Snake on the Table

In this episode of Snake on the Table, we discuss how singles can find their place and purpose within a church culture that often emphasizes marriage and parenting. How should singles process their role when surrounded by families? Should they feel left out, or is there a deeper biblical perspective to explore? We tackle these questions and more, drawing from our experiences at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky.Join us as we react to the cultural push for contentment in singleness and challenge the idea of a so-called "gift of singleness." We explore how singles can embrace their current season while aspiring to godly ambitions, such as marriage and family. We also delve into how singles can actively serve the church community through acts like public evangelism and assisting families.Curious about how you can contribute to your church as a single person? We invite your thoughts and questions—send them to snakeandcatable@gmail.com. Don't forget, you can listen to us on Spotify and Apple Podcasts!CHAPTERS:00:00 - Role of Singleness in Family Church Culture01:52 - Church Accommodation for Life Stages06:55 - Overcoming Envy in Relationships09:58 - Embracing Your Current Life Season14:05 - Activities for Singles in the Church19:30 - Qualities to Look for in a Spouse21:08 - Final Thoughts on Singleness and Relationships__________Jerry and Tanner are part of the elder team of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky. You can contact the church via the website: refchurch.comIf you have a question or a topic you would like to hear them discuss, send an email to: snakeonthetable@gmail.com_________Prefer to listen? Find them on Spotify and Apple Podcasts...https://open.spotify.com/show/64EKBY7oOsaGHeCX5ouIwjhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/snake-on-the-table/id1764036776Keys: singles in church, relationships, christian dating advice, dating advice, single life, family church dynamics, single christian woman, sunday church service, fox valley church, christian singles, dating tips for men, single ladies, singleness, sunday service, how to enjoy being single, contentment in singleness, church, christian dating, how to be content in your singleness, bible, paul van coller, finding contentment in singleness, faith, jesus christ

In this episode of Snake on the Table, Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris tackle the controversial topic of feminism through the lens of Christian values. We dive deep into gender roles, exploring what it truly means to be feminine according to biblical principles. We discuss how society's changing definitions impact spirituality and parenting, and we react to cultural misconceptions about femininity and masculinity. Are women merely baby makers, or is there a deeper role assigned by God? As elders of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, we lend our insights into how biblical masculinity and femininity shape our community. We invite you to join the conversation, share your thoughts, and send us questions or topics at snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Don't forget, our podcast is also available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, so you can engage with us in multiple formats. Let's explore these pivotal issues together!#biblicalgenderroles #genderfluid #goodrelationships #gender #homemakingCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:15 - What does it mean to be feminine?04:41 - Softness and Femininity09:45 - Helper, Nurturer, Life Giver Roles11:05 - Women as Supportive Followers17:25 - High Output Women Characteristics19:50 - Proverbs 31 Insights22:55 - Nurturing Qualities in Women31:15 - The Importance of Beauty33:08 - Women's Role in Life Production37:58 - Women as Baby Makers39:16 - Feminism's Impact on Children41:52 - Qualities to Look for in a Woman46:08 - The Value of Children49:10 - Birth Control Considerations51:58 - Women in Competitive Sports56:15 - Addressing Obesity Issues__________Jerry and Tanner are part of the elder team of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky. You can contact the church via the website: refchurch.comIf you have a question or a topic you would like to hear them discuss, send an email to: snakeonthetable@gmail.com_________Prefer to listen? Find them on Spotify and Apple Podcasts...https://open.spotify.com/show/64EKBY7oOsaGHeCX5ouIwjhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/snake-on-the-table/id1764036776Keys: gender stereotypes, self actualization, feminine, masculine vs feminine energy, women's identity exploration, gender differences, cultural norms analysis, wisdom, gender roles, self help, relationship advice, what is feminism, feminism, identity exploration, how to be feminine, self improvement, masculine energy, masculinity, men vs women, cultural gender norms, psychology, feminine energy, masculine feminine roles, feminism critique, dating advice, personal development

