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Rope bondage can be visually stunning. But many of us leave erotic human macrame to the experts because the prospect of doing it ourselves is so intimidating. Do we need specialty rope, impeccable technique, and the confidence to go with it all? No according to Midori! On Ep 150 of American Sex Podcast Midori guides us through rope bondage for beginners with items we all have at home. Learn about safety, get inspiration for scene ideas, and how to have fun with long-distance bondage play. Midori also discusses the cultural origins of Shibari. Is it an honorable ancient Japanese practice like many of the rope enthusiasts claim? Or is there some cultural misappropriation at play? The answer may surprise you. ____________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter  Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 150 Links Midori Twitter https://twitter.com/PlanetMidori Midori Instagram https://www.instagram.com/planetmidori/ Midori Newsletter https://www.fhp-inc.com/newsletter Midori class/event calendar http://www.FHP-Inc.com/classes ONLINE: Interrogation Scenes and Military Play - Part 1. Discussion of Structure & Psychology https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/5027440 Midori’s Patreon https://www.patreon.com/PlanetMidori/ Midori talking about Aural Sex on American Sex Live video stream https://getvokl.com/live-broadcast/Aural-Sex-with-Midori Midori Ep 126 American Sex - Seduction http://sunnymegatron.com/midori-seduction-podcast/ Midori Ep 72 American Sex - Hotter Negotiation http://sunnymegatron.com/hotter-negotiation-midori-podcast/ Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg The "Messenger Bag" move with Midori https://youtu.be/wRhw5hupv-w Midori's Easy Release 2 Column Rope Tie https://youtu.be/xKMWnGpKDDs Midori & Zoe Ligon on Japanese Rope / Shibari https://youtu.be/MvOjPkJ-lyU Full length class video: Rope Bondage-Sense & Sensuality Exercises https://www.patreon.com/posts/full-length-rope-43106804 Midori's Lightning Harness, a rope body harness https://youtu.be/X23nU_d5Vis The History & Myths of Japanese Bondage: Censorship, Sex Work, and Othering in the World of Shibari https://journal.spectrumboutique.com/article/the-history-myths-of-japanese-bondage/ Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 150 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com 40% off and free shipping for all app-enabled devices at satisfyer.com with code SUNNY40 20% off your first Sakara order: http://sakara.com/sunny & use code SUNNY Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

Butt play is for everyone. It doesn’t have a gender or orientation. So many folks are curious but don’t know where to get safe information. Who better to ask than a gay GI doctor who not only knows the medical side of things but is no stranger to butt stuff himself?! On ep 149 of American Sex Podcast, Dr. Carlton tells us everything we need to know about the back door. We discuss enemas, considerations for hemorrhoids and fissures, how to stretch safely, how much is too much, prostate stimulation, anal orgasms for people with vulvas, lubes, fisting, must-know tips for tops and bottoms, and more. Also learn why it’s important to tell your doctor about the kind of sex you have and what to do if they shame you.  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 149 Links Dr. Carlton Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorcarlton Dr Carlton Instagram https://www.instagram.com/doctorcarlton/ Dr. Carlton Twitter https://twitter.com/doctor_carlton Dr Carlton Website (coming soon!) http://DoctorCarlton.net Dr. Carlton Email doctorcarlton@doctorcarlton.net Kink & Poly Aware Professional List from NCFS https://www.kapprofessionals.org/ Find an LGBTQ+ Health Care Provider http://glma.org/ Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Pervertibles live stream with hashtag open http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 149 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/Sunny/ and enter code SUNNY at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website. 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny 25% off and free shipping for with code SUNNY24 at Satisfyer Pleasure Products http://satisfyer.com  20% off of our favorite FemmeFunn products when you go to http://FemmeFunn.com/sunny AND enter code SUNNY at checkout  20% off AND free shipping when you go to http://LikeAKitten.com/sunny OR enter code SUNNY at checkout YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

Whether it’s for long-distance play during quarantine or to replace lost income using sites like Only Fans, more people than ever are using the internet for sex. Many are shocked when their accounts are shut down after using Zoom for a date, storing thirst trap content on Google Drive, or posting PG-13 content on mainstream social media. Why does this happen? In this conversation, Sunny Megatron details the modern history of sexual censorship in the U.S. starting with Miller vs. California in 1973 diving down the rabbit hole of historical events leading us to where we are now. If you’ve ever wondered why Instagram, TikTok or adult sites have the odd rules they do about adult content, the answer is in this episode-- and it might surprise you.  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 148 Links Ep 136 SESTA/FOSTA http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Ep  83 Lance Hart http://sunnymegatron.com/lance-hart-podcast/ Frontline 2002 episode on adult industry censorship “American Porn” https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/frontline/film/showsporn/ An overview of past pornography/obscenity rulings by the US Supreme Court https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/porn/prosecuting/overview.html?pepperjam=&publisherId=96525&clickId=3381471605&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=affiliate More information from the Forntline program: https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/porn/ Sunny’s episode of Bawdy Storytelling w/the telephone “Fem Dom Mindfuck” story https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcast/season5eps123sunnymegatron Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Pervertibles live stream with hashtag open http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 148 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Satisfyer Pleasure Products http://satisfyer.com 20% off your first Sakara order: http://sakara.com/sunny & use code SUNNY YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

On episode 147 we talk with Bekah Rose about abuse in the kink community and in kink relationships. How do we most effectively deal with habitual abusers in our spaces? Is it always possible to make room for people that abuse to change and heal? What are the most common types of abuse we see within the kink community? In intimate relationships why is it so hard to spot subtle abusive tactics like gaslighting and emotional manipulation? How can we better support others who are experiencing this? What’s the difference between a consent violation and consent failure? Abuse is present in every community and has the potential to perpetrated by anyone in any type of relationship. This is episode required listening no matter what community you belong to.     Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 147 Links Bekah Rose TikTok https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJQMvRwn/ Bekah Rose Instagram https://www.instagram.com/plusthefuckup/ Transformative Justice A Curriculum Guide https://transformharm.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/tjcurriculum_design_small-finalrev.pdf Toward Transformative Justice A Liberatory Approach to Child Sexual Abuse and other forms of Intimate and Community Violence http://www.generationfive.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/G5_Toward_Transformative_Justice-Document.pdf Handbook on Restorative Justice programmes https://www.unodc.org/pdf/criminal_justice/Handbook_on_Restorative_Justice_Programmes.pdf Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Pervertibles live stream with hashtag open http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 147 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Satisfyer Pleasure Products http://satisfyer.com 50% off your first Care/of order: TakeCareOf.com & use code sunny50 YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

In the kink world a mindf*ck involves ethically using mental manipulation to bend a bottom’s reality. Whether it’s the subtle twisting of details to enhance a sensory experience or an elaborate rouse akin to an erotic practical joke, minf*cks can greatly enhance kink & role play. On ep 146 Sir Ezra deconstructs this psychological tool. Learn why mindf*cking gets a bad wrap, what steps to follow when executing a mindf*ck, and hear about real-world examples used in kink scenes. We also discuss how to remain ethical when topping, plus how during vetting, negotiation, and play you can spot red flags in partners using these techniques for malicious manipulation and harmful deceit. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 146 Links Sir Ezra Website http://whatsinmykinky.com/ Sir Ezra TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@houseofalgos Sir Ezra Twitter https://twitter.com/HouseOfAlgos Virtual Dom(me) Support Group 11/18 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/domme-support-group-tickets-122446241003 Virtual Tuesday Book club “The New Topping Book” with Sir Ezra and Queen Ana 10/27-12/15 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tuesday-book-club-with-sir-ezra-and-queen-ana-the-new-topping-book-tickets-116073132865 Virtual Saturday Book Club “The New Topping Book” 10/31-12/19 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/saturday-book-club-with-sir-ezra-and-queen-ana-the-new-topping-book-tickets-117051830175 S.O.S. with Ana: Soft Skills, Organization, and Support Group 11/19 & 12/18 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sos-with-ana-soft-skills-open-discussion-and-support-hosted-queen-ana-tickets-116270828177 S.O.S. with Ana: Soft Skills, Organization, and Support Group Thursdays in 2021 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sos-with-ana-soft-skills-open-discussion-and-support-hosted-queen-ana-tickets-126439807869 Finding A Play Partner class 11/30 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/finding-your-play-partner-tickets-126191495159 Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Pervertibles live stream with hashtag open http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 146 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/Sunny/ and enter code SUNNY at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website. 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

The most popular place to learn about kink is the internet. Social media platforms have become a wealth of BDSM information for newbies and beginners alike. While websites and pop culture have made kink more acceptable and accessible, they are also allowing potentially dangerous misinformation to spread like wildfire. On ep 145 Safiya Darling talks about the plusses and pitfalls of learning about kink in the digital age. We discuss edgeplay activities like knife play & erotic choking, how to properly vet partners and educators, ways to be sure you’re getting a well-rounded kink education & more.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 145 Links Safiya Darling Twitter https://twitter.com/spsafiya Safiya Darling TikTok https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJ5P9HSm/ Safiya Darling Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SexPositiveSafiya/ Safiya Darling Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexpositivesafiya/?hl=en Safiya Darling email SexPositiveSafiya@gmail.com Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast GetVokl BDSM Q&A live stream, Weds 11/11 8pm PT live stream http://bit.ly/aspstream American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex   Episode 145 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeo.com/sunny YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY  

Age players are not only often misunderstood by those in the vanilla world but even by the kink community. On ep 144 Mako Allen sets the record straight. Age play often involves tapping into a particular state of mind and vulnerability and he explains why this is so appealing. We discuss if and how age play might be tied to rewriting childhood trauma, the existence of dominant littles, what benefits those playing the role of a big enjoy, and diaper play, plus Mako tells us about his personal journey rejecting exploring the role of a little due to fear and stigma. We also learn about the new app Mako created to help those in M/s and D/s dynamic manage punishments and rewards.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 144 Links Mako Allen Twitter https://twitter.com/makoallen Big Little Podcast http://www.biglittlepodcast.com Website http://www.onlydoing.net Blog http://www.onlydoing.net WeMinder Info https://info.weminder.app/coming-soon & https://blog.weminder.app/ SESTA FOSTA Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Esperanto  https://www.buzzsprout.com/962578/5288973 Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Pervertibles live stream with hashtag open http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 144 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/Sunny/ and enter code SUNNY at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website. 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

What does it mean to be a switch in BDSM? This week Queen Ana Algos brings us into the world of switching. We talk about switch erasure--some people think switches don’t exist, they’re just confused doms and subs that haven’t picked a side yet, or that they aren’t really good at topping or bottoming because their heart is never really in it. Ana busts these myths and a lot more. Learn about switch drop, why cis men have a harder time indulging their switchy side, how to overcome switch imposter syndrome, plus we explore the ways kink education has changed during COVID and answer the much-debated question, can edgeplay safely be taught online?   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 143 Links Ana Algos TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@silly_switch_ana Ana Algos Instagram https://www.instagram.com/queenanaalgos/ Ana Algos Facebook https://www.facebook.com/QueenAna.Algos/ Ana Algos Twitter https://twitter.com/QueenAnaAlgos Ana Algos Website https://www.queenanaalgos.com/ Silver Scenes: Playing with and Playing as an Older Kinkster Sat 10/17 http://thechasenotchase.eventcreate.com The ChamPAIN Room: Apocalypse Sat 10/17 ChamPAINRoom.Eventbrite.com S.O.S. with Ana: Soft Skills, Organization, and Support Group https://soswithqueenana.eventbrite.com Wednesday Book Club The New Bottoming Book with Ana https://wednesdaybookclub.eventbrite.com Saturday Book Club The New Bottoming Book with Ana https://saturdaybookclub.eventbrite.com Tuesday Book club The New Topping Book with Sir Ezra and Queen Ana https://tuesdaybookclubthenewtoppingbook.eventbrite.com Saturday Book Club The New Topping Book with Sir Ezra and Queen Ana https://saturdaybookclubthenewtoppingbook.eventbrite.com Sunny's free pervertibles class Wed 10/14 5pm PT http://hashtagopen.com/live Fire Woman Retreat free opening session (October 22): https://www.amyjogoddard.com/fwr-oct-2020-opening?utm_source=sunny-megatron Fire Woman 3 day retreat (October 23-25): https://www.amyjogoddard.com/fire-woman-retreat-virtual-october-2020?utm_source=sunny-megatron Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Pervertibles live stream with hashtag open http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 143 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/Sunny/ and enter code SUNNY at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website. Trivia Star is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star. YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. 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After more than six months our COVID situation isn’t getting better. While we may have started this journey as isolation superstars, the need for human contact is growing stronger. Sarah Sloane joins us to talk about how we can date in kinky, polyamorous, and vanilla situations. How do we safely meet new people? How do we assess our COVID risk profile and match it up to others with similar values? How do we reevaluate our own safety precautions to allow a little more social interaction in our lives? Sara gives us practical advice for navigating first dates, strategies for finding people with similar virus ethics, ways to play that mitigate our risk, and more.  It turns out there are companionship strategies we can start putting in place now that we’ll thank ourselves for in the dead of winter.    Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 142 Links Sarah Sloane Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sarahsloane_ Sarah Sloane Twitter http://twitter.com/SarahSloane Sarah Sloane Website http://sarahsloane.net Hashtag Open http://hashtagopen.com Hashtag Open Facebook http://.facebook.com/hashtagopenapp Hashtag Open Instagram http://instagram.com/hashtagopen Sunny teaches Pervertibles Workshop free on #Open's GetVokl Channel Wed 10/14 5pm PT/8pm ET https://getvokl.com/channel/open Long Distance Kink & Sex episode http://sunnymegatron.com/quarantinelife-sex-coronavirus/ Fire Woman Retreat free opening session (October 22): https://www.amyjogoddard.com/fwr-oct-2020-opening?utm_source=sunny-megatron Fire Woman 3 day retreat (October 23-25): https://www.amyjogoddard.com/fire-woman-retreat-virtual-october-2020?utm_source=sunny-megatron Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex Podcast live stream http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 142 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/Sunny/ and enter code SUNNY at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website. Trivia Star is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star. YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

The way we perceive the world physically and mentally has profound effects on our sexuality. Sadly, this is something we rarely talk about. On episode 141 of American Sex Podcast, Catie Osborn discusses ADHD, sex, and BDSM. We cover adult diagnosis, how hormonal changes and menstrual cycle affect ADHD, why kink is appealing to neurodiverse people, how ADHD can affect libido and ability to orgasm, how to negotiate BDSM scenes with neurodiversity in mind, what neurotypical doms need to know to play safe, and more. Whether you or your partner is neurodiverse (ADHD, ASD, NVLD, etc), you need the info in this episode!   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 141 Links Catie Osborn TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@catieosaurus Catie Osborn http://youtube.com/catieadhd Catie Osborn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catieosaurus/ Catie Osborn Patreon http://patreon.com/catieadhd Why Good Sex Matters Book by Nan Wise, PhD https://www.amazon.com/dp/1328451305/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_x_tPnCFb0FAF4R5 Fire Woman Retreat free opening session (October 22): https://www.amyjogoddard.com/fwr-oct-2020-opening?utm_source=sunny-megatron Fire Woman 3 day retreat (October 23-25): https://www.amyjogoddard.com/fire-woman-retreat-virtual-october-2020?utm_source=sunny-megatron Ken's TTRPG Gaming Streams (Sunny Plays Tuesday nights at 5pm PT) http://twitch.tv/thunderpantsrpg Ken's gaming Twitter handle http://twitter.com/thunderpantsdm XBIZ Industry Forum https://www.xbiz.net/index.php?c=home.updates&referrer_id=1410259 American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex Podcast live stream http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 141 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info  Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/Sunny/ and enter code SUNNY at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website. Trivia Star is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star. YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot Prestige Cams: A model owned, model-centric website, which works off Mobile Cell and Laptop for Pay per Minute Webcams, Phone Chat, and XXX Content. Registered models own their own content, which is protected by DMCA. https://prestigecams.net/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY