Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast

Do you need a friend? In this message, Chip shows us, from God’s Word, how to build friendships that can last forever.Main Points “There is no limit to what God will do if we don’t care who gets the credit!” I. Honoring others above ourselves is the “acid test” of how much we really love one another. --John 13:1-5; John 13:12-17 Key observations: Honoring others is motivated by love. Security in God’s plan allows us to choose downward mobility. Honoring others begins with humility. Position and power are stewardships for service. Real happiness comes when we make others shine, not hog the limelight. Summary: Honoring others is enjoying and celebrating the worth, success, and accomplishments of others more than my own. II. What does “honoring others” look like in your life? Step 1: Evaluate When was the last time you honored someone above yourself? Step 2: Questions to ponder: Do you compliment others sincerely? Do you enjoy the success of others? Can you let others be the center of attention? Can you allow others to get credit even when you had a major role? Do you feel bad, slighted, hurt, or angry when you work or service goes unnoticed? III. What happens when we honor others above ourselves? The Great paradox --Philippians 2:9-11 The Awesome promise --Matthew 23:5-12 The Timeless prayer --St Francis of Assisi Conclusion: Many relationships start well, but few end well. Those who habitually honor others build friendships that last a lifetime. Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitter Partner With Us Donate Online 888-333-6003

We all can be hard to get along with at times, but there are some people who seem to be especially gifted at it! Before you put someone in a headlock, and before you lose your temper, join Chip as he teaches us how to deal with the difficult people in our lives.Main Points Thesis: Sometimes the person we most want God to remove from our lives is the person we need the most. Why? Because: The way we treat difficult people reveals the true condition of our heart. Difficult people cause us to grow in ways we couldn’t on our own. The most distinguishing mark of Jesus’ followers is their love for those they would not and could not love on their own. What does “bearing with” others look like? With humility – See them and treat them as people of equal or superior value than yourself. With gentleness – Extend undeserved acts of kindness and acceptance that are foreign to you with this person. With patience – Refuse to allow your irritation and frustration to erupt into negative thoughts, feelings, and comments to or about them. With forgiveness – Release them from your internal desire to pay them back for the frustration, difficulty, and wounds they inflicted upon you. Why is “bearing with” difficult people so important? It increases my appreciation of God’s love toward me. It demonstrates God’s love toward them. It changes me where I need it most. It communicates the reality and authenticity of Christ to the world. Conclusion: Sometimes the person I most want God to remove from my life is the very person I need the most! Action Steps: Identify the most difficult person in your life right now. Begin praying everyday for this person for the next two weeks. Stop consciously avoiding them and start seeing them like Christ does. (see Colossians 3:12) Serve them in some specific way this week. Discuss these action steps with your friends, family, growth group, Bible study, and/or ministry team. Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook

Do you have a difficult person in your life - a person who makes you nuts? Do you wonder, "Is there a Godly response to this person?" If you’re faced with that person right now, join Chip as he shares how to deal with the difficult people in your life.Main Points Thesis: Sometimes the person we most want God to remove from our lives is the person we need the most. Why? Because: The way we treat difficult people reveals the true condition of our heart. Difficult people cause us to grow in ways we couldn’t on our own. The most distinguishing mark of Jesus’ followers is their love for those they would not and could not love on their own. What does “bearing with” others look like? With humility – See them and treat them as people of equal or superior value than yourself. With gentleness – Extend undeserved acts of kindness and acceptance that are foreign to you with this person. With patience – Refuse to allow your irritation and frustration to erupt into negative thoughts, feelings, and comments to or about them. With forgiveness – Release them from your internal desire to pay them back for the frustration, difficulty, and wounds they inflicted upon you. Why is “bearing with” difficult people so important? It increases my appreciation of God’s love toward me. It demonstrates God’s love toward them. It changes me where I need it most. It communicates the reality and authenticity of Christ to the world. Conclusion: Sometimes the person I most want God to remove from my life is the very person I need the most! Action Steps: Identify the most difficult person in your life right now. Begin praying everyday for this person for the next two weeks. Stop consciously avoiding them and start seeing them like Christ does. (see Colossians 3:12) Serve them in some specific way this week. Discuss these action steps with your friends, family, growth group, Bible study, and/or ministry team. Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitte

Have you blown it big time? Have you committed a sin that you think has put you on the sideline forever? According to Jesus, you have hope. Chip shares that no matter how far you have fallen, you can reset your boundaries, beginning today, and get back in the game.Main Points Two extremes! Exhibit A: Passive Indifference Exhibit B: Painful Insensitivity Review: The teaching of Jesus. --Matthew 18:15-17 Step 1: Private conference --Matthew 18:15 Step 2: Small group confrontation --Matthew 18:16 Step 3: Public disclosure Matthew 18:17a Step 4: Public exclusion --Matthew 18:17b The Question: How do we restore those who have fallen? The Answer: Galatians 6:1-2 What does Galatians 6:1-2 mean? The Situation: A fellow Christian is “caught” (overcome) by a sin. The Command: The spiritually mature are to restore this believer. The Method: Gentleness is to characterize our attitude and the process. The Warning: Restoration is a dangerous process even for the mature. The Summary: “Bearing one another’s burdens” involves the arduous task of confrontation, forgiveness, comfort, and loving fallen believers back to a position of fellowship and former fruitfulness. (see 2 Corinthians 2:5-11 & Luke 15:11-32) Conclusion: We serve the God of “second chances.” We will all “fall” to some degree at some time. We must resist our fears and insecurities that lead to passive indifference. We must resist our desire for justice and self-righteous tendencies that lead to painful insensitivity. We must restore, not “shoot our wounded.” How can we fail to do for another what Christ has done for us? Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitter Partner With Us Donate Online 888-333-6003

What happens when someone you love and respect has a moral failure? How do you respond? What does scripture say about dealing with people who have failed morally? Join Chip as he discusses how to restore someone after moral failure.Main Points Two extremes! Exhibit A: Passive Indifference Exhibit B: Painful Insensitivity Review: The teaching of Jesus. --Matthew 18:15-17 Step 1: Private conference --Matthew 18:15 Step 2: Small group confrontation --Matthew 18:16 Step 3: Public disclosure Matthew 18:17a Step 4: Public exclusion --Matthew 18:17b The Question: How do we restore those who have fallen? The Answer: Galatians 6:1-2 What does Galatians 6:1-2 mean? The Situation: A fellow Christian is “caught” (overcome) by a sin. The Command: The spiritually mature are to restore this believer. The Method: Gentleness is to characterize our attitude and the process. The Warning: Restoration is a dangerous process even for the mature. The Summary: “Bearing one another’s burdens” involves the arduous task of confrontation, forgiveness, comfort, and loving fallen believers back to a position of fellowship and former fruitfulness. (see 2 Corinthians 2:5-11 & Luke 15:11-32) Conclusion: We serve the God of “second chances.” We will all “fall” to some degree at some time. We must resist our fears and insecurities that lead to passive indifference. We must resist our desire for justice and self-righteous tendencies that lead to painful insensitivity. We must restore, not “shoot our wounded.” How can we fail to do for another what Christ has done for us? Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitter Partner With Us Donate Online 888-333-6003

When conflict arises, it’s a lot easier to “put up your dukes” than it is to open up your arms and resolve the conflict, isn’t it? If you’re having a tough time resolving conflict before it erupts, then join Chip as he shares that God has a word of encouragement, just for you.Main Points How important is living in harmony? Jesus prayed for it. Scripture commands it. The Church practiced it. The world was transformed by it. What causes disharmony or conflict? Growth/Unmet Needs Theological Differences Philosophical Differences Personality Differences Carnality How can we restore harmony in relationships? Refuse to tolerate disunity. Embrace conflict as normal and unavoidable. Be the initiator in conflict resolution. Deal with you before you deal with them. Meet together ASAP and outline the issue! If resolution does not occur, follow the Biblical guidelines of Matthew 18 Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitter Partner With Us Donate Online 888-333-6003

Do you ever wonder why good, Godly relationships have conflict? If I love God and you love God and we love each other, then shouldn’t we have a relationship free of conflict? Unfortunately, the answer is, no. Chip shares some ways of living in harmony with those around you and how to handle conflict effectively when it arises.Main Points How important is living in harmony? Jesus prayed for it. Scripture commands it. The Church practiced it. The world was transformed by it. What causes disharmony or conflict? Growth/Unmet Needs Theological Differences Philosophical Differences Personality Differences Carnality How can we restore harmony in relationships? Refuse to tolerate disunity. Embrace conflict as normal and unavoidable. Be the initiator in conflict resolution. Deal with you before you deal with them. Meet together ASAP and outline the issue! If resolution does not occur, follow the Biblical guidelines of Matthew 18 Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitter Partner With Us Donate Online 888-333-6003

