American Sex

Amberly Rothfield, the go-to resource on the business of phone sex, is back! She gives us the do's and don'ts of online domination-- what to do when fantasy meshes with reality, when to walk away from a client, how to assert your boundaries as a provider, talking dirty & mastering sexual improv, what mistakes she’s made in her 13 years as a PSO & how to avoid them, plus more goodies from her new book “Financial Domination: Tales from an Online Mistress”. We talk about the increasing demand of erotic audio, where to sell it, and how to market it. Amberly covers the ethics of online domination including how to find financial doms that won’t take non-consensual advantage. She also shares some of the incredible success stories from women that followed her business advice in her first book, “How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator”-- an emotional part of the conversation that illuminates why sex work can be so liberating and empowering for marginalized people. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 92 Links Amberly Rothfield Twitter www.twitter.com/amberlypso Amberly Rothfield Model Blueprint Website www.amberlyrothfield.com How I made $10,000 a Month as a Phone Sex Operator Free Digital Book https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-i-made-10000-a-month-as-a-phone-sex-operator-amberly-rothfield/1129216659?ean=2940161904374 Financial Domination: Tales from an Online Mistress https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SMVD4DW Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 92 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get your FREE birth control prescription delivered to your door from Simple Health — go to http://simplehealth.com/SUNNY or enter the code SUNNY at checkout   Tantric Massage Set Giveaway http://sunnymegatron.com/win-a-tantric-massage-set-worth-200-from-karma-tantric/ Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Ruby Ryder tells us how she discovered her joy for pegging at the age of 50 and became the go-to expert. She addresses pegging apprehension that stems from the societal notion that it's a threat to masculinity. We learn how to talk to your partner about your interest in pegging; how to have pegging induced multiple and full body orgasms; the difference between prostate, anal, and penile orgasms; plus the striking similarities between the g-spot and the p-spot. Ruby also covers concerns for givers including building stamina with exercises designed for better thrusting in the bedroom. We go over the best toys and harnesses, the myth of the strapless strap-on, why orgasms for givers aren’t always desirable, how to determine the sensitivity of your prostate and why it’s important, pegging for people that don't have prostates, and more. Whether that scene in Deadpool simply piqued your interest or if you're an old pro looking for new inspiration, this episode has it all! Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 91 Links  Pegging Paradise Podcast iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ruby-ryders-pegging-paradise/id569410141 Stitcher https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/ruby-ryders-pegging-paradise Ruby Ryder Patreon - Support Ruby’s Work http://patreon.com/RubyRyder Luxury Sex Toys - Support Ruby’s Work https://www.enticeme.co/s/rubyryder/ Pegging Paradise http://peggingparadise.com/ Pegging 101 http://pegging101.com/ Email Ruby@PeggingParadise.com Ruby Ryder Instagram https://www.instagram.com/therubyryder/ Ruby Ryder Twitter https://twitter.com/Ruby_Ryder Ruby Ryder MeWe https://mewe.com/join/rubyryderspeggingparadise Ruby Ryder FetLife https://fetlife.com/users/365662 Ruby Ryder Reddit https://www.reddit.com/user/RubyRyder/ Ruby Ryder Facebook https://www.facebook.com/PeggingParadise/ Ryan Reynolds Pegging Video https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2016/06/ryan-reynolds-you-rascal/ Pegging Paradise Podcast #102 – All About Equipment https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/04/podcast-102/ Pegging Paradise Podcast #112 – For the Ladies https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/ Hard Times At The Hotel Erotic Story https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2011/02/hard-times-at-the-hotel/ Tantus doubles/strapless strapon article https://www.tantusinc.com/blogs/sexed/33853700-the-truth-about-strapless-strap-ons-ruby-ryder American Sex Sounding Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/urethral-sounding-john-c-luna-podcast/ American Sex Sex Toys for