Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast

Have you ever seen a 5-year old drive a car? Well, you say, “Don’t be ridiculous!” Right! They watch you drive for years, before they begin to drive – with you in the car, and finally, they’re able to drive on their own. That’s a word picture for where Chip is headed today. Your children watch you as you live in obedience to the Lord, they practice obedience with you alongside, and finally, they live a life of love and obedience to God all on their own. Exactly how that process unfolds is what Chip explains in this message.Introduction: God’s Dream for Your ChildYou must understand your child’s two primary needs are for SIGNIFICANCE and SECURITY.You must recognize your child’s primary responsibility is to learn OBEDIENCE.You must remember, obedience is a DEVELOPMENTAL PROCESS.You must commit to providing the necessary RESOURCES for your child to learn obedience.Obedience is achieved when your child has TRANSFERRED his/her primary love, submission, and dependency from YOU to JESUS CHRIST.Three characteristics of righteous childrenThey make wise DECISIONS. -Philippians 1:9-11They keep their COMMITMENTS. -Proverbs 20:6They care genuinely for OTHERS. -John 15:13Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

We all have dreams for our children. But do you know that God has a dream for your child that is higher and even more amazing than yours? If that’s true, how do you cooperate with God to allow His highest and best purposes to become a reality in the life of your son or your daughter? Join Chip and find out how to develop your child’s full potential.Introduction: God’s Dream for Your ChildYou must understand your child’s two primary needs are for SIGNIFICANCE and SECURITY.You must recognize your child’s primary responsibility is to learn OBEDIENCE.You must remember, obedience is a DEVELOPMENTAL PROCESS.You must commit to providing the necessary RESOURCES for your child to learn obedience.Obedience is achieved when your child has TRANSFERRED his/her primary love, submission, and dependency from YOU to JESUS CHRIST.Three characteristics of righteous childrenThey make wise DECISIONS. -Philippians 1:9-11They keep their COMMITMENTS. -Proverbs 20:6They care genuinely for OTHERS. -John 15:13Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Conflicts with our kids are inevitable. And one of the most intimidating things about parenting is the fear of losing our kids when these conflicts present themselves. Join Chip has he lays out 8 keys that’ll help you build securely bonded relationships with your kids. If you want to learn how you and your child can weather the storms ahead, this message is for you.Four principles for positive parentingEffective parenting begins with positive CLEAR-CUT OBJECTIVES! -Ephesians 6:4Effective parenting demands we PRACTICE what we PREACH. -1 Corinthians 4:14-16Effective parents build relationships that BOND. -1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, 11-128 “Keys” that build relationships that bondUNCONDITIONAL loveScheduled TIMEFOCUSED attentionEYE contactONGOING communicationMeaningful TOUCHHave FUN togetherPRAY together oftenEffective parenting requires CONSTANT REPAIR and ONGOING MAINTENANCE. -1 John 1:9Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

One of the biggest questions parents are asking today is, “How do we raise positive kids in such a negative world?” In this message, Chip explains that God has a plan for parenting and the Bible clearly lays it out. If you long to strengthen the relationships with your children and increase the joy in your parenting journey, the first step begins here.Four principles for positive parentingEffective parenting begins with positive CLEAR-CUT OBJECTIVES! -Ephesians 6:4Effective parenting demands we PRACTICE what we PREACH. -1 Corinthians 4:14-16Effective parents build relationships that BOND. -1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, 11-128 “Keys” that build relationships that bondUNCONDITIONAL loveScheduled TIMEFOCUSED attentionEYE contactONGOING communicationMeaningful TOUCHHave FUN togetherPRAY together oftenEffective parenting requires CONSTANT REPAIR and ONGOING MAINTENANCE. -1 John 1:9Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

What is the single biggest source of conflict in your marriage right now? Join Chip as he teaches you how to fight fair in marriage.What I learned on the sandlot from the “Barnes Boys”Conflict is normal, it's an opportunity for growth, it must be diffused or it will destroy, and it demands rules so no one gets hurtGod’s perspective on conflict:Conflict is inevitable in a fallen world. -Jn. 16:33Conflict flows from our differences and our selfishness. -Jms. 4:1-3Conflict is an opportunity for growth. -Phil. 2:1-4The most common communication styles:Turtles: The goal is to avoid.Sharks: The goal is to win.How to diffuse conflict in your marriage:D: DEFINE the problem (on your own). -Pr. 15:14 I: INITIATE a time to talk. -Matt. 5:23-24F: FOCUS on the “perceived” problem, not the person. -Pr. 18:19 F: FEEL their pain. -Pr. 17:17U: UNCOVER the root problem. -Pr. 20:5S: SET things right between you. -Jms. 5:16E: ESTABLISH a specific action plan that addresses the issue discussed. -Jms. 1:22-25Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

What is the single biggest source of conflict in your marriage right now? Join Chip as he teaches you how to fight fair in marriage.What I learned on the sandlot from the “Barnes Boys”Conflict is normal, it's an opportunity for growth, it must be diffused or it will destroy, and it demands rules so no one gets hurtGod’s perspective on conflict:Conflict is inevitable in a fallen world. -Jn. 16:33Conflict flows from our differences and our selfishness. -Jms. 4:1-3Conflict is an opportunity for growth. -Phil. 2:1-4The most common communication styles:Turtles: The goal is to avoid.Sharks: The goal is to win.How to diffuse conflict in your marriage:D: DEFINE the problem (on your own). -Pr. 15:14 I: INITIATE a time to talk. -Matt. 5:23-24F: FOCUS on the “perceived” problem, not the person. -Pr. 18:19 F: FEEL their pain. -Pr. 17:17U: UNCOVER the root problem. -Pr. 20:5S: SET things right between you. -Jms. 5:16E: ESTABLISH a specific action plan that addresses the issue discussed. -Jms. 1:22-25Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

In this message, Chip explains how you can improve the communication in your marriage. Communication is the highway on which love travels. Chip shares how you can start building your own relational super highway.Understanding the communication process:Definition: The meeting of MEANINGS.“Communication is the privilege of exchanging vulnerabilities.” -Norman Wright“Communication is the process of sharing yourself verbally and nonverbally in such a way that the other person can both accept and understand what you are saying.” -Norman WrightThe complete messageWords alone = 7% of meaningTone of voice = 38% of meaningFacial expression, gestures, posture, total non-verbal = 55% of meaning5 Principles that will transform communication in your home:BE HONEST - Speak the truth in love. -Ephesians 4:15, 25BE ANGRY- Deal with anger appropriately. -Ephesians 4:26-27BE DILIGENT - Work hard on your relationship. -Ephesians 4:28BE POSITIVE - Don’t wound with your words. -Ephesians 4:29-31BE FORGIVING - Be the first to say, “I’m sorry.” -Ephesians 4:32Practical skills and suggestions to enhance communication in your home:The conference - A tool for listening. Ask Three Questions:What are you concerned about?What do you desire?What are you willing to do?Word pictures - A tool for understanding“Care” lists - A tool for building: List seven simple, loving, “caring behaviors” that are non-conflict producing and not expensive that make you feel loved by your spouse.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

This message focuses on a candid look at communication. If you want to learn how to improve the communication in your marriage, to share hearts instead of just exchanging words, then join Chip.Understanding the communication process: Definition: The meeting of MEANINGS.“Communication is the privilege of exchanging vulnerabilities.” -Norman Wright“Communication is the process of sharing yourself verbally and nonverbally in such a way that the other person can both accept and understand what you are saying.” -Norman WrightThe complete messageWords alone = 7% of meaningTone of voice = 38% of meaningFacial expression, gestures, posture, total non-verbal = 55% of meaning5 Principles that will transform communication in your home:BE HONEST - Speak the truth in love. -Ephesians 4:15, 25BE ANGRY- Deal with anger appropriately. -Ephesians 4:26-27BE DILIGENT - Work hard on your relationship. -Ephesians 4:28BE POSITIVE - Don’t wound with your words. -Ephesians 4:29-31BE FORGIVING - Be the first to say, “I’m sorry.” -Ephesians 4:32Practical skills and suggestions to enhance communication in your home:The conference - A tool for listening. Ask Three Questions: What are you concerned about?What do you desire?What are you willing to do?Word pictures - A tool for understanding“Care” lists - A tool for building: List seven simple, loving, “caring behaviors” that are non-conflict producing and not expensive that make you feel loved by your spouse.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Have you ever forgiven someone who hurt you, only to have resentful feelings begin to fester a short time later? How does that scenario change when it is your spouse who caused you pain? In this program, Chip explains why forgiveness is a powerful skill couples need to harness. Learn about the dangers of unresolved conflict in relationships and the freedom that comes when you genuinely say, “I forgive you.”Introduction:The foundation of a great family begins with a deep, intimate marriage.Three skills for a great marriage:Skill #1: FORGIVINGSkill #2: COMMUNICATIONSkill #3: RESOLVING CONFLICTForgiveness – What it’s not and what it is:Forgiveness is NOT a quick fix or an excuse to be a “doormat” by repeatedly accepting hurtful behavior without addressing the root issuesForgiveness IS a spiritual discipline that involves three distinct parts:It’s a DECISIONIt’s a PROCESSIt actually is ACCOMPLISHEDThe parable of the unforgiving servant:Matthew 18:21-35Three-part method for forgiveness:Act: Choose to forgive.Process: Actively pray and bless the person with your words and actions.Accomplished: The true test of forgiveness is when you can genuinely rejoice in the other person’s success and well-being.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

In Genesis 2, we read about how God uniquely created men and women. Those differences can loom so large at times that it is almost as if the sexes are from entirely different planets. In this program, Chip explains how couples can bridge the gap between each other to communicate effectively, understand each other’s needs, and navigate challenges together. Discover how to have a thriving, God-honoring relationship with your spouse.Foundational Marriage TruthsFoundational truth #4 (for men):I will choose to LOVE my wife today in a SPECIFIC and SACRIFICIAL way that is meaningful to her. She is God’s gift to me and I will CHERISH her just as Christ loves His bride, the Church.Key verse:Ephesians 5:28-29Foundational truth #5 (for women):I will choose to ENCOURAGE and RESPECT my husband today in a specific and sacrificial way that is meaningful to him. He is God’s gift to me and I will BUILD HIM UP with my words and actions for the glory of Christ.Key verse:Proverbs 31:10-12Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003