Accidental Swingers

Two newbie swingers travel to “the largest open-relationship lifestyle” event in the US in New Orleans.  We didn’t know what to expect or what we were doing.  The experience ended up changing our entire perspective of what our lifestyle journey would look like.  Join us as we share our hot and sexy stories about our trip to Naughty in N’awlins (NiN), the event that helped build the foundation of our transition into non-monogamy.  (Click here more information on Naughty N’awlins and to make reservations for the next event.) Part 1 of this 3 part series: Excited yet totally terrified, we were determined NOT to show up to Naughty without “knowing” couples in advance.  Myrina devised a way to connect with people in Florida were going to NiN as well, and could be potential playmates for the future!  Day 1, we arrived bright-eyed and bushy-tailed and dove right in to bar takeovers and parties.  Having been in the lifestyle for only about 4 months, we’d never been to a house party, a group party or done anything more than have a foursome with another couple.  Yet here we were in NOLA with approximately 1,000 couples and a laundry list of things we wanted to try and experiences we wanted to have. We talk about finally meeting, in person, some of the folks we’d connected with in the weeks leading up to the trip as well as one special connection we made with another couple.   You’ll hear about our tour of the amazing playrooms at the hotel and whether or not we decide to play their on our first night at NiN!

Even savvy Swingers can't always avoid drama. In situations when things may not be going exactly as planned, just realizing when to slow down, when to step back and knowing when to say "when" can help keep you from stepping on landmines and getting caught up in some drama. But, we're the Accidental Swingers and, as usual, we learned these lessons the hard way.   We talk about three back to back dates with different couples; we learn the value of trusting your instincts and the importance of sticking to the plan.  Unfortunately we didn't know any better and flubbed our way through some uncomfortable situations!   A vanilla date with a lifestyle couple turns into a playdate, that, honestly, should have stayed a vanilla date. We run into some drama with the wife of one of the couples that we play with. And, in a moment of weakness, Myrina ignores her inner voice and allows a meet and greet date to turn into a playdate.  We definitely have some sexy fun but honestly, we should have stayed at the bar! As always, we talk about what we could have done, we laugh at our mistakes and vow to do better next time!   Read our most recent blog post here: Naked Fun in the Florida Sun Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile We're also on Twitter

We start dating a new couple!  After meeting them and having a great dinner date, we decide to have a play date at a new venue.  And Tristan finally gets his "turn" at some hot action!  We also begin to understand and explore our desire to have a deeper, emotional connection with our swinging partners.  We dubbed it Social Swinging vs. Sexual Swinging.  Sexual swinging is more about the physical sex: you go to a club, find a couple, have sex and maybe you'll see each other again, maybe not.  Social swinging, to us, is developing more of a relationship; going out together and doing more than just having sex.  It's about building connections and creating friendships.  In our journey, we quickly realized if we really connected with a couple, that we wanted to explore the possibility of more than just a sexual relationship with them but perhaps form a friendship as well. Full of sexual energy and hormones, Myrina starts communicating with a single guy as they build up to their MFM playdate.  We're the Accidental Swingers, so true to form, things don't quite go the way we planned! Show notes and resources can be found on our Website: https://accidentalswingers.com/ Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/accidentalswingers/ Find us on Reddit: u/myrina_fl or u/Accidental_Swingers

Our swinging adventures really start to take off in this episode!  We visit a local nudist resort that embraces the lifestyle community.  We go on a date with a new couple and end up at an on-premise sex club!  Find out how we were setting up and going on lots of meet & greet dates and then listen to the hysterical details about a meet & greet date with a new single guy that did not go quite as we had hoped!   Read our most recent blog post here: Social Bubbles - A Better Way to Play?   Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website   Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers   Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile   We're also on Twitter

After months of reviewing profiles, messaging people and having meet & greets with potential playmates - we finally f*ck!!!  In this episode, we talk about our first MFM as well as the first swinger event we ever attended (held at an area nudist resort/ community!).  You'll hear portions of the original audio that we recorded two years ago on our way home from the event as well as a segment from the audio we recorded on the way home from our first f*ck date.   Listen to our stories, find out how we navigate our first lifestyle event (and first trip to a nudist resort) and eventually hear why Myrina "can't be trusted"!! Read our most recent blog post here: Social Bubbles - A Better Way to Play?   Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website   Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers   Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile   We're also on Twitter

Since our introduction into swinging wasn't planned, when we accidentally entered the lifestyle we didn't know anything about the basics of swinging.  We weren't familiar with some of the common terms that swingers and lifestylers use and we had no idea how the swinger social websites worked.  We also did not know how to find other swingers and resources for swingers in our area.  In this episode we: review some basic terms commonly used by swingers  discuss how to set up your swinger profile and what we view as the most important DO's and DON'Ts when creating your profiles. (Go to our website and download your free 10 TIPS AND TRICKS TO CREATE A BETTER PROFILE) explain how and where to locate other swingers in your area talk about other swinger resources  Read our most recent blog post here: Social Bubbles - A Better Way to Play?   Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website   Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers   Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile   We're also on Twitter

It's "the date" that started our lifestyle journey! We had three weeks between our accidental swinger date (when we realized our friends were swingers and wanted us to join them) and our play date.  We talk about what we did to prepare for our very first swinger experience and laugh about what happened and what we did when things didn't quite go exactly as we planned!   Read our most recent blog post here: Accidental Blogs Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile We're also on Twitter

Our initial podcast episode introduces Myrina and Tristan, describes the purpose of this podcast, and where the idea and the name came from. Read our most recent blog post here: Our Adventures Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile We're also on Twitter