
The Separation Guide | A starting point for better separation and divorce
The Separation Guide is your independent guide to separation and divorce in Australia.
We support you from start to finish, making separation simpler, more manageable and less stressful.
We aim to give you confidence to make the right decisions for your future.
Latest episodes

Aug 24, 2022 • 42min
Episode 17: What you need to know about child support
Child support is a way for both parents to make sure that their kids are properly supported financially. There are a lot of decisions that need to be made around how your child support arrangement is set up, managed and collected. There are also a lot of implications to these decisions which might not become clear until you are a fair way down the child support road.
In this episode, we speak to Crystal Paduch from Child Support Consultants about many aspects of child support in Australia to give you some insight into how it all works.
We cover:
how child support is assessed
the ways to manage child support
private collection versus Child Support collect
how Centrelink, Child Support and the ATO are connected
the types of income included in an assessment plus income exclusions
how days of care affect an assessment
what happens if there is an overpayment or underpayment
the services offered by CSC.
If you'd like to learn more about CSC and book a consultation with Crystal, you can find the link to her calendar here.
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The Separation Guide aims to make separation and divorce simpler, more manageable and less stressful. To find out more about how one of our Network Members could support your separation, take our free 3-minute Q&A. If you offer professional help and advice to people going through separation and divorce, Join the Network.

Jul 26, 2022 • 53min
Episode 16: Kindness in Family Law
We’ve had ‘no-fault’ divorce in Australia since 1975. Unlike criminal law, there's not a guilty verdict. Your lawyer isn't fighting to 'win' - their job is to help you reach an agreement with your spouse over property and financial settlement and child arrangements.
So is there really a place for escalating your matter to an inevitable court date, and who is actually benefiting when that happens? Is it time in Australia for a kind approach to Family Law? In this episode, we speak to Perpetua Kish from Balance Family Law and Angela Harbinson, CEO of The Separation Guide about:
the role of the law in separation and divorce
what kindness in Family Law looks like and how it benefits clients
de-escalation and proactive communication between lawyers
what to look for when choosing a lawyer who will avoid escalation
possible points of escalation and how to avoid them
the financial and emotional cost of escalation and going to court.
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The Separation Guide aims to make separation and divorce simpler, more manageable and less stressful. To find out more about how one of our Network Members could support your separation, take our free 3-minute Q&A. If you offer professional help and advice to people going through separation and divorce, Join the Network.

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Jun 10, 2022 • 37min
Episode 15: Buy out or sell? Mortgages and separation
75% of the couples we hear from own property together. Find out about your borrowing options and know where you stand before you negotiate your financial settlement. In this episode, we speak to Senior Lending Specialist Jyana Papanastasiou from SCM Finance Solutions about:
covering your loan when you separate
refinancing when one person keeps the home
pros and cons of selling and releasing equity
getting a mortgage as a single person
what counts as income for your application
when you should speak to professionals.
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Find out more about your options in separation and divorce at www.theseparationguide.com.au

Apr 28, 2022 • 26min
Episode 14: Helping your kids navigate separation
Putting children through a family separation isn’t something anyone ever wants to do. So, how should you approach it if it happens? In this episode, we speak with Bron O’Loan from O’Loan Family Law about:
telling children about your separation
what to say if you can’t answer their questions
involving children in decisions about their future
messages you give children about the separation
support networks for parents and children
resilience in children
talking about the future after separation.
You can purchase Bron O’Loan’s book The Splits: How to help your kids navigate separation and divorce here.
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Find out more about your options in separation and divorce at www.theseparationguide.com.au

Mar 17, 2022 • 30min
Episode 13: Separating with super
What happens to your superannuation when you separate? In this episode, we chat with Samatha Miller from Clarity Lawyers, Chris Fagan from SCM Wealth Management and Christina Hobbs, CEO and co-founder of Verve Super about superannuation and separation.
Read the show notes.
Are you impacted by separation? Our 3-minute Q&A can help connect you with experts like those featured in our podcast to guide you through the maze.
Find out more about your options in separation and divorce at www.theseparationguide.com.au
To learn more about Verve Super, head to their website.
Disclaimer:
Information provided in this podcast is of a general nature only. It’s important to do your own research and consider things like fees, investment performance, insurance cover, risk profile, and alignment with your values when considering if a superannuation product is appropriate for you. Consider getting in touch with a professional adviser if you need support with your financial or legal needs. When considering financial returns, past performance is not indicative of future performance.

Feb 1, 2022 • 50min
Episode 12: Financial Empowerment, before, during and after separation
The Separation Guide CEO, Angela Harbinson, spoke with industry experts Kylie Harding and Selena James about their advice and suggestions for financial empowerment before, during and after separation.
Find out more about your options in separation and divorce at www.theseparationguide.com.au
Note that Kylie Harding was known by her married name Kylie MacDonald when our podcast was recorded.

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Nov 29, 2021 • 50min
Episode 11: Family violence in separation
Heidi Rogers, a representative from Moving Mindsets, Tanya Hibberd from Aubrey Brown, and Andrew Wilson, a mediator, delve into the complexities of family violence during separation. They discuss various forms of abuse, including coercive control, and highlight the long-term impacts on children. The conversation emphasizes legal protections like Apprehended Domestic Violence Orders and the importance of personalized support. Listeners gain insights into navigating separation safely while ensuring emotional well-being for themselves and their families.

Oct 25, 2021 • 38min
Episode 10: Parental alienation in separation and divorce
Jack Whelan, Mediator, Barrister, FDRP and Co-founder of The Separation Guide, leads the discussion on the controversial subject of Parental Alienation with Lawyers Kath Manby and Bron O'Loan, together with Family Therapist and Psychologist Lynne Datnow.

Aug 25, 2021 • 45min
Episode 9: Separating in a Pandemic
Jack Whelan, Barrister, Mediator and Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner spoke with Dr Mandy-Jo Ellis from the Relationspace, Carolyn Devries, CEO of NEW Way Lawyers, Australia’s first not for profit law firm, and New Way Law Family Law expert practitioner Ryan Cropper to discuss some of the issues facing separating and divorced families in a pandemic.

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Dec 21, 2020 • 36min
Episode 7: Busting common separation and divorce myths
We chat with Rebecca Dahl, partner at Nicholes Family Lawyers, about 10 common family law myths.
True or false?
If you leave the family home, you'll lose your share in the property.
If you're still living together, you can't be separated.
'I put the money in and so I should get the money back.'
Do you need help sorting family law fact from fiction?
Our 5-minute Q&A can help connect you with experts like Rebecca to guide you through the maze.
For more free separation resources, go to theseparationguide.com.au.
Read more about Rebecca and Nicholes Family Lawyers.