Sometimes the truth really HURTS! Getting straight talk from a friend is about as fun as getting a speeding ticket. But we all need people in our lives who will honestly level with us! Chip explains why it’s so important to be a truth-telling-best-friend.Main Points Why must we admonish one another? It is a command. --Colossians 3:16, 1 Thessalonians 5:14 Because we all have “blind spots.” --Psalm 19:12; 139:23-24 To become godly, holy, mature Christians. --Colossians 1:28-29 It cultivates deep, loving relationships. --1 Thessalonians 2:8 Because sin destroys a believer’s life. --Romans 6:23 Because we are members of one another. Unchecked sin impacts the whole body --Romans 12:4-5 Who is competent to admonish? It requires a life "full of goodness" It requires a life "filled with knowledge" It requires a "heart filled with love" How to admonish - "the process": Step #1: Examine your own life. --Matthew 7:3-5 Step #2: Examine the Word. --2 Timothy 2:15 Step #3: Examine your motives. --1 Corinthians 4:14 Step #4: Set a time to meet privately. --Matthew 18:15 Step #5: Ask specific questions to confirm data, and disarm the situation. Step #6: Tenderly point out the sin; show them the Scripture that applies to them. Step #7: If possible, develop a game-plan, timetable, and follow-up meeting for support and follow-through. Conclusion: Admonition is God’s antibiotic for the church; done Biblically, it is the most loving thing you can do … for all concerned. Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitter Partner With Us Donate Online 888-333-6003

Jesus told us to speak the truth in love. But for most of us, it’s hard! If you’d like to know how to speak the truth, with boldness and with love, join Chip as he reveals how to do just that.Main Points Why must we admonish one another? It is a command. --Colossians 3:16, 1 Thessalonians 5:14 Because we all have “blind spots.” --Psalm 19:12; 139:23-24 To become godly, holy, mature Christians. --Colossians 1:28-29 It cultivates deep, loving relationships. --1 Thessalonians 2:8 Because sin destroys a believer’s life. --Romans 6:23 Because we are members of one another. Unchecked sin impacts the whole body --Romans 12:4-5 Who is competent to admonish? It requires a life "full of goodness" It requires a life "filled with knowledge" It requires a "heart filled with love" How to admonish - "the process": Step #1: Examine your own life. --Matthew 7:3-5 Step #2: Examine the Word. --2 Timothy 2:15 Step #3: Examine your motives. --1 Corinthians 4:14 Step #4: Set a time to meet privately. --Matthew 18:15 Step #5: Ask specific questions to confirm data, and disarm the situation. Step #6: Tenderly point out the sin; show them the Scripture that applies to them. Step #7: If possible, develop a game-plan, timetable, and follow-up meeting for support and follow-through. Conclusion: Admonition is God’s antibiotic for the church; done Biblically, it is the most loving thing you can do … for all concerned. Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitter Partner With Us Donate Online 888-333-6003

Do you know someone who’s about to throw the towel in? Don’t let ‘em! They need you to “jump in the ring” with them and “double team” the enemy. It’s called ENCOURAGEMENT! Chip Ingram teaches us how to become an awesome encourager, and how to lift up those who are down.Main Points Sometimes the only difference between success and failure is a simple word of encouragement! What is encouragement? Meaning of the word: Use in the New Testament: Use in the Old Testament: Summary: We are to aid, help, support, and intercede for each other by means of comforting in affliction, strengthening in faith, and motivating toward righteousness. In short, encouragement (building up others) is taking the truth of Scripture by life and word in the context of meaningful and caring relationships, to restore perspective and, thereby, provide hope which carries us through affliction and above complacency. Why is encouragement so important? Because God commands it. --1 Thessalonians 5:11 Because sin is deceitful. --Hebrews 3:13 Because spiritual growth requires it. --1 Thessalonians 3:2 Because we lose perspective so easily. --2 Corinthians 7:3-7 What does Biblical encouragement look like? Hebrews10:19-25 Two facts – Two eternal truths: Since we have access into God’s presence. --Hebrews 10:19 Since we never go into God’s presence alone. --Hebrews 10:21 Three exhortations – Three timeless principles: “Let us draw near…” Biblical encouragement restores perspective. --Hebrews 10:22 “Let us hold fast…” Biblical encouragement promotes endurance. --Hebrews 10:23 “Let us stimulate one another…” Biblical encouragement inspires spiritual growth. --Hebrews 10:24 How? By stimulating one another to Christ-like attitudes and actions in relationships. By refusing to allow one another to “drift” from regular attendance at worship or small group times. By reminding one another of the certainty and accountability involved in Christ’s return. Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Free Your Divine Design Book About Chip Ingram Chip Ingram’s passion is helping Christians really live like Christians. As a pastor, author, and teacher for more than three decades, Chip has helped believers around the world move from spiritual spectators to healthy, authentic disciples of Jesus by living out God’s truth in their lives and relationships in transformational ways. About Living on the Edge Living on the Edge exists to help Christians live like Christians. Established in 1995 as the radio ministry of pastor and author Chip Ingram, God has since grown it into a global discipleship ministry. Living on the Edge provides Biblical teaching and discipleship resources that challenge and equip spiritually hungry Christians all over the world to become mature disciples of Jesus. Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook