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Feb 21, 2025 • 1h 17min

E. 65 How To Build Mental Toughness and WIN in Life With Cody McBroom

In this episode, I'm joined by Cody McBroom, founder of Tailored Coaching Method, for an in-depth conversation on the power of choosing hard, overcoming life’s obstacles, and embracing discipline as a tool for personal growth.Cody shares his journey from being an overweight teenager to a successful coach and entrepreneur, detailing the mindset shifts, struggles, and challenges that shaped him. We discuss why choosing the hard path leads to long-term success, the importance of self-discipline, and how athletes, coaches, and everyday people can adopt a resilient mindset.We also explore topics like fitness, business, personal responsibility, and the psychology of self-belief, offering actionable insights for anyone looking to level up in life.Key Takeaways:- Why taking the difficult path leads to the best outcomes.- From an overweight teenager to founding a global coaching business.- The key habits that build confidence & resilience.- How Cody overcame personal struggles, setbacks, and a near-death experience.- The root cause of self-sabotage and how to fix it.- How journaling, mindset shifts, and accountability create lasting change.- The small daily actions that strengthen discipline.- How Cody grew his coaching empire through persistence.- The importance of long-term adherence over short-term perfection.- How to manage high-performance living without burnout.Timestamps:- [00:00 – 02:10] - Cory welcomes Cody and introduces the episode.- [02:11 – 06:10] - Who is Cody McBroom? – His journey from an overweight teenager to coaching leader.- [06:11 – 09:30] - The philosophy behind choosing the difficult path.- [09:31 – 12:45] - Cody’s Early Challenges & Career Beginnings – From self-doubt to fitness coaching success.- [12:46 – 15:30] - Why doing the hard things makes life easier.- [15:31 – 18:20] - How Hardships Build Character – Cody’s personal struggles & overcoming obstacles.- [18:21 – 22:15] - How to reframe pain & struggle into growth opportunities.- [22:16 – 26:30] - The key to long-term adherence.- [26:31 – 28:45] - Why people struggle with consistency & how to fix it.- [28:46 – 31:20] - The role of follow-through & commitment.- [31:21 – 34:00] - How discipline & small wins create confidence.- [34:01 – 37:00] - Cody’s insights on building a coaching empire.- [37:01 – 39:30] - How to pursue excellence without burnout.- [39:31 – 42:18] - Cody’s Near-Death Experience & How It Shaped Him – A turning point in his mindset.- [42:19 – 45:12] - Small actions that build resilience.- [45:13 – 49:30] - Why journaling, review, and accountability matter.- [49:31 – 55:00] - How to stop blaming & take control.- [55:01 – 60:00] - How to push past mental & physical barriers.- [60:01 – 65:00] - Lessons from Cody’s experience coaching elite clients.- [65:01 – 70:00] - How discipline translates to success.- [70:01 – 77:00] - Final Takeaways & Advice for Listeners – How to apply these principles to daily life.Links & Resources:Follow Cody on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/codymcbroom/?hl=enWork With Cody: https://www.tailored-coaching.com/apply-cody-instagramListen to The "Choose Hard" Podcast: https://tailoredcoachingmethod.com/choose-hard-podcast-links/https://coryfit.com/⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultationFor more content, follow along:⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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Feb 17, 2025 • 41min

