

Reconcilable Differences
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John Siracusa and Merlin Mann try to figure out exactly how they got this way. Hosted by Merlin Mann and John Siracusa.
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Apr 17, 2022 • 1h 44min
180: I’m Doing a Lot of Stuff with Computers Right Now
Your hosts dive into some recent features introduced by Plex—several of which would seem to scratch some of the itches brought up in their recent streaming media discussions.
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Links and Show Notes: In follow-up, John has corrections for himself, but Merlin says he knew what John meant. Errors are so much easier to identify once everybody else has had a chance to see them too.
In further follow-up, both the listeners and John have some advice for Merlin on programmatically scooting Git files around on his Mac.
This week's mini-topic involves some crossover with Do By Friday via a consideration of the varying depictions of J.H. Christ in the iconography of different faiths. Merlin admired his church's minimalist design aesthetic, but John recalls a parishioner at his childhood church espousing strong feelings about getting the man back on the wood where he apparently belongs.
(Recorded on Tuesday, April 5, 2022)
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith, by Anne Lamott "I would like to be paid like a plumber" - Steve Albini Reconcilable Differences #177: I Have Dim Hopes - Relay FMAs a main topic, your hosts dive deep on John's recent post about streaming video apps and a follow-up post about how people feel about the streaming apps they use.
Back to Work Episode 572: My Open Source Thomas Edison FilmDISCUSSED: Big news from Plex
Kiss the Streaming Struggle Goodbye with Plex | PlexSo we started to dream up a rather big dream—a system that unifies all of your subscription services, all of your watchlists, and all of your recommendations into one easy-to-use app.
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Mar 31, 2022 • 1h 57min
179: I Believe in the System…Kind Of
This week, the main topic is John's Main Topic.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with Merlin blowing his nose and John hearing it.
In Follow-Up, John brings us up to speed on his recent adventures in jury duty. Merlin has thoughts on what we can infer from a drug tester who keeps sipping meth from the big control jug.
Next, John is (yet—further) trolled by the jackals who make announcements about their future TVs. Merlin wonders if maybe John should just learn to weld.
(Recorded on Tuesday, March 22, 2022)
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. The Talk Show ✪: Ep. 172, With Special Guest Merlin MannMerlin Mann returns to the show to discuss the election, by which I mean we mostly talk around the election. I hope we never do another show again with such heavy hearts, but whatever you think about this election, I think you’ll like this show.
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Mar 19, 2022 • 1h 27min
178: Ill-Advised Fashion Muse
John finally presents an authentic Italian-American's take on the "doing Italian food wrong" meme.
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Links and Show Notes: In follow-up, John continues to be trolled by the announcements of television makers, and Merlin clarifies which Blu-ray box he recommends. Also, Merlin has nice things to say about the Peacock app.
Merlin wonders about locating the line between personal preference and natural law.
Next up, Merlin needs John's Tech Support for a Git question And, finally, your hosts reflect on their podcast marriage.
(Recorded on Tuesday, March 8, 2022)
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. John continues to be trolled by TV makers - YouTube Merlin’s Snell-Approved ASUS Bluray with MakeMKV-friendly firmware What is LibreDrive? Lutron Aurora smart bulb dimmer Reconcilable Differences #45: The Blood is Normal, Right? Downstream podcast Big Night "Italian Chef Reacts" example video - YouTube Timbale …that's a paddlin' The Mother of All Demos - YouTube Steve Jobs at WWDC 1997 You’re doing Italian food all wrong, say Italians | YouGovA new international YouGov survey identifies 11 ‘food crimes’ committed against Italian cuisine by the rest of the world.

Mar 5, 2022 • 2h 7min
177: I Have Dim Hopes
Your hosts dive deep on John's recent post about streaming video apps and a follow-up post about how people feel about the streaming apps they use.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with a withering review of presentations by children.
Follow-up covers TV pricing updates alongside John's complicated entertainment-stack needs.
(Recorded on Tuesday, February 22, 2022)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Sony 2022 TV price rumors. - YouTube John's potential TV stand John's potential blu-ray player with a fan Forum post explaining how to make the fan quieter on the blu-ray player John's receiver that's not currently in stock anywhere John's second-choice receiver Merlin's blu-ray player, still for sale Oppo blu-ray players Reavon blu-ray player 1997 SONY TRINITRON, Videoscope TV, DSS, WebTV Maximum Television commercial from 25 years ago SONY - YouTube"We call it…maximum television."
Hypercritical: An Unsolicited Streaming App SpecAgain, these are not frills. These are the bare-bones basics.
Hypercritical: Streaming App SentimentsNevertheless, for posterity, here’s how people are feeling about the streaming video apps they use.
ATP #470: Computers Can Do Things Merlin's spreadsheet for rating streaming apps

