

The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast
Dr Marianne Trent
🎙️ Essential listening for psychology students, trainees, and early-career professionals who want to build confidence, gain insight, and thrive in their psychology journey.
If you're striving to become a Clinical, Counselling, Forensic, Health, Educational, or Occupational Psychologist - or you’re already qualified and looking for guidance in novel areas - this podcast is for you!
I’m Dr. Marianne Trent, a qualified Clinical Psychologist, author, and creator of The Aspiring Psychologist Membership. When I was working towards my career goals, I longed for insider knowledge, clarity, and reassurance - so I created the podcast I wish I’d had.
Every week, I bring you honest, actionable insights through a mix of solo episodes and expert interviews, covering the topics that matter most:
✅ Building the right experience to stand out in applications
✅ Navigating challenges like imposter syndrome and burnout
✅ Developing clinical skills and understanding different psychology roles
✅ Applying for training courses and succeeding in interviews
✅ Exploring real stories from psychologists at different career stages
This isn’t just a podcast - it’s a support system for anyone pursuing a career in psychology.
💡 Subscribe now and start making your psychology career ambitions a reality.
📚 Explore my books, membership, and more: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent
If you're striving to become a Clinical, Counselling, Forensic, Health, Educational, or Occupational Psychologist - or you’re already qualified and looking for guidance in novel areas - this podcast is for you!
I’m Dr. Marianne Trent, a qualified Clinical Psychologist, author, and creator of The Aspiring Psychologist Membership. When I was working towards my career goals, I longed for insider knowledge, clarity, and reassurance - so I created the podcast I wish I’d had.
Every week, I bring you honest, actionable insights through a mix of solo episodes and expert interviews, covering the topics that matter most:
✅ Building the right experience to stand out in applications
✅ Navigating challenges like imposter syndrome and burnout
✅ Developing clinical skills and understanding different psychology roles
✅ Applying for training courses and succeeding in interviews
✅ Exploring real stories from psychologists at different career stages
This isn’t just a podcast - it’s a support system for anyone pursuing a career in psychology.
💡 Subscribe now and start making your psychology career ambitions a reality.
📚 Explore my books, membership, and more: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent
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Sep 1, 2025 • 46min
The Smartphone Solution: How to Mindfully Introduce Phones to Kids (and Ourselves)
Smartphones are everywhere but how do we know when (and how) to give one to our kids? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent is joined by Dr Martha Deiros Collado to talk about her new book, The Smartphone Solution. Together we explore how to mindfully introduce smartphones to children, set healthy boundaries, and rethink our own relationship with screens.From managing FOMO and group chats to being role models for digital habits, this episode dives into the real challenges families face. You’ll learn practical tips to reduce overstimulation, create phone-free zones, and help kids notice how screens affect their wellbeing.Whether you’re a parent, teacher, psychologist, or just curious about healthier screen use, this conversation will give you insight, reassurance, and tools to feel more in control.⏱️ Highlights & Timestamps:00:00 – Introducing Dr Martha and The Smartphone Solution02:10 – Fear messaging vs reassurance: starting the phone conversation well03:50 – Why we scroll mindlessly and how it costs us time and presence05:34 – Taking control: parents as role models for digital habits06:31 – Peer pressure, FOMO, and the stress of group chats07:27 – Case study: a 13-year-old overwhelmed by 200+ WhatsApp messages daily09:17 – Alternatives to smartphones: why basic mobile phones still matter11:05 – Helping kids notice how screen use impacts emotions and wellbeing12:57 – When “helpful” parental boundaries can backfire15:11 – Why constant connection becomes meaningless “white noise”17:49 – Teaching kids good social skills before digital ones18:34 – The power of voice notes and video calls for real connection21:16 – Rest, overstimulation, and why we need phone-free zones25:20 – The “Tamagotchi effect” of phones demanding constant attention28:20 – Phones at the dinner table: should we be more offended?31:00 – Phone-free zones, alerts, and reclaiming presence at home35:48 – Tiny tweaks for big impact: practical steps for healthier habits39:15 – Publication details: where to get The Smartphone SolutionLinks:📚 Grab Dr Martha's brand new book The Smartphone Solution here: https://amzn.to/4n1Mc5Z 📲 Follow Dr Martha here: https://www.instagram.com/dr.martha.psychologist/🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in future shows head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/podcast and click the blue request info button at the top of the page. Hashtags: #SmartphoneParenting #HealthyScreenTime #DigitalWellbeing #ParentingTips #PsychologyPodcast

Aug 25, 2025 • 12min
What Is Shame? A Psychologist Explains Its Hidden Power
Have you ever had a moment where you felt fundamentally flawed? Like something was wrong with you, not just what you did? That’s the voice of shame. In this solo episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent unpacks what shame really is, how it can quietly shape your mental health, and why naming it is a radical first step toward emotional healing.We explore the psychology of shame, including how it develops in childhood, relationships, culture, trauma, and identity and how it can manifest through perfectionism, people-pleasing, low self-esteem, and burnout. With relatable examples and two fictional case studies (James and Amina), this episode shines a compassionate light on the invisible wounds shame can cause. Whether you're supporting therapy clients or dealing with shame yourself, this episode helps you understand its grip and how to loosen it.📌 Look out for part two coming soon: What to Do About Shame.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Is there something wrong with me?00:50 – What shame is and how it differs from guilt01:48 – Brene Brown’s definition and why shame is often invisible02:20 – Childhood roots: parenting, rejection, trauma, and marginalisation03:46 – A powerful example of body shame and religious upbringing04:51 – How shame hides: people-pleasing, self-criticism, addiction, avoidance05:46 – Case Study: James – heartbreak, masculinity, and silent shame06:38 – Case Study: Amina – failed application and feeling unworthy06:58 – Why shame can fuel anxiety, depression, burnout, and paralysis07:55 – The power of naming shame and exploring whose voice it echoes08:45 – Dr Marianne’s own experiences of shame and overcoming self-doubt09:17 – Next steps: part two on treating shame, membership, and supportLinks:🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in future shows head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/podcast and click the blue request info button at the top of the page. Hashtags: #UnderstandingShame #MentalHealthAwareness #SelfCompassion #PsychologyPodcast #HealingFromShame

Aug 18, 2025 • 23min
What Do I do if I am Heartbroken, Lost my Job or Had & Sudden Shocking News?
When your world turns upside down whether from a breakup, job loss, or sudden life-changing news it can feel impossible to cope. In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent shares essential emotional first aid strategies for managing grief, trauma, and distress after unexpected events.You’ll learn evidence-based techniques to help with overwhelm, anxiety, and shock from grounding and self-soothing to validating big emotions and seeking support. Whether you’re a mental health professional, psychology student, or someone dealing with a difficult time, this episode offers calm, compassionate guidance to help you feel more in control and less alone.Highlights:00:00 – What to do when your world flips upside down01:00 – Why sudden news hits our identity, relationships, and safety02:50 – Common coping strategies that might make things worse04:00 – How to avoid isolation and challenge shame05:00 – Resisting the urge to catastrophise06:00 – The basics of sleep, food, and hydration in a crisis07:30 – Grounding techniques for overwhelm08:30 – Building distress tolerance through breath and presence09:30 – Why moving your body matters more than you think10:40 – Managing sensory overload and reducing stimulation11:30 – How to ask for the support you need12:20 – Finding small wins and regaining control13:30 – Giving yourself permission to grieve14:30 – Safe ways to express sadness and process emotion15:30 – Honouring breakups and supporting children involved16:30 – Mental health crisis support and when to seek help17:30 – How to be the support someone else needs18:30 – Why you won’t feel like this forever19:30 – Tools and resources: The Grief Collective & Tricky Brain KitLinks:🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in future shows head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/podcast and click the blue request info button at the top of the page. Hashtags: #EmotionalFirstAid #BreakupRecovery #CopingWithChange #GriefSupport #AspiringPsychologistPodcast

Aug 11, 2025 • 40min
From Police Officer to Trainee Clinical Psychologist at Age 47
Is it too late to become a clinical psychologist in your 40s or 50s? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent is joined by Claire, a former police officer who medically retired, studied psychology with the Open University, and secured her first NHS Assistant Psychologist role at age 45. At 47, she was offered a place on the Doctorate in Clinical Psychology (DClinPsy) — on her first application.Claire’s journey offers hope and insight for mature students, career changers, and anyone wondering if clinical psychology is still a realistic goal later in life. From overcoming imposter syndrome to balancing parenting and NHS experience, this conversation is full of practical advice and encouragement.Whether you’re early in your journey or returning to education later in life, this episode will remind you: it’s never too late to become a psychologist.🎧 Highlights:00:00 – Introduction02:02 – Claire’s career in the police and what led to change06:34 – Studying psychology with the Open University09:11 – Challenges of being a mature student13:28 – First Assistant Psychologist post at 4515:40 – Working in acute mental health and CAMHS18:55 – Parenting while studying and working in psychology22:46 – Building confidence and self-belief26:19 – Applying for DClinPsy and the interview process29:02 – Reflections on age, readiness, and encouragement32:17 – Claire’s hopes for the future35:05 – Final thoughts: You’re never too late#CareerChangePsychology #MatureStudentJourney #AspiringPsychologist #DClinPsyApplication #NeverTooLateLinks:🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in future shows head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/podcast and click the blue request info button at the top of the page. Hashtags: #aspiringpsychologist #dclinpsy #psychology #assistantpsychologist #psychologycareers #podcast #psychologypodcast #clinicalpsychologist #mentalhealth #traineeclinicalpsychologist #clinicalpsychology #drmariannetrent #mentalhealthprofessional #gettingqualified #mentalhealthprofessionals #traineepwp #mdt #qualifiedpsychologist #traineepsychologist #aspiringpsychologists #wellbeing

Aug 4, 2025 • 45min
No Assistant Psychologist Role? How Job Crafting Can Shape Your Psychology Career
Worried you're falling behind because you haven’t secured an assistant psychologist (AP) role yet? You’re not alone - but don’t panic. In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent explores how job crafting can help you shape a successful psychology career even without a formal AP title.Learn how to adapt your current or future roles to gain relevant clinical experience, boost your psychology CV, and prepare for training or assistant psychologist job applications. Whether you're in support work, education, admin, or healthcare, this episode will empower you to create opportunities, build confidence, and progress on your path to becoming a psychologist.⏱️ Highlights & Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Why we need to talk about job crafting02:18 – What is job crafting and why does it matter for aspiring psychologists?04:40 – You don’t need a psychology job title to build psychological experience07:15 – Real-world examples: from receptionist to AP-level skills09:52 – Spotting psychologically meaningful tasks around you12:34 – How to have empowering conversations with your manager or supervisor14:58 – Being ethical and staying within role boundaries while still growing17:21 – Community stories: creative ways others have job crafted20:07 – When job crafting isn’t enough — how to know when to move on22:45 – Reflecting your job crafting in applications and interviews26:12 – Fighting imposter syndrome when your experience looks different29:40 – Seeking support and community to help you stay the course31:58 – Final thoughts and where to go for further help34:12 – Outro: Your journey still counts, even if it doesn’t look typical#AspiringPsychologist #PsychologyCareers #JobCrafting #AssistantPsychologist #PsychologyExperienceLinks:🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in future shows head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/podcast and click the blue request info button at the top of the page. Hashtags: #aspiringpsychologist #dclinpsy #psychology #assistantpsychologist #psychologycareers #podcast #psychologypodcast #clinicalpsychologist #mentalhealth #traineeclinicalpsychologist #clinicalpsychology #drmariannetrent #mentalhealthprofessional #gettingqualified #mentalhealthprofessionals #traineepwp #mdt #qualifiedpsychologist #traineepsychologist #aspiringpsychologists #wellbeing

Jul 28, 2025 • 20min
Assisted Dying in the UK: A Psychologist’s Perspective on Choice, Suffering & Compassion