E. 64 Meal Plans vs Macros: Which Is Superior?

In this episode, I break down one of the most common nutrition questions I get from clients and consultations: Should you follow a structured meal plan or a macro-based flexible dieting approach? I dive into the key differences between meal plans and macro tracking, the spectrum of dietary rigidity, and how to choose the right nutrition approach based on your lifestyle, adherence levels, and personal preferences. I also discuss common mistakes with both methods and introduce a hybrid approach that balances structure and flexibility for long-term success. Whether you're a competitive athlete, fitness enthusiast, or just someone trying to improve your diet, this episode provides valuable insights on choosing the best approach for YOU. Key Takeaways: - Meal Plans vs. Macro Dieting – Understanding the fundamental differences. - The Spectrum of Dietary Rigidity – How structure can range from flexible to extremely strict. - Who Benefits from Meal Plans? – Why some people thrive on structured nutrition guidance. - Who Benefits from Macro Dieting? – How flexible eating helps people adhere better. - Common Pitfalls in Both Approaches – Why adherence is the most critical factor. - The Importance of Food Decision Confidence – How experience impacts food choices. - How Social Factors & Lifestyle Affect Dieting Success – Adapting nutrition to real life. - Creating a Hybrid Approach – Blending structure & flexibility for long-term success. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 02:10] - Cory introduces the episode and its relevance. - [02:11 – 06:10] - Why This Topic Matters – The most common nutrition question Cory gets. - [06:11 – 09:30] - What is a Meal Plan? – How structured meal plans work and who they help. - [09:31 – 12:45] - What is Macro Dieting? – How flexible dieting allows for more food choices. - [12:46 – 15:30] - How strictness varies within each method. - [15:31 – 18:20] - Why Some People Struggle with Macro Dieting. - [18:21 – 22:15] - The Problem with Overly Strict Meal Plans. - [22:16 – 26:30] - Who Benefits from Meal Plans? - [26:31 – 28:45] - Who Benefits from Macro Tracking? - [28:46 – 31:20] - Why Social & Lifestyle Factors Matter in Dieting – Finding the right fit. - [31:21 – 34:00] - The Hybrid Approach to Nutrition – Combining meal plans & macro tracking. - [34:01 – 37:00] - How to transition from meal plans to flexible dieting. - [37:01 – 39:30] - The importance of long-term adherence. - [39:31 – 41:18] - Final Thoughts & Takeaways – How to choose the best nutrition approach for YOU. Links & Resources: https://coryfit.com/ ⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠ https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠ https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along: ⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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Feb 10, 2025 • 36min

E. 63 The Science of Hunger: Ghrelin, Leptin, and Weight Loss Strategies

In this episode of the "Self Selecting" podcast, I take a deep dive into hunger regulation, satiety, and the hormonal mechanisms behind fat loss and appetite control. This discussion revolves around the roles of ghrelin ("the hunger hormone") and leptin ("the satiety hormone"), exploring how dieting, fasting, stress, and sleep impact these key hormones. I break down the science behind energy balance, metabolism, and how hunger cues are influenced by nutrition, training, and lifestyle factors. I also provide practical strategies for optimizing diet composition, meal timing, and food selection to improve adherence and long-term weight management. Key Takeaways: - How Ghrelin & Leptin Control Hunger & Satiety – Understanding their roles in energy balance and appetite regulation. - The Effects of Dieting on Hormones – Why caloric restriction, fasting, and contest prep can make you feel constantly hungry. - The Impact of Stress & Sleep on Hunger – How cortisol and sleep deprivation increase cravings and hunger signals. - Why High-Protein & High-Fiber Foods Help Satiety – The science behind satiety and meal composition. - Ghrelin & Leptin in Obesity & Physique Sports – How these hormones differ between obese individuals and competitive athletes. - The Satiety Index: Choosing Foods That Keep You Full – Ranking foods based on their hunger-suppressing effects. - Why Carbs Suppress Ghrelin More Than Fats – How different macronutrients impact hunger levels. - Post-Dieting Hunger & Weight Gain – The psychological and physiological reasons why rebounding after fat loss is common. - Strategies to Manage Hunger During Fat Loss – How to optimize your diet, sleep, and stress management for better adherence. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 02:10] - Cory welcomes listeners and introduces the episode topic. - [02:11 – 06:10] - The importance of ghrelin & leptin in dieting & weight management. - [06:11 – 09:30] - How Hunger Hormones Function: Ghrelin increases hunger, leptin signals satiety. - [09:31 – 12:45] - The physiological effects of caloric restriction. - [12:46 – 15:30] - How Stress & Poor Sleep Increase Hunger. - [15:31 – 18:20] - Why Hunger Becomes Dysregulated in Contest Prep. - [18:21 – 22:15] - Leptin Resistance in Obesity vs. Fat Loss Phases: How body fat levels influence satiety & metabolism. - [22:16 – 26:30] - Why rapid weight gain after dieting is common. - [26:31 – 28:45] - The differences between resistance training & cardio on appetite regulation. - [28:46 – 31:20] - Ranking foods based on their ability to suppress appetite. - [31:21 – 34:00] - Why Carbs Suppress Hunger Better Than Fats: Understanding how macronutrients impact satiety. - [34:01 – 35:48] - Final Thoughts & Takeaways: The best strategies for managing hunger & diet adherence. Links & Resources: https://coryfit.com/ Coaching: Let's Chat⁠ https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min Consults: Book a Call⁠ https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along: ⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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Feb 7, 2025 • 1h 16min

