Sons of Patriarchy
Peter Bell
What happens when biblical patriarchy, christian nationalism, and a theology of authority and submission become the pillars of a movement? Scores of abuse stories in marriages, schools, churches, families, and more. Though these ideas have filtered throughout the United States for decades, they found a home in Moscow, Idaho, through the ministry and work of Doug Wilson. From there, they have influenced churches across the United States, and across the world. In this series, you'll hear from experts on all aspects of these movements, and the stories of abuse from those who survived. Some are Christian, some are not, but one thing they've got in common? They're finally speaking out. This is their story.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sons-of-patriarchy--6517628/support.
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May 13, 2025 • 1h 9min
Non-Toxic Masculinity
Zachary Wagner, Director of Programs at the Center for Pastor Theologians and author of Non-Toxic Masculinity, dives deep into the complexities of masculinity and purity culture. He shares his personal struggles with marital issues rooted in church teachings and examines how purity culture dehumanizes both women and men. Wagner calls for a redefined masculinity grounded in gentleness and love, urging young men to model Christlike strength while providing encouragement for women to embrace their dignity. His insights challenge traditional church teachings and promote healthier relationships.
May 12, 2025 • 39min
Fear of Women
Carlotta Allen, a dedicated advocate for abused women with an 18-year history at New Covenant Community Church, shares her harrowing experiences with church leadership. She discusses her initial trust in pastoral authority, which crumbled after witnessing their negligence toward domestic abuse. Carlotta exposes the church's alarming pattern of compelling abused women to remain submissive and her own struggles to confront the pastors about their inaction. Her journey culminates in a bold departure from the church, emphasizing the urgent need for accountability and repentance.
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May 9, 2025 • 1h 4min
Rachael Denhollander
Rachael Denhollander, an attorney specializing in abuse dynamics and institutional transformation, sheds light on the vital issue of abuse within faith communities. She discusses her experience as a survivor and advocate, highlighting the systemic challenges in pursuing justice. Rachael calls for a compassionate theological approach to confront gender-based violence and the cycle of shame perpetuated by inadequate education. She also tackles the complexities of homeschooling and the need for accountability in faith-based educational resources.
May 8, 2025 • 2h 47min
Heritage CPC: Part 2
In this thought-provoking discussion, Alexandra Uroslan shares her poignant personal journey through the Heritage CPC and Covenant Presbyterian communities. She unpacks her experiences of spiritual and familial abuse, illustrating how chronic health issues led her to question her family dynamics. Alexandra highlights the contrast between church cultures, recounts her struggles for support from church elders, and critiques the congregation’s priorities. She also provides practical advice for those facing similar challenges, advocating for justice and personal safety.
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May 7, 2025 • 1h 12min
The Roys Report
Join Julie Royce, founder of The Roys Report, as she dives deep into the dark side of church leadership and abuse. With rich experience in journalism, she reflects on her journey to exposing corruption within the evangelical community. Discover the challenges of trauma-informed reporting and the need for a culture shift in the church. Julie discusses the complexities of whistleblowing and calls for accountability among leaders. She advocates for a return to fundamental faith principles, prioritizing servanthood and transparency.
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May 6, 2025 • 1h 2min
A Theology of Politics
Vincent Bacote, a Professor of Theology at Wheaton College, dives deep into the intersection of faith and politics. He discusses the complexities of political theology and the role of Christians in public life, emphasizing humility and collaboration. Bacote emphasizes the necessity of critical engagement with historical theological figures, the dangers of Christian nationalism, and the importance of community love. He advocates for a thoughtful and compassionate approach to social issues, urging listeners to navigate the challenges of civic life with grace.
May 5, 2025 • 1h 6min
Trinity Classical Academy
This episode features a former parent from Trinity Classical Academy, who shares her journey with four children enrolled at the school. She recounts the warmth of the community and the personal sacrifices made. However, shocking revelations of fraud throw loyalty into question. The conversation also dives into the toxic school environment affecting students' well-being and the challenges faced amid the pandemic. Touching on deeper issues of abuse and neglect, she highlights the struggle for justice in faith-based educational settings.
May 1, 2025 • 48min
Heritage CPC: Part 1
Gabrielle Beam, a former member of CPC and Heritage Church, shares her compelling journey from conservative Reformed circles. She highlights the community's positive aspects but reveals troubling norms around gender roles and teachings that tie women's identities to male authority. Gabrielle addresses mishandled abuse cases within the church, sharing personal stories of neglect and pressure on victims. Her insights offer a powerful call for awareness and support for those affected by similar experiences, urging to build external support networks.
Apr 26, 2025 • 49min
Psycho Therapy
Peter Bell, host of the Sons of Patriarchy podcast and researcher on Doug Wilson, shares his insightful journey from church upbringing to confronting patriarchal structures in Christian counseling. He describes the troubling narrative of Mark Driscoll's appeal to young men and how it perpetuates harmful principles. Peter reveals the insular ecosystem of Christ Church, where abuse is often mishandled and minimized. The discussion also highlights the misleading nature of neuthetic counseling, emphasizing scripture as the sole solution for complex issues.
Apr 24, 2025 • 51min
The Gospel for the Abused
This week features a courageous guest, a former member of a PCA church in Dallas, who bravely shares her story of emotional abuse and the church’s inadequate response. She delves into her painful experiences seeking help from church leaders, highlighting their neglect and the isolation it caused her. The discussion sheds light on the urgent need for church communities to empower women and address systemic failures. Ultimately, it’s a heartfelt journey of reclaiming faith and personal connection amidst trauma.
