

Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Seeing Other People is your go-to podcast for honest conversations about dating, relationships, and everything in between. Each week features three types of episodes: Cohosts for Life on Mondays, where Ilana and her husband Jake open up about the everyday moments that shape their relationship; Tuesday episodes with impactful guests who help you navigate the complexities of modern dating; and Unfiltered episodes on Thursdays, where anonymous guests share their most raw and relatable experiences. No matter your relationship status, this show is here to help you a little less alone.
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Jul 15, 2024 • 17min
Our Vows
Jake and I got married on June 1, 2024 surrounded by our families and closest friends. I'm so excited to share mine and Jake's vows with our SOP family 🤍PS: Have tissues nearby Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 11, 2024 • 43min
I Got Engaged, Married, and Divorced in 10 Months
I'm joined by a 32-year-old woman who opens up about getting engaged, married, and divorced in less than a year when she was 29. We hear how their relationship unfolded and how things were when they got engaged, along with how she felt throughout the engagement. She shares what her wedding night was like and what happened after that led to the divorce. Finally, we hear about her healing process and what dating has been like as a young divorcee.Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 9, 2024 • 54min
Trusting Your Timeline, Avoiding Situationships & Obsessing Over Crushes with Emily Bonani
Emily Bonani joins us for a hilarious and honest conversation about avoiding situationships, balancing dating while focusing on herself, and what it's like dating at the same time as her mom. We answer listener questions about not obsessing over relationships, how to not seek validation, and more.Follow Emily on Instagram and Tiktok @bananabonaniDon’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 4, 2024 • 48min
"How I Became Securely Attached"
I'm joined by Lok, a 37 year old male living in Boston, Massachusetts. Lok joins the podcast to share his experience going from a disorganized attachment style to secrely attached. He opens up about how at times he felt overly anxious and other times feeling overly avoidant, and what steps he took to work on himself and get to a place where he's confident in who he is and what he has to offer. We discuss the nuances of getting advice from friends, how to find people you can open up to, and overcoming periods of intense anxiety and depression.Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 2, 2024 • 1h 8min
Taking Back Your Life After The Breakup
My friend (and a woman I have looked up to for a literal decade) Kelley Fox joins us for an inspiring conversation on dealing with burnout, overcoming heartbreak, and navigating breakups. She shares her journey of being true to herself, offering insights on dating English men and her personal evolution from being anxiously attached to securely attached. Kelley discusses strategies for managing emotional stress, healing after a breakup, and fostering healthy relationships. Join us as Kelley empowers us to embrace our true selves and navigate life with authenticity and resilience.Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 27, 2024 • 48min
"1000 Invisible Strings"
In this episode, our guest shares a joyful dating journey with her boyfriend that made her believe in the invisible string theory. They recount how growing up in neighboring towns on Long Island and sharing many mutual connections led to their eventual meeting on Hinge in January 2022.Despite numerous past connections, including appearing in the same childhood photo, they never interacted until their fateful match on Hinge. She reflects on the serendipitous timing of their meeting and values the individual growth they both experienced beforehand, believing they met at the perfect time in their lives.Join us as our guest candidly shares her story of love, personal growth, and the invisible strings that brought them together.Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies! Fast and powerful relief is just a quick trip away. Find Claritin D at the pharmacy counter. Ask for Claritin-D at your local pharmacy counter. You don’t even need a prescription! Go to claritin.com right now for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 25, 2024 • 1h 3min
How to Meet Someone IRL with Liv Schreiber
Liv Schreiber, Founder of Hot and Social, joins us for an inspiring conversation on embracing authenticity and living unapologetically. She shares her journey of being true to herself, offering insights on confidently approaching someone in person and recounting the serendipitous moment of meeting her now-boyfriend in an elevator. She discusses strategies for tuning out judgmental noise and staying grounded in who you are, along with practical tips for gaining confidence and maintaining a positive outlook in life and relationships. Join us as Liv empowers us to embrace our true selves and navigate life with authenticity and resilience.Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies! Fast and powerful relief is just a quick trip away. Find Claritin D at the pharmacy counter. Ask for Claritin-D at your local pharmacy counter. You don’t even need a prescription! Go to claritin.com right now for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 20, 2024 • 42min
"My Transcontinental Movie-Worthy Romance"
In this episode, I'm joined by a woman who shares her experience of a transformative long-distance relationship spanning continents between Sweden and the US. She opens up about how they met and started their relationship, the challenges and joys of maintaining a connection across such distances, their journey over three years, and how the relationship eventually came to an end. She also discusses the valuable lessons she learned from this unique experience. Join us as she candidly reflects on love, distance, and personal growth.Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies! Fast and powerful relief is just a quick trip away. Find Claritin D at the pharmacy counter. Ask for Claritin-D at your local pharmacy counter. You don’t even need a prescription! Go to claritin.com right now for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 18, 2024 • 1h 3min
“I Got Cheated On By A Homeless Man”
My friend and fitness instructor extraordinaire, Jill Goodtree, joins the pod today to open up about her multiple experiences getting cheated on and how she bounced back from each of them. Jill shares how she has created a life that she loves and how she would have to meet someone who really adds to her already filled cup in order to move forward with a relationship. We discuss how she and others in her situation are coming to terms with the possiblity that they may not find a life partner, and that they're okay with that. Follow Jill at @jillgoodtree on Instagram and take one of her classes with me at Rumble! Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies! Fast and powerful relief is just a quick trip away. Find Claritin D at the pharmacy counter. Ask for Claritin-D at your local pharmacy counter. You don’t even need a prescription! Go to claritin.com right now for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 13, 2024 • 59min
"All I Wanted Was To Be Wanted"
TW: Sexual assault I'm joined by Rafaella, a 23-year-old who opens up about entering a relationship during a phase of her life where she felt like she wasn't enough for someone to want to be with her. We hear how her insecurities led to unhealthy relationship patterns unfolding, including her being manipulated and emotionally and physically abused. We hear how she lost herself in her relationship, and how leaving the relationship in the emotional state she was in led her down an even darker path until she finally had a wake-up call and took control of her life. Don’t panic, grab panic panties! Check their store locator at panicpanties.com to find them at a CVS near you OR use code SOP for 20% off on panicpanties.com. Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies! Fast and powerful relief is just a quick trip away. Find Claritin D at the pharmacy counter. Ask for Claritin-D at your local pharmacy counter. You don’t even need a prescription! Go to claritin.com right now for a discount so you can Live Claritin Clear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices