The Conversation with Adam Weber

Today’s episode is the second episode in My Mentors series. My guest today is my dear friend and mentor, Bob Merritt - the former Senior Pastor of Eagle Brook Church in Minnesota.  During his 29 years at Eagle Brook, the church expanded from 300 people to 28,000 and grew to 10 locations throughout the Twin Cities metro. He now spends his time helping pastors and speaking at churches.  As a pastor, I have looked to Bob for advice on how to build faith for big things and so much more. The impact he’s had on me and the church I pastor, Embrace, has been incredible and I’m so grateful for his guidance and wisdom. Our conversation covers everything from addressing shortcomings and what to do if you are angry. And Bob shares about the mentor’s he’s had in his own life and gives great advice on how you can find a mentor (and tips for what to do when you find one). Grab a copy of Bob’s book Done With That.  Listen to episode 1 in the My Mentor series here. Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: First Interstate Bank & The Tyler Goff Group  First Interstate Bank has a mission to help people and their money work better together. They do this by ensuring clients can manage their money conveniently wherever they are while also providing the friendly service. They have over 300 locations throughout 14 states! For more information and to find a location near you, visit firstinterstatebank.com Are you on the hunt for a new house? Genuinely look no further. The Tyler Goff Group has a proven process that has transformed the lives of many clients. With the Tyler Goff Group by your side, you're not just buying a house – you're investing in a future home you'll love. To learn more and to contact Tyler or his team, visit tylergoffgroup.com Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with Bob: youtube.com/@adamaweber  Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew

Today I sit down with the amazing John Eldredge - bestselling author, counselor and teacher, who has inspired millions to go deeper with Jesus.  We engage in a heartfelt conversation about the importance of finding peace in God when life feels chaotic (sound familiar?!). My favorite part: John shares super practical tips on how to come home well at the end of a long, exhausting day. He also shares how he personally connects with God throughout the day (and you’ll want to try it too)! Listen in to learn more about how we’re constantly pulled away from faith and how to fight back in small but powerful ways. Grab a copy of Experience Jesus. Really. Check out The Pause App Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: International Justice Mission & Generous Coffee International Justice Mission is a global nonprofit working to end slavery and violence around the world, taking special care of survivors from the moment they’re rescued all the way through their healing and restoration. To learn more and support their mission, visit ijm.org  Generous Coffee sells some of the best coffee in the world AND 100% of profits are donated to nonprofit organizations that are fighting injustice facing humans around the world. You can find out more (including purchasing in bulk) at generousmovement.com  Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with John: youtube.com/@adamaweber  Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew

Join The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew   Watch the full interview with Jody: youtube.com/@adamaweber  In this episode, I have an inspiring conversation with Jody Luke, the president of Love Does - a nonprofit organization dedicated to caring for the vulnerable and providing education in conflict zones.  I ask the question: what is it like working for a crazy visionary like Bob Goff? Jody also shares how leadership can be lonely, why we should bring joy into dark places and how we can make a difference right where we are.  Tune in for insights on leadership, personal growth and laughter! Learn more about Love Does and grab a copy of the book. Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: International Justice Mission & Vern Eide International Justice Mission is a global nonprofit working to end slavery and violence around the world, taking special care of survivors from the moment they’re rescued all the way through their healing and restoration. To learn more and support their mission, visit ijm.org  Vern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.com

Today, I’m joined by speaker, author and pastor-turned-marriage-coach, Jimmy Rollins. Jimmy and his wife, Irene, are well-known voices in the marriage arena but today, my conversation with Jimmy turned to the topic of success. When do you have enough success?How do you measure it?At what cost will you get it? How do you say no? Jimmy shares his personal journey through difficult seasons, including his wife's battle with Lyme disease and the lessons learned from their experiences. We also talk about the marriage equation where Jimmy shares encouragement for not giving up at the rock bottom of marriage. Don’t miss this powerful discussion for valuable insights that can help you navigate the complexities of life and love! Grab a copy of Jimmy and Irene’s book Two Equals One. Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: Tommy John Clothing & Vern Eide Tommy John has thousands of five star reviews for a reason! They sell the most comfortable undershirts, modern polos, and loungewear you’ll find. I promise you are gonna love it! Check them out today at tommyjohn.com Vern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.com Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with Jimmy: youtube.com/@adamaweber  Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew

Looking for great sex in your marriage? In today’s episode, I have a candid conversation with relationship expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip where we explore “the mental load” in marriage and how it can affect our sex life.  Morgan defines the mental load as the invisible and seemingly ​never-ending ​to ​do ​list ​that ​we ​carry ​around ​in ​our ​heads (which often falls on women) and how it can lead to feelings of resentment in relationships.  We also talk about the importance of communication and appreciation in marriage and we dive into practical steps for couples to enhance their connection (which can lead to great sex!).  This discussion promises to challenge husbands to share the mental load with their wives and will equip listeners with practical tools for improving their relationships. Grab a copy of A Better Share (April 8, 2025) Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: Vern Eide & International Justice Mission  Vern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.com International Justice Mission is a global nonprofit working to end slavery and violence around the world, taking special care of survivors from the moment they’re rescued all the way through their healing and restoration. To learn more and support their mission, visit ijm.org  Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with Dr. Morgan: youtube.com/@adamaweber  Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew

On today’s episode, I connect with pastor and author, Zach Meerkreebs. In 2023, Zach was the guest speaker who preached the message that sparked a 16-day revival at Asbury’s Campus in Wilmore, Kentucky. (Note: Asbury is where I lived and attended seminary!)  Zach opens up about his experiences during the Asbury Revival, what’s happened since, and takeaways for us and the Church. My favorite part of the conversation: through a series of ups and downs of his life, Zach shares how he learned the difference between humiliation and humility. And did he learn this in church or in seminary? No. He learned all of this while working at a donut shop.  Don’t miss this powerful conversation! Grab a copy of Zach’s new book Lower. Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: Vern Eide & First Interstate Bank Vern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.com First Interstate Bank has a mission to help people and their money work better together. They do this by ensuring clients can manage their money conveniently wherever they are while also providing the friendly service. They have over 300 locations throughout 14 states! For more information and to find a location near you, visit firstinterstatebank.com Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with Zach: youtube.com/@adamaweber  Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew

Today, I had the honor to connect with Jess Connolly. Jess is an author, speaker, podcaster that I’ve followed for years (and I’m a huge fan of her husband Nic). During our conversation, Jess opens up about what she learned through the hardest year of her life and what she discovered through experiencing pain. We also talk about the importance of rest and Jess shares some simple tips for how to find it, even in the busyness of life. Plus, if you listen to the podcast or watch on YouTube, you’ll also hear Jess talk about how to pursue something that you believe God has given you, even when you’re not finding any traction. Friends, don’t miss this episode! Grab a copy of Jess’ new book Tired of Being TiredTake the FREE “Find Your Fatigue” quiz here: https://www.jessconnolly.com/quiz  Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: International Justice Mission & Vern Eide International Justice Mission is a global nonprofit working to end slavery and violence around the world, taking special care of survivors from the moment they’re rescued all the way through their healing and restoration. To learn more and support their mission, visit ijm.org  Vern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.com Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with Jess: youtube.com/@adamaweber  Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew  

In this episode, I connected with Cade York, kicker for the Cincinnati Bengals. Cade shares his incredible journey through the highs and lows of life in the NFL. From his beginnings in Dallas to winning a national championship at LSU, Cade gets real about the challenges he faced, including identity struggles, injuries and the unhealthy pattern of escaping to pornography and sex.  Cade shares his personal testimony and how hitting rock bottom helped him find that Jesus loves him no matter what.  Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: Vern Eide & First Interstate Bank Vern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.com First Interstate Bank has a mission to help people and their money work better together. They do this by ensuring clients can manage their money conveniently wherever they are while also providing the friendly service. They have over 300 locations throughout 14 states! For more information and to find a location near you, visit firstinterstatebank.com Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with Cade: youtube.com/@adamaweber  Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew

In today’s conversation, I spend time with Mike Foster - author, speaker and executive coach - about The 7 Primal Questions.  Mike says understanding your Primal Question - or ​unmet ​need ​within ​you - can impact everything about you. And it’s true! Your Primal Question reveals your hidden programming, emotional needs, and supernatural gifts. Now imagine applying this information to your closest relationship - your marriage! Friends, knowing your spouse’s primal question can literally transform your marriage relationship! Not married? No worries! You can apply this framework to any relationship in your life!  You won’t want to miss this engaging conversation of self-awareness, vulnerability and growth. Visit primalquestion.com to find out your own primal question. Attention Pastors: I got my first coach when Embrace was a church of 100 people. And it was game changing! If you’re a pastor and are looking to grow, be encouraged, & break through barriers, let’s connect. Find out more at adamweber.com/coaching Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: Tommy John Clothing & Vern Eide Tommy John has thousands of five star reviews for a reason! They sell the most comfortable undershirts, modern polos, and loungewear you’ll find. I promise you are gonna love it! Check them out today at tommyjohn.com Vern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.com Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with Mike: youtube.com/@adamaweber  Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew

Today’s episode kicks off a new series where we explore the important role of mentors through conversations with my own mentors that have profoundly impacted my life. My guest today is Rick Melmer, who has held numerous influential roles, from serving as the superintendent of a high school and the secretary of education for South Dakota, to working as the dean of USD’s School of Education and the director of Leadership South Dakota.But beyond all of these titles, Rick has been a constant presence in my life since my sophomore year of high school. Over the years, our paths have crossed in countless meaningful (& funny) ways. I attended prom with his daughter. His family supported my wife and me financially while I was in seminary. I also had the honor of performing the funeral for his father-in-law. And his family has been a cherished part of the church I now pastor. I ask Rick about the 3 areas of life where I look to him as a mentor: being a husband and dad, weathering storms in his career and being a follower of Jesus. Rick provides valuable insights into the role of a mentor and the impact they can have on our lives.  We also talk about the mentor’s Rick had in his life and advice on how to find mentors in your own life. Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: First Interstate Bank & The Tyler Goff Group  First Interstate Bank has a mission to help people and their money work better together. They do this by ensuring clients can manage their money conveniently wherever they are while also providing the friendly service. They have over 300 locations throughout 14 states! For more information and to find a location near you, visit firstinterstatebank.com Are you on the hunt for a new house? Genuinely look no further. The Tyler Goff Group has a proven process that has transformed the lives of many clients. With the Tyler Goff Group by your side, you're not just buying a house – you're investing in a future home you'll love. To learn more and to contact Tyler or his team, visit tylergoffgroup.com Subscribe to The Conversation on YouTube and watch the full interview with Rick: youtube.com/@adamaweber  Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew