
MarriageToday with Jimmy & Karen Evans
The MarriageToday Podcast is hosted by best-selling author and speaker, Jimmy Evans and his wife Karen. Jimmy is author of the books Marriage on the Rock, Lifelong Love Affair and The Four Laws of Love. MarriageToday is a weekly podcast that is dedicated to equipping families with the teaching and tools they need to succeed in marriage.
Latest episodes

Feb 8, 2024 • 15min
Taking the risk to forgive
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy and Karen Evans delve into the crucial theme of forgiveness in marriage. They highlight the consequences of not forgiving, the dangers of bitterness, and the challenging journey of forgiving infidelity. The hosts stress the importance of grace, discuss rebuilding trust after betrayal, and underscore the long-term effects of unforgiveness. Wrapping up, they encourage couples to keep short accounts, seek help when needed, and recommend their book, 'I Will,' as a valuable resource for daily devotionals in marriage. Don't miss this insightful conversation on the transformative power of forgiveness in relationships.-----------------------Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-homeMore resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyGrab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child-----------------------Takeaways
Forgiveness is essential in marriage and should be practiced daily.
Unforgiveness can lead to bitterness and negatively impact the relationship.
Earning trust after betrayal takes time and consistent behavior.
Seeking help and counseling is important for resolving relationship issues.
-----------------------00:00 Introduction and Importance of Forgiveness in Marriage01:18 The Consequences of Not Forgiving02:35 The Daily Practice of Forgiveness03:59 The Impact of Unforgiveness05:22 Forgiving Infidelity06:54 Earning Trust After Betrayal08:43 Grace and Forgiveness in Marriage10:06 The Power of Forgiveness11:03 Keeping Short Accounts and Seeking Help12:27 Conclusion and Resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 1, 2024 • 14min
Is The Law Of Priority In Your Marriage?
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans in a candid discussion on prioritizing marriage. They share their own journey from the brink of divorce, highlighting the vital need to re-prioritize. Advocating for marriage as the most important human relationship, second only to one's connection with God, they stress placing it above work, hobbies, and even children. Tune in for insights on handling in-law dynamics and modeling a robust marriage. Jimmy and Karen encourage couples to address priority violations, fighting passionately for the integrity of their relationship. A short, impactful episode on putting marriage first.-----------------------Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-homeMore resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyGrab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-childFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday-----------------------Takeaways
Marriage should be prioritized as the most important human relationship, second only to one's relationship with God.
Putting marriage before other commitments, such as work, hobbies, and children, is essential for a thriving relationship.
In-laws can sometimes pose challenges to a marriage, and it is important to set boundaries and prioritize the spousal relationship.
Modeling a strong marriage for children is crucial, as it provides them with a sense of security and sets a positive example for their own future relationships.
Addressing violations of the law of priority and fighting for the integrity of the relationship is necessary for a healthy and thriving marriage.
-----------------------Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Prioritizing Marriage01:01 The Four Laws of Marriage02:26 Jealousy and Prioritizing Marriage03:25 The Foundation of a Secure Relationship04:53 Love and Prioritizing Marriage05:50 Putting Children Before Marriage07:14 In-Laws and Prioritizing Marriage08:40 Modeling a Strong Marriage for Children10:06 Healing and Communication in Marriage11:35 The Law of Priority Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 25, 2024 • 13min
Providing A Climate For Total Openess
Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans as they discuss the importance of total openness in marriage. Introducing their new book, 'I Will,' the couple emphasizes creating a judgment-free space for sharing. Drawing from personal experiences, they highlight the role of honesty, repentance, and graciousness in building trust and intimacy. Be inspired to be each other's best friend, bring everything to light for healing, and seek help when needed. A short, powerful episode on fostering a climate of openness for a thriving marriage.-----------------------Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-homeMore resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyGrab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child-----------------------Takeaways
Creating a safe place for sharing in a marriage is essential for building trust and intimacy.
Avoid legalism and embrace grace in order to foster openness and acceptance in the relationship.
Being a spouse's safe place means listening without judgment and providing support and understanding.
Confessing and bringing everything to light can lead to healing and growth in the marriage.
-----------------------00:00 Introduction and Book Announcement01:31 Creating a Safe Place for Sharing03:47 The Dangers of Legalism05:10 Maintaining Confidentiality06:15 The Power of Honesty and Repentance07:25 Sharing Dreams and Desires08:39 Bringing Hidden Issues to Light09:34 Creating a Climate of Openness10:30 Seeking Help for Unresolved Issues10:51 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 18, 2024 • 21min
Rediscovering Romance: Jimmy Evans' Top Moments
Welcome Back to the Marriage Today Podcast. Today, Jimmy Evans reflects on some of his favorite moments from the past five years. The conversation focuses on the importance of communication, creativity, and empathy in marriage. It explores the phases of instinctive romantic love and the need to remember and restore first love. The episode also emphasizes the unconditional love of God and the importance of trusting Jesus. It concludes with practical advice on establishing and maintaining priorities in marriage and protecting them from good things out of priority.------------------------------Takeaways
Communication, creativity, and empathy are essential for a thriving marriage.
Remembering and restoring first love is crucial for maintaining romance in marriage.
Trusting Jesus and prioritizing a personal relationship with Him is key to being a good spouse.
Proving priorities in marriage through sacrifice, time, energy, and attitude is necessary for a strong relationship.
------------------------------Chapters00:00Introduction and Purpose of the Show00:51 Ways to Communicate Value in Marriage02:16 The Importance of Creativity in Romance03:13 The Phases of Instinctive Romantic Love04:10 Remembering and Restoring First Love05:36 Taking Action to Restore Romance07:00 The Unconditional Love of God08:24 Acceptance, Identity, Security, and Purpose09:22 The Importance of Trusting Jesus10:19 Establishing and Maintaining Priorities in Marriage11:36 Proving Priorities in Marriage13:32 Protecting Priorities from Good Things Out of Priority18:42 Putting Family First19:11 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 11, 2024 • 18min
Celebrating Love: A Nostalgic Look with Jimmy and Karen
Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy and Karen Evans! Today, we're thrilled to bring you a special episode featuring some of our favorite moments of Karen Evans. Join us as Karen delves into various topics crucial to relationships and marriage, sharing insights on essential issues for couples. From improving communication and navigating financial conflicts to balancing frugality and fun, meeting emotional needs, rebuilding trust after infidelity, and setting boundaries with in-laws—this episode is packed with wisdom and practical advice. Get ready to be inspired and empowered as we pull together highlights from our journey together. You're listening to The MarriageToday Podcast, where Jimmy and Karen Evans guide you through the keys to lasting love and connectionNeed a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-homeMore resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyGrab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child--------------------------Takeaways
The foundation of a strong relationship is a shared spiritual connection.
Open and honest communication is crucial for resolving conflicts and meeting emotional needs.
Couples should work together to find a balance between financial security and enjoying life.
Rebuilding trust after infidelity takes time, support, and a commitment to forgiveness.
Setting boundaries with in-laws is important for maintaining a healthy relationship with your spouse.
--------------------------00:00 Essential Issues for Couples01:42 Improving Communication in Marriage03:02 Dealing with Financial Conflict05:54 Balancing Frugality and Fun07:57 Meeting Emotional Needs09:21 Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity12:12 Setting Boundaries with In-Laws Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 4, 2024 • 13min
The Power of Friendships
Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the impact of friendships on marriage and faith and the crucial role good friends play in marriage and spiritual growth through personal stories. Learn why surrounding yourself with the right people is vital, as divorce and faithfulness often reflect group dynamics. We'll discuss the significance of choosing friends who share your values, love for Jesus, commitment to marriage, church, and offer encouragement and accountability. Tune in as we explore the profound influence of friendships on your future and relationships.-----------------Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyGrab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 28, 2023 • 15min
True Redemptive Love
Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, we discuss redemptive love, exploring 1 Peter 2:21-3:7 as our guide. Discover how Christ's example of enduring suffering without retaliation teaches us to respond to our spouses' wrongs with grace and love.-----------------Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyGrab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 21, 2023 • 14min
Getting Help When You Need It
This podcast episode discusses the importance of seeking outside help in marriage. It shares personal testimonies and scriptures to highlight the benefits of counseling and guidance. The significance of being objective in marital issues and the impact of past wounds on relationships are also explored.

Dec 14, 2023 • 15min
How To Pray Together As A Couple
Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast! Today, we're tackling the hurdles of praying together as a couple. From handling different spiritual levels to understanding each other's needs, we'll explore the why, when, and how of joint prayer. Join us in learning how to navigate this essential aspect of togetherness and enhance your spiritual connection with your partner.---------------------Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference: https://brushfire.com/xomarriage/xo-2024-grapevine/548791?_gl=1More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyGrab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 7, 2023 • 13min
The Importance of Prayer in Marriage
Discover the significance of prayer in marriage, how it transforms relationships, fosters trust and spiritual intimacy, and lowers divorce rates. Explore personal stories and insights on inviting God into marriage, maintaining a quiet and gentle spirit, and encouraging spouses to pray together.