

Be The Husband She Brags About
Kings of Freedom
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
Episodes
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Jan 10, 2022 • 27min
26: 100:100 Is The Only Relationship Approach of Real Kings
The most dysfunctional way of approaching relationships, is seeing them as a 50:50 dance together. The subconscious temptation to hit the escape button into strategies of shaming and blaming is too great to resist, especially in triggered moments of conflict. It takes an uncommonly powerful and masculine direct approach to unlock the uncommon reward of blissful and liberating connection together. Welcome to 100% all in extreme ownership of your shit as you relate with your partner.
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Dec 8, 2021 • 1h 16min
25: The Warrior Way to Ending Inner Pain Forever
Unspoken inner pain has become somewhat of a cultural norm in modern masculinity. Our social conditioning that acknowledging our inner pain is a sign of weakness and failure as a man, has one man per minute globally committing suicide and countless others living in silent inner torment.
Yet, inner pain can be our greatest ally, our spiritual invitation to step into our greatness. When understood and embraced, inner pain becomes the fuel that drives us upwards into living and dying without regret.
Drawing on inspiration from Navy SEAL, Buddhist and martial arts training, we find an approach to pain that reveals an uncommon and potent path to self-liberation available to every man ready to make the Warrior leap!
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Dec 3, 2021 • 1h 3min
24: Your Fearless Freedom Lies Beyond the Embrace of Death
The masculine essence is the search for ultimate embodied freedom. No constraints, no limitations, no BS. Yet, until a man has the courage to embrace the reality of death, no such freedom will ever enter his lived experience.
Embracing death reveals an urgency to engage with warrior intensity and courage in your life leaving no regret behind you as you move forward.
You are invited into a deeply intimate episode where Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher reveals deep insights and reflections from his own personal journey in sharing space with a loved one as they return home to their spiritual essence nearing the end of their physical life.
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Nov 8, 2021 • 1h 10min
23: Every Man Needs a Mission That Scares the Hell Out of Him
The inner hell of suppressed fears and unspoken shame is revealed in the mirror of sickness, old age and death where we cannot escape any longer. You can run but you cannot hide, catches up with every man alive.
The greatest opportunity to living and dying without regret is embracing the great mission you were born to lead, the message you are here to spread, or mark you desire to make in the world. Following the dictates of your heart will however reveal all undealt with fears you have imprisoned in the recesses of your mind.
Yet, man’s greatest freedom lies beyond the gauntlet of his worst inner fears. Kings of Freedom, embrace the storm of inner hell face on, stride forward valiantly into the unknown and exit victorious the far side. Then, tomorrow morning they jump out of bed to start again.
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Sep 20, 2021 • 1h 19min
22: True Kings Seek Out Direct Feminine Feedback from their Queen
There is no escaping the bondage of mediocrity without receiving direct feedback as a man. Powerful men seek and receive direct feedback from their military commander, their CEO, their Black Belt instructor, their fitness or sports coach. Yet, it is only a true King who dares to seek and receive direct, ferocious feedback from his Queen. This episode is a direct masculine challenge to step into true Kingship in your deep intimate relationship with your Queen.
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Aug 31, 2021 • 1h 41min
21: Escaping Pseudo-Authenticity to Becoming your Radically Authentic Self
We have grown up in a society conditioning us to become pseudo-authentic men arguing for our truth when in reality we are mere social sheep unconsciously submitting to external authorities. Authority and Authentic have the same root as AUTHOR. To write your own true magnificent hero's story on your way to living and dying without regret, you must have total clarity on what Radical Authenticity is and how to embody it in an ocean of pseudo-authentic men.

Aug 5, 2021 • 1h 30min
20: From My Cliff Edge of Marriage Breakdown to Fearless Deep Intimacy
The first twelve years of my marriage were characterised by arguments circling around one topic: I wasn't emotionally available as a man. I had no idea what being emotionally available meant, what it was to "feel into my woman" and understand what lay underneath her words. Deep down I felt broken, like emotionality was missing in my nervous system.
It would take me staring down the cliff face of marital breakdown to finally transform my inner world and reawaken my Kingly emotionality and sensitivity.
This episode details my journey, what I've learned, and how you can show up fearlessly in intimacy too.
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Jul 28, 2021 • 1h 9min
19: Professional vs Profound - Modern Kings Must Know this Distinction
In a world that traps us in the role of being professional to climb the career ladder and be accepted within our work culture, men's profound Kingly truth is being eroded. Covering up your profound truth has an enormous cost on limiting your fearless freedom of expression and authenticity. One unspoken cost of becoming hyper professional is that this overly rational state becomes deeply repulsive for your Queen or fellow King in deep intimacy. Let's dig in deeper.....
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Jul 8, 2021 • 1h 21min
18: Mediocre Men have Rituals - Kings Have Habits
The mediocre man has a long list of rituals he does whenever the busyness of his life opens up time to do so.
The King has a short list of high leverage habits he structured his entire life around.
To access your capacity to live and die without regret as a man, you must first understand the distinction between rituals and habit.
Enjoy #1 in special Habit Formation Mastery series.
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Jun 26, 2021 • 1h 10min
17: Unmasking the Feminine Pleasing Mr Nice Guy Shadow Side
One of the most common shadow sides to modern married men is the Mr Nice Guy persona. Continually wanting to please the feminine for fear of feeling rejected by her, he has unwittingly lost contact with his masculine core. As a result he has become untrustworthy to his woman and to other men. So often saying Yes externally when he is suppressing an inner growling No, he ends up harbouring unspoken resentment. Let's begin the unmasking....