SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

“Life should not be as hard as we make it sometimes. Go with the flow of the universe and work in tune with things, and you will be better off.“ Episode Summary: Born with a defective leg and bedridden for long periods of time, Susan Miller overcame great odds to become a best-selling author and world-renowned astrologer. She is the founder of Astrology Zone, where she publishes monthly horoscopes. She is internationally read and has launched an award-winning app. In this episode, she talks about the importance of timing in our lives and how astrology gives us insights into the people around us. She also shares with us her productivity techniques and a recipe for success.  Some Questions I Ask: What kept you going through difficult times? Did you ever feel like giving up? How much of our lives is a direct result of our planets? Can we influence or negotiate with the planets? When it comes to love, how do we know who is compatible with who? Can a date change the tone of an entire relationship? How do you move through your own blocks? What advice would you give your children about life? In This Episode You Will Learn: How astrology works and what it really means for each person. How to become an astrologer - it’s not only a gift - anyone can learn it. The characteristics of the main planets in astrology and how they relate to life on earth. How does love compatibility work with the charts and the planets. Why the position of the planets is important for big events. How to find your individual formula for success.

"Make peace with who you are and who you aren’t. The more you love and accept yourself as you are the less you will seek it from others outside." Episode Summary: There will always be those people who express negative opinions about you. Do you usually pay attention to them? You have no control of what other people think about you. The only control that you have is over yourself, and how you respond. Listen to this episode and find out why learning how to deal with other people’s negative opinions about you is the key to your freedom. Some Questions I Ask: How do you deal with other people’s negative opinions about you? Is the opinion of others important to you? Is there something you can do to change people’s opinion of you? Why do people that don’t really know you express negative opinions about you? In This Episode You Will Learn: How other people’s opinions about you reflect more about themselves than about you. How to take your power back. Why letting go of of other people’s negative opinions of you is important. Why it’s a waste of time spending your energy trying to prove yourself to others.  The best way to respond to someone with negative opinions about you.

"A true winner believes in their dream when they have nothing else to hang on to." A child of a dysfunctional family, divorced, unemployed with the custody of four children, Denis Waitley started writing his all-time best-selling program on self-mastery called “The Psychology Of Winning”, when he felt he was 'losing' in life. In this inspiring episode, the successful author, international speaker, and advisor to both athletes and astronauts explains what sets the winners apart. He also shares his views on success, giving your gifts to the world and the challenges humanity is facing. Some Questions I Ask: What spurred you in your quest? When you were losing, what kept you going? How can someone access and connect with the worthiness inside of them? What are some of the most powerful questions that you have asked yourself? What are you most excited about when you look at the world today and where do you see the most opportunities for humanity? In This Episode You Will Learn: What success means and how to set yourself up to win. How to look at failure as fertilizer. Why people give up on their dreams. What motivation really means and how to access it within yourself. How the time spent with your children is more important than the money spent on them.

"To take back your freedom, you must be willing to take full responsibility for who you are today." Episode Summary: Our parents, whether they were wonderful or awful or anything in between, they have been a great influence in our lives, often more than we realize or give credit for. Listen to this powerful episode about how to deal with difficult parents, learning how to shift your relationship with them to an empowering one, breaking the family cycle of behavior, and setting yourself free. Some Questions I Ask: How do you deal with parents that are challenging? What is your relationship like with your parents? What impact did your parents have on your life? What are the lessons your soul is seeking to learn from your parents? Why did your soul choose your parents? In This Episode You Will Learn: Why you have the perfect parents for your soul's evolution. How to break the family cycle and take your power back. The difference between forgiving and condoning your parents' behavior and actions. The consequences of holding on to anger and resentment. Why your parents owe you nothing. Why you shouldn’t try to change your parents.

"It is a mistake to think that the obstacles to finding love are outside of ourselves." Episode Summary: Katherine Woodward Thomas is a coach trainer, licensed marriage therapist and best-selling author of Calling in “The One:” 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life. In this episode, she shares with us her profound wisdom on how our core beliefs can get in the way of finding love in our life. She explains where these core beliefs come from, how they affect our interactions with ourselves and others, and how to shift them to create happy, healthy relationships. Some Questions I Ask: Is there just one person, one soulmate? What are some of the biggest mistakes people make when it comes to finding love? What are the steps for someone to move away from old dynamics in relationships? Where are you carrying resentment in your life? What was your part in it? What are the stories we tell ourselves? Things You Will Learn: How to learn to love yourself before you can love another. How to become aware of codependent behaviors and how to move through it. How our core beliefs drive the way we run our lives. The ways in which we perpetuate our stories the prevent us from attracting love in our lives. How conflict in a relationship is actually a really good thing. How to shift the belief that we are alone.

