

EmPowered Couples with The Freemans
Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman
Stay on the same team, no matter the challenge you face!
Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman, known as The Freemans, are the husband-and-wife duo behind viral marriage content seen by 20M+ couples every month. Both hold Master's degrees in Psychology, are authors, coaches, and parents... but what makes them stand out is how real and relatable their advice is. Most couples say: "Are they watching us?!"
This show gives couples the practical tools, real talk, and honest coaching that most relationships are missing. Whether you're in a tough season or just want to stay connected through the chaos of life, you'll walk away from every episode with something you can actually use.
If you're ready to improve communication, resolve conflict faster, and feel emotionally connected again, subscribe now. You'll want to binge past episodes and never miss what's next.
Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman, known as The Freemans, are the husband-and-wife duo behind viral marriage content seen by 20M+ couples every month. Both hold Master's degrees in Psychology, are authors, coaches, and parents... but what makes them stand out is how real and relatable their advice is. Most couples say: "Are they watching us?!"
This show gives couples the practical tools, real talk, and honest coaching that most relationships are missing. Whether you're in a tough season or just want to stay connected through the chaos of life, you'll walk away from every episode with something you can actually use.
If you're ready to improve communication, resolve conflict faster, and feel emotionally connected again, subscribe now. You'll want to binge past episodes and never miss what's next.
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Apr 22, 2021 • 14min
True Intimacy Happens Outside of Your Comfort Zone: Jocelyn Solo Episode 151
Not to be dramatic, but this episode will crack open your heart and radically transform your mind. Especially with how you see challenges or blocks around increasing intimacy in your relationship. If you're going through a rough patch or you just want to connect at a deeper level, this episode is for you! You will hear how true intimcy is going to be found outside or where you are currently looking... outside your comfort zone! Resources For Your Relationship: As you listen, sign-up for the 5 Day Couples Challenge that starts April 26th! (hurry before it passes!) You can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Couple's Session here About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Apr 20, 2021 • 34min
How to Hold Space For Your Partner When Emotions Are High: Episode 150
If you have been listening to this podcast, you now know that escalating conflicts and argument hangovers are not from what started the disagreement, but what you said or did after that. It's when you think to yourself "I don't even remember what started this!" Part of why this happens is because we are not great at "Holding Space" for our partners when they have high emotions or are emotionally triggered. For some this might be a new term, holding space. In this episode you will hear about what this really means and then you will get 5 things to do so that you can hold space for your partner. By doing this, you allow for an environment of acceptance and love for you and your partner to have emotions and not make that wrong. It's a powerful opportunity to connect deeper and develop emotional intimacy… when you appropriately hold space for the emotions they are having. Resources For Your Relationship: Join the 5 Day Couples Challenge that starts April 26th, 2021. Connect with other couples as we go through daily training of the 5 C's for a strong relationship, get a FREE book, and win challenge giveaways! About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Apr 15, 2021 • 25min
How to Hold Yourself and Your Partner Accountable, Without Being too Critical: Episode 149
After the last episdoe you now think "ok great, I'm doing my part, but what about my partner"? We asked many of you how your partner normally responds when you hold them accountable, and the answers were versions of: denial, defensiveness, withdrawing, being rude, or dismissive. If you don't have an agreement about how you will hold each other accountable, it can feel like being micro-managed or controlled. This leads to tension, and even feeling "parented" by each other. So instead of that frustration, tune in to this episode for specific ways to hold yourself and your partner accountable to making real progress. And while you're listening, sign-up for the 5 Day Couples Challenge that starts April 26th!

Apr 13, 2021 • 33min
Personal Accountability: 5 Things You Need to Take Ownership of For a True Partnership: Episode 148
Have you realized that you can be in a relationship, yet not be in a true partnership? It might seem like a simple word change but the experience can be radically different. You can be in a relationship yet still feel like a victim to your circumstances and your partner's responses day to day. A true partnership is made up of two people who are accountable for how they are showing up. More specifically these 5 specific things that we cover in this episode. In this type of partnership you will feel empowered to create and direct your life and relationship, regardless of the circumstances that show up! Resources For Your Relationship: Join the 5 Day Couples Challenge that starts April 26th, 2021. Connect with other couples as we go through daily training of the 5 C's for a strong relationship, get a FREE book, and win challenge giveaways! About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Apr 6, 2021 • 31min
3 Needs Women Have But Are Often Misunderstood Episode 147
You got into your relationship for one big reason… LOVE. More specifically to have the experience of being loved unconditionally by your partner. Yet this doesn't always happen right? Especially when a woman's needs are not being met. Now does this mean something is wrong? No not at all. BUT it is a sign that one of 3 major needs of women are not being met. This is not to put pressure on you as a partner, because at times these needs are not clearly understood and can be shared in a way that causes defensiveness. So what to do? Well, listen to this podcast episode where you will hear what the 3 needs are of women that are misunderstood. Then once you know these needs, you can have the conversations needed for your partner to truly feel loved. Resources For Your Relationship: Make sure to save your seats for The Couples Workshop on April 11th. About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Apr 1, 2021 • 14min
I Realized My Underwear is 5 Years Old. What 'Old Energy' Needs to be Removed From Your Relationship?: Jocelyn Solo Episode 146
This episode might make you laugh out loud, but will also get you fired up to get rid of OLD energy in your life. It's critical that you clear out energetic clutter in your environment, in your relationship, and in your habits. If you want to invite in anything NEW (more intimacy, more fun, more connection), you need to make space for it. Tune in to this episode where Jocelyn dives into specific ways you can clear out old energy. And that includes old underwear (I just threw out a bunch and ordered more) Also, make sure to save your seats for The Couples Workshop on April 11th. We might not host another one online, so now is your chance! About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Mar 30, 2021 • 34min
3 Signs of Complacency + 3 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Vibrant: Episode 145
Complacency is that feeling of low energy and lack of engagement in a relationship. Do you or your partner ever have that sense in your marriage? This one will be a bit of a "gut check" for how you've been showing up for each other. Complacency can lead to feeling like "roommates" or just a general lack of aliveness and joy within the relationship. If complacency becomes the norm in your relationship, it can degrade your happiness. But realizing this is happening is what allows you to improve it. In this episode you will get 3 signs of complacency, then you'll be encouraged by 3 easy ways to keep things vibrant and alive, even as the years pass. Resources For Your Relationship: Save your seats for the next Couples Workshop here. Message us on IG: @meet_thefreemans to get a code for $25 off the April 11th Couples Workshop online event. About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Mar 23, 2021 • 25min
If Your Partner Has the Reserved/Flexible "Communication Personality Type" : Episode 144
We're sure you've had moments that you are not communicating well with your partner. All of us have then thought to ourselves, "why can't you communicate like I do"! But communication is not one-size-fits-all and you might have a different "Communication Personality Type" than your partner. [Side note- if you haven't taken the Quiz to find out your partner's "Communication Personality Type," take that FREE QUIZ HERE] By knowing your partner's type, you will better understand how they communicate and how you can better interact with them….so you can prevent unnecessary tension and disagreements. In this episode you will get: The traits of the Reserved/Flexible partner Mistakes they can unconsciously and unintentionally make in their communication Mistakes you can make in trying to communicate with them What you can do differently How to communicate better in just 5 hours, instead of 5 months Resources For Your Relationship: Take the Couples Quiz to find out your partner's "Communication Personality Type" Use the coupon code [podcast25] to get $25 off your seats for the next Couples Workshop here About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Mar 23, 2021 • 25min
If Your Partner Has the Reserved/Inflexible "Communication Personality Type" : Episode 143
We're sure you've had moments that you are not communicating well with your partner. All of us have then thought to ourselves, "why can't you communicate like I do"! But communication is not one-size-fits-all and you might have a different "Communication Personality Type" than your partner. [Side note- if you haven't taken the Quiz to find out your partner's "Communication Personality Type," take that FREE QUIZ HERE] By knowing your partner's type, you will better understand how they communicate and how you can better interact with them….so you can prevent unnecessary tension and disagreements. In this episode you will get: The traits of the Reserved/Inflexible partner Mistakes they can unconsciously and unintentionally make in their communication Mistakes you can make in trying to communicate with them What you can do differently How to communicate better in just 5 hours, instead of 5 months Resources For Your Relationship: Take the Couples Quiz to find out your partner's "Communication Personality Type" Use the coupon code [podcast25] to get $25 off your seats for the next Couples Workshop here About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Mar 22, 2021 • 24min
If Your Partner Has the Assertive/Flexible "Communication Personality Type" : Episode 142
We're sure you've had moments that you are not communicating well with your partner. All of us have then thought to ourselves, "why can't you communicate like I do"! But communication is not one-size-fits-all and you might have a different "Communication Personality Type" than your partner. [Side note- if you haven't taken the Quiz to find out your partner's "Communication Personality Type," take that FREE QUIZ HERE] By knowing your partner's type, you will better understand how they communicate and how you can better interact with them….so you can prevent unnecessary tension and disagreements. In this episode you will get: The traits of the Assertive/Flexible partner Mistakes they can unconsciously and unintentionally make in their communication Mistakes you can make in trying to communicate with them What you can do differently How to communicate better in just 5 hours, instead of 5 months Resources For Your Relationship: Take the Couples Quiz to find out your partner's "Communication Personality Type" Use the coupon code [podcast25] to get $25 off your seats for the next Couples Workshop here About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.


