The Divorced Girl Smiling Podcast

If you are a women in your fifties, you will LOVE this episode! My guest is Michèle Heffron, Life Love and Divorce Coach, and Michèle interviewed dozens of women in this age bracket to find out what they had to say about life. The information is revealed in this episode, and Michèle and I give our two cents, as we are both women over 55! Read the article here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/women-over-55-speak-what-were-carrying-what-we-fear-and-what-were-finally-ready-to-claim/

So many people getting divorced see the process as a power struggle, and look at it as winning or losing. My guest in this episode is high-conflict divorce coach, Cherie Morris, who tells us why divorce doesn't have to be this way, and how you can be genuinely effective coparents while still getting what you want in the divorce. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/dont-blow-it-in-mediation-how-to-step-out-of-the-power-struggle-and-into-a-better-future/

So many divorcing couples have the best intentions of an amicable divorce. But then, something happens and the divorce goes off-track. Suddenly, the "good" divorce becomes very rocky. To talk about this is my guest, Fabianna Laby, a clinical psychologist, who offers the 6 stations of divorce and how they can play a role in why this happens. Read the article: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/why-even-a-good-divorce-can-suddenly-go-off-track/

When I was first separated, I knew nothing about mediation, only what I heard. Some of it was true, and some of it wasn't. My guest in this episode is divorce mediator, Ellen Feldman, who shares some myths and truths about divorce mediation. Learn more: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/truths-and-myths-about-mediation/

The divorce process can feel overwhelming, and the last thing you might be thinking about is your will and estate plan. But my guest, Raquel Lazar-Paley offers some important advice about why you should engage in estate planning during your divorce. And, it's not that complicated. It's just VERY necessary! Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/divorce-means-a-new-will-and-trust/

Child support conversations with an ex can feel awkward, and there is a lot of emotion around this topic. The person paying might feel resentful about having to pay, or they might have a lot of fear and anxiety about finances in regards to support. My guest in this episode is Ron Platt, co-Founder of the NASDF (National Association for Single and Divorced Families) and Ron and I talk about child support, why issues arise and your options when it comes to easing your mind and feeling secure. 

If you've never been through a divorce, you are in new territory. That's why it's normal and understandable that you might make mistakes. My guest in this episode is divorce attorney, Sandra Fava, who addresses common mistakes she sees people make in divorce. We then talk about how NOT to make them. 

The holidays are supposed to be heartwarming and joyous. But what happens when a family member is suffering from alcohol abuse? The situation can turn the holidays into stress and anxiety. My guest in this episode is Laura Crossett, CADC and outreach manager for Soberlink, and we offer tips on navigating the holidays, whether you have an alcohol issue or your spouse or soon-to-be ex does. Learn more here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/navigating-alcohol-recovery-and-family-stress-during-the-holidays/

If you are going through a divorce, you might be headed to court, and a friend might say, "Good luck! I hope you win!" Or, maybe your lawyer says to you, "We won! The judge ruled in our favor." While it seems like that's what winning means, it really isn't, according to my guest. My guest is divorce coach, Kristen Noel, who talks about how to really win in your divorce. It looks a lot different than you might thing (in a good way!) 

People often say "Kids are resilient," and while that's true, they worry so much when parents argue, and of course, when their parents get divorced. My guest in this episode is New Orleans based divorce attorney, Zara Zeringue, who talks about some of the things kids worry about and how to address their concerns. Read Zara's article on this subject here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/divorce-kids-and-what-theyre-worried-about/