Seeing Other People

Vanessa Gordon, CEO of East End Taste Magazine, shares her journey of reentering the dating world after her divorce. From being married for 17 years to discovering casual dating in Europe, Vanessa opens up about her personal growth, challenges, and the newfound freedom of being Vanessa 2.0. She discusses the significant impact of her past relationships on her identity and offers advice for others contemplating major life changes, emphasizing the importance of self-care and being open to new experiences.Book a 1:1 with me at calendly.com/ilanadunn/30min Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, Julie Krafcik and Yue Xu of the Dateable Podcast return to discuss their new book, 'How to Be Dateable.' They delve into the importance of vulnerability, self-knowledge, and authenticity in modern dating, addressing the traps of contemporary dating culture such as the 'settling paradox' and 'relationship chicken.' They emphasize the significance of showing up and being intentional with one's energy in dating, and how true connection can be achieved by leading with curiosity and honesty. The episode highlights practical advice on overcoming common dating pitfalls, maintaining self-growth, and ensuring one's needs are communicated and met within a relationship.Book a 1:1 with me at calendly.com/ilanadunn/30min Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm joined by a woman in her thirties living in a small mountain town, who opens up about her experiences navigating singlehood, repeated heartbreaks, and the complexities of dating in a small town close-knit community. She delves into the impact of infidelity, unrequited love, and emotionally unavailable partners, as well as the challenges of moving on while constantly encountering exes. Despite the struggles, she offers insights on establishing boundaries and pursuing personal growth, advocating for self-awareness and emotional well-being in relationships.Book a 1:1 with me at calendly.com/ilanadunn/30min Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Renee Reina, founder of 'The Mom Room' and host of 'The Mom Room Podcast,' joins the show to discuss the expectations versus reality of marriage and the dynamic shifts in relationships after having children. Drawing from her background in psychology and her experiences as a mother and content creator, Renee offers insights into balancing personal goals with relationship responsibilities, the evolving stages of love, the importance of effective communication and teamwork in partnerships. She shares advice on maintaining a healthy and fulfilling marriage while navigating the challenges of parenthood, how to reconnect with your partner when things feel dull, and more.Book a 1:1 with me at calendly.com/ilanadunn/30min Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A former anonymous Unfiltered guest is back to share her experiences with the importance of self-validation, solo traveling, and the nuances of modern friendships. The guest, who recently lost her job, shares insightful anecdotes on maintaining self-esteem and navigating life amidst singlehood and uncertainty of what lies ahead. We emphasize the significance of meaningful relationships and how to balance personal highs and lows within them.Book a 1:1 with me at calendly.com/ilanadunn/30min Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we sit down with Thais Gibson, an attachment style expert and founder of The Personal Development School. Thais shares her background and how her chaotic childhood inspired her to delve into the world of relationships and attachment styles. She explains the four major attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and their origins and effects on adult relationships. Thais also provides actionable advice on dating, communication, and building trust.Book a 1:1 with me at calendly.com/ilanadunn/30min Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Carli, a former Unfiltered guest, is back to share her recent experience dealing with "the shift" AKA a sudden communication change in the early stages of dating someone new. She shares how she's approached the shift by managing her anxiety, being upfront, and communicating her needs. We share advice on how to approach dating when things start to feel off, and we answer listener questions about making dates feel less like interviews, what to do when they say they need space, and how much someone's physique matters in a relationship. Book a 1:1 with me at calendly.com/ilanadunn/30min Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, we welcome Nicole Pellegrino and Caroline Crawford Patterson, co-hosts of the podcast Honey, We're Home. The conversation covers everything from the unexpected depths of friendships formed in adulthood to the evolving dynamics of long-term relationships. Caroline and Nicole share personal anecdotes about meeting their partners in college, dealing with life's unexpected challenges, and the reality versus expectations of marriage. They also discuss the importance of maintaining personal hobbies, mutual support through difficult times, and the significance of continuously dating your partner. The episode is filled with laughs, heartfelt moments, and practical advice on cultivating meaningful relationships and friendships in your 20s and beyond.Book a 1:1 with me at calendly.com/ilanadunn/30min Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We welcome back Erika Ettin to get her best dating coaching tips. Erika takes us through her journey from tracking her own online dating experiences to becoming a top dating coach and building her thriving business 'A Little Nudge'. We delve into her approach of giving hard truths with kindness, managing dating app messages, and offering effective online dating strategies. We'll explore modern dating challenges, including communication, mindset, and handling rejection. Listener questions guide us through identifying red flags, dealing with the need for validation, and starting to date if you've never been in a serious relationship. Join us as we uncover invaluable tips for dating success and personal growth.Follow Erika @alittlenudge and learn more about working with Erika at alittlenudge.comBook a 1:1 session with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're getting deep for our annual EOY episode. Camila Vola (my fabulous editor and associate producer) interviews me as I reflect on one hell of a year. I open up about what I've struggled with, the challenges I face with my job, and what I wish I could do differently. We talk about the highs and lows of wedding planning, how I've grown and what I've added to my life in 2024 that I'm bringing into next year, and what my goals are moving forward. I share what I would tell my single self and advice for accomplishing your dating goals in 2025.Book a 1:1 session with me here!Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order.  Tackle your toughest days by microdosing with Schedule 35 and get 15% off with code SOP at schedule35.co So, if you’re looking for a thoughtful and practical gift that he’ll actually use and love, The Chairman™ Pro is the way to go! Get 20% off + free shipping on The Chairman & with the code SOP at Manscaped.com Treat yourself and your loved ones to spa-quality skincare essentials that deliver a moisture-rich glow. Use code seeingotherpeople for 15% off at oakessentials.comSpark something uncommon this holiday season and get 15% off the right gifts from Uncommon Goods at uncommongoods.com/sop  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices