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Dr. Kenner's The Rational Basis of Happiness ® Talk ShowDr. Ellen Kenner, clinical psychologist, takes calls and answers your questions on any personal issue. Toll free 877-Dr-Kenner 24/7. Samples of questions at https://www.drkenner.com
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Nov 11, 2023 • 6min
🎤 PODCAST • Lying Child ~ My granddaughter constantly lies and boasts
Strategies for addressing a lying and boasting grandchild, exploring deeper motivations behind the behavior, and discussing self-esteem and challenging beauty stereotypes.

Nov 10, 2023 • 11min
🎤 PODCAST • Substance Abuse ~ How cognitive therapy might treat substance abuse - a short interview with Dr. Cory Newman
Dr. Cory Newman, an expert in cognitive therapy for substance abuse, discusses the importance of addressing ambivalence and permission-giving beliefs in treating substance abuse. He emphasizes the role of permission-giving beliefs in justifying addictive behaviors and the need to remove minimizing language. Finding alternative sources of joy and coping mechanisms is crucial for individuals with substance abuse issues.

Nov 8, 2023 • 12min
🎤 PODCAST • 1- Kiddy Sex- How should I deal with my 12 year old's sexual experience? • 2-Unearned Guilt- How to rule someone else's mind.
Dr. Kenner advises a concerned mother on how to handle her 12-year-old son's sexual experience. Exploring children's sexual exploration and coping with anger. Discovering the concept of ruling someone else's mind through guilt and self-doubt.

Nov 6, 2023 • 10min
🎤 PODCAST • 1-Family Baggage - My girlfriend's kid controls her. 2-Gayness and Ethics - Is it immoral to be gay?
The podcast discusses a woman's struggle with her controlling son and her unhealthy relationship, as well as the morality of being gay. They also talk about projective tests, the importance of self-esteem in relationships, and the negative effects of defensiveness.

Nov 5, 2023 • 5min
🎤 PODCAST • Blended Family ~ I can't accept having a blended family with my ex.
In this podcast, the host discusses the challenges of accepting a blended family with an ex. They emphasize the importance of processing emotions, seeking psychological help, and addressing practical issues while also focusing on self-care and acceptance.

Nov 3, 2023 • 11min
🎤 PODCAST • What is Sex Therapy? A short interview with Dr. Barry McCarthy
Dr. Barry McCarthy, a certified sex therapist, explains the myths and procedures of sex therapy, emphasizing the importance of comfortable and healthy sexual relationships. He addresses sensitive topics like sexual history and abuse and shares insights on the role of a sex therapist in addressing sexual issues such as desire and communication.

Nov 1, 2023 • 11min
🎤 PODCAST • 1- What is the effect of custody disputes upon children? 2- I caught my friend drinking and smoking.
Dr. Kenner, a relationship expert and author, discusses the effect of custody disputes on children, emphasizing their best interests. They also address the mistakes parents make during divorce cases. The podcast also explores strategies for convincing a friend to quit drinking and smoking, highlighting the negative effects of overly restrictive parenting and the importance of being realistic with kids.

Oct 30, 2023 • 9min
🎤 PODCAST • Happiness and Independence ~ My happiness is totally dependent upon my boyfriend.
Topics include dependency and emotional struggles in a relationship, the importance of independence and communication, love languages, exploring new relationships, and making rational decisions for personal happiness.

Oct 29, 2023 • 6min
🎤 PODCAST • 1-Rap Music - Is rap music legitimate? 2-Complements ~ (starts at 2m 18s) False praise backfires
Opinions on rap music and its dichotomy are explored, addressing the controversial lyrics versus enjoyable melody. The significance of introspection is discussed, along with the negative effects of false compliments and the importance of specific feedback.

Oct 27, 2023 • 11min
🎤 PODCAST • Guilt Unearned ~ Happiness around the world - a short interview with Dr. Andy Bernstein
Dr. Andy Bernstein, short interview guest, discusses freedom and happiness with Dr. Ellen. They explore the contrasting levels of ambition between individuals from different countries and the tactics employed by bullies and manipulative individuals. They also delve into the concept of guilt, lovability, and productivity.