Should assisted dying be legal in the UK and what role can psychologists play in this deeply personal, ethical debate? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Dr Marianne Trent shares reflections on end-of-life care, personal experiences of witnessing suffering, and the psychological complexities surrounding assisted dying.You’ll learn about the current legal stance in the UK, the role of moral injury in healthcare, and how psychological professionals can support compassionate, person-centred conversations around death, dying, and autonomy.Whether you're a mental health professional, aspiring psychologist, or someone interested in end-of-life rights and ethics, this episode explores the emotional, systemic, and clinical realities behind one of the most important debates in healthcare today.Related Reading & Watching🕊️ The Grief Collective – Dr Marianne Trent’s book exploring real stories of loss, life, and healing: https://amzn.to/4hNHru5🎙️ Previous episode: Death Anxiety – What It Is, Why It Happens & How Therapy Can Help (with Tia Urgasova) https://youtu.be/yz1GEN-yhQU or https://player.captivate.fm/episode/011a5be0-2468-4fe1-915f-67b6d98fb8c2/Highlights: 00:00 – Marianne shares her father’s end-of-life story05:00 – The need for dignity, choice, and “a good death”08:30 – Reflections on hospice funding and access09:49 – Moral injury and the psychological workforce10:49 – Jeremy Vine’s emotional statement on assisted dying12:00 – The difference between trauma and grief in bereavement13:36 – ACP-UK’s stance on legal reform and clinician voices15:43 – Becoming a thought leader in difficult conversationsLinks:🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in future shows head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/podcast and click the blue request info button at the top of the page. Hashtags: #aspiringpsychologist #dclinpsy #psychology #assistantpsychologist #psychologycareers #podcast #psychologypodcast #clinicalpsychologist #mentalhealth #traineeclinicalpsychologist #clinicalpsychology #drmariannetrent #mentalhealthprofessional #gettingqualified #mentalhealthprofessionals #traineepwp #mdt #qualifiedpsychologist #traineepsychologist #aspiringpsychologists #wellbeing

Jul 21, 2025 • 32min
Death Anxiety: What It Is, Why It Happens & How Therapy Can Help - Thanatophia
Are you struggling with a fear of death or constantly thinking about your own mortality? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent explores death anxiety also known as thanatophobia and why some people experience an intense fear of dying or non-existence.We discuss how childhood experiences, trauma, attachment, and even parenting styles can contribute to anxiety around death. You'll also learn about how therapy can help, including evidence-based approaches like Terror Management Theory, Existential Therapy, and Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT).Whether you’re a mental health professional, a student, or someone experiencing these fears yourself, this episode offers practical insight, psychological understanding, and compassionate support for navigating fear of death. #deathanxiety #thanatophobia Highlights00:00 – Introduction: Why talk about death anxiety?02:03 – What is death anxiety, and how does it present?04:21 – Childhood experiences and early realisations of mortality07:30 – The connection between trauma and fear of death09:52 – Avoidance behaviours and obsessive checking11:40 – Personal reflections: losing loved ones at a young age13:55 – Parenting styles and how they shape our relationship with death16:50 – Death anxiety in OCD, health anxiety, and phobias19:18 – Cultural influences and how we learn to fear death21:00 – When death anxiety spikes: ageing, parenthood, and illness23:43 – The idea of legacy: wanting to leave something behind26:04 – What helps? An overview of therapeutic approaches28:30 – How Compassion-Focused Therapy can soothe existential fear30:14 – What not to say to someone experiencing death anxiety32:10 – Supporting yourself and others through gentle curiosity34:00 – Wrapping up: You’re not alone in feeling this way📚 Book Titles Mentioned and Associated AuthorsThe Hunger Games – Suzanne Collins https://amzn.to/3GCq2aU (Referenced while discussing the newest prequel focusing on Haymitch. https://amzn.to/44rcDvG) The Grief Collective – by Dr Marianne Trent https://amzn.to/40dLqtHLove’s Executioner – Irvin D. Yalom https://amzn.to/3GwE5io (Described as formative reading during clinical training.)Staring at the Sun: Overcoming the Terror of Death – Irvin D. Yalom https://amzn.to/3Ik7igW (Explicitly named as relevant to death anxiety.)A Matter of Death and Life – Irvin D. Yalom and Marilyn Yalom https://amzn.to/4kviGnqThe Gift Of Therapy - Irvin Yalom https://amzn.to/4lRbenX Mentioned in relation to Yalom’s reflections after his wife’s passing.)Links:Dr Marianne Trent (00:00):What if I told you that your fear of death might be quietly shaping your choices, your relationships, even your worldview? In today's episode, we are diving into the psychology of death, anxiety, what it is, how often it crops up, and what happens when it starts to interfere with daily life. Whether you've ever had a passing fear of dying or you find yourself avoiding the topic completely, you're not alone. And the good news, there are always ways to find more peace and to work through this and stick around right to the end because we are sharing a top tip for thinking about your own mortality and helping you to have more control. Hope you find it super useful. If you do, please like and subscribe for more.(00:46):Hi, welcome along to the Aspiring Psychologist Podcast. I am Dr. Marianne, a qualified clinical psychologist. Thank you for being here. And if you are watching on YouTube, please do bear in mind that currently only 11.2% of you are subscribed to the channel. Please do come along and subscribe to my channel, Dr. Marianne Trent, and watch the content, like engage, comment, get involved, because it really does help me to create bigger and better content and to secure bigger and better guests so that you get more from this podcast too. And following a show or subscribing to a YouTube channel really is the kindest thing you can do for any creator that you rate. So if you're not already following the show on your favourite podcast platform, please do. Okay. With no further ado, let's dive in. Meet our guest for today, Tia and I will see you on the other side. Hi Tia, welcome along to the podcast. It's lovely to have you here.Tia Urgasova (01:44):Thank you so much for having me. Hello Marianne and everyone,Dr Marianne Trent (01:48):Thank you for being here. So we are thinking today about where you are right now, which is that you are an end stage trainee clinical psychologist who yesterday completed her Viva and past. Congratulations. And we are thinking about specifically your research today, which is on death anxiety. Is that right?Tia Urgasova (02:11):Yes, that's right.Dr Marianne Trent (02:13):Amazing. So what is death anxiety?Tia Urgasova (02:17):I mean, death anxiety really is the fear or the unease about our own death or the dying process. And this can show up as worry of losing control or the unknown. Most of us don't know what's going to happen after we pass and kind of what happens after life. And it can be a quite common thing as well. Of course some people experience at some point, but we don't really talk about it very much. So that's kind of where the research stemmed from.Dr Marianne Trent (02:45):So we're not necessarily thinking specifically about people who might have a palliative diagnosis or who think that they might not live as long as people around them. We're thinking about the general Dawson's Creek style existential ponderings of our own mortality. Is that right?Tia Urgasova (03:05):That's exactly right, yes. I mean, it's the one thing in life that is inevitable to all of us, and that's exactly what the thesis focused on.Dr Marianne Trent (03:13):Okay, absolutely. Can you tell us a bit more about your thesis then and the Terror Management theory? What is that?Tia Urgasova (03:22):Yeah, of course. So Terror Management Theory is a psychological theory that really tries to explain how we cope with the knowing that we will one day die. And terror management theory states that because we're the only aware animal that's aware of their mortality, it's quite unique and hence the term terror, because if we went through our life day-to-day just thinking about the fact that we will want has cease to exist, that is quite terrifying to think about. But the terror management theory states that basically we'll build up systems to buffer this terror, this fear, this death anxiety that we have. And we do this through systems like our culture, our personal values and relationships that act as buffers in a way. And these buffers give us a sense of meaning. They help us feel secure so that the death anxiety doesn't overwhelm us. It's a bit like having an emotional toolkit for that death awareness.Dr Marianne Trent (04:13):Okay. So terror management theory, TMT, is that something that's your own baby or is that already in the literature?Tia Urgasova (04:22):Oh no, that's been in the literature since I want to say the eighties. It was three social psychologists who came up with this theory and it really started this idea of why do we need self-esteem? And that's kind of what I've already touched upon in terms of these buffers. So self-esteem help us buffer certain difficulties, and one of those difficulties is the awareness that we may one day die. If we are living up to our worldview or our values, then it gives us a sense of meaning that we are life is worthwhile, that we are worthwhile people, and that then buffers that the things I do for self-esteem.Dr Marianne Trent (04:53):Okay, so if things are going wrong and we have high feelings about our own mortality, what might we be seeing in ourselves or perhaps in someone we care about or someone that we work with clinically?Tia Urgasova (05:08):Well, I mean I think a lot of us fear death anyway because it's a big unknown. Our brains try to keep us safe. It's a big don't get eaten machine. So it's normal to have these thoughts pop into our mind or to have reminders day to day. You may see a scene on TV or hear about someone's passing, and that does trigger these thoughts of mortality or reflection on life in ourselves. But normally we are pretty good at buffering those thoughts, like I said, through those mechanisms. But for some people, they may have not had the opportunity to develop the buffers as well as others. For example, this could be from things like early loss, trauma, insecure attachment styles. So a lot of the things that we see in people who also develop mental health difficulties, those early childhood adverse experiences, and when we don't have those buffers or perhaps we manage our mortality in a way that's not productive or not helping us, it can, or the literature at least says that it can definitely lead to an increase in mental health difficulties. The reschedule also states that the anxiety can be a trans diagnostic factor across different mental health disorders,Dr Marianne Trent (06:17):And it does crop up more than you might imagine. So I dunno if you've ever read any of the Hunger Games books, but I'm reading the new one at the moment, the one that was published in 2025, and it's focusing in on Hamit, who in the first Hunger Games is Kane's kind of mentor, but it's focusing in on his story when he was in the Hunger Games. And it's interesting, one of the participants is kind of saying, actually, my hope is that I will die quickly and that my family won't have to watch this protracted, horrific death. And that's almost like hoping for that good death that we sometimes speak about. But obviously in a game show, a good death is perhaps different than the millionaire's death, which I think you've spoken about, which is lying in a bed when you are a hundred surrounded by people that you love.(07:08):That's kind of sometimes thought of as a millionaire's death. And then of course, squid games as well. Squid games is around in our culture currently. I've just literally finished season three yesterday, a bit disappointed actually. But yeah, thinking about people's death and whether that's quite a violent death or whether it's something actually that we hope we will live till our older years, we hope that we will, I guess, hit some of those milestones that are different for each of us, but certainly for many people might include finding a life partner or maybe having children or not having children or starting a business or making a success of your career, making yourself proud, making others proud. There's certain things that we might want to do, some people might want to go on and become a grandparent or just those self-imposed life goals. And is it measuring ourselves up to how well we feel we have or haven't measured up to those goals that leads to us having this terror response?Tia Urgasova (08:22):Yeah, I think you're absolutely right there. So what the research also states, and I think what you've started to describe here, we have different ways of dealing with our mortality and of course we have different worldview. So for example, if we take religion into account, of course that kind of gives us a quite nice framework to work from and sets out if you do certain things, you will have a good life or perhaps you will go to heaven or be reincarnated after life. And then outside of religion, we can also think about these other ways of buffering other anxiety through what we call symbolic or literal immortality and what you've described of having a life partner, having children in a way that kind of buffers the death anxiety because our legacy lives on so we can live on through our children, through our family. So in a way that is a really nice buffer to have. But I think what you are also describing is right in terms of if you value family and closeness relationships in your life and you are finding that you are meeting those values or those goals in your life, then that does increase your self-esteem, or at least that's of the research the literature states.Dr Marianne Trent (09:28):And it is strange, isn't it? I don't think my grandfather would've been ready to die. Is that an okay thing to say? Ready to die 80. He spent his 90th birthday on his shed roof fixing it. So he was very much not what you'd expect for your average 90-year-old. He died when he was 95, but he was so done by then. He was ready. He would say, my wife died, my girlfriend died, all of my friends have died. And in my book, the Grief Collective, Dave, one of the contributors thinks about the tree of life, the family tree. And actually as we grow, rather than looking up for our family connections, we begin to have to look across. But then ultimately that might not be enough either, and we have to start looking down. And even if