

Queer Theology
Queer Theology / Brian G. Murphy & Shannon T.L. Kearns
The longest running podcast for and by LGBTQ Christians and other queer people of faith and spiritual seeker. Hosted by Fr. Shannon TL Kearns, a transgender Christian priest and Brian G. Murphy, a bisexual polyamorous Jew. and now in its 10th year, the Queer Theology Podcast shares deep insights and practical tools for building a thriving spiritual life on your own terms. Explore the archives for a queer perspective on hundreds of Bible passages as well as dozens of interviews with respected LGBTQ leaders (and a few cis, straight folks too). Join tens of thousands of listeners from around the world for the Bible, every week, queered.
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Sep 11, 2022 • 27min
Following Your Calling
Last episode, we talked about the different ways to define calling and in this episode, we’re getting into the nitty gritty of what following your calling can actually mean versus what you think it means. We look at different leadership positions, in activism or in a religious spiritual setting, and if you really need to go to seminary to get the experience and knowledge you are seeking. We encourage you to dig deep and examine what you are trying to accomplish, where you are trying to go, and the different and fulfilling ways to get there… Sometimes all you need is a library card!
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
Photo by Dawn McDonald
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Sep 4, 2022 • 33min
What Is Your Calling?
For the next two episodes, we’re taking you on a miniseries about calling, leadership, and seminary. How do you know for sure you are being “called” to do something? Does it have to come from the Divine? Do I have to be miserable and can I please change my mind? We go into all of this and what “calling” means to each of us. We also discuss how it has impacted what we do for work and put out in the world, what activism we take part in, and what it can mean for you to really pay attention to what your uniquely suited calling is.
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
Photo by Matheus Bertelli
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Aug 28, 2022 • 17min
Rituals for Resistance and Resilience: Creating Your Own Rituals
For our fourth and final episode in this series, we talk about the importance of moving from theory into practice when it comes to creating your own rituals. We’ve covered a bunch of information on rituals and now it is time for you to put that into practice by revisiting old rituals, revising or leaving rituals that no longer serve you, and creating new rituals that bring meaning and emotional connection into your life. We want this series to transform you, whether you already have rituals in your life that are meaningful, or you are looking to create new rituals.
Learn more and register for our workshop, Rituals for Resistance & Resilience!
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
Photo by Szabolcs Toth
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Aug 21, 2022 • 27min
Rituals for Resistance and Resilience: You Might Have More Rituals Than You Think
There is no rule that every ritual needs to be old or a traditional Christian one performed in a church. In this episode, we look at the surprising places you can find rituals in what you are already doing. Brian explains how you can recognize rituals that support you and your communities, how they can be just as sacred as traditional Christian rituals and connect you to the divine. Learn how you can look to repeated practices or habits that can be imbued with a special and powerful meaning that increases in the repetition over time and brings resilience in your private practice, or resistance in a public space.
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
Photo by Mikhail Nilov
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Aug 15, 2022 • 54min
Rituals for Resistance and Resilience: The Surprising Meaning Behind What We Have
We dive into a few of the rituals that already exist in the Christian church for this episode: Baptism, Communion/the Eucharist, the Liturgy/Liturgical Year, and Prayer. We explore ways to find new meaning in these old rituals and hope this conversation sparks a desire in you to reconnect with these rituals in new and life-giving ways- but only if they do not cause you harm. Follow along as we really go deep into what these rituals were meant to accomplish, how they are viewed by different denominations, and how we can begin to view them as rituals for resistance within our communities.
Links:
Liberating Rites: Understanding the Transformative Power of Ritual by Tom F. Driver
Unclean: Meditations on Purity, Hospitality, and Mortality by Richard Beck
Take This Bread by Sara Miles
Torture and Eucharist by William T. Cavanaugh
Claiming Earth As a Common Ground by Andrea Cohen-Kiener
Radical Reinvention by Kaya Oakes
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
Photo by Tima Miroshnichenko
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Aug 9, 2022 • 32min
In The Margins: Launch Day Special
It’s the official launch day for Fr. Shay’s book, In The Margins: A Transgender Man’s Journey With Scripture, and to celebrate we’re giving y’all a super special podcast episode! Listen in as Shay discusses why he wrote this book, who he wrote this book for, answers questions, and reads an excerpt from his story. If you haven’t already, make sure to grab a copy!
You can find ways to order at queertheology.com/in-the-margins
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
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Aug 7, 2022 • 22min
Rituals for Resistance and Resilience
Welcome to our new four part series on rituals! What are rituals? How can we use them for resistance? How can they build resilience in us and our communities? We’ll answer these questions and talk about how rituals can connect us to our history and give meaning to our lives but also how they can be harmful, disconnected, and come from old Christian rituals that no longer work for you. Tune in as we discuss the power of rituals and how you can begin choosing ones that are sacred and meaningful to you.
Links:
The Power of Ritual by Casper ter Kuile
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
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Jul 31, 2022 • 31min
Asked And Answered: July 2022
It’s time for another Q&A episode where Brian and Fr. Shay answers a selection of burning questions submitted by our listeners! If you have a question you would like answered, please send them over at the email below, or at queertheology.com/listen and submit a video or audio question. We’d love to feature your voice or question on our next episode of Asked And Answered!
Questions answered in this episode:
I’m trans/femine/non-binary and want to transition but am scared it’s like telling God I was a mistake. And my family is transphobic. What should I do? Do I lose everything for me, or do I suffer for others?
How can I know if my fasting, prayers, and almsgiving are pleasing to God? Am I doing enough or not doing enough? Am I approaching God to be in God’s loving presence or am I motivated by my own goals and agenda or seeking attention?
I know of a Christian denomination that doesn’t believe in celebrating Christmas or Easter because they think it doesn’t say you should in the Bible. What do you think?
I need some help finding something in the Hebrew Bible that I know is there, but I can’t find the chapter and verse. It’s about the penalties for causing a woman to miscarry and about how they are lighter before they have “quickened”. The reason why I am asking is of course related to recent events and family arguments around them.
How can we incorporate pagan and nature spirituality into our celebration of what Jesus did on the cross?
Article and episode:
If God Does Not Make Mistakes Why Are You Transgender?: https://www.queertheology.com/if-god-does-not-make-mistakes-why-are-you-transgender/
Growing up Suburban Jewish & Finding Your Faith With Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg: https://www.queertheology.com/podcast/435/
To listen to some more episodes of the podcast or submit a video or voice question: https://www.queertheology.com/listen/
Jewish Study Bible
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
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Jul 24, 2022 • 1h 9min
Affirming Parenting: Queer Parents’ Perspective
As we close this series on affirming parenting, we had the opportunity to talk with three different parents and get their unique take on raising kids in our world today. We hear from Rev. Kim Wildszewski and Candiace Czubernat on their perspective as queer parents raising young children. They each explain how their queerness has informed and enriched their parenting and what cis/straight parents can do when faced with their queer kids leaving family faith traditions. We also hear from John, a former conservative Christian church member, and his experience having one of his children come out to him as trans. While each of these parents has a different queer parenting story and advice, all of them agree- your job as a parent is to unconditionally love and support your child on their journey of discovering who they are.
Links:
Candice Czubernat: https://www.thechristiancloset.com/
Book: Trans Like Me https://www.amazon.com/Trans-Like-Me-Conversations-All/dp/1580057853
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
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Jul 17, 2022 • 25min
Affirming Parenting: How To Do It Right
This episode is all about the simple actions parents can take to show their affirmation. We encourage you to have age-appropriate conversations with your kids about sex, introduce your child and expand your circle to include queer folks who are thriving at all stages of life, and hold space for complexity and nuance in your kids. But the number one action you can do to lead the way on being an example and affirming ally? Don’t take your kids to a homophobic church! Tune in as we talk about implicit bias and its insidious messaging kids absorb and what you can do to combat this.
Resources:
Children’s books: https://www.flamingorampant.com/
Author S. Bear Bergman: https://www.sbearbergman.com/
Book: Trans Bodies, Trans Selves http://transbodies.com/
If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology.
If you’d like to be featured in future episodes, email your question or Bible passage suggestion to connect@queertheology.com.
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