American Sex

Cam & KarenLee Poter are the dynamic mother/son duo from the hit Sex Talk With My Mom podcast. Esquire named it the #3 sex podcast of 2017. They share how their sex-positive, educational, hilarious partnership originated from tragedy. We talk about being a proud slut, coming out as an emotional man, how Cam curbed premature ejaculation & more. Ken & Sunny keep with the theme bringing on their 22 yo daughter to talk about having sex ed celeb parents & growing up in the unconventional Megatron-Berg household. Listen to Sex Talk With My Mom this Thursday 3/15 too because Ken & Sunny will be a guest on their episode released that day. Guest Bio Sex Talk With My Mom is a podcast hosted by a sexually-liberated, "cougar" mom and her stand-up comic son. They have "the talk" every week to entertain and explore sex in today's society.KarenLee Poter is an expert in large age-gap relationships and hosts the popular YouTube channel, The KarenLee Poter Show. Her son Cam decided to use his Stanford education to become a clown/mime. Episode 32 Topics Having “the talk” with your kids, when tragedy strikes, dick pics, Sara Jay & White Castle burgers, widowhood, being a cougar, Dr. Seuss, MILF, getting your first period, patreon business advice, teaching sex ed on youtube, A Cougars Guide to Getting Your Ass Back Out There, stand up comedy, premature ejaculation, Stanford University, clown sex, dacryphilia, edging, polyamory, Nina Hartley, silent mime sex, Stiffler’s mom, sex novice, proud sluthood, AVN convention, emotional sex, latex sex parties, kegel exercises, the infamous clown orgy, sex positive parenting, long term relationships, May December romance, hot yoga instructors, sexual experimentation, threesomes, sex conventions, monogamy, marrying young, STD tests, multiple orgasms for men, prostate play, spanking, blow jobbery, oral vs. intercourse, irrumation, face fucking, coming out as emotional when you’re masculine, using tears as lube, cumming too quickly, 21 day masturbation challenge, cock-ups Episode 32 Links Sex Talk With My Mom Website http://www.sextalkwithmymom.com/ Sex Talk With My Mom Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sextalkwithmymom/ Sex Talk With My Mom Twitter https://twitter.com/SexTalkPodcast Ken & Sunny’s 3/28 Chicago BDSM 101 Workshop https://discoverycenter.cc/bondage-class-intro-to-domination-s-m Rochester Erotic Arts Festival http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/ Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 32 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Osci by Lovense Smartphone controlled oscillating g-spot vibrator giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter:  http://sunnymegatron.com/osci  Giveaway entry ends 4/1/2018 20% off your order at  http://castlemegastore.com   when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at  Lelo.com  with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Gut feelings, hunches, intuition-- we all have it. But how can we harness these skills & use them reliably? How can they help us get what (& who) we want in bed? Can it be done ethically & consensually? Susanna Brisk, Sexual Intuitive®, answers these questions & more talking about her new book, "How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition" (Sunny edited it!). Ken confesses his secret Russian Dominatrix fetish. Sunny & Ken answer a listener email about anal training to prepare for your first pegging session.   Guest Bio Susanna Brisk is a Sexual Intuitive® who coaches clients to uncover what they like, what they need, and how to get it. She coaches a variety of ages, genders, and orientations worldwide on Skype, as well as in person at her Topanga Canyon office. She was born in Estonia, grew up in Australia and moved to New York where she continued a successful career as a model, comedian, and actor before switching to sex ed. Susanna is a gifted public speaker, author, and broadcaster who has taught workshops in Los Angeles at the Stockroom and Sexual Health Expo LA. She has been featured in LA Weekly and on Vice, as well as on Fox, Sirius XM, Playboy.com, The MILF Code, and Playboy Radio. Her tell-it-like-it-is missives have been read by the better part of a million people on yourtango, After Party Magazine, sexpert, Sexual Health Magazine, and her own popular site Real Sex Daily. More info and testimonials on coaching are available at sexualintuitive.com Episode 31 Topics Don’t sit on concrete, FemDom roleplay, the language of love, ESP,  sex positive parenting, #MeToo, first time pegging, Russian superstitions, how to set boundaries, Ricky & Lucy beds, listening to your gut, societal gaslighting, Dommy Mommy, butt plugs, abusive relationships, peacocks faking orgasms, fight flight or freeze, love at first sight, privatizing the VA, overriding your gut instinct, ambassadors of fuck, emotional labor, the 1-2-3 finger method, how to figure out what your needs are, pee hands, astral projection, Estonian, anal training, leaving your wife, Aziz Ansari, dogs milk & mice Episode 31 Links Susanna Brisk Website http://sexualintuitive.com/ Susanna Brisk Blog, Real Sex Daily https://realsexdaily.com/ Susanna