The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Sex Positivity, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory & Swinging

Kiley ‘Sexyswingerchic’

The Pineapple Express Once a swinger podcast… now a real-time journey through modern love.Hosted by Kiley — queer, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, ex-sex worker turned sex and relationship coach — The Pineapple Express explores the messy, magical, ever-evolving world of love, sex, intimacy, and emotional growth.This podcast is for anyone navigating:Non-monogamy, polyamory, or swingingMonogamy after openness (or vice versa)Relationship transitions, breakups, and rediscovering self-worthADHD, neurodivergence, and nervous system repair in loveSexual empowerment and authentic connectionEach episode blends real-time storytelling, expert interviews, and unfiltered reflections on:Ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swingingEmotional intelligence and intimacy and of course SEX Boundaries, communication, and healing attachment woundsQueerness, identity exploration, and sex-positivityNeurodivergent love, pleasure, and partnershipYou’ll laugh, cry, and maybe even journal after. Kiley’s here to stir the cauldron — and remind you that pleasure, connection, and love are allowed to evolve.This isn’t your average relationship podcast. It’s personal. It’s sacred. It’s a little unhinged. And it’s exactly what you’ve been craving.Why Listen?Because you're not looking for perfect love — you’re looking for real love. Because you’re healing, growing, and rewriting the rules — and want company along the way.Subscribe now and ride The Pineapple Express, where we talk about sex, love, and everything in between — with zero judgment, just curiosity, courage, and connection.

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May 10, 2024 • 1h 21min

65: Uncovering Shame in Sexuality as a Swinger with Sex and Intimacy Coach Deborah Kat

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May 3, 2024 • 1h 5min

64: Sex Work and Human Design with Samantha Zagar

Apr 26, 2024 • 1h 18min

63: Embracing Inclusion in Non Monogamy Communities with DEI expert ThatInclusionLady

Send us a textIn this episode of the podcast, we talk about all things inclusion within the non-monogamy community, featuring the expertise of Ama, affectionately known as "That Inclusion Lady." A renowned Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) Coach, Ama brings a wealth of knowledge, insight, and passion to our discussion, shedding light on the challenges, triumphs, and the often overlooked importance of being inclusive in non-monogamous spaces.As our community continues to grow and evolve, the conversation around making these spaces welcoming for everyone becomes increasingly crucial. Ama guides us through the importance of recognizing and celebrating diversity in sexual and relationship orientations, racial and cultural backgrounds, and beyond. She offers tangible advice and strategies for individuals and communities to foster an environment of true inclusivity and belonging.Listeners will come away with a deeper understanding of the significance of DEI principles in non-monogamy, practical tips for creating more inclusive spaces, and the inspiration to champion inclusion in their own lives and communities. Whether you're well-versed in the lifestyle or simply curious about the intersections of non-monogamy and inclusivity, this episode with Ama is a must-listen. Support Ama’s work by following her on social media ThatInclusionLady IG https://www.instagram.com/that_inclusionlady?igsh=aXdvZjkzdXVhbWtyThatInclusionLady TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@that_inclusionlady?_t=8lnODpYUtkF&_r=1Book Ama for coaching services(great for event groups or lifestyle businesses) https://inclusionenterprises.org/All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Apr 12, 2024 • 1h 12min

61: ED Solutions For Men in the Swinger Lifestyle with Dr. Elliot Justin

Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast Kiley talks with Dr Elliot Justin about Firmtech, Elliot Justin, MD, FACEP is an Emergency Medicine specialist, telemedicine expert and sex toy enthusiast. His goal is to help all men and women sustain their sexual fitness, and if they develop ED to reverse or impede its progression. This will be achieved by providing personal data via scientifically designed under wearables and more effective and comfortable cock rings and vibrators. They talk about the effects of ED in the swinger lifestyle and how Firmtech can be a solution for men and couples dealing with ED. Learn more about firmtech https://www.instagram.com/myfirmtech?igsh=MTJ4eGg4Z3ZuOXE5cA==Get your very own firmtech ring https://myfirmtech.com/?sca_ref=5783584.Bx15fTwK3eUse my code Sexyswingerchick for an exclusive discount All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Apr 5, 2024 • 1h 10min

60: Human Design and Spirituality in Swinger Settings with Aycee Brown

Mar 29, 2024 • 1h 35min

59: Body Positivity in The Swinger Lifestyle: A Candid Heartfelt Conversation With Em from Voluptuous Vixen

Mar 22, 2024 • 1h 19min

58: From Couple To Throuple: Exploring Non Monogamy in the Media with InfinitePolyAm

Mar 15, 2024 • 1h 20min

57: Exploring Body Diversity and Inclusivity in the Swinger Lifestyle with Cara Turnquist

Send us a textKiley and Cara delve into the beauty of body diversity within the swinger lifestyle, on the latest juicy episode of the Pineapple Express podcast!Find out more about Cara by following her on her social media https://www.instagram.com/caraturnquist?igsh=MXZpcjkwZGU4eHdkaQ==All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciousloveconnections.com/Don’t forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All Things Pineapple Express http://eepurl.com/immxdIFor more info about me and where to find all the events we will be at and to get an exclusive invite to The Swinger Society Discord make sure you check out my website https://sexyswingerchic.net/I’m on clapper so if TikTok gets banned follow me here: Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Mar 8, 2024 • 1h 6min

56: A Sit Down With The Mind and Storyteller Behind the New Book Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Home: Alex Alberto

Send us a textListen as Kiley and Alex discuss their book Entwined Essays on Polyamory and Home. This book is about Alex’s’ personal experiences with non monogamy. Alex and Kiley get candid about the journey of non monogamy and you will even see how alike their journeys truly are. If you wanna get your hands on a copy of the book or learn more about Alex visit their link tree 👇🏻https://linktr.ee/thatalexalberto?fbclid=PAAabLFphX5ctl9UiuolMvFsYvkfm3RYYdzKGmdQok2zp9I7z9zCWB3IpdBP8_aem_AWx-T15RR4L9uiVzGFAE3gemaAMRPuWnNBQl0a4vR5RJEcZuPPduCRPMKC7Om4--rSwFor a direct copy of the book get a copy here https://www.alexalberto.com/storeAll My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciousloveconnections.com/Don’t forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All ThinSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Mar 1, 2024 • 1h 16min

55: All About Sexual Health Stigmas Associated With The Swingers Lifestyle and STI's with Dr. Shieva G

Send us a textKiley sits down with Dr Shieva G and they talk about the stigmas associated with swinging and sexual health. For more in dr shieva g make sure you’re following their socials. https://www.drshievag.com/?fbclid=PAAaZ8jfngRp6zGVw8KT8z-8RMGAxPqZYly054MqZ1452zAHEyUJHDhu4x7tY_aem_AWxtv23W55bZmCngaZvvOE3ehRRq3TVCFki0EEVrarWrZnN3j0diape0XmnCrgNN5JYTo find out more about a tribe called V check out the website https://www.tribecalledv.com/About Dr Shieva G: Dr Shieva Ghofrany strives to help people eliminate their fear by being “proactive not paranoid” about their health. An OBGYN since 1999 with Coastal OBGYN and co-creator of TRIBE CALLED V, her intention is to consistently help women and people with vulvas and ovaries wrangle their mindset. All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciouSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

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