www.teepublic.com/user/preacher-boys-podcast________________Pastor Greg Locke - who, just recently called autistic children “demonized” - is doubling down on being a generally horrible human being and hosting an honest-to-god book burning at Global Vision Bible Church.Don’t believe me? Head over to his social channels and watch his recent video on the subject: https://youtu.be/HMFSBq0b7t4Now seems like a good time to encourage people to look up Steven Hassan’s BITE Model of Authoritarian Control.Steven Hassan developed the BITE Model to describe the specific methods that cults use to recruit and maintain control over people. “BITE” stands for Behavior, Information, Thought, and Emotional control.Google it and see how many boxes Greg Locke and similar churches check: https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/bite-model/________________Find more stories regarding the IFB movement by visiting:– preacherboysdoc.com– https://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/– https://twitter.com/preacherboysdoc– https://www.instagram.com/preacherboysdoc/To connect with a community who share the Eric Skwarczynski and the Preacher Boys Podcast mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
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