Feb 19, 2022 • 1h 40min
176: The Curse of Convenience
Your hosts dive deep on "spaces."
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Links and Show Notes: Merlin apologizes about the links last week, but John saves the day by picking up the tabs.
Follow-up covers listener feedback on CRI and what Gmail's little envelope means. Gmail Keyboard Shortcuts are extolled. John has an update on his Ongoing Appliance Rebellion but has nothing new to share on his Ongoing Toe Rebellion.
The places where we live, work, hoard, purge, and hang up just so, so many coats. Can there be a taxonomy of spaces that helps us better pursue the lives we'd like to have?
Merlin thinks your spaces should be a willing partner (rather than a bossy adversary), while John sees benefits in giving your desk a fresh start (via a fresh attitude).
Is it weird to take advice from someone who's terrible at something, or is that maybe sometimes the best teacher you could hope for? Merlin contorts John's "Empathy for the Machine" to make a broader point about what can qualify as a machine.
(Recorded on Tuesday, February 8, 2022)
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Feb 5, 2022 • 1h 48min
175: One Giant Mountain
John has important updates on his body.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with your hosts not quite talking about John's scanning project, but it quickly turns into a dive into tiny on-screen targets, DRM that prevents screenshots, and why, oh, why don't streaming services make things easier to share?
In follow-up, Merlin shares his new enthusiasm for the powerful combination of Git and Visual Studio Code. John expresses disappointment that Merlin still hasn't renamed his hard drive.
(Recorded on Tuesday, January 25, 2022)
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. GitHub Desktop GitFinder - git client with Finder integration Visual Studio Code Extensions for Visual Studio family of products Merlin's discussion of spaces on Back to Work Episode 555 Merlin's Wisdom Project The Great British Baking Show, Derry Girls holiday episode Reconcilable Differences #143: The Shape of Time Git Tower Mac app

Jan 21, 2022 • 1h 26min
174: Cardamom & Turmeric
John tells us why Sony is breaking his heart and making his journey to buying a new television more difficult than it needs to be.
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Links and Show Notes: After some discussion of the pre-flight and Merlin's problematic meal, there's a surprising amount of donut-related content, including identifying the unexpected challenges of running a successful Donut Friday. Merlin has some thoughts on the perils of cute ordering.
In follow-up, John highlights some helpful listener responses on LED bulbs. Man, light sure can be complicated.
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. This Is the Best-Tasting Donut at Dunkin'I'd argue it's the perfect donut, especially if you're a chocolate lover.
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Jan 6, 2022 • 1h 41min
173: The Chicken Project
This week's main topic concerns Merlin's Wisdom Project.
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Links and Show Notes: John opens with a question, and Merlin admits to thinking about John in the morning. This leads to some U2 content and quick look at Disney's Encanto.
In follow-up, John shares some updates on his freezer situation and implies that he still plans to talk about his body soon.
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. A Sort of Homecoming The Unforgettable Fire (Album) The Unforgettable Fire (Song) Rattle and Hum Encanto Merlin's Wisdom Project (Gist) Merlin's Wisdom Project (Repo) 5ives - Merlin's Lists of Five Things John's Hypercritical article with the image of a stern Steve Jobs Joni Mitchell - "Talk To Me" (1977) - YouTube"I'm always talking… / Chicken squawking!"
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Dec 24, 2021 • 1h 51min
172: First, Make a Hole
Your hosts discuss John’s new freezer.
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Links and Show Notes: Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Dec 10, 2021 • 1h 33min
171: Time Off
Merlin finally took a real vacation.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with Merlin's ongoing confusion about the role of the pre-flight.
Merlin thinks John is being kind of terse, and John almost quotes what The Wolf said—and, yet, he somehow remembers exactly what model of car The Wolf drove.
Then, there's a fair amount of talk about old Apple keyboards. Merlin abuses his relationship with John to get some tech support.
In follow-up, John takes an unprecedented third crack at explaining security through obscurity. John can't even imagine ever sharing his screen, and Merlin bemoans the normalization of terrible security practices. In something like the opposite of nostalgia, your hosts remember their "college ID numbers."
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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