Brisk Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexualintuitive/ Susanna Brisk Twitter https://twitter.com/susannabrisk How To Get Laid Using Your Intuition Book Amazon https://www.amazon.com/How-Laid-Using-Your-Intuition-ebook/dp/B079P1CZSG/ How to Laid Using Your Intuition Website http://www.howtogetlaid.org/ Sunny’s Booty Vibro Kit Youtube Video https://youtu.be/JtBgjLpbrn0 Sunny’s Butt Plug Video https://youtu.be/cSa-LtkBKyY Susanna's bonus story https://www.patreon.com/americansex Episode 31 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Osci by Lovense Smartphone controlled oscillating g-spot vibrator giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter:  http://sunnymegatron.com/osci  Giveaway entry ends 4/1/2018 20% off your order at  http://castlemegastore.com   when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at  Lelo.com  with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Kevin Patterson talks about his new book Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities. We delve into how to figure out what you don’t know, being more inclusive in your community, balancing masculinity and non-monogamy, how the political climate has changed social interaction, light-skinned privilege, forced ambassadorship, those damn pink pussy hats & more. Ken & Sunny answer a listener question about g-spot play. Kevin’s bonus story (with a surprise, twist ending!) is at https://www.patreon.com/posts/17188911 Guest Bio Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He's been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became his marriage. In April of 2015, Kevin was inspired to start Poly Role Models, an interview series for people describing their experiences with polyamory. Poly Role Models is part of a drive and a desire to change the way our lives and communities are viewed. It is currently the most diverse and inclusive platform for polyamory available. To continue the discussion of polyamorous representation, Kevin has extended the blog's work into nationwide speaking engagements about how race and polyamory intersect. This has led to the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities. Episode 30 Topics Going platinum in Skyrim, unicorn hunters, one penis policy, the legion of angry triad girlfriends, sociology, The Ethical Slut,  gamer compersion, racial inclusivity, cautionary poly, angry black stereotype, light skin privilege, polycules, Black Panther, forced ambassadorship, pink pussy hats, not knowing what you don’t know, The Kevin Bacon Game, parallel of racism and misogyny, black comic book characters, Cunning Minx, Ready Player One, men in sex ed, power structure in hetero relationships, Dave Chappelle & Chris Rock on SNL, how to take criticism, Dirty Lola, consent in sex-positive communities, masculinity in polyamory, you let her do what!?, 1980s bad movies, how to make events more inclusive, punching dragons in the face, white feminism, but my one black friend said . . . Episode 30 Links Poly Role Models Facebook https://www.facebook.com/polyrolemodelscurator Poly Role Models Instagram https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels/ Poly Role Models Twitter https://twitter.com/PolyRoleModels Poly Role Models Tumblr http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ Love’s Not Color Blind Book Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/1944934464/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp_t2_DiNUzbMDAA9EW Love’s Not Color Blind Book Barnes & Nobles https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/loves-not-colorblind-kevin-patterson/1127073225?ean=9781944934460 Kevin’s bonus story https://www.patreon.com/posts/17188911 Episode 30 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Ambi by Lovense Smartphone controlled bullet Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter:http://sunnymegatron.com/ambiGiveaway entry ends 2/28/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Barak and Sheba tell Sunny & Ken how exploring sacred sexuality lead to them opening up a thriving sex-positive community center. They share some of the transformative moments they’ve witnessed in the community they built, tell us everything we need to know about sex conventions including tips for attending your first one, and how they’ve changed the way BDSM is viewed in the Midwest. Ken & Sunny share some embarrassing sex stories & get confused by the English language. More: americansexpodcast.com Guest Bio Barak & Sheba are pansexual, polyamorous, married partners who reside in Columbus, Ohio; with some gigantic cats. They are Contributing Authors for Sexis Online Magazine and have written numerous short stories and essays on Polyamory, Kink, and Sacred Sexuality. Traveling around the country, they present classes for Kink, Leather, and Vanilla audiences. On the first Monday of each month, you can hear them talking about all forms of creative sexual expression on BS’ing with Barak & Sheba hosted by the Erotic Awakenings Podcast network. Together they are the founding members and owners of Adventures in Sexuality (AIS), a fun, frolicking, PanPolyBSDM/Kink group in Central Ohio. Through AIS they are Coalition members of the NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom) are active supporters of The Sexual Assault Response Network of Central Ohio (SARNCO) and the Buckeye Region Anti-Violence Organization (BRAVO). They currently promote Pansexual BDSM Educational Events in Central Ohio – including the Central Ohio Perversion Excursion (C.O.P.E.) and Winter Wickedness. Episode 29 Topics Blow jobs, Steel City Scandal, having gas during sexytimes, naked swimming, two bandaids and a cork, fire play, custom made bondage furniture, How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition, clown burlesque, feed fuck or fight, couples sex classes, orgy pool sharks, drum circles, carving steamship round, how to prepare for your first sex convention, sexuality in the midwest, bootblacks, transformative kink stories, the golden rule, vibrating nightsticks, boudoir photography, gender neutral bathrooms, Central Ohio Rope Group, humor in BDSM, the 3-2-1 rule, sex party food, valuable vs. invaluable, abduction scenes, hotel takeover, sex and religion Episode 29 Links AIS Website http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/ Bafak & Sheba Website http://baraknsheba.org/ COPE (the next AIS Convention in July where Ken & Sunny are teaching) http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/splash.html AIS Twitter https://twitter.com/ais_org Brat Sheba Twitter https://twitter.com/brat_sheba Brat Sheba Facebook https://www.facebook.com/brat.sheba?ref=ts Drum circle recording at The Space https://youtu.be/_nfqXO3APjg How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition book https://www.amazon.com/How-Laid-Using-Your-Intuition/dp/0692070184/ Rochester Erotic Arts Festival http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/ Episode 29 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Ambi by Lovense Smartphone controlled bullet Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ambiGiveaway entry ends 2/28/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Joanna Angel talks with Sunny & Ken about her 1st book--a choose your own adventure style erotica book Called Night Shift: A Choose Your Own Erotic Fantasy, the universal need for raunchy dirty stranger sex, the Burning Angel origin (hilarious & amazing), & how to keep your punk rock heart strong while running a successful company. Ken & Sunny talk Valentine's Day & announce who received Patreon surprises in the mail. Joanna also shares a bonus story about how NOT to prepare for butt sex at https://www.patreon.com/posts/joanna-angel-how-16948067 Guest Bio Joanna Angel is an award-winning adult film star, director, producer, author, entrepreneur and CEO of the venerated adult studio, BurningAngel  Entertainment. Pacific Standard magazine stated she is "One of the most powerful feminist icons in the adult industry." She's stormed mainstream media outlets being featured in the New York Times, Forbes Magazine, Vice TV, LA Weekly, and CNBC just to name a few. She was inducted into AVN's hall of fame in 2016 and continues to make her mark on the adult industry and the world at large. Episode 28 Topics Dirty raunchy anonymous sex, parallel universes, Fiddler on the Roof, the best punk bands, the power of pornography, Jewish moms, Burning Angel origin story, Kuma’s Korner, 80s throwback, Asarotica, punk code of ethics, happy endings, crossdressing, the extinction of 24 hours porn shops, 50 Shades of Grey, Jiz Lee Coming OUt Like A Porn Star, Surf & Skate Fest, 420, vegan pot brownies, Jewish Girls Love Black Cock movie, Larry Flint, How to stay punk rock at heart in business, Florida, John Waters mail, EXIT Chicago, starting a porn site on a whim, Jello Biafra, storytelling, Myspace Episode 28 Links Night Shift: A Choose Your Own Erotic Fantasy https://www.amazon.com/Night-Shift-Choose-Your-Own-Erotic-Fantasy/dp/1627782885 Burning Angel https://www.burningangel.com/ Joanna Angel Twitter https://twitter.com/JoannaAngel Joanna Angel Instagram https://www.instagram.com/joannaangel/ Joanna Angel Bonus Story about a scene w/ Bella Donna: Episode 28 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Ambi by Lovense Smartphone controlled bullet Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ambi Giveaway entry ends 2/28/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

We had a ton of laughs and learned a lot talking with Sex therapist Ruby B. Johnson about non-hierarchical polyamory, eroticised racism, BDSM & unusual roleplays, sex therapy vs. relationship therapy, her event Poly Dallas Millennium, her work as a forensic social worker, and a bunch more. Our conversation covers the spectrum from f*cked up (in a good way) to enlightening! Sunny & Ken also announce the January Giveaway winner, unveil the February prize, and rejoice at the news the f-bomb is allowed on TV.  Guest BioRuby B Johnson is a sex therapist and educator from Plano, Texas. Ruby founded PolyDallas Millennium in 2015 and it is in its 4th year. The symposium is July 13-15, 2018 in Dallas, Texas. Ruby is frequently asked to speak on black sexuality, polyamory, and consent. Episode 27 TopicsPoly & kinky group on fetlife, egalitarian polyamory, the movie Soul Food, serial killers, accidentally drinking your own pee, relationship therapy vs. sex therapy, mismatched libido, Nailin’ Palin, CBT, relationship anarchy, infidelity, non-hierarchical polyamory, dominant fantasy confessions, double penetration, Mollena Williams, Fire and Fury, The Chicago Ripper Crew, fire play and furries, veto power, Jeffrey Dahmer, solo polyamory, mixed metaphors, forensic social work, eroticized racism, bilingual sex ed, BDSM 101, topping yourself, unique roleplay, race play, anchor partners, fetish parties Episode 27 Links Ruby Johnson’s Website: http://www.sextherapistruby.com/ Ruby Johnson’s  Twitter: https://twitter.com/blacksexgeek Poly Dallas Millenium https://www.polydallasmillennium.com/ BDSM 101 Chicago Class with Sunny & Ken on 2/7/2018: https://discoverycenter.cc/bondage-class-intro-to-domination-s-m January giveaway & Ambi Preview facebook video: https://www.facebook.com/SunnyMegatron/videos/1709875359058298/   Episode 27 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Ambi by Lovense Smartphone controlled bullet Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ambi Giveaway entry ends 2/28/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Sex educator & pleasure industry wonder woman, Anne Hodder, shares stories of her sex journalism days including the ongoing Village Voice, coast to coast, “girl-fight” she helped craft under the pseudonym Barbie Davenport. We discuss the importance of sex ed in rehab facilities and the myth of ‘sex addiction.’ Anne teaches us about breathwork & how science and the spiritual can come together to help us ‘own our shit’ in sex, relationships & all areas of life. Ken & Sunny get warm & fuzzy feedback from a fan. Guest Bio Anne Hodder, ACS, is a multi-certified sex educator endorsed by San Francisco Sex Information and the American College of Sexologists International. A cum laude graduate of the Roy H. Park School of Communications at Ithaca College, Anne’s journalism and sociology background led her to work as a journalist focusing on sexuality and the adult industry before being professionally trained in accurate and inclusive sex education. Anne received her first certification and endorsement by the renowned San Francisco Sex Information program and continued her training via the American College of Sexologists International and Planned Parenthood Los Angeles’s School Based Sex Education Program, where she honed a special skill for working with adolescents. She boasts a unique understanding of age-appropriate education, high school sex ed, critical thinking, and trauma sensitivity and, most recently, Anne has brought her teaching style into the addiction treatment and mental health communities. Anne provides accurate and accessible sexual health information and healthy relationship tools with a special focus on inclusivity, shame reduction, and effective communication skills and, with a friendly and non-judgmental approach, Anne helps clients of all kinds heal, grow and be their most authentic selves. Episode 26 Topics Delta & theta brain frequencies, compulsive sexual behavior disorder, advice for the self employed, Barbie Davenport, the business side of sex toys, sex ed in rehab facilities, classic girl fights, Harvey Weinstein, DSM 5, Own Your Shit Workshops. AV Flox, alternative medicine in the US military, Backpage,  your rights in a relationship. rolling your third eye,  all the reasons Nathaniel is amazing, the sweet spot between science and woo-woo, sobriety & sexual identity, adult industry PR,  not my circus not my monkeys, LA Weekly firings, Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous/SLAW, The Village Voice, fuck you pay me, coke nails, east coast vs west coast, breathwork, how to get your brain to STFU Episode 26 Links Anne Hodder’s Website: http://annehodder.com/ Anne Hodder Twitter: https://twitter.com/theannehodder Anne Hodder Instagram: https://instagram.com/theannehodder Hodder Media: http://www.hoddermedia.com/ Own Your Shit Workshops https://ownyoursht.splashthat.com/ Breathwork for Recovery free Tuesday night class in LA http://breathworkforrecovery.com Nathaniel V. Dust http://nathanielvdust.com/ Episode 26 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/ Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast by Jon Ronson is a MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Sexologist Cyndi Darnell dives in deep discussing #MeToo, the Aziz Ansari story, and how it relates to all of us. We know that #TimesUp and things have to change but how do we go about that? What steps do we take? What’s our personal responsibility? We discuss effective sexual communication, the role sex ed plays in all of this, plus Cyndi gives tips for sex-positive parenting. Before the interview, Sunny & Ken talk about hangovers and drinking Downy, plus Sunny has an embarrassing recording mishap. Cyndi also tells us a hilarious story about a date gone very wrong.  It's separate from the episode and you can hear it here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/cyndi-darnell-ep-16539959 Guest Bio Cyndi Darnell is Australia’s most in demand sex and relationship therapist, spearheading progressive sex & relationships seminars for adults that deeply change people’s lives and in 2015 she was the only sexologist named on MindBodyGreen’s Top 100 Women to Watch. Her approach spans the clinical to the esoteric, and is a reviewer and contributor to the academic Journals  Sex Education ( UK) Porn Studies ( UK) & Sex & Relationship Therapy ( UK). In 2015 she released The Atlas of Erotic Anatomy and Arousal a pioneering educational video series designed to give upfront adult information about sex, the body and most importantly, pleasure!  She’s currently working on her first book exploring the fusion of the mind, body and heart in enhancing and exploring libido and desire. Her 5 degrees range from a bachelor in adult education to two masters degrees in sexology and psychotherapy. A regular in the Australian media she has appeared on TV, radio and print as well as being principal consultant and advisor on Northern Pictures “Luke Warm Sex” (on Netflix) She counsels individuals & couples, offers training to professionals on sex and the human condition, and offers insight into the quandaries of the erotic to transform fear into freedom. Currently based in Australia and soon to be in New York City in 2018. Episode 25 Topics Forgetting to press record, misplaced anger, University of Tennessee Sex Week, modeling vulnerability, opening angels, #MeToo backlash, early childhood memories, emotional literacy, religious play, sexual communication, bad dates, the flavors of sex, tide pods, conspiracy theories, community sex ed, anal sex, tinder dates, defining sexual assault, comprehensive sex ed, erotic expression, why women don’t speak up, testosterone and sexuality, scratching your ass in public, gender socialization, victim blaming,  sex positive parenting, overrepresentation of sex & violence narratives, sex ed in math class, drinking fabric softener, cultural trauma, Margaret Atwood, emotional labor Episode 25 Links Cyndi Darnell website: http://cyndidarnell.com/ Cyndi Darnell newsletter: http://cyndidarnell.us3.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=7ab248cc10bd53654c0f6b44a&id=2160a23dff Cyndi Darnell Twitter: https://www.facebook.com/cyndidarnellpage/ @cyndi_darnell Twitter: https://twitter.com/cyndi_darnell Scarleteen.com http://www.scarleteen.com/ Bish.com http://www.bishuk.com/ Buzzfeed Best 2018 podcast: https://www.buzzfeed.com/scottybryan/podcasts-2018  ← please leave a comment and give us a mention! Episode 25 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY

“I think I’m kinky! Now what?” Ken & Sunny discuss 4 things you need to know before exploring the BDSM scene. They talk with Mr. BLK & Ms. Pomegranate of the award-winning BDSM blog theblackpomegranate.com. They tell us how they got started in kink & the Leather community, about the inner workings of the kink scene, including how to navigate it if you’re a person of color and how allies can be more welcoming and inclusive. Ken & Sunny also reminisce about their Mommie Dearest roleplay sexytimes.   Guest Bio The Black Pomegranate are collectively Mr.BLK and Ms.Pomegranate (Foxxy), two east coast based kink educators and bloggers who have presented nationally on issues such as consent, BDSM, inclusion, diversity, social media, Leather communities and sex-positive dynamics. Mr.BLK is an experienced bondage rigger, lifestyle dominant, writer and kink presenter who also works with sex-positive non-profits. Ms.Pomegranate is known as Foxxy and holds the title of Mid Atlantic Leather Woman 2018. An experienced lifestyle Domme and writer, Foxxy speaks nationally about inclusion in the Leather and kink communities. Episode 24 Topics Mommie Dearest, Be More Munch Baltimore, online BDSM classes, BDSM on a budget, interrogation scenes, uncomfortable conversations, #MeToo, choosing between community and standing up for your beliefs, sexual roleplay, play party etiquette,  Mid-Atlantic Leather Woman,  adult babies, Yes/No/Maybe lists for BDSM, racial diversity on conference panels, TNG, becoming a BDSM educator, foot fetish, Fem Domme, getting references for play partners, racism and misogyny in kink Episode 24 Links The Black Pomegranate website: http://theblackpomegranate.com Mid-Atlantic Leather Woman facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Mid-Atlantic-Leather-Woman-Mid-Atlantic-Leatherwoman-Bootblack-2018-198443040694752/ @BlkPomegranate Twitter: https://twitter.com/BlkPomegranate Sunny & Ken’s BDSM Yes/No/Maybe List: http://bit.ly/BDSMYNM Kink Academy online BDSM video classes: http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Fetlife kinky social networking site: http://fetlife.com BDSM events page listing many of the major conferences worldwide: http://www.thebdsmeventspage.com/events.html Buzzfeed Best 2018 podcast: https://www.buzzfeed.com/scottybryan/podcasts-2018  ← please leave a comment and give us a mention! Episode 24 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/ Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Touch by Warm hands-free warming lube dispenser: http://bit.ly/sunnytouch (remember to watch Sunny’s Instagram at http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron on Thursday for the giveaway!) Megatron Dearest & Kenstina! 

Sexual folklorist and host of the acclaimed Bawdy Storytelling podcast and stage show, Dixie De La Tour, talks about: the pivotal moment in her life that made storytelling her passion, the moving stories behind the stories she curates for Bawdy, how authenticity & vulnerability are universal languages, the transformative power of talking about sex, what love really is & more.  Ken & Sunny ponder ‘breather’ callers and ‘handsy’ doctors plus Ken accidentally sexts Dixie! Visit https://www.patreon.com/posts/16287092 for Dixie’s bonus story about an outrageous lights-out sex party. Guest Bio Dixie De La Tour is a sexual folklorist, storyteller, entrepreneur, podcaster, teacher, catalyst, coach, community builder, facilitator, & instigator (& that’s just for starters). She is also the founder, curator & host of the award-winning sex and storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling.  Called “a stiff shot of courage in a push-up bra”, Dixie is passionate about storytelling’s power to connect strangers. A former sex party producer & dating site community manager, she founded Bawdy Storytelling almost 11 years ago. Dixie has been Sainted by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence (“Saint Kiss & Make You Tell”) and is hailed as the originator of sex-positive storytelling (“The original sex and storytelling series” – Playgirl, “The Moth for Pervs” – LA Weekly) As a storyteller, Dixie’s stories is a fan favorite on the Risk! podcast, and can be heard on her own Bawdy Storytelling podcast (which was selected by Esquire.com as a top 5 ‘Best Sex Podcast’) Ping her (she likes that) at @Bawdy, facebook.com/DixieDeLaTour & at www.BawdyStorytelling.com  Dixie is available for : Private story coaching (via Skype) Corporate story coaching and workshops You can bring Bawdy to your city - we’ll be touring again in 2018 Live Storytelling workshops in San Francisco and Seattle (& you can bring her to your city for workshops AND a Live Bawdy) To bring her unique take on Sex and Story to sex-positive businesses To teach storytelling and lead events at colleges and universities Author discussions, book releases, and creating custom events (She’s been producing events for close to 25 years) Contact Dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com to learn more Episode 23 Topics Favorite movies, family secrets, non-monogamy, when you eat too many edibles and forget how to breathe, church sex, Kinky Salon, Bawdy gets you laid!, The Blue Ridge Mountains, narrative therapy, Clown Fucker, storytelling in business, the prospect of going to hell, what love really is, three day pig roasts, The Fuck Fairy Godmother, Catholic guilt, great boobs, creepy doctors, breather calls, storytelling and healing, feeling unworthy and in good company, being a gay virgin, sex and blindness, Tristan Taormino's Opening Up, sex party producing, getting blown on the altar, what makes a good relationship, oral tradition, getting rid of sexual shame Episode 23 Links Bawdy Storytelling website: www.BawdyStorytelling.com Listen to Bawdy Storytelling podcast on iTunes (and please leave a review!) http://bit.ly/bawdypodcast Watch Bawdy stories on YouTube http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Support Bawdy Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Contact Dixie Dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com Dixie Twitter https://twitter.com/DixieDLT  Bawdy Storytelling Twitter https://twitter.com/Bawdy Episode 23 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/ Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Off the Cuffs: A Kink & BDSM Podcast https://offthecuffs.org/   Dixie & Sunny at a Bawdy Storytelling show in Chicago. Photo by Benjy Feen.