The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast

Jamie Scrimgeour
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Nov 3, 2025 • 35min

Are Your Boundaries With the Ex Ridiculous? Do You Have to Like Your Stepkids? How to Disengage Without Disconnecting.

I’m back with another Q+A. You’ll hear my thoughts on how to know if your boundaries with the ex have gone too far, feeling confident around the ex, disengaging without disconnecting, and navigating discipline, personality differences, and house rules with your stepkids.  Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging  Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Get My Ebook -  120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook  Episode Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off of your order Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
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Oct 27, 2025 • 26min

How To Stop Spiralling As A Stepmom, The Ex is Lying + Our Thoughts On My House My Rules

Darren’s back for another Q+A. Answering listener questions on how to stop spiraling as a stepmom, what to do if Mom is checked out, when mom is lying to you, how to motivate your stepkids and more… Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging  Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Get My Ebook -  120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook  Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off of your orderOSEA | Clean skincare that actually works.  Shop OSEA: https://bit.ly/47jvKIj OSEA Ocean Body Glow Set: https://bit.ly/4h16E59 Use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off your first order
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Oct 20, 2025 • 18min

Is Child Support Keeping You Broke? Money Mindset. Stepmom Resentment + Taking Control Of Your Life

You asked and I answered - I’m diving into your listener questions. I’ll share thoughts on navigating financial growth and mindset amidst child support, plus I’ll talk about my hardest period as a stepmom, if I resent Darren, and whether or not I’d do this again.  Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging  Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Get My Ebook -  120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook  Episode Sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
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Oct 13, 2025 • 32min

Navigating Haters, The Ex, Burnout + Screenshots. Creating A Thriving Stepmom Coaching Business

Taking it back in this episode, talking about how this whole platform started + answering your questions about running this platform. I’m also sharing what’s changed since I changed things last year and where my head is at now. Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Get My Ebook -  120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook  Join Elevate: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate Episode Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off of your order OSEA | Clean skincare that actually works.  Shop OSEA: https://bit.ly/47jvKIj OSEA Ocean Body Glow Set: https://bit.ly/4h16E59 Use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off your first order Kajabi | Build the business of your dreams and make a profit - all in one place. Go to www.jamiescrimgeour.com/kajabi to get all the details.
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Oct 6, 2025 • 27min

Ours Baby Q+A. Does The Ex Go To The Hospital And More…

Having an ours baby is a hot topic in a stepfamily dynamic. I get questions daily. In this week's episode Darren and I answer your questions and concerns about adding an ours baby to your blended family crew.  Work With Me. Stepmom Coaching & Mentorship www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Get My Ebook. 120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook  Episode Sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com 
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Sep 29, 2025 • 30min

Solo Q+A: The Power of Delegating, Moving Into Their Home, Finding Your Style + Maintenance Sex

We’re switching it up this week, and not just talking about stepmom stuff.   You asked, and I answered:  How do I ‘do it all’?  What health and wellness looks like in my current life My approach to fashion and style  The experience I had moving into Darren’s home where he used to live with his ex  How I navigate goal setting and burnout  The biggest shift I ever made in my stepmom mindset  Making space for intimacy in a busy life PRIVATE COACHING. WORK WITH ME www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching JOIN ELEVATE: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate GET THE EBOOK: www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook  THANKS TO MY SPONSORS:  LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% off of your order Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
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Sep 22, 2025 • 24min

Are Your Boundaries Too Much?

Boundaries are extremely important to implement and hold in your relationships, but in my years as a stepmom coaching I’ve come to find that many people misunderstand what boundaries are.  Boundaries are not about controlling another person - they are about communicating your needs and preferences in regards to how people treat you. Good boundaries should get you closer to the dynamic you need in your relationship, not further away from it.  Today, Darren and I are diving into boundaries that stepmoms have submitted. You’ll hear boundary talk about:  Kids in the bedroom  Sending memes to the ex  Constant communication with the ex  Kids dropping by unannounced outside of the custody agreement   Driving the step kids to bio mom’s house to pick up things they forgot  Sitting with the ex at events Work with Jamie:  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Join Elevate:  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate  Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. OSEA | Clean skincare that actually works. Shop OSEA: https://bit.ly/47jvKIj OSEA Ocean Body Glow Set: https://bit.ly/4h16E59 Use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off your first order 
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Sep 15, 2025 • 32min

Stepkids are 18. Is it Freedom?

Darren and I have entered a whole new season of life - the kids are 18, child support is over, and the house is very quiet. Honestly? I sometimes miss the frenzy and chaos of a full house!  Darren joins me today for an update on our lives now that all of these changes have occurred.  We’ll tackle your listener questions:  What does life feel like without child support?  How do we support our young adult children?  How do I expect to show up as a stepmom in the lives of my adult stepkids?  What has changed in our marriage on the other side of this journey?  Work with Jamie:  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Join Elevate:  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate  Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% off of your order Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
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Sep 8, 2025 • 22min

I’m Back. (WTF Happened?)

The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast is officially back!  Today, I’ll get into the details of why I stepped back from the podcast and my membership late last year, what the break has taught me about myself and my goals, and how I’m now showing up for stepmoms in a whole new way.  Keep an eye on this space and make sure you’re subscribed to the show, because I’ll be here with fresh weekly episodes to support you in your stepmom journey - and I’m going to be more raw and real than I have ever been before.  Work with Jamie:  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Join Elevate:  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate  Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com
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Oct 15, 2024 • 58min

The Ex Only Gets 15 Minutes + Wills That Don’t Feel Morbid with Kerri Koen

This week on the KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, fellow stepmom and Estate Planner Kerri Koen is on to dive into all things estate planning and stepmom life. This interview was originally recorded for KICK-ASS Stepmom, my online platform for stepmoms however the conversation was so valuable we are sharing it here too.We talk about:Tough conversations all stepfamilies need to haveWays to make estate planning feel less daunting and finalHow to avoid conflict in your stepfamilyThings stepfamilies need to consider when creating their wills and estate planningand more! For more from Kerri head to www.modernlegacylawgroup.comJoin KICK-ASS StepmomWork With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coachingThanks to our sponsors:Better Help | Visit betterhelp.com/stepmom today to get 10% off your first monthCozy Earth | cozyearth.com/kickassstepmom and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% offMetabolic Reset Program | Get $100 off with the code KICKASSSTEPMOM at https://www.jentherhn.com

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