SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

"All mistakes are simply the ego’s misinterpretation of reality." Episode Summary: We’ve all made mistakes at some moment, things we wish we hadn’t done or had done differently. Sometimes we carry the shame or guilt of what we perceive as mistakes, and we beat ourselves up. Take a listen to this episode and learn how to let go of this notion of right and wrong, and discover the profound freedom in realizing you can never make a mistake.   Some Questions I Ask: What is life seeking to unfold and express beyond your ego attachment? What if more happened when you just allowed it to happen? What if life was seeking to give you so much more? What would you do if you couldn’t make a mistake? Where would you go? Who would you speak to? What risks would you take?   In This Episode You Will Learn: What real freedom really means. The definition of ‘making a mistake’. The unexpected benefits of standing still when you don’t know what to do. What to do when things aren’t flowing in life. One key reason to not get attached to any outcome.

“It’s not about becoming enlightened, it’s about living fully engaged and immersed in life.” Episode Summary:  In this powerful episode, Panache Desai, author of “Discovering Your Soul Signature”, shares the secrets to living a balanced, engaged and happy life. He shares deeply touching insights about how to heal emotional wounds and deal with moments of crisis to emerge stronger and more powerful on the other side of it. Some Questions I Ask: What things tend to get in the way of people recognizing who they really are? What is a way to process or move through negative emotions in a healthy way? What can someone who doesn’t like their reality do to shift it? Is it even possible? How do you juggle it all, stay sane and centered? What is your secret?   In This Episode You Will Learn: The difference between conscious and unconscious creation, and the dangers of not addressing the unconscious aspect. How to discern the truth that we feel in a given moment, so that we can sharpen our intuitive capacity. The main obstacle to being all that you are capable of being and how to overcome it.  How to consciously handle your emotions. The true source of your own power.   

"The ability to control and change yourself is actually the greatest power of all." Episode Summary:  We often despair of the behavior of people around us - our parents, friends, children or partner - and we do our best to try and make them change. Unfortunately, forcing people to change doesn’t usually work. Listen to this episode to learn 3 simple keys that will help you bring real and lasting change to the people around you. Some Questions I Ask: Do you often question how others should be living? What does this person mirror to you about yourself? What is this person showing you about yourself that you don’t want to see? That you might be resisting? Have you tried to really listen and understand why someone does what they do?   In This Episode You Will Learn: Three keys to get people to change. The unpleasant effects of trying to attack people to make them change. The first step you need to take in order to get others to shift. How to know when people are ready to change. Why imposing your vision onto others and trying to will them to change is not an effective strategy. 

"The past is gone, it is a memory. The future isn’t here, it’s a vision. The only thing that is real and has power is this moment." Episode Summary: In this episode, Joe Vitale, best-selling author of “The Attractor Factor”, shares how he struggled with poverty and being homeless for over 10 years to becoming a world-famous best-selling author. He talks about the importance of gratitude and the change in mindset needed to believe that anything is possible in your life. Some Questions I Ask How did you get started in this field? What put you on this path? What was the shift that occurred inside of you after 10 years to finally break out of the gravitational pull of poverty? How specific should our intentions and goals be? How much, in your experience, do you feel life is destined? How much do we really control? How do you overcome this need/desire to be liked or other people’s approval and validation and how can the people listening in find that foundation of peace within themselves?   In This Episode You Will Learn The main reason people struggle with money and how to overcome it. The amazing connection between gratitude and abundance. What your self-talk really means and why you should pay attention to it. Two key questions you need to ask yourself to move past your limiting beliefs. An important distinction between surrender and giving up. The difference between stating intentions and setting goals.

"The depth of your sexuality is in direct proportion with the ability and degree to which you allow yourself to express and exchange love." Episode Summary:  Sexuality can often be a delicate and intense subject. For some, it can be a challenging experience, leaving you feeling deeply unsatisfied. But truly great sex will deepen the connection with your partner. Listen to this episode and learn how to view sex as a sacred exchange, letting it become more than a physical experience and becoming a true celebration of the infinite dance of life. Some Questions I Ask What comes to mind when you think of sex? Do you associate sex with shame or guilt? What does it take to truly connect with your partner? Where are you holding on? What are your fears of letting go of control?   In This Episode You Will Learn A soulful definition of sex. The main requirement to experience truly epic sex. 3 levels of intimacy during sex. The unexpected symmetry between your love-making and life-making. 2 keys to deepen your connection with your partner during love-making.  

