

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
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Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
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May 24, 2021 • 39min
#StopSuckingItIn with Rosie Rees
Does a naked woman have to be a sexy woman? Why is sucking your tummy in bad for your vagina? And, can you teach yourself how to squirt? Founder of the 'Yoni Pleasure Palace' and Nude Yoga queen Rosie Rees answers all questions nudity and sex while opening up to Abbie about one of the most difficult situations she's faced. Disclaimer: You are encouraged to make your own health care choices based on your own research and in conjunction with your qualified practitioner. LINKS Yoni Pleasure Palace https://www.yonipleasurepalace.com/ Naked Awakening https://www.nakedawakening.com.au/ Buy a Sacred Squirter https://www.sacredsquirter.com/ Two Mum Tribe @twomumtribe https://bit.ly/3bOMrPJ Cael O'Donnell's Instagram @imcaelodonnell The Girl Meet Girl group on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/351298342090954/ Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest: Rosie Rees @rosie.rees
Executive Producer: Elise Cooper
Producer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 18, 2021 • 32min
So Darwin Is The Best
This week is a cheeky lil catch up. Abbie's back from a trip to the Northern Territory where she had more fun than you can poke a stick at. Plus her Nightmare Fuel is just plain weird, and a lesson in how to not pick someone up. LINKS Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 10, 2021 • 35min
We Gotta Talk About "TikTok Pretty"
You've heard of the clandestine 'Soggy Sao' urban myth, right? If not, don't worry, Abbie demystifies all things cracker and cum. Also, Abbie wonders, why on EARTH are people still editing their photos? Aren't we past this cringe fest already? Finally, get ready for a lovely lil TikTok rant. LINKS Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 3, 2021 • 41min
Heartbreak, Dream Jobs & Better Friendships with Bel Crawford
Can assertiveness be mistaken for bitchiness? Bel Crawford is the powerhouse behind The Self-Love Club podcast and she has a LOT to share with Abbie about managing shitty friendships, establishing your personality and authority at work, a how to cut f*ck boys out of your life for good. Also, why on earth is Abbie talking about Grant Denyer going for a wee? This episode is brought to you by CHEEX: a sexual wellness platform with ethical erotica for everyone. Use code ABBIE for a 2 week free trial today at getcheex.com LINKS The Self-Love Club podcast https://apple.co/3gT1SK5 The Self-Love Club Instagram @selfloveclubpodcast Courtney Act + Vanity podcast Brenda Call Me http://bit.ly/brendacallme Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Bel Crawford @belcrawfordExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 26, 2021 • 46min
A Nightmare Fuel with "Character"
This episode contains discussions of violence against women, and homicide. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 or lifeline.org.au if any of the topics discussed raise any issues for you. The recent news of the death of Kelly Wilkinson has made national headlines. How many more women have to lose their lives for Australia to step up and pay attention. Also, is Abbie sleeping with a "reformed mansplainer"? Plus we have a double whammy of a nightmare fuel. Abbie has a personal one about what someone recently said about her vajeen - AND a terrible albeit psychic first date to rival all weird ass first dates. LINKS Donate to Kelly Wilkinson's children https://bit.ly/3tSdGjb Find your local member to write to about legislation changes http://bit.ly/auspol-localmember Review the podcast on Apple http://bit.ly/ial-review Listen to The Space podcast http://bit.ly/thespace-podcast Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 19, 2021 • 42min
I'm Just Queer
Why has Abbie decided to identify as Queer and why are some people accusing her of bi erasure? Plus, who knew that there are people out there who can tell you exactly what they want and need out of whatever kind of relationship you're having with them and NOT gaslight you... Cause Abbie only just found that out and it's AMAZING. Also, a compliment and a medical/dating Nightmare Fuel? Yes please! LINKS Get Your Abbie Vibrator here https://bit.ly/3t6AEmq Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 12, 2021 • 45min
Khloe, What Have We Done Darl?
Have you seen or heard about Khloe Kardashian's "leaked" bikini photo? Well, Abbie has A LOT to say about it. Also, ABBIE HAS RELEASED A NEW VIBRATOR!!! Producer Elise tries it out first hand and you get to hear aaaaallll the details. LINKS Get Your Abbie Vibrator here https://bit.ly/3t6AEmq Margot Pincus' TikTok https://bit.ly/3mPC7eN Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 5, 2021 • 30min
Incoming MAFS Rant #NotSorry
Why is this season's MAFS screaming the word PROBLEMATIC? Other than a MAFS rant, Abbie gets a text from an ex boyfriend and she is SO not impressed. Also, can a palm lick make a woman cum? LINKS The Dan Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/ Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 29, 2021 • 32min
Did Big C*m Pt II
Why is "Condensed milk" the highlight of today's episode? Hint: It's nightmare fuel related. Also, what do you do when you run out of words in a conversation? Do you anxiously over-talk or just embrace the silence? LINKS The Dan Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/ AJ Clementine on TikTok https://bit.ly/3u64hnQ Belle Bambi on TikTok https://bit.ly/31pPnwJ Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 22, 2021 • 47min
You Can't Blame This On A Bad Day
Are we really questioning the fact that the Atlanta shootings weren't racially motivated? Abbie then moves on to a lighter note and unravels the elaborate table saga. Plus on Nightmare Fuel a listener wants to know, what the heck to do when her partner wants her to be safe, but she really wants to go to the beach. This episode of It's A Lot is sponsored by Esmi Skin Minerals. Use the code "ITSALOT20" at checkout for 20% off store wide https://bit.ly/3bHeeAQ LINKS Intersectional.abc @intersectional.abc Alyssa Ho Writings @alyssahowritings Kim Christine @kimchristine94 Christine Liwag Dixon @cmliwagdixon '75-year-old Asian woman says she fought back after being attacked in San Francisco' Mercury News http://bayareane.ws/3c8v3pz Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.