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John Siracusa and Merlin Mann try to figure out exactly how they got this way. Hosted by Merlin Mann and John Siracusa.
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Feb 25, 2016 • 1h 34min
20: Stove Vigilance
This week's main topic is 'trust your mechanic'. How to survive working with the experts who diagnose and fix your problems. John's not a Dead Kennedys fan, and Merlin's just so irrationally mad about the state of his oven.
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Links and Show Notes: This week, John and Merlin kick things off with a discussion of the Sturm und Drang around dealing with kids’ homework. Things continue with a mostly spoiler-free discussion of The Leftovers.
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Feb 11, 2016 • 1h 59min
19: Four Toes
This week, John and Merlin talk about the value of exposing yourself to new or uncomfortable ideas, before moving on to their main topic: how and when to recommend things to other people.
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Links and Show Notes: This week, John and Merlin start out by talking about the value of exposing yourself to new or uncomfortable ideas (and how it can be difficult).
Following a tuneful diversion on their favorite music as kids, the boys jump into the main topic: how and when to recommend things to other people.
What's right and for whom? How do you distinguish the "best" versus your "favorite" as against "the best place to start?"
Why Merlin goes conservative and John is reluctant to recommend things at all. Also: who's right for The Flop House, and how do they score Scorsese, R.E.M., U2, and Wes Anderson?
(Recorded February 2, 2016)
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Jan 28, 2016 • 1h 52min
18: It's Devastating
The primary topic this week is names and naming. Merlin struggles in vain to pronounce John's name to his satisfaction, John reveals his middle name, and the boys dive deep on the lore, reality, and complexities of how both people get their names.
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Links and Show Notes: This week, John ruthlessly critiques Merlin's Google Docs style, followed by a tentative announcement about how listeners can help support the show.
The primary topic this week is names and naming. Merlin struggles in vain to pronounce John's name to his satisfaction, John reveals his middle name, and the boys dive deep on the lore, reality, and complexities of how both people and stuff get their names. Apologies to Daenerys, BETH!, Liz, and Jeh-NIGH-fur.
Finally, Merlin reveals that his family has acquired a PS4 that he doesn't really understand very well and that has been used mainly to repeatedly enter passwords and decorate a makebelieve Disney house. John scolds Merlin for half-heartedly starting Journey.
(Recorded January 5, 2016)
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. spacejam.com John Siracusa on Twitter: "The only acceptable alternate pronunciation of my last name, as demonstrated by @viticci http://t.co/ANVCh1Lt From http://t.co/SSgdcbdZ" Viticci properly pronounces "John Siracusa" Last Exit to Springfield - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Cassandra Nova - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia LEGO Ideas LEGO Ideas - Blog - Interview with Angus MacLane of WALL•E Membership - Relay FM Canvas - Relay FM Primer (2004) - IMDb October - Origin and Meaning of the name October at BabyNames.com The Straight Dope: Why is Peggy the nickname for Margaret? The Incomparable | Fake Jedi Boy (Episode 278) Unjustly Maligned - a podcast from The Incomparable Star Wars™ Battlefront Disney Infinity Tearaway Unfolded The Last Of Us Journey Blue Umbrella - Pixar Short Film Child of Light Brothers - a Tale of Two Sons The Incomparable | Grieving for My Left Thumb (Episode 165) Suros ARI-41 with Hidden Hand and Perfect Balance : CruciblePlaybook People Are Playing The Glamour Shot Game And The Results Are Magnificent Apostle (Christian) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Merry Christmas | kung fu grippeMerle's brother, with crossbow.
The Harlem Globetrotters on Gilligan's Island - Wikipedia, the free encyclopediaIn the original series, the Howells are childless.
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My "Star Wars: The Force Awakens" Podcast Playlist (with image, tweets) · tvaziri · Storify"Here's a list of five, lovely podcasts that talked about our little, obscure independent film."
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Jan 14, 2016 • 2h 13min
17: Don’t Touch the Banana
After a discussion about The Game, which Merlin has finally watched all the way through, the boys tackle the topic of jobs. They discuss what they did or didn't learn from them, and how their younger work lives shaped their future employment choices.
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Links and Show Notes: This week, John critiques Merlin's online editing skills, which leads to a discussion of coding conventions. Merlin, in turn, critiques John's propensity to murder a joke by telling it in weird bullets.
Next up, we learn that Merlin has (finally) watched The Game all the way through, which leads to a spoiler-heavy dive into this terrific 1997 David Fincher film. (Note: Please listen for the spoiler horn, then skip from 00:16:21 through 00:40:47 if you haven't watched the movie yet.)
Finally, the boys tackle the topic of jobs. First jobs, early jobs, what they did or didn't learn from them, and how their younger work lives shaped their later future employment choices.
(Episode recorded December 15, 2015)
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Tears in rain monologue - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia The Monkey Hose Experiment The Game (1997) - IMDb The shot from the end of the movie (SPOILERS) Charles Martinet - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Daniel Schorr - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Mandee | Careers Minimum Wage Rates, 1955–present Larry Miller quotes Southaven County Park The Game (1997) - Quotes - IMDb"I got this key out of a mouth of this... wooden clown."
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Mark Boone Junior - IMDb Yazoo - Don't Go (1982) - YouTube The dog's name was Maggie Film locations for The Game (1997)

