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Marie Beecham
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Apr 18, 2023 • 13min

45. How to Actually Be A Peacemaker (And Not Just a Peacekeeper)

Are you really a peacemaker, or do you just "keep the peace"? In this episode, you'll learn the key differences between a peacekeeper and a peacemaker. I'll talk through how to overcome whatever is holding you back from really making a difference.Your listen next list:This Is Why You Don’t Speak Up (And How to Actually Start) on Apple & SpotifyWe Need to Talk About Whitesplaining on Apple & SpotifyAll The Stuff No One Ever Taught You About Dr. King on Apple & SpotifyTo support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.
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Apr 13, 2023 • 15min

44. What White People Need to Know About Code Switching

Why is code switching nearly impossible for white people to notice? Why do Black people code switch? What should we do about it?Your listen next list:Why Colorism Is Just As Serious As Racism on Apple & SpotifyIs It Racially Insensitive or Racist? Apathy or Hate? on Apple & SpotifyTo support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.
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Apr 11, 2023 • 23min

43. A Candid Talk: How Polarization Prevents Progress

Living in an extremely divided culture can really take a toll on you... so let's lift that burden. I want to help you understand the problem and how to be part of the solution. Let go of fear and frustration so you can actually work toward progress.Mentioned:How to Change Someone’s Mind – The Proven, Best Method on Apple & SpotifyMy Journey to a Better Life and a Bigger Impact on Apple & SpotifyThe Ugly Truth About News Media on Apple & SpotifyTo support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.
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Apr 6, 2023 • 23min

42. What Is Virtue Signaling & How Do You Avoid It?

Virtue signaling (AKA performative activism) is more common than you realize. How do you recognize it? And what are actions you can take to make sure that your efforts are genuine? Mentioned:Do Slogans Get in the Way of Social Progress? on Apple & SpotifyYour listen next list:Tone Policing: Problematic or Reasonable? on Apple & Spotify5 Common Ways White Allies Do More Harm Than Good on Apple & SpotifyTo support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.
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Apr 4, 2023 • 23min

41. We Need to Talk About Whitesplaining

How can we recognize and address whitesplalining? How can white people be involved, vocal allies without being guilty of whitesplaining? What's the characteristic that sets genuine allies apart? This episode is packed with answers and practical, actionable insights.Mentioned:What POC Want Most From Allies on Apple & SpotifyYour listen next list:Should White People Do Diversity Work? on Apple & SpotifyHow You Should Respond to "I Don't See Color" on Apple & SpotifyTo support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.
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Mar 30, 2023 • 29min

40. Why Safe Spaces Are Controversial (And Even Counterproductive)

Affinity groups and safe spaces are increasingly popular. What are they and why are they so important? What are the most common misconceptions? And if they're good, how can they still go wrong?Your listen next list:What Microaggressions Are & Why They’re Controversial on Apple & SpotifyWhy Trigger Warnings Are Controversial (And Even Counterproductive) on Apple & SpotifyImportant Terms You Should Know (That Are Often Misused) on Apple & SpotifyTo support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.
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Mar 28, 2023 • 24min

39. Diversifying in Your Social Circle— the Dos, the Don'ts, and the Data

Let's set the record straight about diversity. We make things actionable, talking through the dos and don'ts of creating a more racially diverse life.Your listen next list:Why Colorism Is Just As Serious As Racism on Apple & SpotifyWhat People of Color Need From Their White Friends Apple & SpotifyMentioned:Critical Race Theory 101: The 5 Basic Ideas You Need to Know on Apple & SpotifyHow to Become Less Prejudiced: The Most Effective, Proven Approach on Apple & SpotifyOn Critical Race Theory: Why It Matters and Why You Should Care by Victor RayTo support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.
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Mar 23, 2023 • 24min

38. Bad Boundaries Ruin Your Antiracism Work (Learn How to Fix Them)

We tend to make boundaries that don't actually serve us or they don't help us serve our cause. I'll explain how to take care of yourself while also being committed to advocacy and something bigger than yourself.Your listen next list:This Is Why You Don’t Speak Up (And How to Actually Start) on Apple & Spotify5 Common Ways White Allies Do More Harm Than Good on Apple & SpotifyInformation on effective boundaries inspired by Dr. Becky Kennedy's work.To support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.
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Mar 21, 2023 • 28min

37. This Is Why You Don't Speak Up (And How To Actually Start)

If you struggle to speak up about social issues, I get it. I'll teach you the mindset shift that changed everything for me. Less fear, less anxiety, less self-silencing. More consistency, more peace, and more control in the conversations that matter most.Mentioned:Tone Policing: Problematic Prejudice or Reasonable Request for Respect? on Apple & SpotifyAntifragility is covered in The Coddling of the American MindYour listen next list:Should White People Do Diversity Work? on Apple & SpotifyHow You Should Respond to "I Don't See Color" on Apple & SpotifyWhat Microaggressions Are & Why They’re Controversial on Apple & SpotifyTo support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.
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Mar 16, 2023 • 29min

36. What POC Want Most From Allies: The Dos, the Don'ts, & the Data

What are the most necessary characteristics that make for a good ally? How can you learn them? And how can we make sure good intentions don't go wrong? Let's learn from the fascinating research that sheds light on what activists actually want from allies.Your listen next list:My Journey to a Better Life and a Bigger Impact on Apple & SpotifyShould White People Do Diversity Work? on Apple & SpotifyHow to Become Less Prejudiced: The Most Effective, Proven Approach on Apple & SpotifySource: Yale, What Activists Want From AlliesTo support Marie and get exclusive resources, head to patreon.com/mariebeech. To learn more about Marie's DEI services, head to mariebeecham.com.

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