Vulvas Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/how-to-choose-the-best-sex-toy-podcast/ Njoy Pure Wand  (navigate/search through this link for 15% off http://bit.ly/lovehoney15) https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=9030 We-Vibe Rave (navigate/search through this link for 15% off http://bit.ly/lovehoney15) https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=34852 We-Vibe Sync (navigate/search through this link for 15% off http://bit.ly/lovehoney15) https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=36858 Lelo Mona 2 15% off with code Sunny http://lip.go2cloud.org/SHjs Lelo Mona Wave 15% off with code Sunny http://lip.go2cloud.org/SHju Lelo Gigi 2 15% off with code Sunny http://lip.go2cloud.org/SHjo Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast (come on by & start a g-spot thread!) **Some of the above links are affiliate links Episode 91 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $5 off the newly released season 2 of OMGYes by visiting OMGYes.com/sunny Tantric Massage Set Giveaway http://sunnymegatron.com/win-a-tantric-massage-set-worth-200-from-karma-tantric/ Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed  At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Our access to safe and legal abortion is being threatened with the recent anti-choice bills passed in a number of states. Reproductive justice expert, Bianca Laureano, gives us a deeper look at abortion policy & procedure in the US. In this conversation, she helps us understand harmful ways lawmakers have chipped away access to abortion and quality reproductive care with things like parental consent, approval waiting period, and the myth of the partial-birth abortion. We learn what goes into an abortion procedure and how to provide care for those going through it. Bianca breaks down the differences between the reproductive rights movement, the reproductive justice movement, and the reproductive health movement and why their differences matter. We discuss why the gendered language of the reproductive rights movement is harmful and how to be more inclusive, the real motivations behind the pro-life movement including these recent restrictive bills & laws (spoiler: it’s not about preserving life), and much more. This is an important and timely conversation.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 90 Links Bianca Laureano website http://BiancaLaureano.com Bianca Laureano sex ed certification http://AnteUpPD.com Bianca Laureano Twitter https://twitter.com/LatinoSexuality Bianca Laureano Instagram https://www.instagram.com/latinegrasexologist/ Bianca Laureano Facebook https://www.facebook.com/BiancaILaureano/ Abortion In the US: Realities, Laws & Healing (20% off with code ANTEUP) https://www.eventbrite.com/e/abortion-in-the-us-realities-laws-healing-tickets-61596492768 National Advocates For Pregnant Women http://www.advocatesforpregnantwomen.org/ National Network of Abortion Funds https://abortionfunds.org/ Sister Song https://www.sistersong.net/ 13th documentary on Netflix https://www.netflix.com/title/80091741 The Daily Podcast, A Direct Challenge to Roe v. Wade in Alabama https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-direct-challenge-to-roe-v-wade-in-alabama/id1200361736?i=1000438322081 Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 90 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $5 off the newly released season 2 of OMGYes by visiting OMGYes.com/sunny Tantric Massage Set Giveaway http://sunnymegatron.com/win-a-tantric-massage-set-worth-200-from-karma-tantric/ Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Grab a pen because this episode is jam-packed with valuable info! For the first time, Sunny Megatron publicly divulges all of her long-distance sexytime tools. We’ve never seen such a comprehensive list of apps, programs, techniques, and creative ideas for keeping your LDR hot and fresh. This information can be used for ongoing dom/sub relationships, one-off BDSM scenes, cam performers and online pro-doms, cybersex with strangers online, or getting it on with yourself online. Although quite a bit of it is related to kink-- these resources aren’t only for people into BDSM. Many of these tools and techniques can be used by folks that fall more on the vanilla end of the spectrum too. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 89 Links Reddit thread for sharing more tools and suggestions: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast/comments/bo427m/long_distance_bdsm_cyber_sex_websites_apps_tools/ Bawdy Storytelling podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcast Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Kink Academy podcast on long distance kink https://erotication.libsyn.com/long-distance-kink Exploring BDSM Episode 80 American Sex  http://sunnymegatron.com/exploring-bdsm-podcast/ SESTA/FOSTA Episode 36 ASP http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Teamviewer https://www.teamviewer.com/ Rabb.it https://www.rabb.it/ The Dildorks Podcast https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/ Orgasm Control guide written by Sunny Megatron for Kinkly (includes orgasm games) https://www.kinkly.com/14/16957/sex-tips/everything-you-need-to-know-about-orgasm-denial Emlalock https://emlalock.com/#/ ChastiKey app https://www.chastikey.com/ Real Estate Lock Box https://www.amazon.com/Master-Lock-5400D-Combination-Portable/dp/B0002YP1VC/ Kitchen Timer Box https://www.amazon.com/Kitchen-Safe-Mini-Locking-Container/dp/B00JGFQRN4/ Writeforme.org https://writeforme.org/ Self-Bondage Safety https://www.selfbound.net/tech/safety.html Literotica http://literotica.com/ Onesubmissiveact.com https://onesubmissiveact.com/ Faproulette.com https://www.faproulette.co/8903/risky-door-fap/ Fapinstructor.com https://fapinstructor.com Milovana https://milovana.com Sex Scripts https://ss.deviatenow.com/scripts.php Signal https://signal.org/ MarcoPolo https://www.marcopolo.me/ Violet Blue https://www.tinynibbles.com/ Lovense toys https://store.castlemegastore.com/departments/lovense-sex-toys-226.html We-Vibe toys http://shrsl.com/1lngm We-Vibe Moxie remote panty vibe http://shrsl.com/1lngn Why you should never buy sex toys on Amazon http://sunnymegatron.com/counterfeit-vibrators-hitachi-magic-wand-fake/ O.School https://www.o.school/ Fetlife http://fetlife.com/ Online orgy resource http://sunnymegatron.com/find-online-orgy-websites-seen-sex-sunny-megatron/ Sex with Sunny Megatron Episode 5 “The More The Merrier” https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron Kasidie http://www.kasidie.com/ SLS http://www.swinglifestyle.com/?signup=AFF977100913 SwingerZoneCentral http://swingerzonecentral.com/affiliates/aw.aspx?A=1313&Task=Click  *some of the above links may be affiliate links Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 89 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $5 off the newly released season 2 of OMGYes by visiting OMGYes.com/sunny 25% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://calm.com/sunny Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Andrew Gurza is back and it’s his birthday (happy birthday, Andrew!). He talks with us about his viral hashtag, #DiablesPeopleAreHot, and how it became a worldwide movement. Andrew also tells us how his relationship with his mother changed when he told her that he hires sex workers regularly. We discuss why the concept of enthusiastic consent is ableist, how we can all better combat our personal “isms” and learn to be better allies, plus the harsh realities of dating when you’re disabled.  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 88 Links Andrew Gurza website andrewgurza.com Andrew Gurza Twitter http://twitter.com/theandrewgurza Andrew Gurza Instagram http://instagram.com/theandrewgurza Andrew Gurza Patreon https://www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark Disability After Dark Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disability-after-dark/id1151890990 #DisabledPeopleAreHot Merch https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Episode 55 American Sex Podcast with Andrew Gurza http://sunnymegatron.com/andrew-gurza-sex-disability-ep-55-american-sex-podcast/ Shameless Sex Podcast https://www.shamelesssex.com/ Purple Panties by Zane Podcast bonus quickie/trailer http://americansex.libsyn.com/website/bonus-introducing-purple-panties-by-zane Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 88 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get your first week of online/tech based therapy with Talkspace FREE by using code SUNNY at http://talkspace.com Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Adult star, Larkin Love, is our guest on ep 87 of American Sex podcast. Ken has a few red-cheeked fan-boy moments and Larkin delves into quite a few important topics: the psychology of mommy domming; the taboo nature of incest play and her insecurities when first exploring that part of herself; the censorship of taboo fetishes on adult sites and how she and other performers are dealing with it; the business behind establishing an online fetish identity & marketing yourself; body shaming and dealing with overly critical fans and followers; her incredibly creative and amazingly bizarre custom clips like the classic “Epic Space Wank” and more. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 87 Links Larkin Love Twitter http://twitter.com/larkinlovexxx Larkin Love Instagram http://instagram.com/larkinloverules Larkin Love Official website: http://larkinlove.com Larkin Love Tumblr: http://larkinlovexxx.tumblr.com/ Larkin Love SextPanther: http://callqueenlarkin.com Larkin Love Verified Call: https://verifiedcall.com/profiles/larkinlove. Larkin Love ManyVids: http://larkinlove.manyvids.com and Larkin Love Clips4Sale: http://QueenBitchLarkin.com. Larkin Love MV Crush: https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/562290/Larkin-Love/ Larkin Love Premium Snapchat: http://SnapWithLarkin.com Larkin Love Pornhub Channel: http://larkinlovetube.com Sex out loud with Tristan Taormino https://www.voiceamerica.com/show/2096/sex-out-loud-with-tristan-taormino Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 87 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

On episode 86 of American Sex podcast, get a peek at what goes on behind the scenes at a brothel. Dena is the madam of Sheri’s Ranch. She tells us about what it’s like for brothel employees-- how they are hired, the training and shadowing process, and the various techniques for discrete DC (that’s industry talk for ‘dick check’), and more. We learn about the ranch itself and which surprising amenities you’re welcome to enjoy even if you're not there for sexy time. We go over what’s it like to be a client-- what to expect when you go to a brothel and the essential etiquette you need to know. Dena also tells us how she unexpectedly fell into the brothel business after visiting it with her mother in law! Sunny also discusses the latest blow to the sex ed industry due to increased online censorship both in the US and the UK.    Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 86 Links Sheri’s Ranch Website https://www.sherisranch.com/ Sheri’s Ranch Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SherisRanch/ Sheri’s Ranch Twitter: https://twitter.com/SherisBrothel Dena’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/RanchMamaDena Selling Luxury Book https://www.amazon.com/Selling-Luxury-Customers-Experiences-Impeccable/dp/0470457996/ Episode 36 SESTA FOSTA: http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Reddit censorship post https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast/comments/begocs/censorship_on_reddit_adult_sites_in_the_uk_on/ Sex Talk with My Mom Podcast http://www.sextalkwithmymom.com/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 86 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 25% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://calm.com/sunny CalExotics Instagram giveaway (ends 4/26/2018) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsyuR8hc4R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Cuckolding: it seems everyone’s doing it but no one’s talking about it! On episode 85 Dr. Justin Lehmiller shares the science and research about this taboo fetish. You’ll learn how cuckolding has roots in evolutionary biology; the surprising correlation between the conservative lifestyle and cuckolding; gay cuckolding vs hetero scenarios; complimentary fetishes like forced bi, chastity, feminization & cross-dressing; how to tell your partner about your cuckold fantasies and incorporate them into your sex life; and the alt-right adaptation of “cuck” & how it’s affected shame and confusion about this fetish. We also answer a listener question about cross-dressing and mismatched libido plus Justin tells us about his latest research on dick pics-- specifically who sends them and what motivates these folks to keep sending them. Over on Patreon Justin tells us a story about an unexpected encounter he had at a vanilla professional event. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 85 Links Dr. Justin Lehmiller Sex and Psychology Blog https://www.lehmiller.com/ Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life https://amzn.to/2STirXD Dr. Justin Lehmiller upcoming events including May 2019 appearances in Chicago, L.A. & New York https://www.lehmiller.com/public-speaking Dr. Justin Lehmiller Twitter https://twitter.com/JustinLehmiller Dr. Justin Lehmiller Facebook https://www.facebook.com/psychologyofsex Dr. Justin Lehmiller Reddit https://www.reddit.com/r/psychologyofsex Dr. Justin Lehmiller Instagram https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/ Dr. Justin Lehmiller YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm8JQt7it3re8SypKf-mT2Q Dr Justin Lehmiller American sex Podcast episode 74 about the science of sexual fantasy http://sunnymegatron.com/justin-lehmiller-sexual-fantasy-podcast/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 85 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $45 off your first month of online/tech based therapy with Talkspace by using code SUNNY at http://talkspace.com CalExotics Instagram giveaway (ends 4/26/2018) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsyuR8hc4R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more)http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% on BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

On episode 84 of American Sex Podcast, you’re a fly on the wall during a candid conversation between Dirty Lola, Jimanekia Eborn & Sunny Megatron. What started as a twitter debate opened the door to a much larger, systemic issue in both the sex ed community and the world at large. We examine what happens when our well-meaning feminist activism leads way to paternalism, savior complexes, and intersectionality that’s more of a buzzword than something that’s widely understood. We touch on performative allyship vs being an accomplice, when it’s appropriate to speak up on issues affecting marginalized communities and when “stay in your lane” applies, how anti-blackness rears its head even in the most liberal communities, and more. Take a deep breath, listeners, there’s a lot to unpack in this episode.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 84 Links Jimanekia Eborn Website: https://traumaqueen.love/ Jimanekia EbornInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/ Jimanekia Eborn Kink Kit The Art of Healing Box: http://bit.ly/HealingQueen Dirty Lola Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dirtylola/ Dirty Lola Twitter https://twitter.com/dirtylola?lang=en To book Lola for workshops, bachelorette parties or her infamously funny and educational Sex Ed A Go-Go send requests to Lola@SexEdAGoGo.com Dirty Lola’s “Dirty Loladex” aka Twitter list of marginalized Sex Educators you should be following https://twitter.com/DirtyLola/lists/the-dirty-loladex/members Dirty Lola's tweet thread mentioned in this discussion  https://twitter.com/DirtyLola/status/1113078814932963329 Jimanekia's tweet thread mentioned in this discussion https://twitter.com/Jimanekia/status/1113552797478219776 Sunny's tweet thread mentioned in this discussion https://twitter.com/SunnyMegatron/status/1112847630076268544 Episode 70 of American Sex Podcast about Sex Toys http://sunnymegatron.com/how-to-choose-the-best-sex-toy-podcast/ Our upcoming “Proud American Fucker” merch design: https://www.instagram.com/p/BvwaWfIhuwl/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 84 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get your FREE birth control prescription delivered to your door from Simple Health -- go to http://simplehealth.com/SUNNY  or enter the code SUNNY at checkout   CalExotics Instagram giveaway (ends 4/26/2018) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsyuR8hc4R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

Adult Star Lance Hart is our guest on episode 83 of American Sex Podcast. If you’re a straight-identified guy that’s been curious about dipping your toes into the bi pool, you’re going to enjoy Lance’s account of the first time he bonded sexually with another man. If you’re in the adult industry and geek out about the business side of things, you’re going to get a ton of practical information out of this episode. If you’re interested in what’s behind the porn you see-- how people get into it, how performers stay hard for 8 hour shoots, how pornstars can consider themselves monogamous, and how consent works (and doesn't work) on set-- then this episode is a must listen! Sunny & Ken also kick off a mega-giveaway for the month of April. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 83 Links Lance Hart Twitter http://twitter.com/lancehartfetish Lance Hart Instagram http://instagram.com/lancehartandcats Sweet Femdom https://sweetfemdom.com   Man Up Films https://manupfilms.com Lance Hart OnlyFans https://onlyfans.com/630143/lancehartfetish Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We’re sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 83 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 25% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://calm.com/sunny CalExotics Instagram giveaway (ends 4/26/2018) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsyuR8hc4R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed