It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

In this podcast, the hosts discuss a previous episode's scary experience, the origins of a chicken wrap, and a surprising $10,000 loan. They also delve into a flirtatious conversation involving a request for money and explore the reasons behind someone's frugal behavior. The podcast highlights a puzzling scenario where a friend gave $10,000 to a barely known girl, with potential motives like blackmail. They also touch on a situation where a boyfriend's mother had control over his bank account, leading to unresolved issues and a decision to end the relationship.

They discuss conflicting payment styles in relationships and the ethical complexities of expecting reimbursement privately. They explore the impact of financial responsibility and meddling in others' affairs. They highlight the absurdity of asking for large sums of money in relationships.

In this episode, Abbie discusses the frustration of recurring UTIs and the annoyance of constant suggestions to urinate after sex. She shares her personal experiences with chronic UTIs, kidney infections, and the struggle to find proper medical care. The speakers also delve into the role of the pelvic floor in urinary health and explore the possibilities of celibacy and dating in singlehood.

In this episode, we discuss sexual assault and rape. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 What would you do if the guy you're about to root invites you over only to find that he's laid out a bid in the middle of a room FULL OF HIS FRIENDS. WTF? Chanel and Abbie don't hold back. LINKS Buy Chanel's book 'Consent Laid Bare' https://bit.ly/3QiDHof Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Chanel Contos @chanelcExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we discuss sexual assault and rape. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Consent Queen Chanel Contos has a mission which we're all here for: Ending rape culture. Why are boy mums central to this discussion? Is Chanel anti-porn? And, what are the four types of rapists? LINKS Buy Chanel's book 'Consent Laid Bare' https://bit.ly/3QiDHof Check out Abbie's chat with Dominatrix Lucilla https://bit.ly/3tPyOLX Read Chanel's recco 'Three Women' https://bit.ly/3FAV6Uj Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Chanel Contos @chanelcExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Abbie's Mummy lives to tell the tales of her unbelievable cockroach encounters in far north Queensland. You'll realise after listening to this what an EPIC storyteller Abbie's mum is. Go Mummy! LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: MummyExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Abbie's Mum Laura makes her debut on It's A Lot and WE ARE IN LOVE! It's a chaotic episode in true Chatfield fashion where "Mummy" answers Oscar and Lem's questions including: What was Abbie like as a child? What was it like for Abbie growing up without her dad around? How did you feel about your daughter being slutshamed after The Bachelor? LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: MummyExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, maybe skip this one and please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or call 13 11 14. For First Nations people, please call 13YARN at 13 92 76. FFS, why do politicans keep silencing First Nations voices? Thomas Mayo is a Kaurareg Aboriginal and Kalkalgal, Erubamle Torres Strait Islander man, author and advocate who is more than ready to keep fighting for the rights of the people this land belongs to. *Please note that since the release of this episode, Thomas has changed his last name to "Mayo" instead of "Mayor". LINKS Read Thomas' Books https://www.hardiegrant.com/au/publishing/bookfinder/author/thomas-mayor Follow the Uluru Statement Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ulurustatement/ Check out the Voting Compass tool here https://votecompass.abc.net.au/ Visit the Uluru Statement website here https://fromtheheart.com.au/resources/stories-from-the-heart/ CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield www.instagram.com/abbiechatfield/ Guest: Thomas Mayor https://www.instagram.com/thomasamayor/ Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia https://www.instagram.com/lemzakharia/ Video Producer: Oscar Gordon https://www.instagram.com/oscargordon/ Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ See www.omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jimmy's WORST nightmare happened when the girl he's been crushing on for YEARS invited him over to "f*ck her". What happened next still haunts him to this very day... LINKS Listen to Jimmy and Nath's podcast https://bit.ly/46H5Fkh Follow Jimmy and Nath on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jimmyandnath/ Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: Jimmy Smith @jimmysmiththeNathan Roye @nathanroyeExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, there are mentions of racism, homophobia, and mental health issues and suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, maybe skip this one and please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Jimmy opens up about the time when he hit rock bottom and how Nath consistently showed up for him. Get ready to go even deeper with those two. LINKS Listen to Jimmy and Nath's podcast https://bit.ly/46H5Fkh Follow Jimmy and Nath on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jimmyandnath/ Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: Jimmy Smith @jimmysmiththeNathan Roye @nathanroyeExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.