Dec 17, 2015 • 2h 6min
16: Ancient Bird
John probes Merlin about why exactly he’s so interested in remembering and recording his whackadoodle dreams. We learn, for example, that Permiso delivers 3 to 5 surprises per day.
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Links and Show Notes: This week, John and Merlin start out by exploring the challenges of sleep and AppleTV.
Finally, Merlin interrogates John about why he dislikes and avoids scary movies.
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Dec 3, 2015 • 1h 54min
15: Emotional Swimsuit Season
This week, your hosts cover TV buying decisions, the legacy of Star Wars, thoughts on holidays, and how to not end up raising Dudley Dursley.
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Links and Show Notes
Yorkshire dialect - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Monty Python - Four Yorkshiremen - Youtube The Four Yorkshiremen Sketch - Youtube The John Siracusa Paper Doll - David Galletly - Art, Illustration & Design Accidental Tech Podcast: 145: Lasers and Pew-Pew and Space Aliens Reconcilable Differences - David Galletly - Art, Illustration & Design Hypercritical: John Siracusa - David Galletly - Art, Illustration & Design Over the Garden Wall (miniseries) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia The Making of Star Wars: The Definitive Story Behind the Original Film: Amazon.com The Making of Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back: Amazon.com The Making of Star Wars: Return of the Jedi: Amazon.com Dudley Dursley - Harry Potter Wiki - Wikia

Nov 19, 2015 • 1h 53min
14: Children's Shoes
This time out, John and Merlin start with a consideration of parenting advice and (surprise) the Star Wars prequels.
Then, the wardrobe is opened for a discussion of clothing. What your hosts choose to wear and why...
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Links and Show Notes: Merlin encourages listeners to give John a virtual makeover.
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Three Ring Binder Tickets, San Francisco | Eventbrite How to eat out with kids in SF without driving other diners crazy - SFGate Reviews & Age Ratings - Best Movies, Books, Apps, Games for Kids Dying ‘Star Wars’ Fan Gets to See ‘The Force Awakens’ Early Todd Vaziri (@tvaziri) | Twitter References to Star Wars (Franchise) | The Incomparable Merlin’s Awkward Hair Odyssey | Flickr - Photo Sharing! Harry & Hermione | kung fu grippe Ultimate Fakebook - Far Far Away - YouTubeGeorge Lucas, is the Force with us?
Will it save us from heartbreak in 1998?

Nov 5, 2015 • 2h 36min
13: The Mickey Suit
This episode, John and Merlin have a spirited debate on netspeak and emoji talk (🤕👹😭), then address the Wonderful World of Disney (World), including what makes it great and what keeps it relevant.
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Links and Show Notes Radio Zork - The Flop House Wiki - Wikia SubEthaEdit - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Sketchnotes'Presentation Cartoons'
43f Podcast: John Gruber & Merlin Mann's Blogging Panel at SxSW | 43 Folders The Omen (1976) - IMDb Supergirl (TV Series 2015– ) - IMDb 30 Rock (TV Series 2006–2013) - IMDb Ramone in Carbonite What is a MagicBand? | Walt Disney World Resort Disney's $1 Billion Bet on a Magical Wristband | WIRED Free to Be... You and Me - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia 5by5 | The Talk Show #57: The Banana WindowOn this special episode recorded while Dan was still on paternity leave, John is joined by guest host Merlin Mann. Merlin and John discuss Vegas, Disney, Pixar and more!
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Oct 22, 2015 • 2h 40min
12: Hobbit Tendencies
The centerpiece of the episode is a lot of talk about travel, focused on the myriad reasons your hosts find it so terribly difficult. Observations on helplessness, motion sickness, money, and the titular "Hobbit tendencies" emerge.
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Links and Show Notes: This week kicks off with some further discussion of salad and the video game, Destiny, and then proceeds into some talk about the current TV season and the state of late-night programming.
Things conclude with a meditation on introversion: what it means to have it (or decide that you have it), and what constitutes the super-wide spectrum between social anxieties and the more garden-variety aversion to, say, wearing pants.
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Oct 8, 2015 • 1h 33min
11: Frog Board Room
John ruefully updates us on the stressful state of renovations to his house—and how his quest for quality collides with whatever passes for quote-unquote craftsmanship today.
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Links and Show Notes: This week, the boys return for Season Two.
Things kick off with a clandestine follow-up discussion of evolution based on an unreleased episode of a different podcast. Don't ask.
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