

Psych and the City
Sarah
Sex, trauma, and relationship psychotherapist dives into all things relational, sexual, and psychological. A podcast about the under-researched, under-discussed, and misunderstood topics often left unsaid in psychotherapy and sexuality. Through insightful interviews with friends, strangers, and experts in the sexuality and psychology fields, Psych and the City aims to provide scientific and nuanced psychosexual education.
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Dec 16, 2020 • 1h 7min
What is Whorephobia? Talking With Christina Tesoro, LMSW
BONUS EPISODE!
Sarah speaks with Christina Tesoro, LMSW, a writer, sex educator, and therapist, who specializes in sex worker affirming care. Christina's new book, Death to Whorephobia: A Guide to Sex Worker Affirming Care comes out tomorrow, December 17th, the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers.
Christina and Sarah discuss the shortcomings of social work curricula, what whorephobia is, and how it functions in society. Christina speaks to some harmful myths surrounding sex work and the stigma that impacts the lives and care of sex workers again and again.
They discuss the ingrained whorephobia in all of us. Information for Christina's e-book + more can be found here:
https://janistherapy.com
@janis_therapy

Dec 14, 2020 • 1h 14min
The Power of Abuse: Between Partners and Beyond
TW: This episode discusses partner violence and abuse.
Sarah and Angelynn - a therapist and activist with a decade of organizing experience in anti-violence movements, harm reduction advocacy, and economic and racial justice - discuss the ways in which abuse is embedded in culture and the ways it can manifest. This episode covers the type of abuses that can happen on micro- and macro- levels, and everywhere in between. Angelynn and Sarah also discuss the history of the anti-violence movement and the significance of December 17th, the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers.
Resources:
Educational Resources on the Anti-Violence Movement
The Color of Violence, by Angela Davis
The Revolution Starts at Home
Sex Worker's Rights and December 17th Resources
December 17th SWOP
www.swopbehindbars.org/
Organization's Addressing the Intersection of State and Interpersonal Violence
Survived and Punished
Just Detention International
Organizations Addressing the Crisis of Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women
The Coalition to Stop Violence Against Native Women
Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women, USA
It Starts With Us
Native Youth Sexual Health Network
Organization Address Boys and Men impacted by Sexual Violence
1 in 6
Organizations Addressing LGBTQ Partner Abuse
Network La Red
Northwest Network

Dec 7, 2020 • 1h 17min
24/7 Submission With Lina Dune
Sarah and 24/7 collared submissive Lina Dune (@askasub) discuss BDSM as if Sarah was an alien whose first day on earth was this interview. By sharing her personal experience as a submissive, Lina talks the basics of sane and healing BDSM and answers some of the most asked questions surrounding kink. Sarah and Lina discuss psychology, shame, and how we tend to eroticize the forbidden. This episode is for people looking to learn more about kink and anyone who has ever had a feeling about their sexuality. Yes, I mean any feeling at all.

Nov 30, 2020 • 1h 13min
Informed Sex Is Sexy - HIV Care and Prevention
In honor of World AIDS Day, Sarah and PrEP specialist Natalia discuss where the United States has been to where we are now in the fight to end the HIV epidemic. The two discuss the basics of HIV, an abbreviated version of the history, and how to prevent infection. HIV is 100% preventable and manageable, if you have access to information and care. This episode discusses HIV and AIDS from a risk reduction framework.
Resources:
https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics
https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/default.html
https://www.history.com/topics/1980s/history-of-aids

Nov 25, 2020 • 13min
The Triangular Theory of Love
For titillating Tuesday, Sarah discusses a psychological theory about....love. This short but sweet episode is the perfect mix of of history and mystery. Most definitely titillating.

Nov 23, 2020 • 1h 4min
Porn and Politics: It's Not That Radical
Porn performer, director, and trans activist, Chelsea Poe, talks psychological BDSM, ethical porn, and her hopes for the future of the industry. Sarah and Chelsea discuss the progress and aftermath of Chelsea's championing for transwomen and what she's learned after 9+ years as a performer. Find Chelsea on twitter at @chelseapoe666 and on instagram: @fakechelseapoe

Nov 16, 2020 • 1h 15min
Looks Can Be Deceiving: Equity in Sexuality and Disability
Caz and Amber, from the Disability and Sexuality Access Network, and Sarah discuss all the things society assumes (incorrectly) about sex and disability. They talk fetishization, internalized ableism, "helper people," and prove there's always more than meets the eye when it comes to navigating sex, society, and our own assumptions.

Nov 9, 2020 • 55min
Affairs to Remember and the Ones We Forgive
Sarah meets her first Craigslist guest, Mike. They discuss the reasons behind Mike’s repeated infidelities, what it’s like walking in on a parent having an affair, and how Mike’s perspective and treatment of women has changed.

Nov 2, 2020 • 1h 6min
Talking SESTA/FOSTA and antiquated laws with Miami dancer, Simone
Simone is a dancer, a soon-to-be lawyer, and the owner of the page @womenswhork who not only studied law but is living through the very real implications of two newish laws intended to curb trafficking: SESTA/FOSTA. The effects are pretty disastrous.

Oct 28, 2020 • 9min
Titillating Tuesday - Abortions and Poland Protests - You Should Really Care
Sarah's solo snippet for the week. She talks about the new abortion law in Poland that resulted in protests around the country (duh), and the scary stats about abortions in America.


