American Sex

On episode 130 of American Sex Podcast, Aida Manduley introduces us to attachment theory and explains how it impacts our daily lives. It turns out the way we connect in adult relationships is influenced by how we related to our caregivers as kids. Find out which best describes you--secure, anxious, avoidant, fearful? Aida also adapts attachment theory to polyamorous relationships, tells us how attachment styles affect the way we express ourselves sexually, how they impact our relationships in quarantine, and how BDSM roleplay can be used to explore our styles. Aida also gives us specific exercises we can do to help us relate to our partners better and overcome obstacles influenced by our attachment styles.  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 130 Links Aida Manduley Website www.aidamanduley.com Aida Manduley Twitter neuronbomb Aida Manduley Instagram @aidamanduley Aida Manduley Facebook http://bit.ly/FBaida Therapy practice bit.ly/TMPaida2 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp Sex with Sunny Megatron TV Show Viewing parties https://www.patreon.com/posts/36334854 Prostate Play for Beginners Saturday 6/6 from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html Long Distance Kink & Cybersex from Sugar Baltimore Thursday, June 11 https://www.sugartheshop.com/long-distance-kink-cybersex.html American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex Podcast live stream http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl  Episode 130 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

On episode 129 of American Sex Podcast, Cecilia Tan tells us about an infamous post-geek-convention play party organized through the first online BDSM community, alt.sex.bondage in 1991. We explore how this budding virtual leather community went on to shape sex & kink positive culture and how other contributions of Gen X set the tone for the world we live in now. Cecilia also spills the tea on the history of tea and its curious relationship with gender plus she tells us how she single-handedly created the now popular Sci-Fi Erotica genre. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 129 Links Cecilia Tan Website http://www.ceciliatan.com/ Cecilia Tan Twitter https://twitter.com/ceciliatan Cecilia Tan Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ctan_writer/ Cecilia Tan Facebook https://www.facebook.com/thececiliatan Binge Watcher’s Guide to Harry Potter https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/riverdaleavebooks/the-binge-watchers-guide-to-the-harry-potter-films 1994 article about alt.sex.bondage https://www.wired.com/1994/06/alt-sex-bondage/ American Sex Podcast Discord Server http://bit.ly/discordasp Sex with Sunny Megatron TV Show Viewing parties https://www.patreon.com/posts/36334854 Prostate Play for Beginners Saturday 6/6 from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html Long Distance Kink & Cybersex from Sugar Baltimore Thursday, June 11 https://www.sugartheshop.com/long-distance-kink-cybersex.html American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex Podcast live stream http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl  Episode 129 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

On episode 128 of American Sex Podcast, we speak with Amy Jo Goddard about the challenges we’re facing during isolation. Quarantine is pressing us to reevaluate our biggest life decisions-- where we live, our careers, our relationships. Although we have some commonalities, many of us are having vastly different experiences. It seems as if we’re either on the verge of breakdown or unexpectedly thriving. A collective identity crisis is also rocking the foundation of our culture and hitting close to home for those that have lost jobs or had their lives significantly altered. We discuss how these shifts impact our quest for intimacy, our need to expose our vulnerability, our desire for sex, and the nurturing our relationships need.  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 128 Links Amy Jo Goddard Website http://amyjogoddard.com/ Amy Jo Goddard Twitter https://twitter.com/AmyJoGoddard Amy Jo Goddard Instagram http://instagram.com/sexualempowerment Amy Jo Goddard Facebook https://www.facebook.com/amyjogoddard.coach/ At Your Cervix Movie https://www.atyourcervixmovie.com/ Fire Woman Retreat 5/15-17 (this is also where you can sign up for the free session on Thurs 5/14) http://bit.ly/firewoman American Sex Podcast Discord Server http://bit.ly/discordasp Sex with Sunny Megatron TV Show Viewing parties https://www.patreon.com/posts/36334854 Prostate Play for Beginners Saturday 6/6 from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html Long Distance Kink & Cybersex from Sugar Baltimore Thursday June 11 https://www.sugartheshop.com/long-distance-kink-cybersex.html American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex Podcast live stream, 5/13  8pm PDT Kinky family Feud with Dirty Lola & Jimanekia Eborn http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl  Episode 128 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

Episode 127 of American Sex Podcast is a gamer geek and sex geek wet dream! We’re joined by Sharang Biswas & his eo-editor who are the editors and co-contributors of Honey and Hot Wax, an anthology of RPG games about sex, and Dr. Kit Stubbs, Founder of the Effing Foundation for Sex Positivity. We discuss how assigning sexual acts to game mechanics helps normalize conversations about sexuality, reduces shame, highlights the importance of safety and consent, and improves people’s sex lives. They also walk us through a few of their favorite games-- some as tame as using subtle sexual innuendo in role-plays between characters and others as wild as requiring real-life jerking off to move the game forward.  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 127 Links Honey & Hot Wax info & pre-order https://site.pelgranepress.com/index.php/honey-hot-wax-an-anthology-of-erotic-art-games/  Sharang Biswas Twitter http://twitter.com/SharangBiswas Sharang Biswas Websites https://sharangbiswas.myportfolio.com & https://astrolingus.itch.io The Effing Foundation Website https://www.effing.org The Effing Foundation Twitter http://twitter.com/EffingFound The Effing Foundation Facebook facebook.com/EffingFoundation Effing Foundation supported projects https://www.effing.org/grantees Effing Foundation projects discussed in this episode The Black Girl's Guide to Surviving Menopause, Native Youth Sexual Health Network,  Very INTEResting with Hans Lindahl Dr. Kit Stubbs twitter http://twitter.com/Vortacist American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex podcast live stream, 4/15 8pm PDT http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl   Episode 127 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Join mygirlfund free, and for a limited time you can become a lifetime premium member for less than $5 when you visit mygirlfund.com/sunny (That means you can get discounted credits and bonus interaction features for life!) PLUS to support people who are trying to make ends meet from home right now, they’re giving a $50 bonus to all women who sign up during April and reach $500 in contributions Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

On ep 126 of American Sex Podcast, Midori teaches us about sensuality and seduction. This pandemic has set the stage for us to revaluate our emotions, reset our intimate motivations, and really examine what it means to be an erotic being. Midori explains why seduction is the art of not just creating desire but also of being desired. She teaches us how to slow down, cultivate our sensuality, and separate it from our typical orgasm goal-oriented approach to sex. Learn how your favorite movies can be a roadmap for seduction, to use your imagination to erotically remote locate with a partner, and the reason why most of us miss that mark when it comes to self-centered vs. collaborative sexual motives. Most importantly, Midori reminds us that you don’t need to be a sexual superstar to be the most important person in your lover’s life.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 126 Links Midori Twitter https://twitter.com/PlanetMidori Midori Instagram https://www.instagram.com/planetmidori/ Midori Newsletter https://www.fhp-inc.com/newsletter Midori class/event calendar http://www.FHP-Inc.com/classes Midori’s intensives www.ForteFemme.com www.RopeDojo.com Midori’s Patreon https://www.patreon.com/PlanetMidori/ [Hella Kvetch] show ep 1. "COVID-19 Life: A Play in Innumerable Acts" https://www.patreon.com/posts/hella-kvetch-ep-35272690 Midori talking about Aural Sex on American Sex Live video stream https://getvokl.com/live-broadcast/Aural-Sex-with-Midori Midori’s Fetlife message takedown: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10162984313005618&set=a.492986405617&type=3&theater American Sex Ep 123 with Kate Loree http://sunnymegatron.com/coronavirus-sex-mental-health/ American Sex Ep 125 with Dr. Chris Donaghue http://sunnymegatron.com/love-relationships-lockdown/ Support for creators http://sunnymegatron.com/support-during-coronavirus/ 4×4 breathing technique https://youtu.be/treM-7QN1-Q American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex podcast live stream, Aural Sex with Midori, 4/1/20 8pm PST http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl Episode 126 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

Many of us are sheltered in place with partners, family members, or roommates. Some are thrilled about the quality time spent with loved ones, others not so much. We’re bickering, tense, and in some situations, the isolation is a breeding ground for abuse. On Ep. 125 of American Sex Podcast Dr. Chris Donaghue gives us coping and communication strategies we can use with people we’re quarantined with. Learn how this pandemic affects libido and how to deal with desire discrepancy, get tips for setting boundaries with difficult housemates, find out how to use sensory experiences to find solitude, plus learn to identify hidden signs of depression/anxiety and which mental health strategies can help. Dr. Chris also gives us the reassurance we need to address our guilt about not being productive in quarantine and reveals why it’s important to focus on self-care, relaxation, and restoration. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 125 Links Dr. Chris DonaghueWebsite https://www.drchrisdonaghue.com/ Dr. Chris Donaghue Instagram https://www.instagram.com/drdonaghue/ Dr. Chris Donaghue Twitter https://twitter.com/ChrisDonaghue Dr. Chris Donaghue Facebook https://www.facebook.com/TheChrisDonaghue/ Dr. Chris Donaghue’s daily COVID-19 mental health radio show, “I’m Listening: Stay Connected” https://www.radio.com/news/dr-chris-donaghue-to-host-im-listening-stay-connected#// Rebel Love Book https://www.runningpress.com/titles/chris-donaghue/rebel-love/9780762465347/  Sex Outside the Lines: Authentic Sexuality in a Sexually Dysfunctional Culture Book https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Outside-Lines-Authentic-Dysfunctional/dp/1940363780/ Abortion issues under COVID-19 https://rewire.news/article/2020/03/23/state-officials-try-to-end-abortion-during-covid-19-crisis/ American Sex Ep 124 about online sex & BDSM http://sunnymegatron.com/quarantinelife-sex-coronavirus/ Fender music lessons app free for 3 months for the first 100k signups https://www.fender.com/play Down Dog Family of app free until 5/1/20 (includes Down Dog, Yoga for Beginners, HIIT, Barre, and 7 Minute Workout) https://www.downdogapp.com/. 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YMCA classes online free https://ymca360.org/on-demand#/ List of free entertainment, stress-relieving, and educational resources https://myquarantinelist.bookmark.com/ 40 free mental health resources (books, worksheets, workbooks, guides) to help others cope with anxiety/fear, addiction, depression, suicidal ideation, and stress https://mega.nz/#F!EJAAxAQb!LMB6J2qabOQhMiN1eq5a0A Giddy ED Guide free during isolation period https://getmegiddy.com/ed-guide-video-library/ Art games, education & more https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EVMQiHHKugF4RQ071DzimkSKn1AuiBNOJ-i6xs1mBts/preview?fbclid=IwAR3BVJMCcW1XV_UFjVQ_j8QvSd7ATvL1BW3DXGiYd5i_1w8L75FAlQPuCPQ Support for creators http://sunnymegatron.com/support-during-coronavirus/ Spouses share what they learned about their partner under quarantine https://www.workingmother.com/spouses-share-hilarious-things-theyve-learned-about-their-partner-working-from-home? Leveler peer-to-peer wealth distribution http://leveler.info Domestic Violence & other safety resources during shelter in place https://www.futureswithoutviolence.org/get-updates-information-covid-19 Cards Against Humanity online https://www.businessinsider.com/cards-against-humanity-virtually-online-video-chat-how-to-play-2020-3?fbclid=IwAR1x_z90JgmeGo4IMoPlsMmpgI1WMWJu2TJVbcl-SuS0FDl1Dbu-0EnBAqo DBT 911 app https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=se.annadroid.Dbt112&hl=en_US&fbclid=IwAR2bGdc1k_fv039PhuG5Uob7SLl3LdNhPDWsNuQ5Ded2WS3syg9h-OMDX1A About DBT https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/dbt.htm?fbclid=IwAR1imIZ2PRkCWvHH6qszePAmH7GBQ0RNC_xWoZN8Lw8kRLQGIxfYJm7MISY DBT Skills List https://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/dbt_skills_list.html?fbclid=IwAR1JcmoLQBXTyYJk4y3tLF_oRNXXsT1mOUXvUxgEJAbg1eG67-D3RHTB040 Thought Challenger app https://intellicare.cbits.northwestern.edu/app/thoughtchallenger?fbclid=IwAR1g3EVRhNr1bFJOIdfdWLPwNhbmNkAJiExtqFQXpNZoU1TmljrusWO2RHM Intellicare Apps https://intellicare.cbits.northwestern.edu/?fbclid=IwAR0v-LQegtaA6dstnIU_qvE0AqrjCxVc5czmfEQQObmI6DtVg2cRtCjKQ6o 4×4 breathing technique https://youtu.be/treM-7QN1-Q Pineapple Support (sliding scale/free mental health resources for sex workers) https://pineapplesupport.org/ Get your first week of online/tech-based therapy with Talkspace FREE by using code SUNNY at http://talkspace.com American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex podcast live stream, Aural Sex with Midori, 4/1/20 8pm PST http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl Episode 125 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  10% off + free shipping from Überlube with code SUNNY at UberLube.com Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Join mygirlfund free, and for a limited time you can become a lifetime premium member for less than $5 when you visit mygirlfund.com/sunny (That means you can get discounted credits and bonus interaction features for life!)  YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. 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Health departments are now recommending we stop seeing partners that live outside of our own homes. So many of us miss dating, our polyamorous partners, sex parties, tinder hookups, dungeon playtime, and more. Many are even starting to “quarantine-dial” exes (stop that)! We’re craving intimate companionship right now more than ever. In this episode, we give you safe alternatives for getting it on long-distance style. You have a lot more options than just talking dirty on FaceTime. Discover dozens of adult games, apps, programs, techniques, and creative ideas for connecting intimately with others while you’re sheltering in place. This info can be used for ongoing relationships, BDSM scenes, cam performers & online pro-doms, cybersex with strangers online, or getting it on by yourself. Although much will be related to kink, these resources aren’t only for BDSM. Many of these tools/techniques can be used by folks that are on the vanilla end of the spectrum too. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 124 Links Replay of our Long Distance Kink & Cybersex Live Stream https://getvokl.com/live-broadcast/Long-Distance-Kink-and-Cybersex Exploring BDSM Episode 80 American Sex  http://sunnymegatron.com/exploring-bdsm-podcast/ Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Kink Academy podcast on long distance kink https://erotication.libsyn.com/long-distance-kink SESTA/FOSTA Episode 36 ASP http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Teamviewer https://www.teamviewer.com/ Netflix Party Chrome extension https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/netflix-party/oocalimimngaihdkbihfgmpkcpnmlaoa?hl=en Rabb.it https://www.rabb.it/ The Dildorks Podcast https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/ Orgasm Control guide written by Sunny Megatron for Kinkly (includes orgasm games) https://www.kinkly.com/14/16957/sex-tips/everything-you-need-to-know-about-orgasm-denial Emlalock https://emlalock.com/#/ ChastiKey app https://www.chastikey.com/ Real Estate Lock Box https://www.amazon.com/Master-Lock-5400D-Combination-Portable/dp/B0002YP1VC/ Kitchen Timer Box https://www.amazon.com/Kitchen-Safe-Mini-Locking-Container/dp/B00JGFQRN4/ Writeforme.org https://writeforme.org/ Self-Bondage Safety https://www.selfbound.net/tech/safety.html Literotica http://literotica.com/ Onesubmissiveact.com (may be offline) https://onesubmissiveact.com/ Faproulette.com https://www.faproulette.co/8903/risky-door-fap/ Fapinstructor.com https://fapinstructor.com Milovana https://milovana.com Sex Scripts https://ss.deviatenow.com/scripts.php Signal https://signal.org/ MarcoPolo https://www.marcopolo.me/ Violet Blue https://www.tinynibbles.com/ Lovense toys https://store.castlemegastore.com/departments/lovense-sex-toys-226.html We-Vibe toys http://shrsl.com/1lngm We-Vibe Moxie remote panty vibe http://shrsl.com/1lngn Why you should never buy sex toys on Amazon http://sunnymegatron.com/counterfeit-vibrators-hitachi-magic-wand-fake/ O.School https://www.o.school/ Fetlife http://fetlife.com/ Online orgy resource http://sunnymegatron.com/find-online-orgy-websites-seen-sex-sunny-megatron/ Sex with Sunny Megatron Episode 5 “The More The Merrier” https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron Kasidie http://www.kasidie.com/ SLS http://www.swinglifestyle.com/?signup=AFF977100913 SwingerZoneCentral http://swingerzonecentral.com/affiliates/aw.aspx?A=1313&Task=Click  American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex podcast live stream, The 411 on Sex Acronyms, 3/25 8pm PST http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl *some of the above links may be affiliate links Episode 124 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Join mygirlfund free, and for a limited time you can become a lifetime premium member for less than $5 when you visit mygirlfund.com/sunny (That means you can get discounted credits and bonus interaction features for life!)  YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. 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Does COVID-19 have you spiraling? Then DROP EVERYTHING. You need to listen to episode 123 of American Sex Podcast STAT. Kate Loree, LMFT dishes out practical advice for dealing with Coronavirus anxiety and gives tips for soothing distressed loved ones. Many of us are experiencing PTSD reactions from pandemic panic plus it's affecting the mental health of those in alt-sex/relationship communities like BDSM, non-monogamy, LGBTQ+ and sex workers who are losing their livelihoods. Coronavirus is impacting our access to sexuality and physical connection too--which is something many of us need for comfort, especially during trying times. Kate also answers the burning question, “Why are we buying so much damn toilet paper?” and the answer might surprise you. This conversation is jam-packed with workable solutions and free/low-cost resources for the mental turmoil we’re all going through right now. With hope, all of this social distancing will actually bring us closer together as a community.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 123 Links Kate Loree Facebook https://www.facebook.com/KateLoreeLMFT/ Kate Loree Twitter https://twitter.com/KateLoree Kate Loree Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Kate Loree Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kate.loree/ Kate Loree Website http://kateloree.com/ Supporting Creators, Entertainers & Gig Workers During The Era Coronavirus http://sunnymegatron.com/support-during-coronavirus/ Down Dog App (Free until 4/1/20) https://markets.businessinsider.com/news/stocks/down-dog-offers-free-access-to-its-yoga-and-fitness-apps-until-april-1-2020-1028993657 Breath Work https://www.breathworkhealings.com/ 4x4 breathing technique https://youtu.be/treM-7QN1-Q Pineapple Support (sliding scale/free mental health resources for sex workers) https://pineapplesupport.org/ Get your first week of online/tech-based therapy with Talkspace FREE by using code SUNNY at http://talkspace.com Steven Colbert’s Thursday 3/12/20 audience-free boozy, surreal, apocalyptic, monoluge https://youtu.be/aKhPbVN_Rbw The Body Keeps The Score https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Transformation-Trauma/dp/0141978619/ref=sr_1_2 Wired For Love https://www.amazon.com/dp/1608820580/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_GuRBEb1KWNV6R Getting The Love You Want https://www.amazon.com/dp/1250310539/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_gvRBEbKE3K49J SWOP USA https://swopusa.org/ Scarlett Alliance http://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ Desire Alliance http://desireealliance.org/ American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex podcast live stream, Long Distance Sexy Time (aka Germ-Free Fun), 3/18 8pm PST http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl Episode 123 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  10% off + free shipping from Überlube with code SUNNY at UberLube.com 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

Episode 122 of American Sex Podcast is a wonderful resource for those curious about non-monogamy or seasoned pros with bumps in the road. Dr. Liz Powell and Kevin Patterson discuss how the toxic monogamous ideals we bring into polyamorous relationships trip us up, give advice for poly breakups, and answer to the question “can you cheat if you’re polyamorous?” You’ll also get tips for managing resentment and frustration, addressing the perceived power imbalance between long-time partners and new metamours, how not to come off as a dreaded unicorn hunter, navigating poly Facebook, finding solid resources for newcomers, figuring out what non-monogamous label best fits you, and more. Grab your partners, metamours, and like-minded friends--this episode will spark some great conversation.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 122 Links Unfuck Your Polyamory course https://sexpositivepsych.teachable.com/p/unfckpolyamory Dr. Liz Powell Facebook http://facebook.com/sexpositivepsych Dr. Liz Powell Twitter http://twitter.com/sexpospsych Dr. Liz Powell Youtube http://youtube.com/c/sexpositivepsych Dr. Liz Powell Instagram http://instagram.com/drlizpowell Dr. Liz Powell Website https://sexpositivepsych.com/  Building Open Relationships http://buildingopenrelationsips Kevin Patterson Twitter http://twitter.com/PolyRoleModels Kevin Patterson Instagram http://instagram.com/PolyRoleModels Poly Role Models https://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ Love’s Not Color Blind Book Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/1944934464/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp_t2_DiNUzbMDAA9EW American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex podcast live stream, 3/11 8pm PST http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl Episode 122 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Join mygirlfund free, and for a limited time you can become a lifetime premium member for less than $5 when you visit mygirlfund.com/sunny (That means you can get discounted credits and bonus interaction features for life!)  YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

On episode 121 of American Sex Podcast, Sydney Leathers talks about her fallout from the Anthony Weiner sexting scandal. In what was one of the biggest political sex scandals of the last decade Sydney was cyberbullied, hounded by the media, isolated from family and friends, shunned by members of the adult industry, and slut-shamed by her own therapist. She tells us how she eventually came out on the other side and how this incident unexpectedly improved, and perhaps even saved, her life. We examine why we repeatedly fail to consider how power dynamics, age, and the men themselves in sex scandals; deconstruct the common narrative that women are evil temptresses; and reflect on what may have been different if it happened post #MeToo. Sydney also gives us her pick for the 2020 presidential election and tells voters what to watch for regarding issues impacting sexual freedom and sex work when evaluating candidates.  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! Episode 121 Links Sydney Leathers Twitter http://instagram.com/sydneyelainexo Sydney Leathers Instagram http://instagram.com/sydneyelainexo Sydney Leathers Only Fans http://onlyfans.com/sydneyleathers Weiner and Me movie trailer https://youtu.be/YAI51IyIOyQ Sydney Leathers on Sean Hannity https://youtu.be/_uWuId98MyY American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex podcast live stream, 2/26 8pm PST Dealing with Erectile Dysfunction http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl Eddie by Giddy giveaway http://sunnymegatron.com/giddy-giveaway/ Womxn Who Wonder giveaway https://www.instagram.com/p/B8-LacKJYhu/ Episode 121 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off Giddy ED Device & Educational Guide at https://buygiddy.com/savewithsunny with code SUNNY Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com 10% off + free shipping from Überlube with code SUNNY at UberLube.com YNOT Mail – The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY