A guest named Quan Huynh, who grew up in a violent gang, shares his story of destruction and redemption. Topics include his challenging upbringing, finding acceptance in a criminal group, first arrest, reflecting on his past, rebuilding identity, therapy, self-forgiveness, and his memoir, 'Sparrow in the Razorwire.'

Growing up in a broken home with a loving mother, a woman faces disturbing and routine abuse from her brother, but after it escalates, and the unthinkable happens, the terror never ends. Today's episode featured Amy Chesler. To find out more about her and her story, you can find her book on Working for Justice on Amazon. Amy also has her own podcast, What Came Next, which chronicles in greater depth her experiences with the criminal justice system and the media, as well as other firsthand accounts from survivors and advocates throughout history. You can also find her on Instagram @amybchesler, and on her website amybchesler.com.Working for Justice: https://amzn.to/483m9Ut Amy's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/amybcheslerWhat Came Next on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/whatcamenext_podcastWhat Came Next on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-came-next/id1674051643Listen to exclusive episodes of This is Actually Happening ad-free by joining Wondery+ in the Wondery App, Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Start your free trial by visiting wondery.com/links/this-is-actually-happening/ now.Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva LipkowitzContent/Trigger Warnings: sexual assault of a minor, domestic abuse and violence, graphic bodily injury, alcohol and drug abuse, murder, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappeningTwitter: @TIAHPodcastWebsite: thisisactuallyhappening.comWebsite for Andrew Waits: andrewwaits.comWebsite for Aviva Lipkowitz: avivalipkowitz.com/Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.comIntro Music: "Illabye" – TipperMusic Bed: “Union Flow” - Spuntic ServicesIf you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources:National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A traumatic childhood, including sexual abuse and a brother's suicide attempt, is explored. The speaker reflects on shame, guilt, and the hidden darkness in their seemingly normal family. Finding closure through art therapy and self-forgiveness is highlighted.

Harvey Miller, who had a terrifying encounter in the Hawaiian ocean, discusses growing up in the Midwest, his love for the ocean, and a near-death shark attack. He shares his difficult recovery process, finding purpose through marathon running, and redefining masculinity. Find out more about the podcast on the podcast's website.

Amanda Coggin, a guest on the show, shares her experience of being in a co-dependent relationship and the bewildering decline of her boyfriend. Through her grief and loss, she gains a deeper understanding of generational trauma and the importance of addressing mental wellness. The podcast explores topics of addiction, suicide, and finding hope in the face of death. Amanda also provides resources for those dealing with trauma and adverse childhood experiences.

Agata, a woman who suffered from a severe eating disorder, found hope through the Medical Assistance in Dying program in Canada. She discusses her struggles with bulimia, homelessness, and dental issues. The podcast also explores her childhood experiences of hospitalization and her desire for freedom. Agata shares her acceptance of her condition, her desire to leave a legacy, and her gratitude for the opportunity to rest and achieve her potential.

A man navigates a chaotic upbringing, sports, military, and grueling police work, but pursues a dark reckoning. Topics include domestic abuse, police brutality, war, and drug use. The speaker reflects on disillusionment, struggles in law enforcement, and losing touch with the self. They also recount a transformative journey with ayahuasca and explore self-love and the search for validation. Expressing frustration with the system, the guest hopes for a day of pushing back.

Ann Kronlage, a survivor of a critical and violent home life, shares her experiences of suffering a freak electrocution and the shocking impact it had on her and her family. She discusses complex family dynamics, emotional repression, a terrifying car accident, and the journey of confronting pain, finding strength, and discovering a new identity.

A bullied woman struggles with toxic relationships and moves into a haunted house, experiencing paranormal encounters and feeling hunted. She eventually seeks therapy to address her PTSD and finds healing.

Guest Mev Chubet, growing up in a strict Persian-Indian-American family, shares her journey of rebellion, unexpected connections, and ultimately leaving her family for love. She reflects on the transformative impact of her decision and the importance of making your own choices.