

Modern Anarchy
Dr. Nicole Thompson
Modern Anarchy is your weekly invitation to reclaim pleasure, sex, and desire as radical acts of liberation. Hosted by queer psychotherapist and researcher Dr. Nicole, an academic voice on non-monogamy and embodied pleasure with advanced training in psychedelic integration therapy, the show explores intimacy, erotic sovereignty, and healing through raw conversations with pleasure activists, artists, therapists, and rebels from around the world. Are you ready to dive in?
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Sep 22, 2021 • 52min
24. If You Can Sit For a Tattoo, You Can Have a Vasectomy with Drew
On today's episode, we have Drew (He/Him) discuss his meaningful decision to have a vasectomy and what the procedure actually entails. Together we talk about being another brick in the wall, the ethical considerations of having children with our current climate change trajectory, and how you'll never be ready to have a vasectomy.
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Resources to Learn More:
When Life Seems Pointless
What to Do When Work Feels Meaningless
‘I’d rather bet on myself’: Workers are quitting their jobs to put themselves first
7 Lessons I Have Learned from Divorced People
A Brief History of Bullying Women to Have Babies
Relationship Success: Balancing Togetherness and Individuality
What is a vasectomy?
The Relentlessness of Modern Parenting
Study Proves Moms Spend Too Much Time With Their Kids, Liberates Working Moms Everywhere
Robots could take over 20 million jobs by 2030, study claims
Existentialism: Crash Course Philosophy #16
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
The All-or-Nothing Marriage
How TikTok changed the world in 2020

Sep 15, 2021 • 1h 29min
23. God Loves Queers: The Faith Journey of a Lesbian Bishop with Brenda Bos
On today's episode, we have the first openly lesbian bishop in the Evangelical Lutheran Church, Brenda Bos (She/Her), join us for a conversation about how her sexual identity shaped her unique faith journey and prepared her for leadership within the queer community. Together we talk about the nature of God, the internalization of homophobia and the gender binary, and how to rachet up your self-assessment.
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Meet Rev. Bos, first out lesbian Evangelical Lutheran bishop
Millennials are leaving organized religion. Here’s where some are finding community
STRANGER AT THE GATE
10 Reasons God Loves Gay Christians
Queerfully & Wonderfully Made
When Religion Leads to Trauma
Study finds that queer Christians quit the church twice as much as others
American churches must reject literalism and admit we got it wrong on gay people

Sep 8, 2021 • 1h 1min
22. The Hot F**king Mess of Legalized Cannabis: Is Your Consumption Ethical? with Anna Epstein
On today's episode we have the artist and film-maker Anna Epstein (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the monopolization of the legal cannabis industry. Together we talk about the red-tape bureaucracy of licensing, the greed of rich-white men, and how to stay positive while combating large systemic forms of oppression.
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Illinois’ pot shop lotteries are finally over, but licenses remain in limbo
Illinois to hold an extra license lottery for applicants unfairly kept out of chances for marijuana retail shops
THE DRUG WAR IS THE NEW JIM CROW
Race, Mass Incarceration, and the Disastrous War on Drugs
Equity vs. Equality: What’s the Difference?
Arizona Department of Health Services issues recall for marijuana products due to possible salmonella, mold contamination
Medical marijuana brownie bites recalled due to report of mold
California’s Limit on Big Growers Just Vanished. Here’s Why
Demi Lovato Is California Sober: What Does It Mean and Is It Safe?
Drug Use for Grown-Ups
This Heroin-Using Professor Wants to Change How We Think About Drugs

Sep 1, 2021 • 1h 18min
21. The Internet Age Gap: Is Curation Making Real-Life Intolerable? with Noah Scalin
On today's episode, we have artist and activist Noah Scalin (He/HIm) join us for a conversation about the generational divide with the rise of the internet age. Together we talk about the internet-self vs. the physical self (or a lack thereof), the danger of curation, and the possibility that political beliefs may be taking over the role of religion.
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Resources to Learn More:
America Without God
Generational Differences At Work Are Small. Thinking They’re Big Affects Our Behavior
Revisiting the Origins: The Internet and its Early Governance
How the Internet was born: from the ARPANET to the Internet
Why Are My Boomer Parents on Their Phones Literally All the Time?
The Social Dilemma
Millennials stand out for their technology use, but older generations also embrace digital life
Demographics of Key Social Networking Platforms
The negative effects of social media on the social identity of adolescents from the perspective of social work
Identity in the Age of Social Media
The Artist Way

Aug 25, 2021 • 1h 4min
20. Escaping the Multi-Level Marketing Scheme of Mormonism with Rayna Flannery
Trigger Warning: Mention of Suidical Thoughts
On today's episode, Rayna (She/Her) shares the details of her personal story with spiritual abuse from the Mormon Church and how she was able to rediscover her sense of self. Together we talk about Mormon culture, dissociation from our past religious identities, and the difficulty of letting go of a pervasive ideological structure.
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Resources to Learn More:
Losing Religion, Gaining a Friend
Why I Left The Mormon Church
What Is Dissociation?
Healing Religious Trauma and Spiritual Wounds
Cognitive Dissonance
How Did You Know You Were Gay?
Sexual Orientation Identity Formation
Cass's Homosexual Identity Formation Model
About Coming Out
What's Hell Like for Mormons?
U.S. Church Membership Falls Below Majority for First Time
Leaving the Fold - A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving their Religion
Millennials are leaving organized religion. Here’s where some are finding community

Aug 18, 2021 • 1h 12min
19. When Do You Leave a Relationship: Polyamory, Sadism, and Self-Care with Empress Wu
On today's episode, we have the tender brutalist and professional dom, Empress Wu (She/Her) join us for a philosophical and vulnerable conversation about liberation through kink. Together we talk about why bad bitches date emotionally immature people, the sublime nature of sadism, and the need to examine your own internalization of social norms.
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Resources
Esther Perel
Louise Bourgeois - The Couple
Deleuze and Guattari
Desire, the Big Other, & the Wall of Language | Psychoanalysis of Jacques Lacan
Mel Chen - Toxic Animacies, Inanimate Affections
Atlanta Shooting and the Legacy of Misogyny and Racism Against Asian Women
What EXACTLY Is A 'Service Top' In The BDSM Kink Community?
Sublime Borders: Schiller’s Will and Nietzsche’s Will-to-Power
The Art of Cruelty
BDSM 101: Praise Kink / Affirmation Play
Red Canary Song
Kink Out Events
Veil Machine

Aug 11, 2021 • 1h 16min
18. The Gray Forefront of Psychedelic Research with Manesh Girn
On today's episode, we have psychedelic scientist and researcher Manesh Girn (He/Him) join us for a conversation about how psychedelics affect our brain and their effectiveness in therapy. Together we talk about some of the mythology around psychedelics, your serotonin receptors, and the importance of mindfulness and meditation in creating a positive mental state.
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Resources
The Challenges of Psychedelic Research
The Neuroscience of Psychedelic Drugs: Ending Psychedelic Myths With Professor David Nutt
The History of Psychedelics and Psychotherapy
Alcohol is a Drug
Psychedelics Promote Structural and Functional Neural Plasticity
Dr. Stanislav Grof
Reframing Bummer Trips: Scientific and Cultural Explanations to Adverse Reactions to Psychedelic Drug Use
2 Claims About Psychedelics and the Default Mode Network DEBUNKED
Temporal Dynamics of the Default Mode Network Characterize Meditation-Induced Alterations in Consciousness
Characterization and prediction of acute and sustained response to psychedelic psilocybin in a mindfulness group retreat
From Sacred Plants to Psychotherapy: The History and Re-Emergence of Psychedelics in Medicine
Coffee is a Drug Not a Beverage, Drink Up! Just Not Too Much
How to Change Your Mind
5 Psychedelic Stocks to Watch
Trial of Psilocybin versus Escitalopram for Depression
Synthesis: Legal Psilocybin Center
What Happens in the Brain When We Feel Fear

Aug 4, 2021 • 1h 1min
17. Let's Not Take Things Too Personally: HPV, Social Media, and Anxiety Brain with Kellie
Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault
On today's episode, Kellie joins us for a raw and honest conversation about her experience with HPV and navigating this world with anxiety. Together we explore the paradox of our fear of perception and our need to be seen during this time of social media.
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Resources
HPV Passed through Childbirth
HPV and Men STD Facts
"data from the CDC indicate that at least 75 percent of the reproductive-age population has been exposed to the sexually transmitted HPV"
HPV Vaccine Against Cancer
STI vs STD: Do They Mean the Same Thing? Here's How Experts Explain It
The Midnight Gospel
We All Have “Main-Character Energy” Now
How to stop ruminating thoughts
7 Ways to Deal With Negative Thoughts
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom
What Is Self-Awareness and Why Is It Important? [+5 Ways to Increase It]
"Once we accept the absurdity of our situation, embrace that comparisons are odious, we're liberated to use them anyhow."
Too Much Social Media Time Could Raise Risk of Depression
The Social Dilemma

Jul 28, 2021 • 1h 13min
16. The Anarchy of Beginning From Love with Nat Vikitsreth
On today's episode, we have somatic social justice practitioner, trauma-informed, resilience-oriented licensed psychotherapist, Nat Vikitsreth (She/Her). Together we talk about the effects of generational trauma and internalized oppression within our relationships and how it all relates to Nat's personal story and dreams for our future.
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Come Back to Care - Newsletter
Free Training
In-Out-N-Through Program
Resources to Learn More
The Legacy of Trauma
Internalised Oppression -Naming and Peeling Away the Layers of Shame
Social Relationships and Health: A Flashpoint for Health Policy
Introduction to Mutual Aid
What is Transformative Justice?
Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome
Parents’ emotional trauma may change their children’s biology. Studies in mice show how
What is Co Regulation?
“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” Viktor Frankl
Neuroplasticity Explained

Jul 21, 2021 • 1h 21min
15. Radical Everyday Acts: Jumping the Turnstile with Christiana
On today's episode, artist and abolitionist Christiana (She/Her) joins us for a conversation about radical everyday acts and being a multi-hyphenate artist. Together we discuss radical imagination within abolition and quantum mechanics, the growing pains of creating art, and the difficulty of holding space for transformational justice.
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Resources:
Radical Imagination
Ocativa Butler and Science Fiction
The Artist Way
A Year After George Floyd’s Killing, White Allyship Fades
Transformative Justice
Long-Term Recidivism Studies Show High Arrest Rates
Radical Dharma
If atoms are mostly empty space, why do objects look and feel solid?
After decades of effort, scientists are finally seeing black holes—or are they?
Survival of the Fittest Has Evolved: Try Survival of the Kindest
Shadow Places
Hundreds Hop NY Subway Turnstiles, Block Street to Protest NYPD
The Price of a Subway Swipe: When $2.75 Becomes $249 Million