we don't have our own children, it might be that we're looking down to our nephews or our nieces or our cousin's children. And if being part of a family is important to you, then you almost need to readjust your gaze because I speak to you as the daughter of one living parent, and it does just alter things. And yet I definitely have experienced more of the sideways connections. And it is a very strange existential. Dawson's Creek is for me, my first grounding in existential angst. And it's what I come back to time and time again, which probably isn't a very popular cultural reference these days, but it's a whole process, isn't it?Tia Urgasova (11:16):Yeah, definitely. And I think when we are going through such a big change, perhaps if we lose a close family member, we may need to adjust and think about where I am in life now. How can I meet those if family and relationships are important to do, which for so many of us, they are think about how can I adjust? And actually if you feel like you're not able to adjust, or perhaps as a society we don't really speak about these things, perhaps with family, sometimes we do. Or when there's an event like that that happens, we do speak about it, but not so much day to day. And I think it can be a bit of a shame because where do people need support for that go? And of course therapy is a fantastic opportunity to think about it, but even as clinical psychologists, we're not often trained in how to have these conversations outside of people going through palliative care. And I think that's when the difficulties can come up. If you're trying to adjust, but not having the right support around the adjustment to death and reflecting even on your own mortality, then we can start to mismanage those fears.Dr Marianne Trent (12:22):And actually clinically it might crop up more than we think it does. But if we haven't kept digging, and then what, then especially with OCD, if you keep digging, keep digging, keep digging, keep then and then what you often will get to, well, I worry that I'm going to die and it's going to be horrendous and it will be painful and it will be preventable. And everyone will say, well, you could have done this or should have done that. And so actually, like you said, I think it does crop up, but we haven't always got, like you said, exactly, we haven't got the training or the skills to be able to grapple with that or that it doesn't feel clinical enough. Absolutely. In the services with the access thresholds we have currently, if it's...

Jul 14, 2025 • 38min
Adult Autism Diagnosis: Signs You Might Be Autistic and What the Process Involves
Could you be autistic and not know it? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Dr Marianne Trent is joined by clinical psychologist and autism specialist Dr Katie Adolphus to unpack what adult autism diagnosis really involves.They explore the signs that may be missed in childhood, why women and marginalised groups often go undiagnosed, and what the formal assessment process looks like. You’ll also hear about sensory sensitivities, emotional overwhelm, autistic identity, and how to seek support post-diagnosis.Whether you're an aspiring psychologist, a clinician supporting clients, or exploring your own neurodivergent identity this episode is packed with insight, compassion, and clarity.Highlights: 00:00 – Welcome and introduction to Dr Katie Adolphus02:35 – Why some autistic people go undiagnosed in childhood05:15 – Stereotypes and barriers in accessing diagnosis as an adult08:58 – How autism traits may show up differently in women and marginalised groups11:40 – The emotional process of realising you might be autistic13:50 – What a formal diagnostic assessment for autism involves17:22 – The difference between self-diagnosis and formal diagnosis20:10 – Dr Adolphus’s own experiences with autistic identity24:35 – How sensory sensitivities can manifest in adulthood28:10 – Intersectionality: autism and other neurodivergent conditions31:42 – Workplace challenges and late-diagnosed adults35:15 – What happens after an autism diagnosis38:25 – Misconceptions about autism and ‘functioning labels’41:10 – How allies, friends, and clinicians can offer better support44:45 – Final reflections and how to follow Dr Katie AdolphusLinks:📲 Connect with Dr Katie Adolphus here: http://theadolphuspractice.co.uk https://www.facebook.com/theadolphuspractice🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in future shows head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/podcast and click the blue request info button at the top of the page. Hashtags: #aspiringpsychologist #dclinpsy #psychology #assistantpsychologist #psychologycareers #podcast #psychologypodcast #clinicalpsychologist #mentalhealth #traineeclinicalpsychologist #clinicalpsychology #drmariannetrent #mentalhealthprofessional #gettingqualified #mentalhealthprofessionals #traineepwp #mdt #qualifiedpsychologist #traineepsychologist #aspiringpsychologists #wellbeing

Jul 7, 2025 • 50min
Could It Be ADHD? Understanding Adult Diagnosis & Coaching
Could your distractibility, overwhelm, or forgetfulness be signs of ADHD — even in adulthood? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Dr Marianne Trent is joined by Dr Kara Davey, Clinical Psychologist and ADHD assessor and coach to explore what ADHD can look like in adults, especially those missed in childhood.They discuss common adult ADHD symptoms, how late diagnoses are made, and how ADHD coaching helps with executive functioning, emotional regulation, and self-esteem.This episode also covers ADHD masking, how it differs in women and girls, and why so many people are misunderstood for years. Whether you’re exploring an adult ADHD diagnosis yourself, supporting a loved one, or working with clients, this conversation offers insight, compassion, and practical support.Watch now to learn how ADHD coaching can change lives. #adhd #adultadhd #adhddiagnosis Highlights:00:00 – Introduction: Why adult ADHD is being recognised more02:30 – Kara shares her own adult ADHD diagnosis journey05:15 – Common misconceptions about ADHD (not just hyper boys!)08:40 – What internal hyperactivity looks like in adults11:50 – Missed signs of ADHD in girls and women15:25 – The double bind: masking and burnout18:10 – “I didn’t realise other people weren’t thinking like this…”21:00 – Getting an ADHD diagnosis: NHS vs private routes24:15 – The role of clinical psychologists in ADHD assessments27:40 – Stigma, shame, and late diagnosis in adults31:10 – How ADHD coaching supports emotional wellbeing35:00 – From self-doubt to self-knowledge: the power of reframing38:45 – Compassionate support strategies for clients or loved ones42:30 – What not to say to someone with ADHD45:00 – Final reflections and encouragement for late-diagnosed adultsLinks:📲 Connect with Dr Kara Davey Here: https://linktr.ee/drdaveyADHDcoaching 🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in future shows head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/podcast and click the blue request info button at the top of the page. Hashtags: #aspiringpsychologist #dclinpsy #psychology #assistantpsychologist #psychologycareers #podcast #psychologypodcast #clinicalpsychologist #mentalhealth #traineeclinicalpsychologist #clinicalpsychology #drmariannetrent #mentalhealthprofessional #gettingqualified #mentalhealthprofessionals #traineepwp #mdt #qualifiedpsychologist #traineepsychologist #aspiringpsychologists #wellbeing

Jun 30, 2025 • 33min
HCPC Audit Survival Guide: What Psychologists Need to Know
What happens during an HCPC CPD audit and how do you pass it with confidence? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, clinical psychologist Dr Carly Pointon joins Dr Marianne Trent to explain the CPD audit process for psychologists regulated by the HCPC. Learn what documents to include in your portfolio, how long you have to respond, and what the HCPC is really looking for in your submission.Whether you’re a newly qualified psychologist, in independent practice, or just want to feel audit-ready, this episode offers practical advice, reflection tips, and emotional reassurance.From CPD folders and supervision notes to writing effective reflections and avoiding common mistakes, this guide will help you survive and pass an HCPC audit without the panic. #hcpc #cpd Highlights00:00 – Introduction02:21 – What is an HCPC audit and how common is it?04:20 – Who gets chosen and how are they notified?06:05 – How Carley felt when she was selected for audit07:45 – CPD folders: what’s inside and how to keep track10:30 – Examples of CPD: supervision, podcast learning, conferences13:12 – What the HCPC is looking for in your submission15:50 – How long do you have to prepare and submit?17:25 – Reflective writing tips for CPD evidence19:30 – Can you fail the audit? What happens if you do?21:05 – How Carley organised her submission (and survived!)23:10 – Top tips for staying on top of CPD throughout the year25:15 – Final words of reassurance and encouragementLinks:Connect with Dr Carly: 📲 https://www.facebook.com/PointonPsychology. https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-carly-louise-pointon-35574915a/ 🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0 📖 To check out The Aspiring Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3CP2N97 💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunityLike, Comment, Subscribe & get involved:If you enjoy the podcast, please do subscribe and rate and review episodes. If you'd like to learn how to record and submit your own audio testimonial to be included in future shows head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/podcast and click the blue request info button at the top of the page. Hashtags: #hcpc #cpd #cpdaudit #psychologist #hcpcpsychologist