E. 62 The Truth About PEDs and Female Hormonal Health With Nick Bagley

In this episode of the "Self Selecting" podcast, I sit down with Nick Bagley, a Dallas-based personal trainer and online coach, to discuss the standards of coaching, client adherence, and effective communication in the fitness industry. We explore the importance of setting boundaries with clients, managing expectations in bodybuilding, and how to achieve optimal results without excessive measures. Nick shares insights into his coaching philosophy, why he refuses to treat female athletes like "small men," and the importance of hormonal health in competitive bodybuilding. We also discuss the misconceptions around PED use, the challenges of client accountability, and how to filter through unnecessary client communication to focus on what truly matters in training and nutrition. This episode is a must-listen for aspiring coaches, athletes, and anyone interested in the realities of competitive bodybuilding. Key Takeaways: - Coaching Standards: How to set clear expectations with clients. - Client Boundaries: Why coaches should establish communication limits. - Adherence & Accountability: The key to achieving consistent results. - Hormonal Health in Female Athletes: Understanding menstrual cycles and contest prep. - PED Misconceptions: Why more drugs don’t always mean better results. - Cheat Meals & Flexible Dieting: When and how to incorporate them. - Client Communication: How to balance personal and professional discussions. - The Business of Coaching: How to scale without losing quality. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 03:02] - Cory and Nick open the episode and discuss their recent illnesses. - [03:03 – 07:02] - Nick Bagley's coaching background and experience in Dallas. - [07:03 – 12:10] - The role of networking in fitness. - [12:11 – 17:05] - The importance of client adherence and standards. - [17:06 – 20:55] - Setting Boundaries with Clients: Why coaches should limit personal involvement. - [20:56 – 26:37] - Handling Client Check-Ins: Filtering out unnecessary details for efficiency. - [26:38 – 31:44] - Training Hard vs. Making Excuses: The mindset shift needed for real progress. - [31:45 – 35:12] - How untracked meals can derail progress. - [35:13 – 39:07] - The Science of Weight Fluctuations: Why tracking is more than just calories. - [39:08 – 43:58] - PED Use in Bodybuilding: The dangers of excessive use & client misconceptions. - [43:59 – 48:52] - The Importance of Female Hormonal Health: Why menstrual cycles matter in training. - [48:53 – 54:10] - When Contest Prep Goes Wrong: Understanding individual athlete responses. - [54:11 – 59:33] - The biggest differences in coaching men vs women. - [59:34 – 1:04:50] - Why adherence matters more than anything. - [1:04:51 – 1:10:38] - Scaling a client roster while maintaining quality. - [1:10:39 – 1:16:00] - Wrap-up and closing thoughts. Links & Resources: Follow Nick on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nick_bagley_/?hl=en Work With Nick: https://www.thelonghaulfitness.com/new-client-form https://coryfit.com/ ⁠Coaching: Let's Chat⁠ https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min ⁠Consults: Book a Call⁠ https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along: ⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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Feb 3, 2025 • 44min