"If you want to know what your beliefs are, look at your life." Episode Summary:  As the co-creator of the Lefkoe Method, Shelly Lefkoe is an authority on the beliefs that shape our lives. Listen to this interview and learn how beliefs are formed as well as the secret to good parenting. She also talks about how to eliminate the blocks that get in the way of your goals and dreams, keep you stuck in victim mode and stop you from claiming your freedom. Some Questions I Ask What is a limiting belief? How do you define it? Explain what is the line between a belief and being delusional? How do we go about eliminating a belief? What have you seen from those who have a hard time or just refuse to let go of a negative belief?   In This Episode You Will Learn How to become aware of any negative belief you may have. The key difference between a belief and a pattern. The top 5 negative beliefs that get in the way for most of us. The main reason it is harder to create new beliefs than to eliminate old ones. 4 keys to raise happy, vibrant and authentic children.

"The way that you are going to be really turned on and really excited about life is when you are helping others through your passions." Episode Summary: Janet Attwood, best-selling author of “The Passion Test-The Effortless Path to Discovering Your Life Purpose” is an expert on what it takes to live a passionate life. But it wasn’t always so. In this episode, she openly shares how she managed to overcome a broken home, an alcoholic mother and drug abuse problem through meditation. She also talks about the importance of self-love and how to overcome the limiting beliefs that stop us from going after our passion. Some Questions I Ask What was it like to meet someone so enlightened as Maharishi Mahesh and what was your experience of him? What have you observed that stops people, as common denominators, from really living their passions? How can a person start to let go of their limiting beliefs? What is passion? For someone who doesn’t know what their passion is, how can they begin to clarify their passion? If there were 3 key life-lessons for the next generation that you could pass on, what would they be?   In This Episode You Will Learn The definition of enlightenment and the key difference between an enlightened being and the rest of the world. Two questions that will help you find your top 5 passions in life. A common denominator in all processes that help you get rid of your limiting beliefs. 3 steps to finding self-love. The importance of finding your ‘stop word’ in the process of self-love. How to find your self-love mantra.

"What you don’t feel and express in a conscious and healthy way will inevitably end up coming out and expressing in unhealthy ways.“ Episode Summary: Many times in our culture, we are ashamed of our anger. We run away from our anger and suppress it. But that only leads to energy building up inside, and whatever you suppress will get expressed later in toxic ways. Listen to this episode to learn 4 keys to dealing with your anger, letting go of the past and reclaiming your power. Some Questions I Ask What comes up for you when you hear the word anger? What do you imagine? What is your relationship with anger in your life? How often do you allow yourself to feel your anger? Is there some part of you that doesn’t want to let go of the anger? How do you process your anger?   In This Episode You Will Learn The key reasons we learn to disconnect from our anger. The dangers of suppressing your feelings. How anger can be a coping mechanism and the way to overcome it. How to get closure, regardless of your past. The surprising reasons you may have trouble getting over your anger and how to address them.

"We are co-creating with the universe all the time. And the best we can do is be very mindful of the choices that we make knowing that we are contributing to our destiny." Episode Summary: When taking care of others, it is easy to forget to take care of yourself. Listen to this insightful episode as Cheryl Richardson, best-selling author of “Take Time for your Life”, shares how taking care of yourself is a matter of integrity and how a major disappointment in her professional life was the best thing that could have happened to her.  Some Questions I Ask What are the core foundational things that keep people stuck? What’s the first step to start shifting those foundational errors? How do you define success today? How much of life are we in control of? Was there a time when you felt like giving up completely? How did you get though that moment?   In This Episode You Will Learn 3 things everybody needs when they are afraid. The key reason to practice self-care. A practical measurement tool for your journey of self care. How to cultivate faith in your life. What to do with the disappointment of dreams not happening.

"On the path of greatness, everyone is invited, but only a rare few have the courage and the dedication to stay the full course." Episode Summary: In our culture today, we usually want things to happen now! We have all felt at one time or another that life is not moving fast enough. However, all things worthwhile take perseverance and effort. Listen to this episode to learn three powerful reasons to exercise patience while your dream is manifesting. Some Questions I Ask: What challenges are you going through? Do you ever wonder why your dreams aren’t manifesting now? Is it the right time for your dream? Is what you are trying to achieve what you really want? What is your motivation? What is your deepest truth? In This Episode You Will Learn: A powerful reason to not force things to happen. The importance of daily consistency while you wait. The true meaning of delays happening in your life. 3 key reasons to exercise patience. The importance of recognizing the power of timing.