Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast

Focus on the Family
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Dec 18, 2025 • 12min

Safe Boundaries, Strong Love

Joining the conversation are Jerry Jenkins, bestselling author and speaker on marriage and faith, and Dr. Greg Smalley, marriage expert known for his practical counseling insights. They delve into the importance of setting boundaries in marriage to foster deeper intimacy. Jenkins shares wisdom from his book, Hedges, emphasizing how to guard against temptation with a strong biblical foundation. Smalley introduces his HALT acronym to identify vulnerability cues and offers actionable tips for resisting temptation while strengthening marital bonds.
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Dec 16, 2025 • 10min

Protecting What Matters Most

Join author Jerry Jenkins, known for the Left Behind series, as he delves into the crucial topic of safeguarding marriage from temptations like sex, money, and pride. He discusses recognizing personal weaknesses and the importance of accountability groups. Erin Smalley emphasizes creating a safe space for honest conversations between couples, managing triggered reactions, and rebuilding emotional safety over time. This enlightening dialogue offers practical strategies for couples to strengthen their bonds and navigate life's challenges together.
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Dec 11, 2025 • 13min

Finding Your Way Back to Each Other

Greg Smalley, a marriage expert from Focus on the Family, shares insights on embracing the unique differences of your spouse. He emphasizes that appreciating these differences can deepen your love. Jim Daly hosts discussions with Tara Lalonde and Dr. Bob Paul about loving your partner for who they are, and they highlight how one spouse's willingness to change can transform a marriage. Practical tools and gratitude practices are also explored to enhance relationship dynamics and romance.
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Dec 9, 2025 • 13min

Reigniting Romance in Your Marriage

Feeling the romance fading in your marriage? Discover how small gestures like thoughtful texts and hugs can reignite the spark. Learn the importance of treating your partnership as a team to create emotional safety and intimacy. The discussion dives into balancing grand romantic gestures with everyday connections. You'll hear tips on enhancing communication and avoiding reactive patterns that hinder closeness. Practical advice and personal anecdotes offer a refreshing perspective on nurturing love for lasting fulfillment.
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Dec 4, 2025 • 10min

Your Stories Before You Were Married

This week, Rebecca St. James, a renowned Christian singer-songwriter, and her husband Cubby Fink share their unique journeys before marriage. Rebecca reflects on migrating from Australia at 14 and her family's struggles that deepened her faith. Cubby discusses his creative upbringing and mission work that reshaped his plans. They also delve into the importance of reminiscing about God's work in their lives, emphasizing how these memories strengthen marital bonds. It's a heartfelt conversation about gratitude and the beauty of their love stories.
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Dec 2, 2025 • 11min

Embracing God’s Redemption

Dive into the journey of redemption in marriage, where lies that undermine relationships are confronted. Discover Jim Turner's honest account of emotional distance and the importance of vulnerability for men. Learn how to restore intimacy and respond to tough feedback from friends, while exploring the deeper fears behind our reactions. Finally, embrace practical steps to receive feedback humbly, bring concerns to God, and restore connections. It's a heartfelt discussion on growth, grace, and rebuilding a strong marital bond.
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Nov 27, 2025 • 11min

Be Focused and Have Fun

Greg and Erin Smalley, marriage experts with a focus on faith-based counseling, join Jim Daly to share the secret to a thriving relationship. They emphasize the value of daily check-ins and small gestures to keep connections strong. The Smalley's clever analogy of nurturing marriage like a garden illustrates the need for intentional care. They discuss how relationships can drift without energy, offering signs couples might need to inject more fun into their lives. Simple questions about feelings and inner growth can deepen intimacy and reenergize bonds.
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Nov 25, 2025 • 12min

Fine China, and Simple Blessings

In this captivating discussion, Jay and Laura LaFoon share their insights on the biblical term 'weaker vessel,' redefining it as a symbol of cherished strength. Jay emphasizes the importance of valuing each other like fine china, while Laura highlights how treating spouses with respect fulfills spiritual callings. The couple also advocates for daily encouragements, tying in research about positivity in relationships. With practical advice for nurturing a loving marriage, they inspire couples to focus on the fundamentals and embrace the hard work required for lasting joy.
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Nov 20, 2025 • 12min

Be Careful with Physical Touch

Most affairs can be traced back to small compromises. Erin Smalley addresses how she's seen that very truth in her counseling practice, and why there's still hope if you're feeling tempted. Plus, Jim Daly and popular author, Jerry Jenkins, share why it's important to be guarded with things like touching someone and giving compliments   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Hedges for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   How to Guard Your Marriage From Temptation    Contact our Counseling Team    The Hedges Challenge   Support This Show!   If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Marriage Podcast, please give us your feedback.
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7 snips
Nov 18, 2025 • 11min

Practical Ways to Guard Against Temptation

Bestselling author Jerry Jenkins, known for the Hedges book and the Left Behind series, shares insightful strategies to guard marriages against temptation. He discusses the necessity of setting boundaries and the importance of transparency in building trust with partners. Jenkins also describes his personal rule to avoid one-on-one meetings with unrelated women to mitigate risks. Cultivating a strong connection with spouses is emphasized, along with creating safe spaces for open conversations about struggles.

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