
Dear Future Wifey
Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).
Latest episodes

Jul 2, 2025 • 2h 22min
Love & Leadership (Guests: Dr. Alduan & Mecca Tartt)
This week’s episode features a dynamic conversation with Dr. Alduan & Mecca Tartt—a power couple whose love story challenges traditional gender roles while highlighting the beauty of mutual respect, faith, and growth. We dive deep into: 💥 Their unique dating journey and how Mecca—an unapologetic alpha woman—set the pace ❤️ What it looks like to pursue and court a strong woman who knows what she wants 👨👩👧👦 Navigating parenting, the decision to expand their family, and how they raise their daughters 🛠️ Real talk about compromise, reconciliation, and the work required to build lasting love This is not just a relationship—it’s a partnership rooted in purpose. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe and join the conversation on love, leadership, and letting go of old narratives. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/drtartt/ https://www.instagram.com/meccamooretartt/ DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 28min
I Believe in Love (Guest: Shari' Nycole)
What does healing, purpose, and partnership look like for a woman at the top of her game? In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with Shari’ Nycole—TV producer, media personality, and co-host of the Willie Moore Jr. Show—to unpack her journey from public success to private introspection. Shari’ opens up about: Her powerhouse career with TV One, ESSENCE’s Women in Sports initiative, and more How a season of solitude became sacred preparation for marriage Why the Church must expand its language around singleness and womanhood Whether she's open to dating outside her race based on modern relationship statistics This episode is for every woman redefining what it means to be whole—and every man who wants to understand her better. 🔔 Subscribe and join the conversation as we explore faith, standards, and the evolving language of love.📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/shari_nycole DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 18, 2025 • 1h 34min
Divided We Fall (Guests: Lamar & Ronnie Tyler)
In this deeply moving and empowering episode, we sit down with Lamar and Ronnie Tyler, the trailblazing founders of Black and Married with Kids. What started as a blog became a national movement—and this conversation shows you why. We cover: 💡 How their #1 priority is educating Black families on financial literacy 📈 How they launched their business and built an empire that centers Black love 🤝 How to earn trust in marriage—not just with words, but with results 💬 Lamar’s powerful perspective on never pre-judging his wife for bringing children into the marriage, shaped by being raised by a single mom himself 👩🏾🎓 Ronnie’s brave journey of hiding her pregnancy while at Spelman, only to discover her parents’ unexpected love and support 🎓 Her academic success—graduating with honors from Spelman and pursuing engineering in grad school 🎤 A preview of their impactful marriage and family conference 🚨 And finally—their bold take on the #1 enemy threatening Black marriages and families today This episode is a masterclass in love, legacy, and building something that lasts. 👇 Drop a comment with your biggest takeaway. 📌 Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of Dear Future Wifey. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/lamartyler/ https://www.instagram.com/ronnieharristyler/ DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 11, 2025 • 1h 38min
Heaven Holds Her (Guest: Nick Stotzer)
In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Nick opens up about the divine timing of their love, the joy of fatherhood, and the unthinkable grief of losing his soulmate. With powerful honesty, he shares how he’s held onto faith, rebuilt his life for his sons, and continued to believe in purpose even through pain. This is more than a story — it’s a testimony. 🙏 Share this with anyone walking through loss, questioning God’s plan, or needing a reminder that beauty can still rise from ashes. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/blssd_favrd_called SUPPORT NICK & HIS ADOPTED KIDS https://www.gofundme.com/f/aid-kimberlys-family-after-tragedy DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DearFutureWifey?sub_confirmation=1 🍏 Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-future-wifey/id1506095537 🎵 Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/Iae4cjudkuuxmjnjza7zputjfuu?t=Dear_Future_Wifey 🧵 Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/dear-future-wifey 🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1r3Ba1GxkpwFkWVqmxZNPA FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #lovestatus #lovestory #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 4, 2025 • 1h 45min
Mr. & Mrs. Black Love (Guests: Tommy Oliver & Codie Oliver)
