
How To Date
How To Date is your ultimate guide to navigating the highs, lows and everything in between of modern dating.
Hosted by broadcaster and author Elizabeth Day and the ever-insightful relationship expert Mel Schilling, this podclass (podcast masterclass) unpacks the complexities of finding connection in today’s world. From building confidence and breaking old patterns to decoding dating apps and finding love that is worthy of you, Elizabeth and Mel tackle it all with humour, honesty, and expert advice. Featuring candid discussions with fascinating guests, we explore red flags, communication pitfalls and coping with rejection, as well as offering practical exercises to help you step into the world of dating.
How to Date offers the tools, tips and laughs you need to navigate modern romance with confidence and self-worth. After all, the most important relationship you can ever have is the one you have with yourself.
For more How To... podclasses visit our previous season How To Write a Book. Each episode industry experts take you through the full process of writing a book, from ideas to publishing. Together author Sara Collins, publisher Sharmaine Lovegrove and literary agent Nelle Andrew guide you through your journey, giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing.
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Latest episodes

Oct 7, 2024 • 41min
How to Write a Book | 12. PUBLISHING (Part 2)
Well, you’ve made it! Thank you so much for joining us on this podclass - 12 weeks to take you right through from developing ideas to creating compelling characters and now, how to get your book into the hands of the reading public.
This week, our hosts Sara Collins, Sharmaine Lovegrove and Nelle Andrew continue their chat about how to get published and how to navigate the publishing industry.
Publishing is a daunting experience for a seasoned writer, let alone a debut author. But - don’t worry - we’ve got you covered. From what our literary agent, author and publishing expert wish they knew about the publishing process before they started, to managing expectations, and what makes it all worthwhile in the end. We hope you find this discussion a heartening listen that emboldens you to take the enormously brave step into the world of publishing.
Together, Sara, Sharmaine and Nelle are your on-hand writing community giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing. And, as ever, Elizabeth is on hand at the end to offer her final reflections.
Executive produced by Elizabeth Day for Daylight Productions and Carly Maile for Sony Music Entertainment.
Produced by Imogen Serwotka.
Please do get in touch with us, your writing community, with thoughts, feedback, submissions and more at: howtowriteabook.daylight@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 30, 2024 • 35min
How to Write a Book | 11. PUBLISHING (Part 1)
In these final two episodes of How to Write a Book, Elizabeth Day’s new podclass series, hosts Sara Collins, Sharmaine Lovegrove and Nelle Andrew discuss navigating the world of publishing!
Publishing is a daunting experience for a seasoned writer, let alone a debut author. But - don’t worry - we’ve got you covered. From what our literary agent, author and publishing expert wish they knew about the publishing process before they started, to managing expectations, and what makes it all worthwhile in the end. We hope you find this discussion a heartening listen that emboldens you to take the enormously brave step into the world of publishing.
Together, Sara, Sharmaine and Nelle are your on-hand writing community giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing. Next week, stay tuned for Part 2 on PUBLISHING which is…sob!…our finale.
Books discussed in this episode include:
• Bird by bird by Annie Lamott
We also discuss: Octavia Butler, Cool Runnings
Executive produced by Elizabeth Day for Daylight Productions and Carly Maile for Sony Music Entertainment.
Produced by Imogen Serwotka.
Please do get in touch with us, your writing community, with thoughts, feedback and more at: howtowriteabook.daylight@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 23, 2024 • 54min
How to Write a Book | 10. AN INTERVIEW WITH ELIZABETH DAY
Elizabeth Day, a bestselling author and podcaster known for her work on *How To Fail*, shares her extensive writing journey, having penned nine books in various genres. She discusses overcoming self-doubt and emphasizes the importance of mentorship and supportive relationships in writing. The conversation highlights the discipline needed to stay committed and the vulnerabilities faced when writing fiction vs. nonfiction. With humor and candor, Elizabeth offers insights on navigating the publishing landscape and the power of starting your writing journey.

Sep 16, 2024 • 53min
How to Write a Book | 9. GENRE
In this ninth episode of How to Write a Book, Elizabeth Day’s new podclass series, hosts Sara Collins, Sharmaine Lovegrove and Nelle Andrew discuss genre. From literary fiction to romance and even the occasional fantasy novel, no genre is left un-discussed.
What has genre-blending got to do with braiding a Senegalese Twist? Should writers stick to one genre or experiment across multiple? And why should genre be thought of as an identity for your book?
Our three experts are here to help you answer these questions. Together, Sara, Sharmaine and Nelle are your on-hand writing community giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing. And as ever, Elizabeth ends the episode with her own final reflections.
We hope you enjoy our ninth episode. Stay tuned for next week’s episode on… GENRE.
Books discussed in this episode include:
• World War Z by Max Brooks
• Lord of the Rings by John Tolkein
• A Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion
• Friendaholic by Elizabeth Day
• In Cold Blood by Truman Capote
• This Is Not A Pity Memoir by Abbi Morgan
• Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte
• Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte
• How the Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk
We also talk about: Margaret Atwood, Elizabeth Gilbert, Josie Silver, Benjamin Black, Lisa Jewel, Emily Henry, Jojo Moyes and Marian Keyes
Executive produced by Elizabeth Day for Daylight Productions and Carly Maile for Sony Music Entertainment.
Produced by Imogen Serwotka.
Please do get in touch with us, your writing community, with thoughts, feedback and more at: howtowriteabook.daylight@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 9, 2024 • 39min
How to Write a Book | 8. PLOT (Part 2)
In the eighth episode of How to Write a Book, Elizabeth Day’s new podclass series, hosts Sara Collins, Sharmaine Lovegrove and Nelle Andrew take a slightly more structured approach to their discussion, having plotted out how best to talk about plot.
After wise advice on plot mastery from Nelle in part 1, we continue our discussion on structuring ideas, how plots vary across commercial and literary strands? And why novels with an interior focus, or stream of consciousness writing, still need to be plotted. As ever, Elizabeth joins us at the end for her final reflections.
Together, Sara, Sharmaine and Nelle are your on-hand writing community giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing. Join us next week for a very special interview with Elizabeth Day herself.
Books discussed in PLOT (part 1 and part 2) include:
• Secret History by Donna Tart
• Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins
• The Confessions of Frannie Langton by Sara Collins
• Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
• Fingersmith by Sarah Waters
• August Blue by Deborah Levy
We also talk about: Jonathan Coe, Cormac McCarthy, Sara Collins’ new novel, Ghost Story, Succession, Thomas Hardy, Deborah Levy, Rachel Cusk, Toni Morrison, Will Storr, Elizabeth Strout, classical music and hip-hop.
Executive produced by Elizabeth Day for Daylight Productions and Carly Maile for Sony Music Entertainment.
Produced by Imogen Serwotka.
Please do get in touch with us, your writing community, with thoughts, feedback and more at: howtowriteabook.daylight@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 2, 2024 • 27min
How to Write a Book | 7. PLOT (Part 1)
In the seventh episode of How to Write a Book, Elizabeth Day’s new podclass series, hosts Sara Collins, Sharmaine Lovegrove and Nelle Andrew take a slightly more structured approach to their discussion, having plotted out how best to talk about plot.
We open up with wise advice on plot mastery from Nelle, who as a literary agent, has taught hundreds of writers about this tricky discipline. Where should you begin when it comes to structuring your ideas? How do plots vary across commercial and literary strands? Where does the snobbishness around “the plottiest of plots” come from? And why novels with an interior focus, or stream of consciousness writing, still need to be plotted.
Together, Sara, Sharmaine and Nelle are your on-hand writing community giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing. And because every great plot should have a cliffhanger, we’re doing part 2 of PLOT next week!
Books discussed in PLOT (part 1 and part 2) include:
• Secret History by Donna Tart
• Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins
• The Confessions of Frannie Langton by Sara Collins
• Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
• Fingersmith by Sarah Waters
• August Blue by Deborah Levy
We also talk about: Jonathan Coe, Cormac McCarthy, Sara Collins’ new novel, Ghost Story, Succession, Thomas Hardy, Deborah Levy, Rachel Cusk, Toni Morrison, Will Storr, Elizabeth Strout, classical music and hip-hop.
Executive produced by Elizabeth Day for Daylight Productions and Carly Maile for Sony Music Entertainment.
Produced by Imogen Serwotka.
Please do get in touch with us, your writing community, with thoughts, feedback and more at: howtowriteabook.daylight@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 26, 2024 • 55min
How to Write a Book | 6. DIALOGUE
In the sixth episode of How to Write a Book, Elizabeth Day’s new podclass series, hosts Sara Collins, Sharmaine Lovegrove and Nelle Andrew discuss crafting excellent dialogue.
This week’s dialogue between these three experts covers the best exchanges they’ve come across; how to make dialogue work - from setting the subtext on fire, to distinguishing between characters through the words they utter; and the interplay between internal and external dialogue. One of the hardest things to master, dialogue can often fall flat - and part of the secret to making it come alive lies in getting to know your characters. Nelle, Sara and Sharmaine show you how. And, at the end, Elizabeth pops into the studio to offer her own final reflections.
Together, Sara, Sharmaine and Nelle are your on-hand writing community giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing.
We hope you enjoy our fourth episode. Stay tuned for the next week’s chat on… PLOT.
Books discussed in this episode include:
• The Confessions of Frannie Langton by Sara Collins
• The Handmaid’s Tale, by Margeret Atwood
• Madame Bovary, Gustave Flaubert
• Flowers for Algernon, Daniel Keyes
• Rodham by Curtis Sittenfeld
• Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout
Films discussed in this episode include:
• Marriage Story
• Past Lives
• Amadeus
• Anatomy of a Fall
We also talk about:
• John Berger, Hilary Mantel and Grayson Perry
• Succession
Executive produced by Elizabeth Day for Daylight Productions and Carly Maile for Sony Music Entertainment.
Produced by Imogen Serwotka.
Please do get in touch with us, your writing community, with thoughts, feedback and more at: howtowriteabook.daylight@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 19, 2024 • 59min
How to Write a Book | 5. CHARACTER
In the fifth episode of How to Write a Book, Elizabeth Day’s new podclass series, hosts Sara Collins, Sharmaine Lovegrove and Nelle Andrew discuss the art of creating characters.
Just what makes a compelling character - need they be likeable? And just how much should we come to know them, before writing them into existence? Or could it be that they might surprise us one day, right there on the page?
In this kaleidoscopic and…ahem…characterful conversation, Sara, Nelle and Sharmaine share their expertise with their trademark wit and wisdom…and they almost come to blows over the concept of ‘English Love ’(you have to listen to find out why). At the end, Elizabeth offers her own reflections on the conversation.
Together, Sara, Sharmaine and Nelle are your on-hand writing community giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing.
We hope you enjoy our fifth episode. Stay tuned for the next week’s chat on… DIALOGUE. If you don’t want to wait for next week’s episode, you can subscribe now and binge them all at once by tapping ‘subscribe’. You’ll get to listen to all episodes ad-free and get exclusive subscriber access to How To Fail and Failing With Friends.
Books and authors discussed in this episode include:
•The Confessions of Frannie Langton by Sara Collins
•Elizabeth Bennet from Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
•The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera
•Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston
•The Talented Mr Ripley by Patricia Highsmith
•Empire of Pain by Patrick Radden Keefe
•The Art of Storytelling by Will Storr
•The Remains of the Day by Kazuo Ishiguro
•The Party by Elizabeth Day
•Judy Blume
We also talk about:
•Peaky Blinders
Executive produced by Elizabeth Day for Daylight Productions and Carly Maile for Sony Music Entertainment.
Produced by Imogen Serwotka.
Please do get in touch with us, your writing community, with thoughts, feedback and more at: howtowriteabook.daylight@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 12, 2024 • 31min
How to Write a Book | 4. VOICE (Part 2)
In this fourth episode of How to Write a Book, Elizabeth Day’s new podclass series, hosts Sara Collins, Sharmaine Lovegrove and Nelle Andrew continue their discussion about finding your voice.
What constitutes an authorial voice? And how does it differ from a narrative voice, or a character’s voice? Do they require vulnerability to cultivate? And how can they come together, like a perfectly pitched symphony? Our expert podclass provides answers to all of this, as well as how to make your voice stand out; and even where to find it.
Together, Sara, Sharmaine and Nelle are your on-hand writing community giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing. And, at the end, Elizabeth provides her final reflections. We hope you enjoyed this week’s episode on voice. Stay tuned for next week’s conversation on…CHARACTER.
Books and authors discussed in these episodes include:
• The Confessions of Frannie Langton by Sara Collins
• Rainbow Milk by Paul Mendez
• Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
• Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov
• The Bonfire of the Vanities, Tom Wolfe
• Vanity Fair, William Thackeray
• Bronte sisters
• Jane Fallon
We also talk about: Margaret Atwood, James Baldwin, Tony Morrison, Marian Keyes, Jojo Moyes, John le Carré, Emily Henry, Jane Fallon, Dorothy Koomson, Beth O’Leary, Kit de Waal, Grace Paley and the Brontes.
Executive produced by Elizabeth Day for Daylight Productions and Carly Maile for Sony Music Entertainment.
Produced by Imogen Serwotka.
Please do get in touch with us, your writing community, with thoughts, feedback and more at: howtowriteabook.daylight@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 5, 2024 • 35min
How to Write a Book | 3. VOICE (Part 1)
In this third episode of How to Write a Book, Elizabeth Day’s new podclass series, hosts Sara Collins, Sharmaine Lovegrove and Nelle Andrew discuss finding your voice.
What constitutes an authorial voice? And how does it differ from a narrative voice, or a character’s voice? Do they require vulnerability to cultivate? And how can they come together, like a perfectly pitched symphony? Our expert podclass provides answers to all of this, as well as how to make your voice stand out; and even where to find it.
Together, Sara, Sharmaine and Nelle are your on-hand writing community giving you the push you need to get started on that novel, memoir, or piece of non fiction you've always dreamed of writing.
Books and authors discussed in these episodes include:
• The Confessions of Frannie Langton by Sara Collins
• Rainbow Milk by Paul Mendez
• Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
• Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov
• The Bonfire of the Vanities, Tom Wolfe
• Vanity Fair, William Thackeray
• Bronte sisters
• Jane Fallon
We also talk about: Margaret Atwood, James Baldwin, Tony Morrison, Marian Keyes, Jojo Moyes, John le Carré, Emily Henry, Jane Fallon, Dorothy Koomson, Beth O’Leary, Kit de Waal, Grace Paley and the Brontes.
Executive produced by Elizabeth Day for Daylight Productions and Carly Maile for Sony Music Entertainment.
Produced by Imogen Serwotka.
Please do get in touch with us, your writing community, with thoughts, feedback and more at: howtowriteabook.daylight@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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