Dear Future Wifey

What does purity mean to you? Were you expecting to be rewarded with a mate due to your faithfulness? Are you angry with God? Sefana Samples shares her experiences and how her journey is helping women heal and cultivate a non-transactional relationship with God. Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Many cultures believe in arranged marriages. There are huge benefits to this practice, but many aren't willing to submit their choices of love to the discretion of their parents. Chris Ibezim from Own's "Ready to Love - Dallas" and his sister, Olivia Ibezim, share their Nigerian beliefs and why an arranged marriage doesn't work for them. Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you a woman who has a toxic relationship with your mom or daughter? Throughout history, trauma has been passed down from one generation to the next. This is known as intergenerational transmission of trauma. Jessica Chinyelu brings her mom to the yellow couch to discuss years of unaddressed toxicity in their relationship. Today's episode is titled, "Confronting Toxicity". Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Unresolved childhood trauma can have damaging effects that can lessen a child's sense of stability and self-identity, leaving lasting scars that persist into adulthood. How does growing up with a mom being stricken with schizophrenia impact a young boy as he matriculates into manhood? Kojo Ampadu transparently shares his struggles with "Mama Trauma." Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're going deeper in Part 2 and discussing all the things you've been itching to know. Open your heart and mind to hear the heart and mind of Derrick Jaxn after falling from grace. Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when the public discovers your private sins? You have a decision to make: accept accountability or deflect. Derrick Jaxn sits on the yellow couch for the most vulnerable conversation of his lifetime. He named this episode, "Reap What You Sow." Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When oxen are unequally yoked, they cannot perform the task set before them. Instead of working together, they are at odds with one another. 2 Corinthians 6:14 speaks of the importance of being with spiritually like-minded mates. Erica Hubbard was married for many years and shares her experiences with being “Unequally Yoked.” Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

From alcoholism, depression, a miscarriage, financial struggles, and self-esteem issues… Dother and Chanell Sykes have overcome a lot in their ten plus years of marriage. We can carry a lot of weight in love lives. This couple’s love was “Worth the Weight.” Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Support looks different for different people. Understanding the needs of your mate is paramount in fostering healthy connections. Marcus Wiley returns to the yellow couch to share the value of support he receives from his wife. This episode is titled, "Supporting Men in Relationships." Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When marrying someone, you're also marrying their family. Navigating those relationships effectively is crucial to the health of building the familial structure. Erica Campbell shares how intentional she and Warren were in merging their two families in today's episode titled, "In-Laws or Outlaws." Learn more about this podcast at — https://www.urban1podcasts.com/dear-future-wifeySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.