
Winsome Conviction
A podcast for learning how to deepen convictions without dividing communities. Tune in for insight from Tim Muehlhoff and Rick Langer on how to cultivate understanding, civility, and compassion in disagreement.
Latest episodes

Nov 7, 2022 • 22min
The Call to Civility, Part 1
Can we think about civility from a distinctly Christian perspective? American theologian philosopher Richard Mouw joins the podcast to explore this question with Tim and Rick. Dr. Mouw has been thinking about civility and helping religious and political parties engage in civil discourse for over 40 years, and he sits down to share stories and insights gained. The conversation ranges over the biblical mandate to be civil, the difference between gentleness and civility, and how to keep things civil during disagreement. This is part 1 of a 2-part conversation with Dr. Richard Mouw on civility.Show notes and a full transcript are available.

Oct 24, 2022 • 19min
Civility Matters with Andrew Sullivan, Part 2
Tim and Rick resume the conversation with Andrew Sullivan on civility and its vital role in a healthy democracy. In this episode, Andrew reflects on the quality of generosity in many Americans, a bright spot in dark times of the argument culture; the discussion then turns to the topic of cancel culture where Andrew candidly shares his experience of being cancelled; and they round out the discussion on two ideas for practicing civility – the method of the dialectic and a lesson from Britain’s House of Commons. This is part 2 of a 2-part conversation with Andrew Sullivan on civility.Show notes and a full transcript are available at: https://www.biola.edu/blogs/winsome-conviction/2022/episode-56-civility-matters-with-andrew-sullivan-part-2

Oct 10, 2022 • 18min
Civility Matters with Andrew Sullivan, Part 1
Civility is a requirement for a healthy republic. But we seem to be losing faith in civility, and people are confused on what civility involves and when to be civil. Andrew Sullivan joins the podcast to speak with Tim and Rick on a range of social issues that bear on civility. In this episode, they discuss the danger of labels and the importance of humanizing others before mining the secret of a health democracy. This is part 1 of a 2-part conversation with Andrew Sullivan on civility. Show notes and a full transcript are available at: https://www.biola.edu/blogs/winsome-conviction/2022/episode-55-civility-matters-with-andrew-sullivan-part-1

Sep 26, 2022 • 33min
Silence and Civility, Part 2
Tim resumes the discussion with Stephanie Bennett (PhD) on her new book, “Silence, Civility, and Sanity: Hope for Humanity in a Digital Age.” They take a deeper look at silence as a set of practices for counteracting unhealthy and uncivil discourse. Dr. Bennett unpacks two types of silence - contemplative silence and ontological silence - to help us reclaim civil communication and healthy public conversation. They round out the conversation discussing Dr. Bennett’s trilogy of novels, “Within the Walls,” where she employs fiction to explore the future of digital media and relational sustainability. This is part 2 of a 2-part discussion with Dr. Stephanie Bennett on silence and civility. Show notes and a full transcript are available at: https://www.biola.edu/blogs/winsome-conviction/2022/episode-54-silence-and-civility-part-2

Sep 12, 2022 • 33min
Silence and Civility, Part 1
Stephanie Bennett (PhD) joins Tim to discuss her new book, “Silence, Civility, and Sanity: Hope for Humanity in a Digital Age.” In this episode, they discuss features of the fallout from digital culture on our communication, including the dangers of immediacy, the prevalence of noise, and other dynamics in our speech that prevent or erode healthy, meaningful, and civil dialogue. They begin to explore practices involving silence, including a media fast, as one antidote. This is part 1 of a 2-part discussion with Dr. Stephanie Bennett on silence and civility. Show notes and a full transcript are available at: https://www.biola.edu/blogs/winsome-conviction/2022/episode-53-silence-and-civility-part-1

Aug 29, 2022 • 37min
On Contempt with Arthur Brooks
Arthur C. Brooks (PhD) joins the podcast to talk about our culture of contempt and how it is contributing to the polarization in America today. What is contempt? How is it different from anger? And how does contempt affect us and our relationships? Do the social sciences and the Bible provide insight on the pitfalls of contempt and how to steer clear from danger? Tim and Arthur discuss these questions and more today on the podcast. They also unpack the importance of choosing to love one another as a vital corrective to the culture of contempt and provide ways we can begin to put these ideas into practice.Show notes and a full transcript are available at: https://www.biola.edu/blogs/winsome-conviction/2022/episode-52-on-contempt-with-arthur-brooks

Aug 15, 2022 • 30min
That Impressed Me, Part 2
Tim and Rick continue going back through the archive of episodes on the podcast and highlight ideas, practices and moments with guests that stand out. In this episode, they discuss Shane Hurley's grassroots approach to helping people talk about race (Episode 13, Mar 1, 2021); Russell Moore on issues polarizing the generations in the Church (Episode 38, Feb 14, 2022); Theon Hill on what to do when people don't want to listen to what you have to say (Episodes 34-35, beginning on Dec 20, 2021); and variations of upbringings with the Reverend James White (Episodes 7-8, beginning Dec 14, 2020). This is part 2 of a 2-part conversation.Show notes and a full transcript are available at: https://www.biola.edu/blogs/winsome-conviction/2022/episode-51-that-impressed-me-part-2

Aug 1, 2022 • 27min
That Impressed Me, Part 1
To celebrate the 50th episode, Tim and Rick reflect on previous episodes on the podcast and highlight ideas, practices and moments with guests that have left a lasting impression. On this episode, they discuss the argument culture; David French on the dangers of like-mindedness (Episode 5, Nov. 16, 2020); Julia Wood on navigating the complexities of movements and theories (Episode 16-17, beginning on April 12, 2021); and Gregg Ten Elshof on getting curious when it comes to shame (Episodes 39-41, beginning on Feb 28, 2022). This is part 1 of a 2-part conversation.Show notes and a full transcript are available at: https://www.biola.edu/blogs/winsome-conviction/2022/episode-50-that-impressed-me-part-1

Jul 18, 2022 • 39min
Talking About Race, Part 2
Tim and Isaac Adams resume the conversation on race and discuss practical insights and advice for the Church when we talk about race. They draw from a fictional shooting in Isaac's book, Talking About Race, to explore ideas and practices for developing biblical conviction and faithful engagement with racial tensions and problems. The conversation also touches on systemic or structural racism, the centrality of forgiveness, and the relational newness we ought to demonstrate as a result of the new life in Christ. There are no quick fixes, but there is wisdom we can readily put into practice. This is part 2 of a 2-part conversation on race with Isaac Adams.Show notes and a full transcript are available at: https://www.biola.edu/blogs/winsome-conviction/2022/episode-49-talking-about-race-part-2

Jul 4, 2022 • 29min
Talking About Race, Part 1
It's hard to talk about race, so we're looking to Isaac Adams for help. Isaac Adams is the lead pastor of Ironside City Church in Birmingham, Alabama, and he recently wrote a book on race for Christians. Tim speaks with Isaac about the origins of the book, the significance of narrative, the wisdom in listening and the importance of mutual engagement, and why God's Word should be the light that illuminates our conversations on race and racism. This is part 1 of a 2-part conversation on race with Isaac Adams.Show notes and a full transcript are available at: https://www.biola.edu/blogs/winsome-conviction/2022/episode-48-talking-about-race-part-1