Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

In episode 6 of the Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Herbal Alchemist, Kitchen Wizard, Sex Magician, Mescalero and traveller on the Poison Path, Joel Camp. Joel is a student of the natural world, its medicines, its magick and its mysteries. I met him several years ago when he was dishing up incredible plant-based food at some of Perth's best restaurants and cafes. He is a good friend of mine and an absolute wizard when it comes to plant medicine. We talked about his journey overcoming sexual function issues with the use of herbs and adaptogens as well as discussed ways in which you can incorporate aphrodisiacs into your sex life. This is an episode about cultivating relationships with natural medicines. Key Points: - Joel's journey overcoming sexual function issues using natural remedies - Joel's recommendations for natural sexual enhancers - Things to be aware of when working with plant medicine - Aphrodisiacs and their qualities - How to integrate aphrodisiacs into your sex life - The erotic nature of food - Practical advice for exploring this area of your sexuality Relevant links: Joel's Instagram: @the_earth.blessings

In episode 5 of the Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Will Blunderfield. He has been teaching yoga throughout Canada, the US and Asia for the last 11 years. He has a degree in Musical Theater from the American Musical & Dramatic Academy of New York (AMDA) as well as a degree in psychology from UBC with a minor in Food, Nutrition & Health. He recently completed a year long kundalini yoga teacher training program in Vancouver and India, Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Facilitator training (program from University of Massachusetts Medical School), and was grateful to study in 2020 with Sexual Kung Fu Taoist Grandmaster himself, Mantak Chia. He performs original Kirtan/Sacred Song in his classes, retreats and workshops and his music is released through Nettwerk Records/Sony. His original music has reached number one on the iTunes world music charts multiple times. This was a great chat about how using sound, yoga, and nudity can heal men's sexual insecurities. Key Points: - Will's journey through the music industry - How Will came to teach naked men's yoga - The use of sound to explore and express sexuality - Sexual repression by the dominator system - Circumcision, penis size and body acceptance - The brain and balls connection - Practical tips for male sexual health Relevant links: Instagram - www.intstagram.com/willblunderfield Only Fans - www.onlyfans.com/willblunderfield Podcast - Urban Yogi Podcast Cam's Instagram: www.instagram.com/thecamfraser

In this episode I had a great chat with a very good friend of mine, Tully O'Connor. Tully works as a transformational coach and facilitator. Working primarily with men, Tully has a passion for helping people expand their personal leadership and develop connected, fulfilling relationships. Known for his down-to-earth approach, Tully speaks about complex intimate issues with ease, clarity and humour. His unique ability to hold a deeply present and safe space allows him to facilitate powerful and meaningful transformation in both a 1-1 and group setting. The thing he’s most proud of is his relationship with his wife Kaitlin and being a father to their son. We spoke about leadership, relationships, vulnerability and how what leadership means in a sexual context. Key points: - Tully's story about his career - Framework for a healthy relationship - How to show up in a relationship - Tully's definition of presence - Sexual leadership - Strategies for communication in a relationship - Being aware of the state you're in Relevant links: Instagram: @tullyoconnor Website: www.tullyoconnor.co Podcast: Conscious Locker Room podcast

On episode three, I chat with Kai Schweizer, a sexologist, sexual health educator, and Masters student. He has a specialist interest in trans and gender diverse sexual health, including dyspareunia, contraception, and HIV prevention. Kai is best known for his sexual health education work with queer young people. This is an eye opening conversation as Kai share's some of his personal story, including his gender transition, as well as some valuable insights into models of masculinity.  Key points: - Kai's journey and experiencing transitioning - Alternative models of masculinity - The importance of exposing yourself to diversity - Pleasure and phallocentrism - Sexual scripts and gender roles - Body image as a sexual concern for young men - Sex education and pornography - The future of sex education Relevant Links: Website: www.kaischweizer.com

This was a super informative chat with engineer, author, film maker and life-long student of all things Tantra, Nicolas Spadaccini. He dropped a lot of practical knowledge about male bodies and multiple orgasms. Nic has a refreshingly open way of talking about the not so talked about parts of our sexual bodies. In 2016, he started writing the soon to be released book entitled, "Penises & Vaginas - A Users Manual." It's a hand guide to the basics about our sexual bodies that are often overlooked in our modern world. I really resonate with Nic's approach to sexuality work and always gain valuable insights whenever I chat with him.  Key Points: - Nic's journey becoming a multi-orgasmic man - The role of sex for human survival - Caveman sex and porn - Mystical sex and dogma - Sweet spot sex - The Coolidge Effect - What our sexual body is capable of - Separating ejaculation from orgasm - Three step process to non-ejaculatory orgasms - Preparation, training and game day - Practical advice for male bodies Relevant links: Website - www.cam-fraser.com Instagram - @thecamfraser