What happens when two visionaries fall in love and decide to champion healthy Black relationships for the world to see? In this unforgettable episode, Tommy & Codie Oliver—the powerhouse couple behind the groundbreaking Black Love docuseries—join Dear Future Wifey to share the behind-the-scenes story of their marriage, mission, and movement. From navigating the highs and lows of entrepreneurship and parenting to preserving intimacy while producing a cultural phenomenon, the Olivers get real about what it takes to build something beautiful—on-screen and off. 🎥 They didn’t just film love stories. They lived one. 💬 Get ready for honest dialogue, raw emotion, and priceless wisdom. ❤️ This is a masterclass in purpose-driven partnership. If you’ve ever questioned whether love and legacy can coexist, this episode is your answer. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/blacklove https://www.instagram.com/codieco https://www.instagram.com/producertommy/ FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #lovestatus #lovestory #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 28, 2025 • 1h 25min
God's Timing (Guests: Adam McFarland & Amari Guisinger)
What happens when God writes the love story? Four days before saying “I do,” Google employees Adam McFarland and Amari Guisinger sat down on the yellow couch to share how a divine collision turned casual workplace run-ins into a full-blown fairytale. Adam, the son of a preacher, never expected that the woman he brushed shoulders with at work would soon become his answered prayer. But behind Amari’s bright smile was a heavy heart — a family health crisis that nearly stopped her from giving the cowboy a chance. In this vulnerable and faith-filled episode, discover how timing, surrender, and purpose paved the way for a love only heaven could orchestrate. ✨ Don’t miss this modern-day love story that proves God’s plans are always worth the wait. 🔔 Subscribe for more inspiring stories of faith, love, and intentional dating. #DearFutureWifey #AdamAndAmari #FaithBasedLoveStory #ChristianDating #GoogleLoveStory #PurposePartners 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/mac_i_am https://www.instagram.com/missamarig DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 21, 2025 • 1h 52min
Love Beyond Bars (Guests: Fox & Rob Rich)
In this powerful episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, we sit down with Rob and Fox Rich — the resilient couple who captured hearts around the world with their Oscar-nominated documentary Time (2020). Now, just in time for Juneteenth, they return with Part 2 of their story — and they’re inviting 1 million people to watch the premiere together. From their first encounter to the moment everything changed, Rob and Fox open up about the love that brought them together, the incarceration that threatened to tear them apart, and the faith that kept them strong. They share intimate reflections on navigating marriage, justice, and redemption — and what legacy they’re building now. This isn’t just a conversation — it’s a movement. Tune in, be inspired, and join the mission to make history on Juneteenth. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/foxandrob DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 14, 2025 • 2h 37min
Love on Layway (Guests: Matt West & Erika West)
Matt West felt a spark when he first laid eyes on Erika. Ironically, they were both in relationships at that time. So, their love was put on layaway for 18 years! In this inspiring episode of the Dear Future Wifey podcast, host Laterras R. Whitfield and Matt & Erika West discuss how faith, patience, and divine timing played pivotal roles in bringing them together. Through candid conversations, the Wests share the challenges they faced, the lessons they learned, and how surrendering to God's plan led them to a fulfilling partnership. Their story serves as a testament to the power of waiting on God's timing and the beauty that unfolds when you do. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/epiko24/ https://www.instagram.com/iammattwest/ DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com/ PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 7, 2025 • 2h 50min
I Don't Like You (Cornelius & Heather Lindsey)
In this powerful episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, host Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with power couple Cornelius and Heather Lindsey for a raw and redemptive conversation on love, leadership, and lasting commitment. With vulnerability and wisdom, the Lindseys open up about the challenges they’ve faced in marriage, the importance of healing from past wounds, and how faith anchored them through every season. Whether you're single, dating, or married, this episode offers deep insight into what it truly means to pursue purpose-driven love and God-centered partnership. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/thisiscornelius https://www.instagram.com/heatherllove DEAR FUTURE WIFEY LIVE x TOM JOYNER FOUNDATION FANTASTIC VOYAGE 2025 https://fantasticvoyage.blackamericaweb.com PROMO CODE: WIFEY WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 30, 2025 • 1h 46min
Building Love (Guests: Mike Jackson & Egypt Sherrod)
Mike Jackson, also known as DJ Fadelf, is a reality TV personality and construction expert married to Egypt Sherrod, a prominent real estate broker and author. In their engaging conversation, they explore the foundations of a lasting marriage, emphasizing vulnerability, communication, and personal growth. They share insights on navigating romance in the music industry, the impact of public scrutiny, and the importance of spiritual habits in their relationship. Their story inspires listeners to embrace healing and build intentional connections, even amidst life's renovations.