

Be The Husband She Brags About
Kings of Freedom
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
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May 3, 2023 • 57min
88: This One Skill Will Have Her WET & YEARNING You!!!
There is one masculine capacity that fires up our women's trust and sexual attraction for us more than any other capacity.
When you learn to master this capacity, she will melt like butter in your hands on the altar of sexual bliss and devotional loving.
Curious to know more?!!! Let's begin....
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Apr 27, 2023 • 1h 36min
87: Navigating Your Queen's Dreaded Time of the Month!
This episode we welcome back my beautiful Queen, Matilde, and her full flame fiery wisdom.
This ended up becoming an extraordinary deep dive into empowering us Heroic Husbands to consciously lead our Queens during their sacred moon cycle, especially in their bleeding phase.
Armed with a list of conscious and high-leverage strategies and perspectives, you will rapidly become the husband she brags about!
Let's begin.....
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Coaching - Heroic Husbands
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I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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Apr 26, 2023 • 1h 19min
86: 3 Steps to Stopping Your Wife's Abuse of You
Enjoy this intense deep dive into reconnecting with your masculine unfuckwithable core strength and find a power of positive influence within an abusive relationship.
It's a no BS, thought provoking perspective that's put forward that will not sit well with the politically correct mainstream views of such a situation. Yet, high conscious extreme ownership has never been mainstream!!! Let's begin....
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Coaching - Heroic Husbands
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I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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Apr 20, 2023 • 1h 10min
85: Setting Strong Boundaries with Boundary-Violating In-laws with Darren Magee
In this episode, we do a deep dive into how to set non-negotiable boundaries with disrespectful in-laws with Darren F Magee.
Darren is a grounded, down to earth therapist with many years experience working with individuals, couples and groups providing counselling in Belfast. Practicing an integrative approach, he draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Person Centred, Psychodynamic and Solution Focused approaches to maximise support for clients.
He has experience working with issues such as trauma, chronic illness, abuse, personality disorder, addiction, obsessive compulsive disorder, depression, anger, anxiety, relationship issues and bereavement.
Darren is author of the book ‘Surviving Other People’s Self Esteem‘.
He has a popular YouTube channel where he discusses topics focusing on relationships, mental health and personality.
Check out more on Darren's work at:
Darren F Magee YouTube channel
Sentient Counselling - Counselling in Belfast
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I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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Apr 19, 2023 • 1h 13min
84: The Great Perceptual Mistake ALL Husbands Make
"Sugar or Shit with your pancakes sir?" asks your waiter.
"Why the hell would I put shit on my pancakes?!!!" you respond with outrage.
Yet, the great perceptual mistake ALL husbands make, has us serving SHIT (our unconscious emotional reactivity and the resulting verbal vomit) into our relationship space every day. And then we wonder why our wife doesn't love us anymore!!!
This episode will go deep into arguably the most important aspect of your Marriage Transformation quest.
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I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode and/or express interest in Heroic Husbands Men's Circles!
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Apr 13, 2023 • 1h 46min
83: The Porn Addiction Recovery Journey Explained with Chris White
Enjoy Part 2 of a two-part porn addiction recovery series with Chris White.
Chris White helps people who are addicted to, or struggle with their use of, porn and sex.
In this episode, Chris explains the essential steps along the road to going beyond porn addiction and it's detrimental effects on self and marriage.
After years spent working on his own recovery, in 2021 he began coaching groups and individuals who are looking for a life free from porn or out of control sexual behaviours, and full of confidence, joy, and satisfaction.
He currently works with Matt Dobscheutz of Porn Free Radio, and has launched his own group coaching practice at www.selfregained.com
Check out his website and work at www.selfregained.com
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Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
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I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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Apr 12, 2023 • 1h 10min
82: How to Stop Your Wife Bringing Up The Past During Arguments
This Q&A special episode is a direct response to an amazing question posed by one courageous Heroic Husband listening in each week.
His voice message went like this:
“Every time my wife and I argue about things, she has to bring up the last ten to twelve things I disappointed her on.
How do I respond to that, and how do I keep her on point for the disagreement we are having?”
Well, this is one version of how an Heroic Husband could respond to bring about maximum positive influence in such a repeated scenario….let’s begin...
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Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
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I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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Apr 6, 2023 • 1h 24min
81: My Recovery Journey Overcoming Porn Addiction with Chris White
Enjoy Part 1 of a two-part porn addiction recovery series with Chris White.
Chris White helps people who are addicted to, or struggle with their use of, porn and sex.
After years spent working on his own recovery, in 2021 he began coaching groups and individuals who are looking for a life free from porn or out of control sexual behaviours, and full of confidence, joy, and satisfaction.
He has studied and practiced a wide range of approaches to moving out of addiction and into health and recovery, and combines that knowledge and experience with genuine compassion, patient listening and witnessing, and intuitive questioning, to help others find their way back to health, wholeness, and integrity.
He believes, as Johann Hari says, that "the opposite of addiction is connection" and that connection, to ourselves and others, both underpins, and evolves through, the journey of recovery.
He currently works with Matt Dobscheutz of Porn Free Radio, and has launched his own group coaching practice at www.selfregained.com
Check out his website and work at www.selfregained.com
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
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Coaching - Heroic Husbands
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Apr 5, 2023 • 47min
80: How Men Must Reclaim Their Masculine Authentic Core
For millennia, men have come into their fullest masculine power with the support of other men.
Only when you have your core needs as the masculine King of your house met by other men, can you have the full strength needed to how space for the fullest power of your Queen to come through.
Her unboxable, untameable, unpredictable, unapologetic highest self needs your core to be rooted to the centre of the earth to hold space for her full fire. This episode points to your most potent avenue to take to becoming such a man.
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
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Mar 31, 2023 • 44min
79: Embracing Marital Intensity as your Path to Self-Mastery
A raw and vulnerable opening up to recent intense marriage shifts I've been experiencing inside myself and then in conversation with my Queen.
Tons of fears and backlash being embraced as I have doubled down my practice of relentlessly expressing my authentic truth in marriage.
The underlying topic that emerges is the radical response-ability we always have as husbands for accepting we are the leading creators of our marriage experience.
Let's begin.....
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
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