Seeing Other People

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a 23-year-old man who shares his dating experiences over the past year. He opens up about putting too much pressure on himself to make potential relationships work out, misreading signs because of how much he wanted the connection to be there, and how overanalyzing and obsessing over someone fuels our anxiety. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick, PhD, LPC to discuss how our upbringing impacts our relationships. Elizabeth teaches us all about relational programming, how the way we grew up impacts who we choose as a partner, how we can move past our traumas to end up in healthy relationships, reprograming negative core beliefs, learning to differentiate what feels like a threat vs. what actually is a threat, understanding your triggers and more.Overcome your dating anxiety just like I did by taking Mindset Wellness CBD's Happy gummy before a date and Calm gummy after! Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping.Jackpocket is the app that let’s you play official state lottery games right on your phone. Go to jackpocket.com and use code PEOPLE at checkout for your first lottery ticket free. Must be 18 or older to play. Jackpocket is not affiliated with any State Lottery. If you or someone you know has a gambling problem and wants help, residents of NY call 1-877-8-HOPE-NY; residents of OR call 1-877-MYLIMIT; all others, call 1-800-GAMBLER. Please visit jackpocket.com/tos for full terms of service.Schedule a 1:1 with me at direct.me/ilanadunnSupport the show by buying me a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/ilana.dunnGet 25% off all Liquid IV products at liquidiv.com with code seeingotherpeople.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a woman from Canada who shares the story of the LDR she was in during COVID while the America/Canada border was semi-closed. We discuss meeting someone who restores your hope in dating, the added pressure that comes with texting someone for a while before meeting, keeping communication strong when you aren’t seeing each other for a while, whether or not it means something when the cadence of texting changes, how the stakes are raised when you’re traveling for dates, and the stress of not knowing when you’ll see them again next, and more.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by writer, producer, actress & model, Emily Ruhl. We discuss sharing your fears and anxieties with the people you’re dating, learning from each heartbreak, loving and hating someone at the same time, and how the length of a relationship does not equal the emotional impact of the relationship. Emily shares her experience dating after addiction, being friends with multiple exes, and how she prioritizes maintaining her independence when in relationships. Check out Emily’s short film Blue Moon here or at publicschoolpictures.com.Get your FREE 1-year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Atheltic Green's AG1. All you have to do is visit https://www.athleticgreens.com/sop– I know you'll love it as much as I do!Overcome your dating anxiety just like I did by taking Mindset Wellness CBD's Happy gummy before a date and Calm gummy after! Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping.Schedule a 1:1 with me at direct.me/ilanadunnSupport the show by buying me a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/ilana.dunnSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm joined by a 23 year old woman in NYC who shares her experience dating within the Jewish community. We discuss being raised Jewish, deciding to pursue relationships with other Jews, and filtering within the community for what we're looking for. She shares date fails and hilarious dating stories, which apps worked and didn't work for her, why she opted to go on shorter first dates, and how she met her current partner. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by Justina and Slavo from the LA-based indie pop duo, Fly By Midnight. They share how they’ve supported each other through different stages of their dating lives, how where they were in their career at different times impacted their ability and desire to pursue serious relationships, and how they’ve made it work with their partners through various stages of their lives and careers. We discuss how everyone has different communication needs, the importance of having difficult conversations, how their personal lives inspire their music, what music has impacted us, and more.Check out their new music on Spotify! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by Mackenzie (24) who hosts the podcast Taste of Blonde. We discuss her breakup from a healthy long-term relationship, how she handled seeing him move on so quickly, getting back out there too soon, self-sabotaging new connections, how her disorganized attachment style plays into her dating life, how family matters can complicate relationships and breakups, and more.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode, I'm joined by my ex Jordan who I dated for six months in the beginning of the pandemic until he ended things, seemingly out of the blue. After not speaking for two years, we recently reconnected when I saw his Instagram post announcing and celebrating that he came out. Jordan and I sit down to discuss his coming out journey, including years of experimenting, moving to a new city where he could fully explore his sexuality, and finally coming out to his friends and family after keeping it a secret for so long. We chat about our relationship and our breakup, how dating me helped him realize that he liked men, the differences in dating men and women on apps, and how it feels to finally be his most authentic self. Overcome your dating anxiety just like I did by taking Mindset Wellness CBD's Happy gummy before a date and Calm gummy after! Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shippingSchedule an Emotional Support Human session or a Dating App Profile Revamp with me at direct.me/ilanadunn25% off liquidiv.com with code seeingotherpeopleSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

UNFILTERED: I’m joined by a woman who thought things were going well with the guy she was seeing until she when saw a Bumble notification pop up on his phone, after establishing they had both deleted the apps. She shares how she approached confronting him, what his explanation was, whether or not she believed him and could trust him, and unfolded from there.Overcome your dating anxiety just like I did by taking Mindset Wellness CBD's Happy gummy before a date and Calm gummy after! Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping.Get 25% off all Liquid IV products at liquidiv.com with code seeingotherpeopleSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by the anonymous founder of @couplesconfessional, an online safe space for relationships, dating, and singles to share stories, ask questions and start related conversations with other followers – anonymously. We discuss what led her to start Couples Confessional, the benefits of getting advice from strangers, what people are struggling with the most in modern dating, and the most relatable and memorable confessions. We hear confessions about struggling to get over someone you never actually dated, feeling like you’re “too much,” and seeing someone who cuts off communication and then comes back, over and over.Submit a confession at couplesconfessional.com/submit-a-confession.Get your FREE 1-year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Atheltic Green's AG1. All you have to do is visit https://www.athleticgreens.com/sop– I know you'll love it as much as I do!Overcome your dating anxiety just like I did by taking Mindset Wellness CBD's Happy gummy before a date and Calm gummy after! Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices