Men Talking Mindfulness

Meditation changed everything for Chris Lee. From Green Beret to father and high-performance coach, meditation wasn’t just a tool—it was a lifeline that helped Chris thrive on the battlefield and at home. In this episode, you’ll discover how meditation gave Chris an edge when pressure mounted, and how meditation helped him become a better leader, a more connected dad, and a genuinely fulfilled human being. Chris’s journey proves that meditation isn’t just about sitting still—it’s about transforming anger into calm, stress into resilience, and uncertainty into clear purpose.Hear real stories of how Chris Lee used meditation to push past old limits and unlock patience, clarity, and strength. He combines insights from elite special forces training with practical meditation advice fit for any man navigating work and family life. With hard-won lessons and a dose of humor, Chris shows us why meditation belongs in your daily routine—whether you’re chasing success, battling overwhelm, or simply looking to be a stronger, more present man.Dig into Chris Lee at: https://fieldofresilience.com/Aboutor on his IG at: https://www.instagram.com/coach_chris.lee/?hl=enTimestamps:00:00 - Introduction01:48 - Engaging in Meditation02:50 - One Breath Grounding Practice03:32 - Chris's Journey to Meditation04:11 - The Evolution of Chris's Practice06:11 - Walking Meditation Insights08:44 - Self-Compassion in Meditation10:20 - Meditation's Impact on Relationships12:14 - Realizing the Benefits of Meditation14:40 - Transition from Military to Mindfulness18:27 - The Need for Awareness21:13 - Career Shift to Coaching23:33 - Meditation as a Superpower25:00 - The Journey to Inner Peace27:25 - Removing Labels Through Meditation30:02 - Resistance in Meditation31:41 - Non-Doing in Meditation34:18 - Finding Time for Meditation36:02 - Tracking Progress and Metrics39:15 - Mindful Choices and Alcohol42:57 - Creating a Daily Meditation ProtocolFeeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. Looking for a great speaker or Coach hit up Jon Macaskill at https://jonmacaskill.com/More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Self-doubt. It’s loud, it’s sneaky, and it’s the voice in your head that tells you you’re not enough - even when you’re crushing it. In this episode, we dive deep into self-doubt, unpacking how it grips men and secretly drives our choices, our relationships, and the stories we tell ourselves. If you've ever found yourself second-guessing your instincts, replaying that conversation (again), or holding back because of that relentless self-doubt, you’re definitely not alone. We’ll get brutally honest about where self-doubt comes from, why it sticks around, and how you can finally break its grip and reclaim your personal power.Get ready for candid stories about the internal wars men fight every day, actionable strategies for smashing self-doubt, and a few laughs at the absurd stuff our brains conjure up when no one’s watching. Expect practical takeaways, surprising insights into men’s mental health, and tools you can use to step out of the self-doubt shadow—starting right now. If you’re tired of self-doubt stealing your confidence and joy, this episode is your call to take back your manhood and make your mind your ally, not your enemy.Chapters:00:00 – Introductions05:19 – Embracing Worth and Authentic Leadership19:31 – Owning Your Inner Voice23:43 – The Journey to Confidence and Well-Being25:26 – Power of Personal Affirmations27:04 – Purpose, Brotherhood, and Self-Belief32:16 – Growth Through Self-Doubt33:51 – Seeking Feedback, Building Confidence35:09 – Vulnerability and the Strength to Ask for Help36:07 – Men and Overcompensation: Rewriting the Narrative37:04 – Redefining Vulnerability with Courage40:26 – Emotional Connection and Brotherhood41:20 – The Illusion of Confidence42:38 – Insecurity vs. True Confidence45:13 – Legacy and the Path of Growth46:40 – Strategies for Self-Reflection and EmpowermentFeeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Most men fear what they don’t understand - and nothing confuses or frustrates them more than the hormonal changes women experience in midlife. Jon and Will sit down with renowned women’s health expert Dr. Lisa Larkin to decode the menopause transition and reveal how understanding it can transform relationships, health, and communication. From navigating mood shifts and libido changes to recognizing breast cancer risks and the benefits of lifestyle and hormone therapy, Dr. Larkin exposes how women’s health - especially between ages 40 and 55 - has been neglected for far too long. This eye-opening conversation challenges stigma, empowers both partners to