Dr Tom LaHue, Enneagram

TOM LAHUE
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Jul 25, 2025 • 27min

What Type 6's Hate About 6's

If you're an Enneagram Type 6—or love someone who is—this video dives deep into the inner world of the Loyalist. Type Sixes are known for their loyalty, preparedness, and deep desire for security, but they also face unique internal challenges that can leave them feeling anxious, second-guessing, and stuck in analysis paralysis.In this video, we explore:What Sixes don’t like about being a Type 6Why their minds often feel like a constant war room of “what ifs”The struggle with fear, doubt, and needing reassuranceHow Sixes drive themselves crazy with worst-case scenario thinkingThe hidden strengths and core motivations behind their behaviorWhether you’re trying to better understand yourself or someone close to you, this honest look at the struggles of Enneagram 6s will give you deeper insight and practical encouragement.🔔 Subscribe for more content on the Enneagram, self-awareness, and personal growth.#Enneagram6 #TypeSix #EnneagramSixStruggles #EnneagramTypes #Loyalist #SelfAwareness #EnneagramCoaching #MentalHealth #Overthinking #InnerCritic #PersonalityGrowth #EnneagramBreakdownTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,
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Jul 11, 2025 • 29min

What Type 5's Hate About 5's

In this video, we explore the hidden frustrations and inner struggles of Enneagram Type 5 — the Investigator. While Type 5s are known for their intelligence, independence, and deep thinking, there are unique challenges that come with being a Five.🎯 What do Type 5s hate about being Type 5?🤔 Why do Fives often feel drained by people or misunderstood?💡 How can Fives grow and embrace both their strengths and their struggles?Whether you're a Type 5 yourself or have one in your life, this video will give you powerful insight into what makes Fives tick — and what ticks them off.👉 Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more Enneagram insights, relationship advice, and self-awareness tools.#Enneagram5 #Type5Struggles #EnneagramFives #EnneagramTypes #EnneagramCoaching #SelfAwareness #PersonalityGrowth #EnneagramExplained #IntrovertLife #WhatType5sHateTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,
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Jun 27, 2025 • 32min

What Type 4's Hate About Type 4's

Why do Enneagram Type Fours sometimes struggle with themselves—and with each other? In this video, we explore the unique inner conflicts of the Enneagram 4 personality type. Known as the Individualist or the Romantic, Fours are deeply emotional, self-aware, and driven by a desire to be authentic and unique. But what happens when those traits clash within the same type?Discover what Type 4s secretly dislike about other 4s—and even about themselves. From emotional intensity and envy to the constant search for identity, we unpack the patterns that make Fours both beautifully complex and frustratingly misunderstood.If you're an Enneagram Four, know a Four, or coach/lead others using the Enneagram, this video will give you deeper insight into the challenges and growth path of this powerful type.The emotional struggle of Enneagram 4sWhy Fours may clash with other FoursCommon frustrations within the Type 4 personalityGrowth tips for Type FoursEnneagram self-awareness and relational insight👍 Like, comment, and subscribe for more content on the Enneagram, relationships, and personal growth.#Enneagram4 #EnneagramType4 #EnneagramFours #WhatTypeFoursHate #EnneagramGrowth #EnneagramRelationships #PersonalityTypes #EmotionalHealth #SelfAwareness #EnneagramCoachTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,
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Jun 16, 2025 • 28min

What Type 3's Hate About Type 3's

What’s it really like to be an Enneagram Type Three? In this video, we dive into the inner world of the Achiever—exploring both the strengths and the struggles of being a Type 3. From the drive for success and recognition to the pressure of always having to perform, we talk about what Type Threes love and hate about their Enneagram number. Whether you're a 3 yourself or trying to better understand the Threes in your life, this video will help you connect with the core motivations, fears, and desires of this dynamic and image-conscious type.👉 Discover the core traits of Enneagram 3👉 Learn what motivates and challenges Threes👉 Understand how Type Threes show up in relationships, work, and personal growthIf you’re into personality types, self-awareness, or emotional intelligence, this deep dive into Enneagram Type 3 is for you. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more Enneagram insights and coaching tips!#EnneagramType3 #EnneagramThree #Enneagram3 #EnneagramCoach #SelfAwareness #PersonalityTypes #PersonalGrowth #AchieverType #EnneagramBreakdown #TomLaHueTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees, including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,
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May 16, 2025 • 30min

What Type 2's Hate About Type Twos

What’s Great About Being a Type 2 | What’s Hard About Being a Type 2 – The Helper ExplainedIn this video, we explore what it’s like to be an Enneagram Type 2 – the Helper. If you're a Type Two or love someone who is, this video will walk you through both the strengths and struggles of this deeply compassionate and relationship-driven personality type.✅ What do Type Twos love about being a 2?❌ What’s difficult about being a 2?From their generosity and emotional intuition to their people-pleasing tendencies and difficulty setting boundaries, this honest and insightful breakdown will help you better understand the inner world of Type 2s on the Enneagram.Whether you're learning more about yourself, deepening a relationship, or growing in emotional awareness, this video is for you!📌 Keywords: Enneagram Type 2, Enneagram 2 traits, Type Two struggles, Enneagram helper, Enneagram self-awareness, emotional health, people-pleasing, personal growth, Christian Enneagram coach, Dr. Tom LaHue🔔 Subscribe for more Enneagram content, relationship advice, and self-discovery tools.Visit www.tomlahue.com to sign up for coaching, take a class, or deepen your Enneagram journey.#Enneagram2 #EnneagramType2 #TheHelper #EnneagramGrowth #TomLaHue #SelfAwareness #EmotionalHealth #PeoplePleasing #ChristianEnneagram #EnneagramCoachTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,
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May 12, 2025 • 25min

What Type 1's Hate About Type Ones

🔧 What Type Ones Hate About Type Ones | Enneagram Type 1 ExplainedIn this video, we’re diving deep into the inner world of the Enneagram Type One—the Reformer or Perfectionist. What’s it really like to be a One? What do Type Ones secretly hate about their own personality? And why does that famous inner critic make life so exhausting?If you’ve ever felt like nothing you do is ever “good enough,” this one’s for you. We’ll unpack what Type Ones love about themselves (like integrity, responsibility, and high standards)—and what makes being a One so hard (like constant guilt, frustration, and perfectionism).Whether you are a Type One or love someone who is, this honest look will help you understand the beauty and the burden of being a One.✨ Watch now to:Understand the strengths and struggles of Type OneLearn how Type Ones self-sabotage and stay stuckDiscover why self-compassion is the key to growth👉 Don’t forget to like, comment your type, and subscribe for the rest of the Enneagram series!#Enneagram #EnneagramType1 #TypeOne #PersonalityTypes #SelfGrowth #InnerCritic #Perfectionist #EnneagramMadeEasy #EnneagramCoachTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,
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May 9, 2025 • 5min

Feeling Alone In Your Life, You're Not!

Feeling alone in your struggles? You’re not. And you were never meant to do this life alone.In this video, we’re exposing one of the biggest lies we believe in hard times — that no one understands or cares. The truth is, support is closer than you think. There are people who care, resources that can help, and communities that will stand with you.If you’ve been carrying the weight by yourself, it’s time to build your support system. We’ll talk about:✅ Why isolation is a trap✅ How to find safe, like-minded people✅ Faith-based encouragement for building strong relationships✅ Books, podcasts, and groups that can help✅ Why you don’t need perfect people — you need supportive ones📌 Don’t stay silent. Don’t stay stuck. You’re not alone — and you never have been.➡️ Drop a comment below if this message spoke to you or share it with someone who needs hope today.#YouAreNotAlone #FaithInHardTimes #SupportSystem #MentalHealth #FindYourTribe #ChristianMotivation #RelationshipHealing #Encouragement #EmotionalSupport #HopeInStruggle #SelfHelp #EnneagramCoachTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,
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May 8, 2025 • 16min

Enneagram Type 7, The Power Of Enthusiasm

Enneagram Type 7, often called The Enthusiast, brings energy, joy, and a zest for life wherever they go. But where does that enthusiasm come from? And what’s really going on beneath the surface? In this video, we dive deep into the core motivation of Type 7s—why they chase new experiences, avoid pain, and constantly seek what’s next. Whether you're a Type 7, love a 7, or coach 7s, this breakdown will help you understand their infectious energy and how it can be both a gift and a growth opportunity.✨ Keywords: Enneagram Type 7, Enthusiast, Personality Types, Self-Awareness, Personal Growth, Avoidance, Positivity, Coaching Enneagram 7🔔 Subscribe for more Enneagram insights, relationship tips, and personal growth content.Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,
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May 8, 2025 • 11min

Shift Your Focus, Change Your Life

Are you stuck in negative thinking? Feel like life is unfair and nothing ever changes?In this video, we’re talking about the power of focus—because what you focus on grows. If you constantly think about what’s wrong, how hard life is, and how far you still have to go… that mindset will keep you stuck. But the good news? You have the power to shift your focus—and change your life.We'll walk through:✅ Why your focus determines your feelings✅ How negative thoughts create mental prisons✅ 3 practical steps to shift your mindset todayWhether you’re dealing with stress, burnout, discouragement, or just feel stuck—this message will help you get unstuck and move forward with hope, clarity, and strength.Keywords: change your mindset, how to stay positive, perspective shift, personal development, growth mindset, Christian life coaching, mental reset, focus on what matters👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more videos on mindset, the Enneagram, and personal growth!Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,
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May 7, 2025 • 9min

Enneagram Type 5: How to Love Them

How to Love an Enneagram Type Five | Relationship Tips for the InvestigatorBeing in a relationship with a Type 5 can feel like trying to access a hidden world—quiet, thoughtful, and deeply private. But once you understand how Fives are wired, you’ll discover a well of loyalty, depth, and wisdom that runs deeper than words.In this video, we explore what it really takes to love a Type Five well.💡 Learn what Fives need in relationships❤️ Discover their core fears and desires🤝 Find practical tips for building connection and trustWhether you’re dating, married to, or close with a Type 5, this guide will help you understand them better and love them with clarity and compassion.👉 Don’t forget to subscribe for more Enneagram insights!#EnneagramFive #LoveAndRelationships #EnneagramRelationships #Type5 #HowToLoveATypeFive #EnneagramWisdom #KnowYourType #EnneagramCoach #EnneagramInsightsTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

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