
Fierce Marriage
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
Latest episodes

Apr 23, 2024 • 34min
Ways to Warm Up a Cold Marriage
Everyone wants a vibrant, thriving marriage, but what happens when day-to-day life causes you to feel distant from your spouse? Spoiler alert: vacation is not the lasting solution.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Apr 9, 2024 • 34min
What if I want kids but my spouse doesn't?
As a Christian, what is your role when it comes to childbearing? Listen in as Ryan and Selena address a listener's question about this very topic. We hope it blesses you!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Apr 2, 2024 • 32min
Marriage & Money- Tithing, Joint Accounts, and More
Money has a tricky way of grabbing hold of our hearts and it certainly has a way of infiltrating our marriages in an unhealthy way. This episode is all about stewarding our money in a manner worthy of God. Join us!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Mar 19, 2024 • 34min
The 8 Purposes of Sex
Discover the diverse purposes of sex within marriage beyond pleasure and procreation. Dive into the spiritual depth it brings to relationships and the importance of maintaining unity and intimacy. Learn about sacred intimacy, marital blessings, and the role of faith in navigating intimacy within marriage.

Mar 12, 2024 • 34min
Why Check-Ins Matter and How To Do Them Well
Have you ever asked the simple question, How can I be a better husband/wife? Tragically, few have. And, if that’s you (i.e. you haven’t asked), then there is no time like the present to start! Join Ryan and Selena for a discussion about why intentional marital check-ins are a must for a healthy, strong marriage.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Feb 27, 2024 • 31min
Help! My Wife Wears Yoga Pants to the Gym and I Hate It
Today we responded to a question from a listener about his wife wearing yoga pants to the gym. Is he right in objecting to it? Listen in to find out!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Feb 20, 2024 • 29min
Follow-Up: Answering Questions About Husbands Initiating Intimacy
In this podcast, they address questions about husbands being primary initiators of intimacy. They discuss daily life, gratitude to supporters, and reading with family. They explore intimate relationships, covenant renewal, and the essence of intimacy in marriage.

Feb 13, 2024 • 31min
Why Husbands Should Be the Primary Initiators of S-- (Part 2)
Explore why husbands should take the lead in initiating intimacy in marriage, reframing sex as covenant renewal, leading with love, initiating intimacy with care and sacrifice, family bonding, and emphasizing unity and communication in marriage.

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Feb 6, 2024 • 26min
Why Husbands Should Be the Primary Initiators of S-- (Part 1)
Exploring the role of husbands as primary initiators of intimacy in marriage, challenging traditional norms and misconceptions. Emphasizing the importance of mutual respect, communication, and genuine initiation for harmonious relationships. Delving into the complexities of initiating intimacy, addressing barriers like communication issues, shame, and past traumas. Highlighting the significance of trust, leadership, and spiritual connection in maintaining intimacy in marriage.

Jan 23, 2024 • 32min
Learning to Trust Again After Trust Was Lost
The podcast discusses rebuilding trust in a marriage after it has been lost, highlighting the importance of open communication, setting boundaries, and addressing heart issues. The hosts share personal experiences and offer practical tools for moving forward in the relationship.