talk openly about menopause, and shows men why knowledge is the key to stronger, more connected relationships.Chapters:00:00 - Introduction03:02 - Bridging the Gender Gap in Midlife Women’s Health06:12 - How Menopause Shapes Relationships10:04 - What Every Woman Should Know About Midlife Health13:41 - The Truth About Breast Cancer Risk20:53 - Genetics, Sex, and the Overlooked Sides of Women’s Health27:19 - Menopause at Work: Why Support Matters32:13 - Treatment, Awareness, and Real Support for Menopausal Women34:13 - The Real Story Behind Menopausal Hormone Therapy51:03 - The Hidden Risks of High-Dose Testosterone Pellets54:48 - How Hormonal Changes Affect Love and ConnectionFeeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In this deeply personal piece, Jon shares something raw and different ... a song born straight from his journaling practice.After years of living by duty, discipline, and performance, Jon found himself realizing he’d lost touch with the part of him that once felt fully alive.That reflection became a song called “Called Home to Yourself.”Through honest storytelling and emotional depth, Jon opens up about what it means to wake up after years on autopilot... to remember the child you once were, the fire you once carried, and the freedom of feeling seen again.This song isn’t about perfection (nor is it perfect)... it’s about presence.It’s about rediscovering who you are beneath the roles, the ranks, and the noise of everyday life.If you’ve ever felt that quiet ache... that pull toward something real... this episode is for you.Because sometimes, the bravest thing we can do is stop running, listen, and come home.Listen to “Called Home to Yourself” — written and performed by... well, AI!!Hosted by Jon Macaskill | Men Talking MindfulnessHosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In this episode with Karen Salmansohn, discover how thinking about death can be your greatest inspiration for living a purposeful, to-die-for life. “Your To-Die-For Life” flips the script on death, showing how embracing mortality turns every day into an urgent call to action—ditch regrets, seize your bucket list, and put meaning first. Death isn’t just an end; it’s a catalyst for bold choices, authentic relationships, and a legacy that matters. Learn practical, research-backed tools to let death fuel your courage, passion, and authentic self-expression. If you want to move from living on autopilot to a life that thrills you, tune in and let death motivate you to live fully now.Chapters:00:00 - Introduction00:16 - The Stories We Leave Behind00:36 - Introducing Karen Solomonson and Her Insights01:39 - Grounding Practice: Centering Ourselves02:33 - Contemplating Mortality for Value-Based Decisions03:11 - Aristotle's Wisdom: Starting with the End in Mind04:06 - Learning Lessons for Personal Growth05:09 - The Importance of Core Values05:51 - Legacy: How We Show Up in Life06:48 - The Impact of Feelings on Memory07:30 - Living Authentically vs. Seeking External Validation08:01 - Writing Your Eulogy: A Path to Clarity08:13 - The Power of Mortality Awareness09:05 - Identity-Based Habits: Who Do You Need to Become?10:30 - Creating Identity-Based Statements12:05 - Finding Core Values: A Practical Approach14:07 - The Seven Core Values to Avoid Regrets15:14 - Authenticity: The Key to True Expression16:07 - Bravery: Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone16:47 - Curiosity: The Path to Growth18:23 - Discernment: Prioritizing What Matters19:24 - Empathic Love: Building Meaningful Connections20:55 - Fun: The Importance of Enjoying Life23:53 - Gratitude: Appreciating What You Have25:14 - The Role of Mortality in Urgency and Action26:28 - Living with Intention: Making Every Day Count30:23 - Breaking Free from Negative Narratives32:33 - The Lab of Life: Embracing Growth34:00 - The Struggle for Fulfillment: Eudaimonia vs. Hedonia36:40 - Reawakening Your Identity: The Power of Self-Reflection42:11 - Surrounding Yourself with Supportive People45:03 - The Importance of Positive InfluencesFeeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks, joins MTM. He in a transformative conversation about shadow work and its profound impact on personal choices and mental well-being. Throughout the discussion, Connor delves deep into the concept of the "shadow self," exploring how acknowledging and integrating the hidden, often suppressed aspects of our personalities leads to greater self-awareness and genuine change. We candidly address the role of shame in our lives—how it can serve as both a motivator and a destructive force—and why many people unconsciously use shame-based narratives as a way to push themselves, often resulting in cycles of self-sabotage and emotional stagnation. Connor illustrates how confronting shadow elements like guilt, regret, and self-doubt enables us to break free from repeating negative patterns. Listeners will learn actionable strategies for revealing and working through feelings of shame, while gaining tools for healthier inner dialogue and compassionate self-reflection.You'll learn how self-compassion, accepting past mistakes, and building more authentic relationships—cornerstones of Connor’s approach to men’s emotional growth and healing.Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/Chapters00:00 - Introduction 02:46 - The Transformative Power of Shadow Work05:48 - Defining the Shadow: Repression and Its Consequences08:47 - The Role of Shame in Men's Lives11:44 - Personal Journeys: Crisis and Transformation14:56 - Shame and Its Manipulative Power18:00 - Separating Personhood from Behavior20:56 - Relationships as Mirrors for Self-Discovery23:47 - The Role of Mindfulness in Shadow Work27:04 - Psychedelics and Accessing the Unconscious30:04 - The Body's Role in Self-Realization32:58 - Conclusion: The Journey of Self-DiscoveryHosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Men Talking Mindfulness aims to empower men's personal and emotional growth through mindfulness. We offer engaging content and practical tools in a supportive community, guiding men toward a balanced, mindful, and fulfilling life.This is an episode Jon recorded with Chris Lazier and Shaun Emerson from the If You've Come This Far podcast... lots of fun stuff to know about Jon - a lot that we never knew before!Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

From the depths of addiction to the frontlines of redemption, Ben Owen’s story is a testament to the power of transformation. In this episode, Jon and Will sit down with Ben, the founder of We Fight Monsters, to uncover how he turned personal pain with addiction into purpose, leading a movement that combats addiction, human trafficking, and broken systems from the streets of Memphis to beyond. Ben reveals the brutal realities of recovery, mental health, the importance of mindfulness in chaos, and the unbreakable resilience that fuels his mission to reunite families and rebuild lives. This is not just a story about survival -  it’s about what happens when you decide to fight for something bigger than yourself.Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters00:00 - Introduction03:12 - Ben Owen's Journey to Recovery06:01 - The Birth of We Fight Monsters09:06 - Transforming Lives in Memphis11:51 - The Role of Mindfulness in Recovery14:37 - Building Trust and Community17:42 - Confronting Human Trafficking20:34 - The Power of Resilience23:42 - Creating Economic Opportunities26:31 - The Importance of Family Reunification29:47 - Engaging with Law Enforcement32:22 - The Role of the Community35:43 - The Owen Army and Expanding the Mission38:35 - Mindfulness in Action41:28 - The Future of We Fight MonstersHosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What happens when young men struggle to find their place in a rapidly changing world? Joseph Fuller joins hosts Jon and Will to explore the challenges facing young men today - from the decline of traditional male jobs, and the stigma around trades, to the crucial role of mentorship, education, and social skills in shaping identity and opportunity. This is adding to the escalating mental health crisis. Together, they unpack how cultural shifts away from college education are redefining masculinity, why trades remain “AI-proof,” and what society can do to better support young men in navigating careers, mental health, and self-worth in the 21st century.Learn more about Joseph Fuller: https://www.harvardmagazine.com/2025/05/harvard-men-gender-gap-education-employmentFeeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters00:00 - Introductions02:48 - Cultural Identity and Self-Worth in Men05:50 - The Decline of Traditional Male Jobs09:12 - Education and Skills Gap12:01 - The Impact of Social Skills on Employment14:54 - The Role of Sports and Physical Activity17:43 - The Importance of Mentorship and Guidance20:48 - The Stigma Around Trades and Vocational Education23:57 - The Role of Male Teachers in Education26:31 - The Crisis of Male Identity in Modern Society29:24 - Solutions for the Future of Young MenHosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

So what happened here? So close to the finish line, Jon tells us why he decided to drop out of the Physique Competition and end this grueling fitness Journey.Learn what MTM is all about at:mentalkinmindfulness.comHosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.