Are you man enough? In this episode, we discuss the bold truth about masculinity through the lens of Christianity and biblical values. Join Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we tackle what it truly means to embody masculinity in today's ever-changing world. We delve into the age-old debate of gender roles, exploring the importance of leadership, provision, and protection as key aspects of being a man. We react to cultural shifts and challenge the modern narrative by revisiting definitions from Noah Webster's 1828 dictionary, emphasizing how words and their meanings have evolved. Are you curious about how spirituality and parenting play into this conversation? We're here to provide insights, provoke thought, and invite you to share your questions or topics with us at snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Also, don't forget to listen to us on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging discussions!CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro02:16 - What is Masculinity07:32 - What is a Man11:42 - What Does it Mean to Lead18:06 - Mental Hardness20:34 - Leadership Skills23:58 - Providing for Family28:36 - How a Man Provides33:40 - How a Man Protects38:33 - Protecting Your Family: Spiritual and Emotional Safety47:34 - Sign OffKeys: what is biblical masculinity, how to become a godly man, characteristics of a biblical man, biblical masculinity, how to be more masculine, being a man after gods own heart, biblical answers, masculine energy, masculine frame, toxic masculinity, masculinity tips, biblical sexuality, leadership and protection, manhood restored, biblical headship, masculine christian men, authentic manhood, traits of a real man, manhood in the making, signs of manhood

In this episode of Snake on the Table, we tackle the provocative question: Should a father baptize his children or administer the Lord’s Table privately to his family? Join Tanner Cartright and Jerry Dorris as we delve into this sensitive topic, examining the role of fathers in administering sacraments like baptism and the Lord's table. We discuss the importance of maintaining a high view of the church's authority and the potential pitfalls of private ceremonies. Our conversation explores the intersection of Christianity, biblical masculinity, gender roles, and spirituality within the family and church dynamics. We react to the challenges posed by individualistic interpretations of faith and emphasize the need for church community and structure.As elders of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, we share insights from our confessional Baptist perspective. We're excited to engage with you, so send your questions or topics to snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our podcast on platforms like Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging discussions on faith and parenting!CHAPTERS:00:47 - The Church is Communal12:18 - Fencing the Table15:21 - The Lord’s Supper is for the Church19:54 - The Pastor is the Church’s Shepherd22:54 - Sphere Sovereignty31:10 - Confessional vs Non-Confessional31:38 - Final Thoughts33:00 - Contact Us__________Jerry and Tanner are part of the elder team of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky. You can contact the church via the website: refchurch.comIf you have a question or a topic you would like to hear them discuss, send an email to: snakeonthetable@gmail.com_________Prefer to listen? Find them on Spotify and Apple Podcasts...https://open.spotify.com/show/64EKBY7oOsaGHeCX5ouIwjhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/snake-on-the-table/id1764036776

Are you being deceived? In this episode of "Snake on the Table," we dive deep into questioning narratives. We, Tanner Cartright and Jerry Dorris, of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, tackle the necessity of scrutinizing accepted truths. Is it okay to question the narrative, especially as Christians? We discuss how this impacts our understanding of history, conspiracy theories, and even spirituality. Can we trust what we've been told about major historical events like the Crusades or Churchill's legacy? These are just some of the topics we react to, inviting you to join the conversation.We challenge the notion of blind acceptance, advocating for thorough research and critical thinking. Engage with us by sending your questions or topics to snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Don't forget to listen to our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more insightful discussions. Join us as we navigate these complex issues with humility and openness.CHAPTERS:05:42 - How to form an opinion09:58 - We live in the real world11:36 - Importance of Reading17:19 - Question the Narrative20:04 - Flat Earth Theory23:15 - Should We Question the Narrative__________Jerry and Tanner are part of the elder team of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky. You can contact the church via the website: refchurch.comIf you have a question or a topic you would like to hear them discuss, send an email to: snakeonthetable@gmail.com_________Prefer to listen? Find them on Spotify and Apple Podcasts...https://open.spotify.com/show/64EKBY7oOsaGHeCX5ouIwjhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/snake-on-the-table/id1764036776

