A Really Good Cry

Ever walked into a room and felt like everyone’s eyes were on you, every flaw on display? You're not alone! In this episode, we’re diving into what social anxiety really is, where it comes from, and why it affects so many of us. I’m sharing my own journey, my little tips and tricks, and how I found a path to feeling more calm and present.  So, if you’ve ever felt the urge to bail on a party last-minute or felt uncomfortable in a crowd, tune in! We’ll explore the roots of this feeling and, hopefully, help you see that social anxiety doesn’t have to control your life. Let’s find that inner calm, together.   What Was Discussed: 00:00 Intro 02:34 Why I’ve Canceled Plans Last Minute 05:29 It’s Not Always About You 07:47 Are You Stopping Yourself From Feeling Better? 08:17 Show Up as Your True Self 10:23 Setting Goals and Giving Yourself an Exit Strategy 11:29 Get Comfortable with Uncomfortable Conversations 15:13 Be Honest About Your Anxiety 16:11 The “So What” Method 17:47 Ask More Questions and Become Curious 20:22 Sometimes You Just Have to Show Up 21:36 Ayurvedic Tips for Managing Anxiety 22:39 The Cost of Anxiety 23:42 Join A Club 24:40 How Clothing Impacts Confidence 26:03 Self-Love is Key to Confidence   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this insightful discussion, holistic health coach Meghan Swidler shares her expertise on detoxification and wellness. She highlights the hidden toxins in everyday items, from food to personal care products, and discusses signs that indicate a need for detox. Meghan provides practical tips to reduce toxins, emphasizing the importance of gut health and mindful eating. She also addresses the effects of hormonal contraception and offers alternative options for women. This conversation encourages listeners to embrace small, sustainable changes for better health.

Did you know that your phone is the biggest thief of joy in your relationships? In this episode, we’re talking all about breaking free from that scrolling habit and creating deeper, more meaningful moments with the people we cherish. I share my own journey of realizing how mindlessly checking my phone was stealing away the precious time I could spend with my family and friends.  We'll explore how being present, like really present, can transform your relationships and fill you with joy. Plus, I'll share practical tips to help you set boundaries, swap screen time for connection time, and find little ways to show love through acts of service. Let’s learn to be more present, embrace the moments, and build memories that last a lifetime!   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:22 Is Your Phone Stealing Your Time? 03:28 How Much of Your Life Is Spent Scrolling? 05:45 The Impact of Phones on Real Communication 08:39 Personalizing Quality Time for Each Loved One 12:06 Building Healthy Boundaries with Your Phone 15:46 Replacing Phone Time with Family Connection 17:30 How Acts of Service Bring Us Closer 21:42 Become A Better Listener 24:06 What Are You Really Scrolling Away From?   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this discussion with Dr. Taz Bathia, a hormone health expert and author of "The Hormone Shift," listeners learn how hormones influence our mood, energy, and even relationships. Dr. Taz shares her personal struggles and emphasizes the need for awareness around hormone imbalances that can lead to issues like weight gain and fatigue. She dives into the effects of diet, stress, and sleep on hormone health, and offers insights on holistic approaches to managing conditions like PCOS. It's a journey toward empowerment and better health understanding!

