

Fierce Marriage
Ryan and Selena Frederick
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
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Jun 18, 2024 • 36min
Don't Be Blindsided by Divorce, Do This Marriage Check Up
Explore the importance of marriage check-ups to avoid blindsided divorce. Address marriage bottlenecks, destructive behaviors, and defending against divorce. Focus on building strong foundations, embracing vulnerability, repentance, and seeking support in marriage.

Jun 11, 2024 • 35min
Crushing Comparison (Stop Comparing to Others!)
The hosts tackle the deadly effects of comparison in marriage, highlighting its role as a 'silent killer.' They delve into how unrealistic expectations stem from societal pressures, encouraging couples to focus on personal growth. The discussion includes the spiritual dangers of coveting, especially through social media. Emphasizing a faith-based definition of success, they advocate for gratitude and open communication. Lastly, the power of repentance and community support is underscored as essential for spiritual and marital harmony.

Jun 4, 2024 • 33min
10 (Simple) Ways to De-Escalate Arguments and Fights
Learn 10 practical tips for handling conflict within marriage. Discover techniques like breathing and maintaining love perspective, fostering reconciliation.

May 28, 2024 • 27min
What if We're Unequally Yoked?
The podcast discusses the challenges of being unequally yoked in marriage, emphasizing the importance of shared faith and values. It explores finding a faith-based partner, the significance of faith and submission in relationships, and navigating marriage challenges through faith and prayer.

May 21, 2024 • 36min
What's the Right Age to Get Married? Should I Marry Young?
Throughout the past few decades, we've seen couples getting married later and later. Why do you think that is? Join us as we unpack this idea and find out if there is a magic age you should get married.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

May 14, 2024 • 32min
Rule Bender vs Rule Follower?? Honoring Each Others' Differences in Marriage
Differences make a marriage go round. Learn to lean into these differences and honor one another's unique perspectives. Join us for this week's conversation!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

May 7, 2024 • 32min
Should Your Spouse Really Be Your Friend?
Hot take: Calling your spouse your best friend is a demotion compared to calling them your husband/wife. Tune into this episode to learn how to see friendship rightly in marriage.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Apr 23, 2024 • 34min
Ways to Warm Up a Cold Marriage
Everyone wants a vibrant, thriving marriage, but what happens when day-to-day life causes you to feel distant from your spouse? Spoiler alert: vacation is not the lasting solution.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Apr 9, 2024 • 34min
What if I want kids but my spouse doesn't?
As a Christian, what is your role when it comes to childbearing? Listen in as Ryan and Selena address a listener's question about this very topic. We hope it blesses you!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Apr 2, 2024 • 32min
Marriage & Money- Tithing, Joint Accounts, and More
Money has a tricky way of grabbing hold of our hearts and it certainly has a way of infiltrating our marriages in an unhealthy way. This episode is all about stewarding our money in a manner worthy of God. Join us!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!