In this episode, we discuss why we're NOT anarchists from a pastor's perspective. Join Pastor Tanner Cartright, also known as the Nuance King, and Jerry Dorris as we tackle misconceptions about our church, Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky. We react to the caricature of being anarchists and insurrectionists, clarifying our stance on Christianity, biblical masculinity, and the respect for God-ordained authority. Are Christians truly anti-government? Can a faithful believer hold anarchistic views? We answer these questions and more, exploring the intersection of spirituality, gender roles, and civic duty. We delve into our experiences during the COVID-19 pandemic, our commitment to good citizenship, and our proactive approach to engaging with civil authorities. We invite you to join the conversation—send your questions or topics to snakeonthetable@gmail.com, and don't forget to catch our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging discussions!CHAPTERS:01:00 - Anarchism Discussion05:20 - Covid Impact09:00 - Sphere Sovereignty Concept11:53 - Anarchism Revisited12:21 - Praying for Leaders14:00 - Clarifying Our Stance15:41 - Addressing Misconceptions__________Jerry and Tanner are part of the elder team of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky. You can contact the church via the website: refchurch.comIf you have a question or a topic you would like to hear them discuss, send an email to: snakeonthetable@gmail.com_________Prefer to listen? Find them on Spotify and Apple Podcasts...https://open.spotify.com/show/64EKBY7oOsaGHeCX5ouIwjhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/snake-on-the-table/id1764036776church and state, anarchism, christian government perspective, marxism, what is anarchy, first amendment, christian news, faith news, inspirational stories, christian stories, us news, anarchism explained, socialism, separation of church and state, church and state authority, faith stories, anarchist beliefs explained, christian tv, religious freedom, government, news today, faith, anarchy, international news, constitution, freedom of religion, christianity, anarchism meaning

In this episode of Snake on the Table, we dive into the unseen impact of music on your faith, exploring how melodies shape our beliefs and emotions. Do artists like Taylor Swift influence modern spirituality and gender roles? How does secular and Christian music affect our souls? We discuss the spectrum of music preferences, from Sabaton to hymns, and how they tie into biblical masculinity, spirituality, and parenting. We react to the power of lyrics and the importance of intentional listening in our families. Join us as we navigate these waters and share your thoughts! Have a question or topic? Email us at snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Don't miss out—listen to our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging conversations.CHAPTERS:04:20 - Christians and Secular Music08:03 - Music to Avoid for Christians12:58 - Recommended Christian Music14:35 - Conclusion and Takeaways16:50 - Impact of Screen Time__________Jerry and Tanner are part of the elder team of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky. You can contact the church via the website: refchurch.comIf you have a question or a topic you would like to hear them discuss, send an email to: snakeonthetable@gmail.com_________Prefer to listen? Find them on Spotify and Apple Podcasts...https://open.spotify.com/show/64EKBY7oOsaGHeCX5ouIwjhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/snake-on-the-table/id1764036776Christian Meditation Music, Worship, Christian Music Industry, False Teacher, Fake Christian, Hillsong, Christianity, Christian Music, Praise And Worship Songs, Impact Of Music, Maverick City Music, Elevation Worship, Christian Instrumental Music, Prayer Music, Ccm, Faith, Worship Songs, Exvangelical Deconstruction, Worship Music, Hillsong United

In this episode of "Snake on the Table," we dive deep into the ugly truth about conversion therapy bans. Join Tanner, Jerry, and our guest Michael Thiessen as we sit in the Kentucky State Capitol's Rotunda to discuss the cultural and spiritual implications of these bans. We tackle how the secular approach to conversion therapy differs from Christian counseling and explore the biblical perspective on identity and sexuality. Are you curious about how these therapy bans affect religious freedom and the broader cultural landscape?We react to Governor Andy Beshear's recent executive order and discuss its impact on Christian communities. As pastors affiliated with Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, we stand firm in proclaiming God’s truth amidst cultural challenges. Our conversation covers essential topics like Christianity, biblical masculinity, gender roles, and parenting.We invite you to join the discussion by sending your questions or topics to snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Don't forget to catch our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging talks on faith and culture.CHAPTERS:00:57 - Michael Theissen's Background02:47 - What is Conversion Therapy10:45 - Sexual Trauma and Mental Health12:47 - The Gospel Frees17:08 - Criminalize Sexual Abuse20:00 - Governor’s Executive Order Impact21:00 - Freedom of Speech Issues27:10 - Suicide Rates Discussion30:48 - Accountability in Sexual Abuse33:14 - Homosexual Life Expectancy Reality37:30 - Hope of the Gospel39:45 - Understanding Human Identity40:58 - Church's Role in Advocacy__________Jerry and Tanner are part of the elder team of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky. You can contact the church via the website: refchurch.comIf you have a question or a topic you would like to hear them discuss, send an email to: snakeonthetable@gmail.com_________Prefer to listen? Find them on Spotify and Apple Podcasts...https://open.spotify.com/show/64EKBY7oOsaGHeCX5ouIwjhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/snake-on-the-table/id1764036776How To Find A Christian Counselor, Faith Based Therapy, Gender Dysmorphia, Soul Care, Conversion Therapy Ban, Online Counseling, Mental Health Awareness, Christian Life Coach, Spiritual Counseling, Secular Therapy, Depression, Mental Health, Christian Counseling, Christian Therapist, Christian Therapy Online, Anxiety, Bible Counseling, Why Counseling Is Important, Christian Counseling Services, Anxiety Attack, Counseling Principles, Pastoral Counselor, Christianity

In this episode of "Snake on the Table," we dive deep into the challenges of being a pastor. We discuss the trials of losing people, the frustration of seeing congregants stray, and the heartache of witnessing spiritual stagnation. Yet, amid these trials, we find immense joy in watching others grow spiritually and overcome challenges. We tackle the balance of preaching and shepherding, sharing insights on how to manage both effectively. As we navigate the complexities of Christian leadership, biblical masculinity, and the importance of community, we invite you to reflect on your role in the church. Don't forget to share your thoughts and questions with us at snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Plus, catch our discussions on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging content on spirituality, gender roles, and parenting. Join us as we explore these vital aspects of faith and leadership.CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:09 - Challenges of Being a Pastor05:55 - Perseverance in Pastoring11:52 - Passion for Preaching13:09 - Sermon Preparation Time15:19 - Final Thoughts on Ministry__________Jerry and Tanner are part of the elder team of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky. You can contact the church via the website: refchurch.comIf you have a question or a topic you would like to hear them discuss, send an email to: snakeonthetable@gmail.com_________Prefer to listen? Find them on Spotify and Apple Podcasts...https://open.spotify.com/show/64EKBY7oOsaGHeCX5ouIwjhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/snake-on-the-table/id1764036776Pastoral Team, Church Pastors, Preaching, Church Challenges, Pastoral Ministry, Jesus Christ, Christianity, Rick Warren, Pastor, Leadership Skills, Faith, Pastors, Leadership, Church Leadership Struggles, Pastoral Leadership Training, Sermon, Prayer, Teaching, Church Growth, Modern Church, Pastoral Challenges, Pastoral Leadership, Church Leaders, Ministry

In this episode of Snake on the Table, we discuss the ugly truth about OnlyFans and fatherhood. We tackle the question: "What tactics can we use to stop girls from turning to OnlyFans?" We react to the staggering reality of OnlyFans' massive revenue and explore the role of biblical masculinity and fatherhood in guiding young women. Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright from Reformation Church, Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we delve into the significance of strong, masculine fathers and the importance of instilling dignity and self-worth through spirituality and parenting. We emphasize the need to address gender roles and regain a sense of shame for actions contrary to Christian values. Listen to our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and send us your thoughts or questions to snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Engage with us as we explore these pressing topics within our community.#ChristianParenting #OnlyfansControversy #ImpactOfSocialMedia #Identity #YoungWomen #OnlyfansCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:48 - Overview of OnlyFans06:15 - Role of Masculine Fathers11:10 - Pro-Abortion Online Harassment13:28 - Addressing Parenting Mistakes17:30 - Lessons for Our Daughters20:54 - Therapy for the LGBTQ Community21:54 - Defining Female Beauty24:37 - Significance of Father Figures25:37 - Criticism of Women's Behavior29:36 - Public Schooling and MoralityFatherhood And Masculinity, Mental Health, Discipline, Onlyfans, Social Media Addiction, Masculinity, Leadership, Social Media, Masculinity, Fatherhood, Role Model, Impact Of Social Media, Advice For Young Men, Onlyfans Controversy, Fatherandson, Fathers, Parenting, Daughters, Affirmation, Self-Esteem, Youth Development, Modesty, Father-Daughter Relationship, Father-Son Relationship, Cultural Values, Christian Parenting, Young Women, Identity, Gender Roles, Parental Influence