It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

"Attachment Style" gets thrown around a lot these days and so we brought in Relationship Coach Cybele to debunk some myths and answer some relash questions, like: WTF are attachment styles? Can you earn a secure attachment if you're not dating? If you're anxiously attached, how can you self-soothe? LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Follow Cybele on Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@cybele.pov Find out more about Cybele's services https://stan.store/cybelepov Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Cybele @cybele.povExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

SPOILER ALERT: If you haven't watched FBoy Island's season finale and you don't want to spoil the ending for yourself, then go watch it THEN listen to this. If you have BINGEd it already, then you're in for a treat babe. FBoy Island Vernon's ex, Brogen, walks us through how she met Vernon, how they broke up, and what he got up to after he finished filming FBoy Island - you won't believe it! Molly weighs in and also gives us an update on how she's doing with her new gorgeous BF "Nice Guy" Nick. LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Follow Brogen Laura https://www.instagram.com/brogenlaura/ Follow Molly O'halloran https://www.instagram.com/ohalloranmolly/ Read or gift the book 'She Comes First' https://bit.ly/3XyP2nI Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Access this episode's transcript   CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: Brogen Laura @brogenlauraMolly O'Halloran @ohalloranmollyExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can you identify an FBoy from a Nice Guy IRL? What are the common types of FBoy behaviour every woman should look out for? Well, Abbie has been OBSESSED with relationship coach Cybele and she's here to walk us through it all. LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Follow Cybele on Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@cybele.pov Find out more about Cybele's services https://stan.store/cybelepov Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Cybele @cybele.povExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This hot gay date was SUPPOSED to go well if only one of the men took some time aside to wash their cock. TWICE this man failed to redeem himself. Ick vibes all over this one... LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ABBIE! Lem and Oscar prepared a surprise celebration gathering messages from Abbie's closest friends including Matt Agnew, our boss Sam Cav and her adorable Mum, Laura LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests (in order of appearance):Helen DowsleyDean TocchiniKath EbbsMatt AgnewSam CavanaghDave CameronLaura ChatfieldExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A couple in their fourties decide to walk into a changing room, do the deed, and then let the store's staff members deal with it. A FULL inverstigation was launched to uncover the mystery behind the orange cum rag. THIS IS THE LAST DAY! Please take 4 minutes to fill out an It's A Lot survey for a chance to win $100 https://bit.ly/3BFXJSY LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

YES YOU HEARD IT! Abbie is seriously considering freezing her eggs and who better to chat to than someone who's done it herself? Cue author, podcaster, presenter, and staunch feminist: Linda Marigliano! AFTER YOU LISTEN, please take 4 minutes to fill out an It's A Lot survey for a chance to win $100 https://bit.ly/3BFXJSY Disclaimer: Abbie and Linda are not medical professionals and the content of this episode is not to be taken as medical advice. If you have any interest or concerns about egg freezing, please consult with your GP or a fertility specialist. LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Read Linda's latest book, Love Language https://bit.ly/43vtTN4 Listen to Linda's podcast, Tough Love https://bit.ly/3J3VnS3 Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review .  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: Linda Marigliano @lindamariglianoExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Chelsea; Abbie's friend from school, meets this guy at a gym where a f*ck buddies situationship develops. When things get a bit more serious 2 years on, Chelsea discovers the mountain of lies this man has been building up. Horrifying details come out into the open and Chelsea realises that she's not the only one this man (dubbed 'successful stoner') has been lying to. BUT FIRST, please take 4 minutes to fill out an It's A Lot survey for a chance to win $100 https://bit.ly/3BFXJSY LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Get to know the girls leading one of the HOTTEST reality TV shows at the moment; FBoy Island Australia. Molly, Ziara and Sophie chat FBoy BTS, how they felt about Caleb's 'pussy' comment, and why microaggressions against Ziara were kept in the final edit.  BUT FIRST, please take 4 minutes to fill out an It's A Lot survey for a chance to win $100 https://bit.ly/3BFXJSY LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Listen to Abbie's chat with Jimmy and Nath https://bit.ly/3ORvOqZ Ziara's Refinery Interview https://bit.ly/3qrxMnP Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review .  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: Molly O'Halloran, Sophie Blackley and Ziara RaeExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When Producer Oscar went away on holiday, little did he know that he was about to have the weirdest enounter of his life. A questionable character with a questionable bevarage leaves Oscar WIDE awake for 45 hours after he lands in Mexico.  BUT HEY, please take 4 minutes to fill out an It's A Lot survey for a chance to win $100 https://bit.ly/3BFXJSY LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.