Modern Anarchy

TW: Mention of Suicidal Ideation On today's episode, we have artist and graphic designer Jordan Parvex (She/Her) join us for a conversation about coming out to conservative family and claiming your queer identity. Together we talk about how our parental relationships shape our desires for attachment, the "othering" of queer identities, and the expectation to be the model minority.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Jordan's Community: Instagram Warm Bros Resources to Learn More Hello Mister Magazine  At What Age Did You Know You Were Gay? What happens when a gay person grows up in an anti-gay home Why We Pick Difficult Partners Acknowledging Our Parents Are Human Support for gay marriage reaches all-time high, survey finds What Is Tokenism, and How Does It Affect a Person's Health? Here's What Experts Say What does intersex mean? How The AIDS Crisis Changed The LGBT Movement Presence vs. representation: Report breaks down LGBTQ visibility on TV Why This Charming Gay Fairytale Has Been Lost For 200 Years

On today's episode we have Keith Ramsey (She/Her) who shares his story about how the universe pushed him into becoming a full time artist. Together we talk about burnout, becoming your own boss, and what it means to be an artist.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Ramsey's Community Website Instagram Resources to Learn More: Five Signs It's Time To Be Your Own Boss The Tell Tale Signs of Burnout ... Do You Have Them? Burnout Recovery: 11 Strategies to Help You Reset What "Trusting the Universe" Really Means 7 daily habits that can unlock your creativity, according to science The Secret to Finding Your Passion (Hint: It's Not What You Think) Advice from Artists on How to Overcome Creative Block, Handle Criticism, and Nurture Your Sense of Self-Worth

On today's episode we have sex educator Ren Grabert (She/Her) join us for a conversation about their journey navigating the the complexities of the medical system with a chronic condition. Together we talk about the importance of establishing boundaries, the vulnerability of being surrounded by dildos, and how to communicate your needs.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Ren's Community: Instagram  Resources to Learn More:  Challenges and Chances: Navigating the US Healthcare System with a Chronic Condition 6 Ways to Love Your Body on Bad Days with a Chronic Illness 'Everybody was telling me there was nothing wrong' If You Always Get Tongue-Tied at the Doctor, It's Time to Work on Self-Advocacy—Here's How Self-Advocacy for the LGBTQ+ Patient 4 Tips to Effectively Ask for Help—and Get a Yes Asking for help can be awkward. But it doesn’t have to be. The Power of Vulnerability  How Embracing Vulnerability Strengthens Our Relationships

On today's episode we have holographic sound healer, Sasha (She/Her) join us for a conversation about limiting beliefs and her journey to finding her passion. Together we talk about rebuilding trust with ourselves, living from the inside out, and leaping into the unknown.If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384Modern Anarchy Community:InstagramFacebookPatreonResources to Learn More:I'm Not Jealous: The Ethical Non-monogamist's Guide to Free Love Relationships without SufferingHuman Design: Were We Coded at Birth?Box BreathingNarrative TherapyThe Uses and Benefits of Music TherapyBeing a Highly Sensitive Person Is a Scientific Personality Trait. Here’s What It Feels Like.How to Stop Being a People-Pleaser

On today's episode, we have Reverend Cyndi Jones (She/Her) join us for a meaningful conversation about disability. Together we talk about the white older man syndrome, what it means to deny yourself assistance, and acknowledging your disability.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Resources to Learn More: March of Dimes poster of Cyndi Jones as a poster child in Saint Louis 1 in 4 US adults live with a disability Understanding Disability Pride Month What is Disability Pride… And How to Display It History of Polio The Complexities of “Passing” as Nondisabled Crip Camp How To Include People with Disabilities Disability and Passing: Blurring the Lines of Identity Paperback