E. 61 5 Questions to Ask Yourself If You're Not Losing Weight

In this episode of the Self Selecting Podcast, I dive deep into why many people experience slow progress in their fitness journey, particularly in fat loss and muscle-building phases. I discuss common pitfalls, including misaligned expectations, lack of adherence, and ineffective coaching strategies. Through real client examples and practical insights, I provide actionable steps to help listeners assess their progress and make meaningful changes. Key Takeaways: - Understanding Why Progress Feels Slow – Misconceptions about effort vs. results. - The Role of Adherence – Following a plan consistently is crucial for progress. - Common Coaching Mistakes – How misguidance can stall results. - Dietary Flexibility – How to balance structured eating with real life. - The Importance of Self-Inventory – Questions to ask when progress stalls. - Training Effort vs. Expectations – Are you working hard enough? - Managing Challenges & Setbacks – How to stay committed despite difficulties. Timestamps: - [00:00 – 00:09] - Cory introduces the episode. - [00:10 – 00:24] - Why progress feels slow and people expect results faster than reality. - [00:25 – 00:54] - The problem with focusing on the wrong fitness metrics. - [00:55 – 01:48] - Biggest mistakes in fat loss and muscle gain. - [01:49 – 02:51] - A real-life client story: A woman struggling with slow results and poor coaching. - [02:52 – 04:09] - The role of adherence – The missing factor in fitness plateaus. - [04:10 – 05:40] - How to make untracked meals work for you. - [05:41 – 07:02] - 600-calorie diets & weight loss myths – Breaking down extreme dieting. - [07:03 – 08:22] - Are you really in a deficit? – The truth about tracking and consistency. - [08:23 – 09:38] - Self-audit for slow progress - Key questions to ask yourself. - [09:39 – 12:10] - Practical tips for eating at restaurants. - [12:11 – 14:15] - How to make travel and fitness work. - [14:16 – 17:05] - Competing vs. lifestyle fitness – Understanding different levels of commitment. - [17:06 – 20:08] - How much sacrifice is necessary? – Setting realistic priorities for fitness goals. - [20:09 – 23:55] - The psychology of adherence – Are you truly putting in the effort? - [23:56 – 26:37] - What your results say about your effort. - [26:38 – 29:44] - Balancing work, school, and training. - [29:45 – 31:27] - Common training mistakes – Why just “getting through” a workout isn’t enough. - [31:28 – 35:12] - How to push through tough times. - [35:13 – 39:07] - Personal struggles & real-life resilience. - [39:08 – 43:58] - Final thoughts & staying committed – Why emotional resilience matters in fitness. If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe. Links & Resources: https://coryfit.com/ Coaching: Let's Chat⁠ https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/15min Consults: Book a Call⁠ https://calendly.com/coryfit-coaching/one-time-consultation For more content, follow along: ⁠Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/cory_fit/ ⁠Patreon⁠: https://patreon.com/CoryFit?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
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Jan 27, 2025 • 36min

E. 60 How To Break Fat Loss Stalls

Discover why your fat loss might be stalling despite your best efforts. Dive into the impact of glucose management and insulin sensitivity on weight loss. Learn how thyroid function and stress levels affect your metabolism. Explore the role of estrogen imbalances in fat distribution. Get actionable tips to enhance your metabolic health and overcome hurdles on your fitness journey. Whether you're an athlete or a wellness warrior, this guide offers valuable insights to optimize your fat loss strategies.
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Jan 24, 2025 • 56min

E. 59 Brittni Shae: The Keys To Longevity in Bodybuilding

Brittni Shae, a seasoned bikini competitor, coach, and mother, shares her inspiring journey in the world of bodybuilding. She reflects on balancing her dual life as a therapist and competitor while discussing the evolution of competition aesthetics. Brittni emphasizes the importance of self-coaching, dietary strategies, and maintaining hormonal health for sustainable success. She also delves into the mental challenges of competition prep, the role of community feedback, and the significance of embracing one's unique bodybuilding journey.
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Jan 20, 2025 • 42min

E. 58 What REALLY Matters For Building Muscle and Losing Fat

Dive into the essentials of muscle building and fat loss by discovering key strategies for prioritizing fitness goals, especially during the holidays. Learn the power of frameworks like the Eisenhower Matrix to break down your tasks effectively. The discussion emphasizes the need to eliminate distractions, particularly the impact of social media on progress. With actionable advice for setting realistic expectations, listeners gain insight on commitment phases and the importance of accountability in their fitness journeys.
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Jan 13, 2025 • 1h 2min

E. 57 How Your Thyroid Impacts Your Weight

Dive into the vital role of thyroid health and its influence on weight loss and athletic performance. Discover how T3 and T4 hormones balance affects your metabolism. Explore the connections between thyroid function and gut health, plus the impact of stress and nutrient deficiencies. Learn about autoimmune conditions like Hashimoto’s and Graves’ disease. Get practical strategies for optimizing thyroid health, whether you're a seasoned athlete or on a personal fitness journey.
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Jan 10, 2025 • 1h 24min

E. 56 Austin Current: Mastering Strength Training and Longevity

Austin Current, a fitness expert and educator, shares his inspiring journey from a young weightlifter to a professional bodybuilder. He discusses how personalized coaching is essential for client success, emphasizing strategies for fatigue management and recovery. Austin highlights the balance between strength gains and orthopedic health, advocating for a flexible approach to training. His mantra, "Live to train another day," reinforces the importance of longevity in fitness, making this conversation a treasure trove for enthusiasts and trainers alike.

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