“Sometimes it takes a bigger love to allow someone to fall down and stand up on their own.” Episode Summary: It is sometimes tempting to do things for the people we love. It can be a way to express our love. But is it really helping them? We can often end up doing too much for the people we love. Listen to this episode to find out how much is too much help, and if your actions are truly helpful and empowering or a hindrance for your loved ones’ growth and evolution. Some Questions I Ask: Do you want to help people in your life or serve them in their highest? Are you truly empowering people you love or are you enabling them? Is there something you are seeking by being overly responsible for people? How do you need to show up to serve the highest evolution of the people you love? In This Episode You Will Learn: What you are really communicating when you are being over responsible for someone. How helping someone too much can be disempowering for you both. The difference between helping someone and serving their soul. What is the greatest gift you can give someone.

Andrew Harvey, a renowned religious scholar and author of over 30 books, shares his insights on spirituality and the critical state of humanity. He emphasizes the urgency of sacred activism and the need for love and wisdom in action. The conversation explores personal transformation through the 'dark night of the soul,' highlighting it as essential for growth. Harvey also discusses surrendering to divine love and the healing power of compassionate service, encouraging listeners to see crises as opportunities for profound change.

“You attract a partner that reflects to you the aspects of yourself that you most need to heal, love, integrate, and make peace with.” Episode Summary: If your partner cheats on you, it is undoubtedly deeply painful. To feel your heart and trust betrayed is a difficult thing to recover from. So does that automatically mean the end of your relationship? Listen to this powerful episode that can help heal your heart, deepen your relationships and empower you to indeed trust and love again. Some Questions I Ask: If someone cheats, does this mean the end of your relationship? Is this a reoccurring pattern in your relationships?  What is your partner reflecting to you about yourself? What are the lessons to be learned? In This Episode You Will Learn: The important things to consider before making the decision on whether to end your relationship or not. How to move from being a victim to empowering yourself. A way of deepening your relationship with yourself to then transcend your future relationships out of this pattern. The whole purpose of relationship and important steps to take in healing your heart.

“Live your life like this is the last day of your life. Your future is right now, it’s not in the future. Detach from the past. There is only now.” Episode Summary: You are whole, perfect and complete. Yet, society, parents, media might tell you otherwise. Believing this lie is a suffering that causes us to forget who we are. And it's forgetting who we are that causes us to love ourselves conditionally. With humility and an open heart, Toltec master and New York Times best-selling author of The Four Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz, shows us how the journey of life is to remember your innate perfection and love yourself unconditionally.  Some Questions I Ask: How do you find the courage to take a different path? Why do humans suffer all the time and why are we so addicted to perpetuating our suffering? What's the first step to healing ourselves and to loving ourselves unconditionally? What is the mind and how do we manage it and not let it control our lives? What practices can you take to move beyond conditional love and loving yourself fully? In This Episode You Will Learn: Who you really are and how to reconnect with your true essence. The one spiritual practice that is an absolute necessity for your spiritual growth. Why we are so addicted to suffering, and how to give it up. The 1st step you can take to transforming and loving yourself unconditionally. How to change the story of your life, create a new reality, and live with joy.

“A difficult conversation is simply a beautiful opportunity for a breakthrough to more love.” Episode Summary: There are certain moments in life when you know that you need to have a difficult conversation and share a deeper truth. Difficult conversations require more of you. They require that you dig within yourself and access a part of you that might have been dormant. It’s not always easy sharing the truth of how you really feel with another. But it’s essential if you are to grow, be fulfilled and have real relationships. In this short but powerful episode, I share 4 vital keys that will help you navigate a difficult conversation and serve your soul. Some Questions I Ask: What difficult conversations do you need to have? With whom do you need to have a difficult conversation with in your life? Is there an even deeper truth that you still need to communicate? Have you withheld anything as you shared your deepest truth? In This Episode You Will Learn: The 4 vital keys to navigate having a difficult conversation. The real reason we shy away from having a difficult conversation and why it is essential to our development as a human being. The importance of overcoming fear and sharing your deepest truth in your relationships. How to prepare yourself and the other person in effectively having a challenging conversation. The greatest gift you can give yourself and your relationships.