Can we trust the healthcare system? In this solo episode, I’m getting real about something I think a lot of us feel—how modern medicine sometimes leaves us disconnected from our bodies, relying on quick fixes and pills that don’t always get to the heart of things. I’ll be sharing my own journey, from working as a dietitian to exploring Ayurveda and holistic healing, and how I finally found a way to trust my body and really listen to what it needs. This isn’t about blaming doctors; it’s about us learning to reconnect and feel in control of our own health. So, let’s sit down together and dive into these beautiful, age-old practices that help us feel more balanced and truly cared for. We deserve to love and nurture our bodies, and I can’t wait to share how we can start doing that!   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:00 Misinformation in Modern Healthcare 06:09 Profit over People 09:31 Overprescription and overmedication 13:22 The Problem with Standardized Health Metrics 15:46 The History of Harmful Medications 18:56 Questioning the Safety of Medications 21:24 There is Always a Way and Another Option   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Can the future of food be both delicious and sustainable? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I chat with Camila Marcus, an inspiring chef, restaurateur, and sustainability advocate. Known for her pioneering work in promoting ethical dining, Camila shares her journey from growing up in Los Angeles to creating a more sustainable future for the food industry.  We explore the concept of regenerative farming, how restaurants can drive environmental change, and practical ways to contribute to a healthier planet. Camila’s wisdom on balancing innovation, responsibility, and profitability offers a fresh perspective on the future of food.    What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:38 What is regenerative farming? 04:58 The language of food 09:06 Why farmers choose monocropping 11:17 “Lab food never solved any problems…” 14:17 Intellectual property rights in the food industry 16:10 Sustainability vs. trends in food 18:56 How to get started with regenerative living 25:17 Misconceptions about healthy eating 27:29 Starting a farm at home 34:26 Balancing motherhood and career with four kids 37:14 Camila’s IVF journey 41:59 The importance of community 44:28 Why we need to talk about IVF more   Follow Camila: https://www.instagram.com/camilla.marcus/ https://www.tiktok.com/@camilla.marcus My Regenerative Kitchen Book   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We all dream of ‘good hair days,’ but what if the secret isn’t just in the products? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re talking all about the frustrating struggle with hair health, from breakage to thinning, and everything in between. I’m diving into my personal journey of dealing with post-COVID hair loss, how it totally knocked my confidence, and what I did to turn it around. Spoiler: it took way more than just a new shampoo! We’ll chat about the holistic and Ayurvedic methods that have made a real difference in my hair’s strength and growth—and yes, I’ll be sharing all the practical tips that worked for me. From scalp massages to gut health, and even the crazy impact of stress on our hair, we’re covering it all. So, if you’re ready to figure out how to get your healthiest, strongest hair yet (without breaking the bank or pulling your hair out—literally), grab your favorite snack, get comfy, and let’s dive in together. Because you deserve to love your hair, and we’re here to make that happen! What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:17 Good hair is a result of good health 05:25 Three types of hair according to Ayurveda 08:16 Embracing your natural hair type 11:04 How external care transforms hair health 12:32 Benefits of using hair oils 14:35 Hair oiling tips 16:24 Do a scalp massage 17:25 Derma roller for hair loss 18:28 More practical tips to protect your hair 21:57 How food & your diet affects your hair 28:53 Stress and hair loss   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if your childhood experiences shaped your relationships more than you ever realized? In today’s episode, I’m joined by Thais Gibson, an expert in attachment theory, who reveals how our subconscious rules for love shape every connection we form. Thais breaks down how these attachment styles influence not just romantic relationships but also our friendships, family dynamics, and most importantly, our relationship with ourselves. Thais and I dive deep into the roots of attachment theory, exploring how core wounds from our past can keep us stuck in unhealthy patterns—and more importantly, how we can heal and reprogram these wounds. With her insights and actionable strategies, Thais explains how anyone can shift from an insecure attachment style to a secure, thriving connection. We also discuss the transformative power of understanding your own needs, setting healthy boundaries, and learning how to cultivate emotional regulation for deeper, more fulfilling relationships. This episode will leave you inspired to change the way you approach love and connection.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:27 What is Attachment Theory? 07:38 Identifying your core wounds 13:16 Reprogramming emotional triggers 17:27 How past emotional scars shape present reactions 20:55 Why do you keep dating the same type? 23:37 Heal yourself first 26:52 Learn what your needs are in a relationship 28:52 Communicate your needs vulnerability and transparently 31:34 Have healthy boundaries 32:23 Why do you find secure people boring? 35:23 The six stages of relationships 37:13 Are you hooked on the drama or the person? 40:40 The difference between sacrifice and compromise 43:45 Being in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant person 46:13 Enmeshment 52:04 Can you be a mix of attachment styles? 54:41 When anxious meets avoidant 57:17 What are your non-negotiables? 59:51 What are your standards or needs? 1:01:19 How do you actually feel when you’re around someone? 1:04:16 Three questions to ask your partner 1:09:24 Thais’ other books 1:10:48 Know more about Thais   Follow Thais: https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do we care so much about what other people think? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re having an honest chat about that constant need for approval and why it's so exhausting! I’m diving into my own journey of always worrying about others’ opinions and how I finally learned to let that go (well, mostly… still working on it!). We’ll talk about the moments when I felt like a total stranger in my own life because I was living for everyone else instead of just being myself. We’ll get into the nitty-gritty of why we feel this way, how to start letting go, and what it actually means to show up as the most authentic version of you. And yes, I’ll be sharing some practical tips and little exercises that have helped me stop overthinking and just be ME. So, if you’re ready to have a heart-to-heart about living life on your own terms, grab a cup of tea, get cozy, and let’s figure this out together. You deserve to be loved for who you really are, and this episode is all about helping you see that!   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:40 Let’s start with an affirmation 01:23 Are you living in your own life? 03:47 Embracing how we’re always changing 05:22 Focus on being in the present 06:21 The danger of losing yourself to fit in 09:28 Approval addiction 09:40 Signs that you care too much about what others think 13:58 Ask yourself this when you start worrying about what others think 17:13 The real reason we’re obsessed with being liked 20:00 Get to know yourself 22:03 Identify your purpose and value in life 23:30 Setting boundaries 24:49 Practice perspective 25:45 Sit in that discomfort of not being liked 26:36 Finding freedom in being yourself   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if the only thing standing between you and real confidence is your fear of failure? In today’s episode, I’m joined by someone who knows exactly how to turn challenges into confidence. Lisa Bilyeu, co-founder of Quest Nutrition and the host of Women of Impact, shares her powerful insights on pushing past fear and self-doubt to unlock your full potential. Lisa and I dive into the uncomfortable truth about confidence: it’s earned by facing failure and embracing growth. She shares her personal journey of overcoming limiting beliefs, offering practical tips on how to break through the barriers holding you back. We also talk about the critical role of building habits that reinforce confidence, and why stepping outside your comfort zone is the only way to truly grow. Lisa’s advice on embracing failure as part of the process will leave you inspired to tackle your own challenges with courage and resilience. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:49 What is Radical Confidence? 07:37 Name your fear 12:25 Your body stores trauma 15:56 Dressing down is killing your confidence 18:42 How to make confidence a habit 22:52 Show up differently and watch others notice 25:59 Getting out of your comfort zone 29:14 Confidence vs. Arrogance vs. Ego 33:31 Insecurity or ego? 35:38 How to accept change 39:46 Stop trying to please everyone 43:37 Contempt and resentment in relationships 45:16 The first step to building confidence 53:35 Don’t be scared to fail 56:47 Break through your limits 1:06:18 Rapid fire questions with Lisa   Follow Lisa: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ https://www.youtube.com/@LisaBilyeu/   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.