

Dear Future Wifey
Laterras R. Whitfield
Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).
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Apr 10, 2024 • 1h 30min
Jump Into Love (Guest: Sean and Michelle Clark)
Have you ever been friendzoned? Maybe, you're the one who locked up the friend in the friendzone? Well, today's episode features two contestants from CBS' The Amazing Race, Sean and Michelle Clark. They are widely known for the double dutch business, Double Dutch Aerobics. Listen to how their relationship journey started from the friendzone and how Sean went to great lengths to navigate the friendship into a non-platonic relationship. Sometimes you just gotta "Jump Into Love." Dear Future Wifey is sponsored by BetterHelp. REGISTER FOR THE BIG EVENT http://www.LoveBlueprintMasterclass.com SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection DONATE TO KINGDOM ROYALE: "Where foster kids become royalty." https://www.KingdomRoyale.com DEAR FUTURE WIFEY MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 3, 2024 • 1h 35min
Healing My Soul (Guest: Lexi Allen)
Loneliness can show up in all forms. How we self-medicate during our lonely seasons can provide growth or emotional death. Lexi Allen keeps us laughing on social media, but it was birthed from navigating her darkest moments after losing the love her life and marrying someone who was degrading. Her journey of self-discovery created the woman she's become today. Listen to this dynamic episode titled, "Healing My Soul." Dear Future Wifey is sponsored by BetterHelp. REGISTER FOR THE BIG EVENT http://www.LoveBlueprintMasterclass.com SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection DONATE TO KINGDOM ROYALE: "Where foster kids become royalty." https://www.KingdomRoyale.com DEAR FUTURE WIFEY MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 27, 2024 • 1h 30min
Love God First (Guest: Megan Ashley)
Before you can consider loving someone else, you must "Love God First." Megan Ashley had a tumultuous 2023 after experiencing a divorce, forced to go separate ways from her bff, and rebranding herself with a new podcast. These sudden life-changing event made her recenter her faith in God. Dear Future Wifey is sponsored by BetterHelp. REGISTER FOR THE BIG EVENT https://www.identifindu.com SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection DONATE TO KINGDOM ROYALE: "Where foster kids become royalty." https://www.KingdomRoyale.com DEAR FUTURE WIFEY MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 25, 2024 • 2h 23min
Please Heal, Black Man (Guest: Clay & Margarita Gravesande)
The most controversial episode in the history of Netflix's Love Is Blind, has set the stage to have conversations around how childhood trauma can impede decisions on marriage. Clay Gravesande, joined by his mom, Margarita Gravesande, share the yellow couch as we unpack the decision Clay made that upset the world. Should he have gone through with the marriage? Should he have ended the relationship earlier? This episode encourages you to choose the side of healing... "Please Heal, Black Man." Dear Future Wifey is sponsored by BetterHelp. SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection DONATE TO KINGDOM ROYALE: "Where foster kids become royalty." https://www.KingdomRoyale.com DEAR FUTURE WIFEY MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 20, 2024 • 1h 36min
Debunking Marital Roles (Guests: Tim & Nona Jones)
In this compelling episode of "Debunking Marital Roles," Tim and Nona Jones take us on a deep dive into the intricacies of their relationship, revealing how they've shattered traditional marital roles to craft a partnership uniquely tailored to them. As they share their journey, listeners will discover the power of mutual respect, communication, and understanding in fostering a thriving marriage. From challenging societal norms to embracing individual strengths, Tim and Nona offer invaluable insights into building a marriage that defies expectations and celebrates authenticity. Join us as we explore the beauty of a relationship where roles are redefined, and love knows no bounds. Dear Future Wifey is sponsored by BetterHelp. SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection DONATE TO KINGDOM ROYALE: "Where foster kids become royalty." https://www.KingdomRoyale.com DEAR FUTURE WIFEY MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 13, 2024 • 1h 7min
Stellar Love (Guests: Don & Teresa Jackson)
Love and marriage can be experienced later in life. Don Jackson, founder of the prestigious Stellar Awards, lost his wife in 2008. Teresa Hairston has been single for almost thirty years after divorcing her husband. They've crossed paths throughout the years, but after this particular encounter, Mr. Jackson knew he'd found the one. Dear Future Wifey is sponsored by BetterHelp. SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection DONATE TO KINGDOM ROYALE: "Where foster kids become royalty." https://www.KingdomRoyale.com DEAR FUTURE WIFEY MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 6, 2024 • 1h 40min
My Dating Life Is Wild (Guest: Crystal Renee Hayslett)
Dating in your forties looks a whole lot different. Crystal Renee Hayslett opens up like she never has before and shares the wild stories of her dating life. Fans love her as Fatima on Tyler Perry's "Sistas". Is her dating journey art imitating life or life imitating art? Watch today's episode titled, "My Dating Life Is Wild." You'll be in stitches! Dear Future Wifey is sponsored by BetterHelp. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/luvcrystalrenee SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection DONATE TO KINGDOM ROYALE: "Where foster kids become royalty." https://www.KingdomRoyale.com DEAR FUTURE WIFEY MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Feb 28, 2024 • 1h 23min
Sexual Healing (Guests: Theo & Rita Smith)
This couple has taken the internet by storm! Their unapologetic love for one another and insatiable appetite for sex, is showing a healthy perspective of marriage, even when we become old and gray. Theo and Rita Smith, a Christian couple from New Orleans, will capture your heart in this episode titled, "Sexual Healing". CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS: Rita Smith - https://www.instagram.com/bad_girl_riri504 SIGN UP FOR OUR MAILING LIST HERE: https://bit.ly/LRWconnection Live Intentionally Transparent with the latest merch at https://www.dearfuturewifey.com/ Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifey See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 21, 2024 • 1h 28min
Love that Lasts (Guests: The Millers)
Is marrying for love enough to build a successful life? In episode 807, Jamal and Natasha Miller explore with host Laterras R. Whitfield the controversial intersections of love, money, and success. This episode questions the motives behind marriage and partnership in today's world. Jamal opens up and says that he married for money, not love. This interview examines the practicalities that contribute to a fulfilling life partnership. Through personal stories, critical insights, and a reevaluation of what it means to choose a partner, Love that Lasts is a must-listen to understand the implications of marriage and success in the modern age. [00:00:00-00:06:32] Intro [00:06:33-00:12:07] The Millers journey: Defining success [00:12:08-00:17:51] Love vs. Money in marriage [00:17:52-00:31:42] Preparing for marriage [00:31:43-00:39:37] How did their relationship start? [00:39:38-00:48:56] Physical appearance in relationships [00:48:57-00:58:09] Cultivating the relationships and looking for help [00:58:10-01:06:37] Building a mature relationship [01:06:38-01:12:36] The financial dynamics [01:12:37-01:21:08] Call to Woman challenge explained [01:21:08-01:28:53] Closing segment Key Quotes: “Success is when your soul is healthy.” - Natasha Miller “Everything we do in our life is based upon our ability to make wise decisions.” - Jamal Miller “Don't overlook heart posture over your height preference.” - Laterras R. Whitfield CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS: Jamal Miller - https://www.instagram.com/jamalmiller/ Natasha Miller - https://www.instagram.com/natashaannmiller/ SIGN UP FOR OUR MAILING LIST HERE: https://bit.ly/LRWconnection Live intentionally transparent with the latest merch at https://www.dearfuturewifey.com/ Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feb 14, 2024 • 1h 28min
Masterclass on Marriage (Guests: KevOnStage and Melissa Fredericks)
Can a dreamer and a realist build a successful marriage together? In episode 806, Kevin and Melissa Fredericks shared with host Laterras R. Whitfield the challenges of balancing dreams with reality, and the power of partnership. They share their journey through understanding, and growth, providing insights into making a marriage work against all odds. From facing fears and embracing differences to navigating financial hardships and the importance of communication, this episode is a true masterclass on marriage, offering lessons learned from their 20+ years together. [00:00:00 - 00:05:24] Intro [00:05:25 - 00:16:11] The beginning of content creation [00:16:12 - 00:21:16] Supporting your partner's vision [00:21:17 - 00:28:05] Integrating dreams and stability [00:28:06 - 00:32:48] Example of combining dreams with practical acumen [00:32:49 - 00:37:50] Is it worth putting divorce on the table? [00:37:51 - 00:45:12] Storytime of how they fought for each other [00:45:13 - 00:52:00] Value the relationship that you have built [00:52:01 - 00:56:42] Practical tip when beefing [00:56:43 - 01:08:09] Looking for professional help [01:08:10 - 01:12:04] Handling traveling and distance [01:12:05 - 01:15:09] The importance of having a value system [01:15:10 - 01:17:17] Leaving ego on the side [01:17:18 - 01:20:45] Renewing your marital vows [01:20:46 - 01:28:29] Closing segment Key Quotes: “Love is a risk, and with time that risk proves to be a good decision.” Melissa Fredericks “Therapy allows you some skills, to learn how to navigate situations before you have to navigate them.” - Kevin Fredericks “Take the best of me, and take the best of her. That plan ends up being the best.” Kevin Fredericks CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS: Kevin Fredericks - https://www.instagram.com/kevonstage/ Melissa Fredericks - https://www.instagram.com/mrskevonstage/ SIGN UP FOR OUR MAILING LIST HERE: https://bit.ly/LRWconnection Live intentionally transparent with the latest merch at https://www.dearfuturewifey.com/ Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.