On today's episode we have the spank therapist and writer Ze Royale (ze\they\them) join us for a conversation about authentic alignment. Together we talk about not being boxed in by your queer identity, squirting trapeze artists, and nature hoeing. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Ze Royale's Community: Instagram The Sex Workers Project of The Urban Justice Center Resources to Learn More: What Is So Appealing About Being Spanked, Flogged, Dominated, or Restrained? Answers from Practitioners of Sexual Masochism/Submission Crymaxing: When An Orgasm Makes You Cry Solo-Polyamory Could Change the Way You Think About Love What Is Solo Polyamory? How The Porn Industry Capitalizes Off Of Racism And Racist Stereotypes Understanding Gender Identities Defining Consent in BDSM and Multiple-Partner Relationships The power of vulnerability | Brené Brown How Subtle Energy Affects Your Health Dust II Onyx: A Melanated Tarot 6 Survival Tips for Empaths Kink Out Events AORTA Films BSDM Can Provide Profound Healing Experiences

TW: Eating Disorder, Suicide, and Depression On today's episode, Isa (She/Her) shares her journey to healing after 13 years of having an eating disorder and moving through the difficulty of depression. Together we talk about the power of the plant medicine ayahuasca, holding onto hope when you are in a dark place, and our spiritual connection to mother nature. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Isa's Community:  Instagram Eating Disorder Recovery Instagram Resources to Learn More: Eating Disorder Hotline Given time, most women with anorexia or bulimia will recover STATISTICS: HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE EATING DISORDERS? Eating disorders: Recovery Outcome of Eating Disorders Single Dose of Hallucinogen May Create Lasting Personality Change How Tripping on Ayahuasca Could Help People with Eating Disorders As More People Turn To Psychedelics, Integration Proves A Crucial Factor For Breakthroughs Luis Tamani Art What is a healthy relationship with food? Why People Get Eating Disorders

On today's episode, we have podcaster and somatic sex educator Karen Yates (She/Her) join us for a conversation about her journey from the difficult change of divorce into the liberation of consensual non-monogamy. Together we talk about being almost-sex positive, the mind-fuck of polyamory, and how to play outside the box of cultural expectations around sex. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Karen's Community: Instagram Website Resources to Learn More: The Wheel of Consent The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy Coverture: The Word You Probably Don't Know But Should What Is Deep Ecology? Philosophy, Principles, and Criticism Healing Trauma and Spiritual Growth: Peter Levine & Thomas Huebl The Body Keeps the Score Dr. Stephen Porges: What is the Polyvagal Theory Can Shaking Your Body Help Heal Stress and Trauma? Some Experts Say Yes The Secrets of EMDR Therapy and How It Can Help You Sexological Bodywork - Interview (EN) with Joseph Kramer & Didi Liebold My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Mending of Our Bodies and Hearts

On today's episode, we have Drew (He/Him) discuss his meaningful decision to have a vasectomy and what the procedure actually entails. Together we talk about being another brick in the wall, the ethical considerations of having children with our current climate change trajectory, and how you'll never be ready to have a vasectomy. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Resources to Learn More: When Life Seems Pointless What to Do When Work Feels Meaningless ‘I’d rather bet on myself’: Workers are quitting their jobs to put themselves first 7 Lessons I Have Learned from Divorced People A Brief History of Bullying Women to Have Babies Relationship Success: Balancing Togetherness and Individuality What is a vasectomy? The Relentlessness of Modern Parenting Study Proves Moms Spend Too Much Time With Their Kids, Liberates Working Moms Everywhere Robots could take over 20 million jobs by 2030, study claims Existentialism: Crash Course Philosophy #16 Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs The All-or-Nothing Marriage How TikTok changed the world in 2020

On today's episode, we have the first openly lesbian bishop in the Evangelical Lutheran Church, Brenda Bos (She/Her), join us for a conversation about how her sexual identity shaped her unique faith journey and prepared her for leadership within the queer community. Together we talk about the nature of God, the internalization of homophobia and the gender binary, and how to rachet up your self-assessment.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Brenda Bos' Community: Twitter Instagram Resources to Learn More: Meet Rev. Bos, first out lesbian Evangelical Lutheran bishop Millennials are leaving organized religion. Here’s where some are finding community STRANGER AT THE GATE 10 Reasons God Loves Gay Christians Queerfully & Wonderfully Made When Religion Leads to Trauma Study finds that queer Christians quit the church twice as much as others American churches must reject literalism and admit we got it wrong on gay people